Asking a dom personal questions?

[ma****]

I’m confused as I’ve never experienced “online” dom or sub, but is this Dom (domme?) violating items that were dealt with in negotiation?

[mi****]

Every man and women knows their are boundaries, your dom isn't respecting neither your safety nor the boundaries.

[Da****]

Thursday at 08:18 PM, ColoShark said:

With respect to personal information, it fits the power dynamic for the sub to be required to be more open and *** than the Dom. What you are and aren’t allowed to do and how you are allowed to talk to the Dom are also part of the dynamic.

As for safety concerns, you are under no obligation to do anything you feel is unsafe. However, some risk can be exciting for some people. You need to find and communicate your boundaries.

“Push back” against punishment is not appropriate sub behavior. I wouldn’t want a sub who argued with me every time I imposed any punishment or discipline. However, the limits of what sort of punishment can be handed out is something that should be discussed and agreed to.

If the type of punishment this Dom imposes is a problem for you, you need to have a discussion. Keep in mind that coming up with appropriate punishment ideas long distance can be challenging. Perhaps you can make alternate suggestions.

What are you each trying to get out of an online relationship? Perhaps you can talk to the Dom about the types of control and punishment that you find appealing and will give you what you want.

Keep in mind that the relationship goes two ways. Doms have needs and desires to fulfill too - as well as limits. If your Dom is not willing to share personal information in an online relationship, that is their limit. If that is not acceptable to you, then you need to find someone with whom you are more compatible.

I totally disagree with everything that you have just spewed out of that whole word salad. You clearly did not comprehend and understand this person's whole meaning behind their post. There are red flags all over this post. This person clearly wants to establish some communication with their domme and getting nothing in return. It's all one sided. Either my way or no way. That is dangerous and for her as a domme to put her sub in a position to not be safe is uncalled for. If she feels uncomfortable with going to a park at night and taking pictures then yes she should push back. Not only is it dangerous it's illegal here in the United States. You sir condoning what this domme is doing is a very dangerous game.

[Si****]

Have you ever seen this person in video chat other than a profile pic and text back and forth? Seriously ? If you haven’t stop communication. You have given them more info than they need .

[OA****]

@Daddyskinky55443 I totally disagree with everything that you have just spewed out of that whole word salad. You clearly did not comprehend and understand this person's whole meaning behind their post….
Perfectly sums it up here, thanks