Her office

[ja****]

You walk into her office.
She’s on the phone. You greet her.
Without even looking at you, she cuts you off: “I’m not finished.”

You freeze in place.
Moments later, she turns and says: “Take a seat.”

You glance around. Her desk is bare, no chair in sight.
She repeats, firmer this time: “I said, take a seat.”

From here, the submissive reveals himself.

1. The Vanishing Submissive
You sink to the floor instantly. No questions, no hesitation. Your obedience is total, an eagerness to follow every word. To a mistress, you are pliant, reliable, perhaps even endearing until predictability drains the spark. In time, you fade away, unnoticed, forgotten.

2. The Literal Submissive
You step out, return with a chair from the lobby, and sit quietly. You obey her words exactly as given, but you do not accept nonsense. You are respectful without being a doormat, obedient but still a presence. This kind of submissive endures because you offer both compliance and a quiet strength.

3. The Daring Submissive
You look her in the eye and say: “I’d rather stand, Mistress.”
It’s a challenge, not defiance, but refusal to dissolve entirely. You resist surrender until she proves her power is enough to make you kneel. To the right mistress, breaking you will be irresistible.

4. The Fluid Submissive
You can be all three. At times, you collapse into blind obedience, eager to follow without thought. At others, you find the practical solution, steady and dependable. And sometimes, you dare to push back, testing her strength against your own. You are not fixed in one shape but shifting, unpredictable, alive in your submission. To a mistress, you are both a puzzle and a pleasure because every encounter is different, and every part of you must eventually be claimed.

[su****]

I was once a 4….it definitely took time served to get me there.

[Deleted Member]

I'm usually 2 or 3. And so is he when we switch.

[IG****]

Sooo

[sw****]

Soooooo sitting on the desk isn't an option?

[ja****]

2 hours ago, sunnysade said:

I was once a 4….it definitely took time served to get me there.

It’s a process. The good the bad and the ugly

[ja****]

50 minutes ago, switchTeddy said:

Soooooo sitting on the desk isn't an option?

As switch and dominant, and your sub sat on you desk? Do you consider it as an option?

[Laycette]

I have 'sat' against a wall as if there was a chair with my feet braced. Does their head in when you stand up and there is no chair...

[sw****]

6 hours ago, jaykkolins said:

As switch and dominant, and your sub sat on you desk? Do you consider it as an option?

I see it as a very bratty move that is in the realm of 3 personally. It's a different dynamic if a woman does it then a guy for sure.

[ja****]

10 minutes ago, switchTeddy said:

I see it as a very bratty move that is in the realm of 3 personally. It's a different dynamic if a woman does it then a guy for sure.

With respect that’s my issue with the scene, submission is submission regardless how cute the submissive is, the fact that we need to set apart the bedroom play from the d/s lifestyle dynamic, yes I totally get a braty princess challenge you into a spanking.. but to be honest that’s not D/s or at least not in its core, to me and I’ve been engaged with many subs over the years.. and what I have noticed that the submissive channel all the submissiveness into the bedroom play, and they end up feeling empty after the “euphoria “ ends.. mean while when you are on regular check with them establishing a ground rules to follow they tend to be balanced and more satisfying.
Again, with respect not attacking just stating my point of view

[Ki****]

I’m more often than not a Vanishing submissive, but would really love to find a relationship like you described with the fluid submissive where the dynamic is built on trust, communication, mutual respect, and understanding as we explore, but my obedience and serving you as you request is absolute - meaning that at any moment I should be prepared to do as I’m told 😘