Turn off

[Mi****]

Yesterday at 03:25 AM, dale46805 said:

That’s not so much a red flag for me because that’s apart of getting to know a submissive or a dominant because if they don’t match on kinks than it won’t work out it’s demanding titles and not asking vanilla questions as well a dom and sub have to connect on a “normal” level that has nothing to do with the lifestyle as well I treat potential Dommes the way I’d ask a new friend questions like what do you do for fun and also what brings you to this lifestyle but eventually kinks get brought into the conversation wether it’s 2 minutes in or two weeks in

The topic said turn offs.
Treating a Domme as a kink dispenser is definitely not a part of getting to know someone, what are you going on about??
Asking someone what their kinks are when you haven’t even exchanged pleasantries with someone is a turn off to some of us. Look up what a kink dispenser is ffs.

[da****]

3 hours ago, MistressKaycie said:

The topic said turn offs.
Treating a Domme as a kink dispenser is definitely not a part of getting to know someone, what are you going on about??
Asking someone what their kinks are when you haven’t even exchanged pleasantries with someone is a turn off to some of us. Look up what a kink dispenser is ffs.

Didn’t say treating them that way I said discussing them at some point rather it’s 2 minutes in or 2 weeks in is apart of the process I know a lot of Doms I’ve talked to have asked me what I’m into rather quickly that is my experience but when talking to a potential Dominant I always add in vanilla questions like what type of movies do they like

[si****]

Manipulation, or financial gains

[pt****]

Findom, and it's always ugly ass broke ppl or plastic ppl that want ***. Like looking at the women that do that makes me feel straight and I am usually a man hater.