I feel lost, somewhere in between

[Mi****]

Girls its deep n I get it, I want unconditional love like Ross n rachael.luke n Laura n wen I tell ppl that they say im living in fantasy land ...
Being beautiful from the inside out, radiates on someone who truly is...that being said...maybe THATS WAT THEY SEE WEB THEY SAY IT...U EVER THINK OF THAT...

BECAUSE saying watcu said n HOW u said it.. makes u look conceited, n self centered...
Wen ppl say ur beautiful. Its generally cuz u r...n now itcsounds like it bragging
We in all essence, if thats ur best picture. Biccchhh u ain't all that.. real talk.
Grow tf up
Peace

[71****]

6 hours ago, mkenakedfun said:

Youre 24 years old. And youre a cute kid. Just hang out with friends meet people at work or your neighborhood. And youll meet the right person.

I love you. He is correct. That’s the wholesome way my love to meet someone on your Devine path. So if you do what you love at a job … school… hobby. Your on your way to meet your person

[Ja****]

I wish I had the opportunity of getting to know you. Id love to tell you how you fill me with desire with your beauty.

[sm****]

TLDR: a soulmate is chosen and true love is something you work for.

For the delusional, I'd like to clear something up. True love or a soulmate isn't something you find and It's definitely not some magical thing that just shows up. It's choice. It's commitment. It's dedication. It's growing. It's learning. It's compromising. It's forgiving. It's listening. It's work that takes real effort. It's not something that just happens not long-term at least. It's something that both people have to be personally invested in and continue to work on their own and together at. Certainly not always nice and lovely. It takes disagreements and outright fights it takes personal change you have to be willing to change. You have to look at yourself and your partner honestly. You have to be able to see your flaws your many flaws and your partner's many flaws and even though you're both flawed somehow that's where you'll find at the end of the day true love.

[Deleted Member]

I’ve made more progress and self discovery about the way I feel about this and being on these apps, why does it feel wrong or why do I feel like I’m in between and lost. I have a strong sex drive, but that doesn’t mean I want sex to define me. I can crave it often, fantasize vividly, and enjoy exploring, but I still want my personality, my mind, my heart, and my talents to come first. That’s not contradictory it’s balance.

I don’t like labels like “kinky” or “filthy.” They feel like they reduce me to nothing but my sexual expression, and I’ve worked too hard on building an identity that’s more than that. Being boxed into one dimension is insulting to me. After being objectified or sexualized too much in the past, I’ve developed a natural resistance to anything that makes me feel like I’m being flattened into just my body.

At my core, I crave depth. I want people who have layers not just sex-driven personalities. That’s not about trauma, it’s about standards. I want to own my sexuality without letting it overshadow me. I don’t want to be reduced, and I don’t want to reduce others either. What I’m searching for are people who can show restraint, patience, intelligence and then reveal their sexuality as a layer, not their headline.

[PrinceCruel]

"Beautiful women are invisible " it's not from me but I believe it echoes your dilemma. People get stuck in appearances and fail to really connect, to engage and commit themselves into their discovery. The scene, sexualities, personalities, kink communities become coded, shallow and hermetic.
Are there authentic people out there, I have met a few, not many but some good one. It just takes time and some luck!

[ju****]

Sometimes a face can reveal more about a person than the sum of its parts. You, for example have a frown laced into your smile, and you have kindness in your eyes. My grandmother had the same look when we lost my aunt. it's a good thing that the mask of superficial beauty is shallow, because then it's easier to see behind it, and it's also easier to spot the blind