I like Fire on my Skin

[ch****]

I enjoy someone burning me before, during, or after sexual actions. It keeps me "standing straight". Does anyone else enjoy doing or experiencing this? How have you found others to do it with?  It seems a bit niche.  What experiences have you had?

Edited November 9, 2025 by FETMod-HG
To open up discussion

[Qu****]

Fire play is a semi common form of play. Doing so shouldn't leave an actual burn on you, but you'll feel the heat from the fire. This is edge play and should be done by people who've had extensive training. There is also several different forms of fire play.

[ch****]

I like it too be second degree

[Qu****]

That's going to lead to nerve damage and scarring over time. That kind of damage is cumulative. You're not going to find fire tops willing to do that. I say this as a fire play instructor who teaches a safety course of this every month.

[ch****]

I mean, I hear you. But I've found three in my travels and the deep burns turn me on. I don't know what else to say

[Ji****]

*as long as you are firm with your boundaries and dont push your limits in an attempt to appeal to others* Why is more extreme play less popular among tops? Is the risk of permenant damage or markings deeply unpopular in the formal or professional kink community?

[ch****]

To me, I would rather have a mark to "burn" it into my memory so to speak

[Ne****]

1 hour ago, chiconTENDER said:

To me, I would rather have a mark to "burn" it into my memory so to speak

Branding can be an amazing experience... Fire Safety and knowledge should be at the top of the list.

[Qu****]

4 hours ago, Jivthecrow said:

*as long as you are firm with your boundaries and dont push your limits in an attempt to appeal to others* Why is more extreme play less popular among tops? Is the risk of permenant damage or markings deeply unpopular in the formal or professional kink community?

Yes it is more unpopular in the more formalized community. The training that we participate in teaches a lot more of the risk awareness than most. We see horror stories of things going wrong, we also delve further into the art and science behind what we do. We also share a lot more of that knowledge with people in the community.