Does it make me a slut/ whore

[Deleted Member]

The only reason why women are made to feel ashamed for having the same fantasies and desires as all men do all men admit to and there's literally not a single person that will look at them sideways for saying something like that but yet a woman will have to shoulder the burden of having a label that follows her everywhere that she goes. First of all God created women Taurus I am no scientist but if you were not meant to enjoy it why would he have put that there the whole reproduction system works without it. The issue is not anything other than men being too weak mentally emotionally to allow women to have the same kind of fun that they all have and if they aren't having it they want to. There is no bigger turn on to me in the world than a woman who says I want more. I've always been told I was weird or that I can never have a family with a woman like that and I could not disagree more. I understand that the way other people look at their relationship is important status and public image is important to women but all of the women that I've had in my life fucked me better 99 times out of 100 when they had something they were excited about and I absolutely loved it but my ex would never embrace it

[At****]

Not at all.

[Tw****]

Being called a whore/slut isn't necessarily a bad thing... If you're trying to understand/escape the feeling the word puts into your chest, you are going to need to see a therapist or go on a serious spiritual journey.
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I think changing how you perceive the word would be the easiest approach, this will take time and conscious effort from a partner. By said partner greeting you positively as a "whore" or "slut" and showing passion/kindness/caring even for non-sexual gestures (eg providing flowers or chocolates) the positive rein***ment will encourage your heart/brain to rewire the negative association for positive.
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If you'd like to DM my inbox is always open. Hope you find your peace.

[Bi****]

If you're single no ***ps expect low body counts despite wanting to be in the same situation it's just jealousy to be honest

[pr****]

Sex is fun. Live and enjoy your life.

[ph****]

Sex is the greatest thing known to man. I’m super young and have sex with some many women for my age, and I would never think of myself at that low of a standard.
I promise you’re not a whore

[se****]

Just enjoy life. You are not a whore unless sex is your profession. Being slutty is not a bad thing if you ask me. A healthy sexual appetite is a great thing so explore it as much as you want. Some people are judgemental unfortunately. I honestly prefer a woman with experience that likes exploring with different partners. You are the type of woman I'm interested in. So just know there are guys who like a woman like you. Don't look down on yourself for being you.

[ph****]

No

[Sp****]

A long time ago in a different culture, yes.. But it's 2025, and we have definitely evolved from old world thinking.

[Fl****]

I’ll put it this way you wanting it Biwking sex is a natural human expression and that’s your business regardless if you like it love it leave it what you do with your business and what other people think of you doesn’t mean anything and don’t think you’re being a slut you’re enjoyingwhat the motion was given to you unlike most people in God forbid they don’t know how to sexually express put too many to your girl yet

[pr****]

1 hour ago, HommeEtranger60 said:

Societal and religious conditioning are so powerful that you’re apprehensive about simply pursuing what feels natural for you because you’re blocked by a single word.

Since you threw it to the community for reassurance, I’ll start there. Of course you’re not a whore for pursuing your joy. And if you’ve been called a whore, it was probably by people who were frightened of the urges they repress, and jealous that you aren’t constrained by the conventional idea of what is / isn’t ok.

I thought the second half of your question was the more important one. How can you get the thought of being a whore out of your mind? That indicates that you’ve accepted the disparaging definition of whore as simply being someone sexually promiscuous.

One idea might be to take away the word’s power.

You aren’t a s3x worker (nothing wrong with that, btw) and you don’t compromise your principles for access to what you seek, so on the two textbook biblical definitions, you’re not a whore. The devil is in the third definition as someone promiscuous. You may not know that definition dates back only to the puritanical era.

Before that, the word promiscuous meant simply a collection of things taken at random. Does that change things?

I’ve read your profile. You’re vetting what you want. You have a specific idea. Doesn’t seem random - or promiscuous - to me.

When we’re asking how to take away a word’s or an idea’s power to make us feel something negative, that requires some internal work. When / why did I start seeing the word whore as negative? Did someone hurt me or make me feel less than by calling me a whore? Maybe if you can unlock those answers inside of you, you can free yourself from the hold of that word.

And since you closed by talking about looking down upon yourself, there’s a whole cross-section of people in this community who can probably help you flip the script and turn the degrading aspects into an erotic thing. But that wasn’t the question, so…

I thought the basic, “you’re not a whore” was too easy a path for a question that’s really about self image. Which led me down the rabbit hole.

So… sorry for the length. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk. 😂

Good luck.

This is so profound !

[Ad****]

You either like being a whore or you dont, look inside...

[Wi****]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ethical_Slut The Ethical Slut - Wikipedia

A slut is "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you"

See absolutely nothing wrong being a slut.

[DarkArts1066]

The answer to your question is -no.
Wanting to experience sex -in different forms doesn’t make you a whore. It makes you adventurous.

It sounds as if you are having some kind of inner battle with yourself?…. Perhaps seeking justification -maybe even permission to behave in a way which you aren’t fully comfortable with in your own head ?

Perhaps start by asking yourself what YOUR definition of whoreish behaviour is ?

Many would consider it to be selling sex…. Others perceive a whore to be someone who has excessive sexual cravings, that they satisfy at the expense of others.

A ‘whore’ might also be someone who seeks sex with someone who is out of reach or unattainable … for example a Boss, or a Friends Husband or Partner perhaps ?

Obviously this last one carries with it a number of personal and social risks !

Start by examining your definition of the word.

You mention being called a whore for previous activities that you’ve done… are you comfortable sharing those activities with us ?…
It might help us understand where you are coming from with your own thoughts…?

[sa****]

It's OK to be a slut , as long as you tell the person who has his Cock deep inside your pussy , without a condom . But yes it is okay to sleep with who ever you want to

[gi****]

You like what you like miss. That's your business. There doesn't have to be some dirty set of ideas behind it.

[ap****]

I don’t see the problem

[us****]

I said to my ex, you go do you!

[ch****]

As long as you know what you want and make it clear what want nobody should be able to say nothing. Enjoy being you

[lo****]

F**k them

[in****]

Absolutely not girl a whore is someone who claims they are In a loyal relationship and cheats so what you like to fuck sounds like someone is jealous to hell with them do you kink star

[Ma****]

You have to be able to explore a safe environment. Trust is cornerstone of the D/s relationship. It should not ever be an issue of anyone “knowing” what you want to experience unless you are comfortable sharing

[Jerryboybadz]

Sex is one of our basic human needs. The more you get. The healthier you are, more relaxed, satisfied, secure and self confident. Look at it as a gift for yourself and partner or partners becuase you love yourself

[Mi****]

The modern society/stigma of the term “whore” is so lame. We live in a moment of time of sexual embracement. Embrace our mental desires and stimulation. Those who can’t comprehend or understand. F em 🌹

[ja****]

Read the sexual life of Catherine M.. it will help you a lot when it comes to looking down on yourself.. and enjoying sexuality with multiple partners isn’t bad unless you put the circumstances to make it sounds badly