Female Orgasm

[ho****]

6 hours ago, pleasuremedeep said:

The problem is lack of SENSUALITY, most guys just care about them pounding you because they think it’s the manly thing to do but in actual reality it’s not, it’s about the slow sensual movement that makes a woman’s body react, most guys don’t pay attention to the woman’s body language during their effort to get her to climax. It’s in her movement and her breathing. It just takes a guy to actually pay attention to these signs and it should be no problem at all. Slow and deep is a good way to start.

If I could give you 10 hearts for that statement, I would. Thank you for putting that into words!!💞

[du****]

For myself, men cannot make me orgasm. I can cum allot with them but I am the one that’s in control of reaching orgasm and only in cowgirl.

[Sa****]

7 hours ago, silentchaos said:

Well from a girl, I’ve never unless it’s by myself. Idk if that on the guy or just us women in general not being able to as easily

I have been on estrogen for 5 years now and post opp and I can confirm it's much more difficult to orgasm nowadays than before hormones. also note that I lose steam very quickly during foreplay

[lo****]

All a guy has to do is pay attention to a woman and her body language. They need to ask questions about likes and dislikes. Find out everything that makes her get off. Every woman is different so the same things don’t work with all woman. Setting up the mood helps good conversation before hand. For a woman it’s a lot more mental to get her turned on. The main thing pay attention to her. She’ll let you what she wants. For me I feel like I didn’t do my job right if I can’t get her off at least once. Alot of men are only worried about them getting theirs. I think sex is ten times better when both sides are completely satisfied so I’ve learned to be a better partner and it makes a difference

[We****]

Cum yes but orgasm very rare with a man.
I don’t fake it.. they won’t ever learn. It says allot about the man whether they take on the advice you’re trying to give or if they think they know your body better than you do. But I’ve had men who turn me into a fountain.
My advice to men is listen to her body, ask her what she actually likes/what helps, and when she’s close DONT change the tempo unless told too. You all seem to s***d up or change angle what kills it instantly
My advice to girls is STOP FAKING IT. Your just making urself miserable

[gy****]

I always listen to my partner and give her exactly what she needs starting with Cumming in my mouth at least twice before moving on to BIGGER THINGS

[su****]

I eat pussy till the woman is prying my head off her pussy saying thats enough thats enough

[DS****]

Good guys cum last. Words to live by

[Th****]

You'd be surprised to find out that yes, most women have issues with a romantic partner making them come. At least in my experience, all romantic partners have never truly cared. However, since I've started my sexual and kink journey to heal and learn I find a LOT more men actively try to not only make me come, but won't stop still I can't anymore. And many times won't come themselves either until later or not at all.

[gy****]

I NEVER cum until after my partner cums MULTIPLE TIMES

[Ch****]

It’s not always easy for us to reach an orgasm and I’ve had issues with multiple partners not being able to make me cum majority of the time or not at all

[mo****]

Most men have not had anyone help guide them and they just hit it and done. Help teach them. That's what my second girl I ever did for me. And it changed my sexual life after we broke up.

[Mr****]

I think that communication with your sexual partner is important and understand what they like and don't like and play in there likes so they can finish but the other thing is that women vibrate there clits to death and reduce there sensitivity to pleasure but that's my opinion.

[Jo****]

I just brightly my popcorn to watch men complain about toys 🍿👀

[Ne****]

18 hours ago, Sire_Lucifer said:

You just gotta know to slow to go and you only need two finger tips rubbing the gspot slowly back and forth. And the mouth and tongue game needs to be on lock. Never use teeth and never go fast

Mechanical ejaculation is not the same as orgasm!!!

[Ne****]

18 hours ago, FreshwaterKraken said:

lol... What a ridiculous topic for a guy to post.
I've always been able to make the person I'm with orgasm before myself.
It takes extra effort and focus for me to orgasm, but I still enjoy inflicting that ecstasy upon the one I'm with.

Why is it ridiculous?

[co****]

Never had any issues with this, I usually get them to the finish line one way or another. Don’t be afraid to even use toys, their allies not enemies

[se****]

Her orgasm comes first. Guys are easy. The challenge is in hers

[th****]

Agree her orgasm comes first. Mine own is not easy any more, but as a sub,I see that as my problem, not hers.

[ok****]

Yesterday at 05:52 PM, epicsmoke said:

What about when a woman cant make a guy orgasm?

Why can't people have a discussion about women's issues without someone trying to make it about men?

[ok****]

Yesterday at 09:33 PM, Odd-1086 said:

I agree, but from man's perspective that means that a woman would have to speak her mind and tell her partner, in straight terms, what it is that zctually gets her off. Until eomsn open up to their partners then yhere is nothing a man can do about it except flop about.

It's not the woman's fault that you're not skilled in bed.

[Creativlydamned]

In the last couple years of my marriage and a bit after our separation my ex husband could give me a one and done orgasm. I had one guy give me an orgasm from oral a few months ago and to be honest I was pretty surprised by that. And I have one consistent sexual partner over the last 2.5 ish years that gives me these like waves of pleasure/mini orgasms and has made me squirt a couple times. These are different from the bigger one and done type orgasms I can give myself with a toy. It really truly just depends a lot on my comfort and feeling of safety with the person. My exbf of almost 5 years couldn’t get me off but I could get myself off eventually if I worked at it. It really showed how subconsciously I felt unsafe with him.

So yeah, long answer a lot of factors can go into it.