Does it make me a slut/ whore

[su****]

No none of this is a real thing, labels, names theyre just what society chose to make those who were more open minded and in touch with their truth to feel inferior you make your own rules and so long as you do it with respect and care then you do you

it’s just a label something that others who judge give out how you look at yourself and how those closest to you look at you is all that matters, so long as you’re having fun and no one’s feeling are getting hurt do as you wish and don’t let the f ear of what other people may think hold you back

[pr****]

Monday at 04:51 AM, KlausDom69 said:

I think it's subjective, but I think if you're clocking like you know 10 guys a month (different ones), might be some people's starting point maybe. I mean that's over 100 guys a year that's pretty unattractive to most guys I think. Other guys don't care. Not sure where that sits generationally either. We should be able to do surveys on here more often... what's you attractive and unattractive to the opposite sex. So we kind of understand or have a point of reference, but nobody does these things.
The other consideration is if it's protected safe and clean sex, then I mean what does it matter ultimately mean right?
If it's a cream pie every time then yeah definitely total turn off for a lot of guys, again there's some who like to go clean that up! To each their own.

It sounds like you are saying ‘you are not a slut until you cross a number’, right?

[Kl****]

4 hours ago, pretty-praire39588 said:

It sounds like you are saying ‘you are not a slut until you cross a number’, right?

Yeah but what's that number?... for everyone its different. I'm just giving an example of what many guys have tended to indicate or view as a threshold.

[si****]

Personally, I only use the term slut as an edgy term of endearment, but only for those who consent to participating in reclaiming the word. If you don't want to go that route, I recommend viewing the word slut or whore as words people use against you when you're expression of your sexuality becomes so raw it makes them insecure.

[Ad****]

A whore's dilemma.

[Donnee]

On 7/20/2025 at 11:27 PM, 23xxx23 said:

Does it make me a whore when someone calls me a whore? No! (by the way, whores get paid for their hard work!)

If I accepted all the things I was called on this site (and offline), I would need many therapy sessions :))))))

Big hug and let those who call you name find their peace, they definitely need it. You are gorgeous, I am sure you know this!

By the way, what do we call a man who enjoys sexual activities?

Kissssss!!!

The whoreman 😂🤣

You are the best here 😘

[ch****]

My Sub is also my Queen. When we are in a sexual situation she loves to be degraded and I treat her like a slut and called degrading names. In public I spoil her. We have a unique duality that I've never had with anyone before. Embrace what makes you happy without *** of judgment.