To the ladies

[ro****]

Women always claim, or so they say that :

1. Women never think about sex as much as men do

2. When in a committed relationship, they never fantasize, look or think about other men and have zero desire to be with any other men.

What's your opinion?

[kimutu72]

I have a very high sex drive so Im like a bitch in heat all the time lol, Im always looking at guys checking out there ass & obviously their package, but saying all that I wouldn just go round fucking everyone

[Br****]

Women in your life claim this or do you just think this?

[Li****]

I've never heard a woman make the second claim and it'd be clearly, patently untrue to anyone with the ability to think.

Point 1, I've known women who argue both sides of that point.. which reminds us even where something is true most of the time, it's rarely true all of the time.

[al****]

For me .. one is untrue.. I’m constantly wanting to be with Master, I’m craving him 24/7. Even if I’m sick or depressed the thought of Master’s body puts me in the mood.

Number 2 is half true for me. I has fantasies about things. More so about scenarios than other men. I do realize that I tend to walk around with mental blinders on though. I just don’t see other guys. I’ve been totally startled when a man is being polite and holds a door for me at a store or restaurant, I’m like, “where did he come from??”

[uy****]

This isn't a topic of opinion it's studied social science Google the shit lol wtf

[uy****]

Men are more likely to be down to fuck immediately just based on visuals than women are. Women are more likely to require "being in the mood." There are exceptions.
This is all well studied in social science. Please get educated

[KT****]

Each person is different. I can tell you first hand, after having kids and weight fluctuations, your libido can change like that! My husband and I went from fucking like rabbits, to maybe once a week and it caused a lot of friction. Once I got my migraines and weight under control, it's back to how we were when we first met. Like a sexual re-awakening. We sext and get it in any chance we get and its soooo good! So keep things like that I mind too 😁

[Firepit]

Isn't this sort of thinking from like 20-30 years ago? It's 2025.. feels like bait

[4l****]

I agree with KT_D but also realize as we get older our bodies loose hormones and sometimes things are off.. if a women doesn’t have enough testosterone their libido will be very low.. I will say if they tell you that they probably feel that way at the time.. I have been married 20 years and when my husband and I first started in the lifestyle I did not want to be with other men at all. He keeps me very satisfied so we only played with women by my choice.. It is also a comfort level thing because my first time with another man in 20 years was with a friend of ours. A couple drinks and we played a little but I was comfortable enough with him that I enjoyed it.. it opened me up to more possibilities but I still don’t want to just f***k anyone. I like having a connection first and being comfortable with the person first.. so I get not wanting another man but if they say they don’t look it’s probably a lie.. lol

[Ho****]

I've never claimed either of those things and never heard any woman say so. Whereas I have heard that kind of thing from *men*, and lots more beginning "Women always..."

You're skewing what they tell you, perhaps, by being insecure about them looking at anyone else, which would make them defensive.

I've never claimed either of those things and never heard any woman say so. You're skewing what they tell you by being insecure which would make them defensive.

I have heard men say that kind of thing about "women typically..."

People who see each individual as just an instance of a general type

People who see each individual as just an instance of a general type are of course going to hear whatever they already "know" that type "always" says.

People who tell someone what they think before hearing it will only ever hear the views of those who agree, because the rest of us walk away fast.

[Deleted Member]

1. How do I know how much a man is thinking about sex versus how much I do. Depends on the man. Depends on the day. It's not quantifiable.
2. When I've been in a committed relationship I have still had desire to be with other men and fantasised, looked and thought about them.
A non-monogamous/ENM/poly relationship can also be "committed".

[KT****]

4 minutes ago, fififufu said:

1. How do I know how much a man is thinking about sex versus how much I do. Depends on the man. Depends on the day. It's not quantifiable.
2. When I've been in a committed relationship I have still had desire to be with other men and fantasised, looked and thought about them.
A non-monogamous/ENM/poly relationship can also be "committed".

I totally agree...Even a committed relationship can have desires and fantasies. It's natural . My husband and I people watch and make sure to check out people of opposite and same sex...that was even before we decided to explore/experiment with other people (couples).

[ho****]

In a happy/stable relationship, I get annoyed by other men pursuing me. So the desire to be with other men turns to 0. The other sex isn’t sexy when you’re trying to avoid a bunch of them because they don’t understand, “I have a boyfriend”.

Idk about other women but I don’t think about as much sex as some of my male friends. I think in this case everyone is different.

[Mi****]

Where the fuck are you getting this information from because it is 100% incorrect.

[Deleted Member]

There are definitely some women that think and fantasize about sex just as much if not more than men. And there are some men that think and fantasize about sex less than women….
There are also women, who in a committed relationship, fantasize, look, and think about other men and desire to be with them sexually. Otherwise women would literally never cheat and female swingers would not exist????

[ko****]

Cake and sodomy

[Deleted Member]

Plz im one of them look we all need more as women n deserve it x

[Pe****]

Men have notoriously condemned women as sluts and whores for expressing sexual desire. Yet most men crave to be with a whore or slut either as role play or real life. We’re jealous ***s. Quite the tight-rope for a woman to walk.

[CopperKnob]

1.
Is a stereotype created by the patriarchy creating repression, stemming from feelings of shame. It suggests a duty on women to have sex as part of a relationship/marriage and a man having the rights to their wives/partners body. It results in the objectification of women, that we're passive recipients and that someone's virginity is a 'prize.'
Legislation has caught up with much of this, perhaps some of 'us' should too.

[hu****]

Emmm what woman is claiming that ........ Definitely not an honest one

[De****]

Lmao that's a damned lie

[Co****]

My opinion is… The subject should be changed to…
“Why do men think that, or seemingly assume that:”

[Bl****]

Lol no, y'all don't have the sex drive of men. That's a fact. Sex drive is driven by testosterone and the average male level is literally 100 times higher than females. That's how much more we think about sex than you. Yes, even you that thinks you're so dirty and perverted. You're a tourist here, men are trapped, we're prisoners lol

[Bl****]

Yesterday at 09:25 AM, kimutu72 said:

I have a very high sex drive so Im like a bitch in heat all the time lol, Im always looking at guys checking out there ass & obviously their package, but saying all that I wouldn just go round fucking everyone

That's the equivalent of a man with low testosterone lol