Femdom Punishments /Favorite male sub punishments and tasks

[Deleted Member]

It depends on who I’m with. Sometimes I combine negotiated upon play to create an unexpected punishment.
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One memorable one involved combining CBT and electrical okay. Turns out, getting an electric fly swatter near the underside of the cock-head can generate an amazing scream.
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Of least favorite punishments I know of, being ignored seems to be one of the most ***ed: corner time, kneeling on rice, holding a penny to the wall with one’s nose, writing lines … something quiet and boring where showing off isn’t the point tends to drive folks the most nuts.
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One can (humble) brag about cane strokes or what implements were used during a spanking they took, but I never see anyone posting proudly about how many tens or hundreds of lines they wrote before their penmanship began to degrade.

[johnsk]

nothing like a hard  spanking right after the boi is masdeto cum, ***ful and makes an impression!  Only for serious infractions.

[De****]

Sissyfication, on my opinion, is a nice task for sub. Using him as a bitch for your girlfriends or even a male species ;)

[kocosuzuk]

As a female dominatrix, I know that every punishment and task is the key to the slave's growth and self-challenge. I tend to design punishments not only to teach a lesson, but also to make the slave deeply understand the importance of obedience and self-control. Every task and every punishment should be profound and meaningful, and at the same time, it should inspire the slave's psychological transformation and make them willing to give everything for me.

[Do****]

Make them hard and then use the crop on their cock.

Leave them locked in chastity for long periods.

Clean the bathrooms, empty the bins, polish the car with wax until it’s gleaming, clean the inside of the car until it looks new (live that I have a shiny car as a result!), split a load of logs, straighten all the tent pegs, clean the inside of the bins, pick up the dog poo from the garden….. any jobs I hate

[Do****]

Lines!!!!! Love lines. And in cursive. Not silly block capitals.

[badboysub]

On 6/12/2020 at 6:59 AM, Jinxy said:

I don’t consider it a femdom punishment. I consider it a fun directive and would maybe place it under task just because I find it useful and a turn on to know my sub is on edge all day. And yes, it’s frustrating for this particular person because he really hates not being able to just stroke. 

Do you keep your sub locked up?

[Qu****]

Ignore/deny attention: Leave them on read. Make them beg to be noticed again.
Edging without release: Bring them to the edge and deny. Over. And over.
Time-outs: Forcibly remove attention—no contact for X hours/days.
Praise deprivation: No compliments until they earn them again.
Chore tasking: Assign tasks like foot massages, pedicure prep, or cleaning

[sp****]

Told to be nude in the foyer of a nice Victorian house where people are walking by giggling at your size but you were commanded to stay still and silent you lil cock exposed such hilarious laughter🤣

[Curiouschimera]

I've been thinking a lot about post orgasm ***, although I haven't tried it extensively. I know it requires to let the sub have an orgasm, which is a reward of the highest order, but the idea of something amazing turning into *** is a kind of twisted sadism in itself - the longing desire when horny turning into a dire desperation to stop in an instant. You could even take it up a notch with a vibrator or e-stim. 

I'd love to know whether anyone has experience with this. I'm sure it's a great way to punish any unallowed transgressions of a sexual kind. 

[ey****]

5 minutes ago, Curiouschimera said:

I'd love to know whether anyone has experience with this. I'm sure it's a great way to punish any unallowed transgressions of a sexual kind. 

I've done it before

though, you can make it worse if the orgasm in itself is ruined in the first place 

[Th****]

2 hours ago, Curiouschimera said:

I've been thinking a lot about post orgasm ***, although I haven't tried it extensively. I know it requires to let the sub have an orgasm, which is a reward of the highest order, but the idea of something amazing turning into *** is a kind of twisted sadism in itself - the longing desire when horny turning into a dire desperation to stop in an instant. You could even take it up a notch with a vibrator or e-stim. 

I'd love to know whether anyone has experience with this. I'm sure it's a great way to punish any unallowed transgressions of a sexual kind. 

From the other side it can be loads of fun... especially pushing them through til they get hard again and onto ***d orgasms. 

[Curiouschimera]

10 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I've done it before

though, you can make it worse if the orgasm in itself is ruined in the first place 

I tend to find it worse when she just keeps going without stopping to ruin the orgasm.

I've never quite understood ruined orgasms. It's just an orgasm without the intensity. And in the case of *** it's all about the intensity. But maybe that's just me. 

[Curiouschimera]

8 hours ago, ThaliaV said:

From the other side it can be loads of fun... especially pushing them through til they get hard again and onto ***d orgasms. 

Great to hear it's fun on the other side. Thanks for sharing.

On my end I'd have to be tied and gagged not to thrash about and wake half the neighborhood though. 

Would you consider it a punishment? Or just a bit of fun? Or even a treat for a masochist. I suppose it depends on the sub. 

