A timer on fun

[co****]

I am have been thinking about how so many people have a lot of kinks. But very few talking about how long they could hold out.

Not talking about orgasm count. No what I want to talk about is how long a session of sex has felt right for all you kinksters.

What kinks where used and for how long?

Thanks in advance for any replies.

[AKA_Copper]

I dont wear a watch but im not sure I've ever felt the need or desire to actually time any intimate interactions 🤷‍♀️

[Pa****]

Due to a back ***, I can last in excess of 3hrs. Sometimes longer. Often she’s the one calling done

[jo****]

Generally speaking, I enjoy an entire scene, play session or other experience for somewhere around 90 minutes. I set my schedule and plan for that as I layout the blueprint for the time. I play a lot with restraints so being patient and paying attention to detail are important not just for the experience but also for safety

[mr****]

I like taking my time. So having 3-4 hour sessions with lots of breaks is my ideal.

[co****]

Awesome to see so many turn out with answers :)

My thoughts

Aka_copper: Yeah I can understand that. I

Mralaster81: I find hydrating to be the main reason for my breaks. Do you stretch doing your breaks? I do

[ey****]

unless I've a space or piece of equipment booked for a set time (or have courtesy, say, playing at a public event) I never set things within a time limit.

and like when I *do* book a dungeon etc. it's usually for more hours than I'd need, so it avoids clock watching 

[BattyDearest]

It really depends. On the scene and the day.

I've been in a highly intense preplanned public impact scene that lasted no more than 10 minutes. But then there's been private scenes that are more sensual and go on for about 2 hours.

When wax is involved, more time is needed for clean up, wax removal and shower.

If it's a date night or a sleepover time varies. Sometimes we don't even do a full scene. We just do things here and there and then just fuck.

And on the flip I've had a Dom that I would go over there and it was 1-2 hours before he had other plans. So it was all about figuring out what the timing would be for how intense the scenes were.

If you go to a dungeon and do a public scene, they are typically limited to 20 mins no more than 40 minutes is about what people's attention span is. And you don't want to be using one thing all night when other people are there to play as well.

Timing also depends if you are including planning, set up, eating, clean up, debrief and aftercare or if that will be taken care of prior to and followed up the next day.

[ra****]

It isn’t about holding out it is about feeling the peace within. Letting go. Surrendering to the void. I always get told that I last longer at impact scenes and other people and I’m like I just last as long as I need unless somebody uses an implement that I don’t like, but it is all about hitting the void and it’s really good when you’re with a person that can see that you’ve hit the void. Each thing is different wax needles impact bondage. Everything gets you somewhere but it’s not about holding out unless that is a specific kink for you or if you’re doing it for the Dom

[mr****]

Yeah its mostly water breaks. But it's also aftercare and refractory periods. Basic stuff

[PL****]

1 hour ago, rainbowcataclysm said:

It isn’t about holding out it is about feeling the peace within. Letting go. Surrendering to the void. I always get told that I last longer at impact scenes and other people and I’m like I just last as long as I need unless somebody uses an implement that I don’t like, but it is all about hitting the void and it’s really good when you’re with a person that can see that you’ve hit the void. Each thing is different wax needles impact bondage. Everything gets you somewhere but it’s not about holding out unless that is a specific kink for you or if you’re doing it for the Dom

I am one of those individuals that has an orgasm deprivation kink, so for me the longer I wait the better. The kinks surrounding such deprivation have included impact play, bondage, sensory play, and many other kinks. Sometimes my doms will focus on my kinks, other times their kinks are focused on. Usually its a mixture of both, but the kinks vary based on personal interests and the dynamics associated with the person that I am with.

[ra****]

25 minutes ago, PLEASEandTEASEme said:

I am one of those individuals that has an orgasm deprivation kink, so for me the longer I wait the better. The kinks surrounding such deprivation have included impact play, bondage, sensory play, and many other kinks. Sometimes my doms will focus on my kinks, other times their kinks are focused on. Usually its a mixture of both, but the kinks vary based on personal interests and the dynamics associated with the person that I am with.

As i said a specific kink 👀