[ey****]

58 minutes ago, Curiouschimera said:

I've never quite understood ruined orgasms. It's just an orgasm without the intensity. And in the case of *** it's all about the intensity. But maybe that's just me. 

it depends on the execution.  They are very difficult to get right.   But if someone hits it perfect then there is literally no pleasure at all. Like you're desperate to cum (especially if been edged a lot) and are expecting an explosive orgasm.... but just get this sad disatisfying trickle. 

The worst thing.  If she stops there, then there's nothing you can really do about it as you've cum.   Like, if someone edges you and denies you there's every chance to, ahem, knock one out later.   But yeah it's just nothing.

Now, however.... of course even after this feeling, if she then does continue with any form of post play, well, it's still super sensitive and ***ful.  

[Th****]

6 hours ago, Curiouschimera said:

Great to hear it's fun on the other side. Thanks for sharing.

On my end I'd have to be tied and gagged not to thrash about and wake half the neighborhood though. 

Would you consider it a punishment? Or just a bit of fun? Or even a treat for a masochist. I suppose it depends on the sub. 

Different people have different styles. 

My style is generally much more centered around positive rein***ment and earned rewards, I don't like feeling like I need to use punishments. If someone wants to be here they'll show it by just not doing a thing when i say i don't like something, so It ***es me off and makes me lose interest in someone if it's more than a very rare thing. 

Personally, I most likely wouldn't consider it punishment because it's something i would do simply as part of my sadism because it's *fun* for me. It's about *my* fun and enjoyment. If they happen to be a masochist and see it as a treat? Lucky them. 

6 hours ago, Curiouschimera said:

On my end I'd have to be tied and gagged not to thrash about and wake half the neighborhood though. 

As a sadist... them hating and fighting it, but me getting to do it anyway makes it *more* enjoyable for me. Most things a lot of people would see as "punishments" i simply do for my fun and entertainment.

I like treating or using someone as a toy or play thing. And while I love sass and cheeky mischief, I also want them to be a compliant toy. 

[Curiouschimera]

On 8/22/2025 at 2:21 PM, ThaliaV said:

Different people have different styles. 

My style is generally much more centered around positive rein***ment and earned rewards, I don't like feeling like I need to use punishments. If someone wants to be here they'll show it by just not doing a thing when i say i don't like something, so It ***es me off and makes me lose interest in someone if it's more than a very rare thing. 

Personally, I most likely wouldn't consider it punishment because it's something i would do simply as part of my sadism because it's *fun* for me. It's about *my* fun and enjoyment. If they happen to be a masochist and see it as a treat? Lucky them. 

As a sadist... them hating and fighting it, but me getting to do it anyway makes it *more* enjoyable for me. Most things a lot of people would see as "punishments" i simply do for my fun and entertainment.

I like treating or using someone as a toy or play thing. And while I love sass and cheeky mischief, I also want them to be a compliant toy. 

Thanks for diving in deeper!

I'd agree on your doubts about the effectiveness of punishments in general. But they do seem fun in the spirit of play. There's something alluring about overly strict "punishments" for getting something wrong although I tried my very best. Especially, if they are for things that weren't really in my control. It's like a sexy slap in the face by the universe to keep me humble.

As for the latter part: Beautifully said! If suffering for a woman's sadistic pleasure isn't hot then I don't know what is. And knowing I'll regret what I couldn't possibly resist makes it that much more enticing. It's a sweet and sour gift of ***ful devotion - the best kind of treat and punishment. The worse it gets the better is.

[Th****]

1 hour ago, Curiouschimera said:

Thanks for diving in deeper!

I'd agree on your doubts about the effectiveness of punishments in general. But they do seem fun in the spirit of play. There's something alluring about overly strict "punishments" for getting something wrong although I tried my very best. Especially, if they are for things that weren't really in my control. It's like a sexy slap in the face by the universe to keep me humble.

As for the latter part: Beautifully said! If suffering for a woman's sadistic pleasure isn't hot then I don't know what is. And knowing I'll regret what I couldn't possibly resist makes it that much more enticing. It's a sweet and sour gift of ***ful devotion - the best kind of treat and punishment. The worse it gets the better is.

I said nothing about doubting efficacy of punishments, I have a background in behavior science, I'm pretty well versed. I said I don't want to need to punish. I want a submissive who improves my life by being in it, not someone who creates *more* work for me. 

 

[Deleted Member]

Fart dom from a mistress

[Al****]

Male sub here, make your bottom write a full page of what they want you to do to them, and read it allowed to you. No jokes or sarcasm allowed. Hottest punishment I ever got.

[Mr****]

Extreme barefoot trample.🤑🤑🤑

[Ro****]

When I was with my ex Dom he punished me with a dildo that I wasn't able to handle and take and hurt me with it but it really made me be more submissive and obedient to what he wanted me to do and how he expected me to act and behave

[ur****]

I like when doms keep is simple and do a mix of *** balll busting and cum eating. One of my deepest fantasies is tos be wedged and humiliated, I also love being spit on of told clean body parts with my tongue!