Punishment

[Ch****]

This is addressed mostly to subs: what was your most memorable punishment. Please give details: reason, circumstances, implement, aftercare other consequences and outcome....

[Ar****]

Here is the worst punishment I have ever dished out:

Reason:

My sub came without permission.

Circumstances:

We were on a call

Implement:

I edged her for four hours continously, stopping only for a minute when she came close to orgasms. During this time, her nipples were stimulated, her hair was pulled and then it was back to fingering her pussy and whispering dirty thoughts in her ears. 

After 4 hours, she was denied permission to cum till the next day.

Aftercare:

We had a system in place and aftercare was done the next day when she could cum again.

Outcome:

She was scared of cumming without permission.

[Ch****]

Boredom/frustration was the intention
Crime- forgetfulness over multiple times.
Punishment- chained hands behind the back with long length attached to a heavy sofa, legs chained together, gag and blindfold. Then left.
And left and left. First hour is trying to escape as i always do lol, checking if any locks are not quite closed ect, can i lift that sofa? No i cant.
Boredom hits, how long am i here?
Couple more hours in and aching starts and i start to wiggle like a worm in bleach making it clear im now frustrated. Being ignored still.
Sometimes the mental punishment is just as good/bad as a physical for me.
Aftercare....im not much of an aftercare person.
I can only receive a cuddle/ effection sometimes so talking about how i feel is my way.

[MsDrawers]

I don't respond to the language of discipline and punishment at all. I like to please, if I fail to do so I want to learn how and why. Impact is one of my dearest kinks. It is erotic, horny, cathartic, centering. I don't want anything to lend that delicious activity a negative hue, and I won't pretend I don't want it out of some elaborate stratagem to get what everyone wants anyway. Each to their own of course 🤷‍♀️

[Vanessaslut1972]

Yet to find out

[sk****]

I know I’m going to get into trouble for this but here goes…
I’m always told I’m going to be punished, for something I’ve said or a task not completed or my favourite, topping from the bottom :) The reality is I haven’t ever been punished because every electrifying jolt or flick of a cane against my flesh just serves to turn me on more. I know a certain person will be reading this with a smirk on his face and will be planning his next visit but the long and the short of it is he just loves to see me enjoying myself and the more of a sadist he is the more my masochistic self loves it, we have yet to reach the line where pleasure becomes ***

[Ch****]

9 minutes ago, skylinegirl said:

I know I’m going to get into trouble for this but here goes…
I’m always told I’m going to be punished, for something I’ve said or a task not completed or my favourite, topping from the bottom :) The reality is I haven’t ever been punished because every electrifying jolt or flick of a cane against my flesh just serves to turn me on more. I know a certain person will be reading this with a smirk on his face and will be planning his next visit but the long and the short of it is he just loves to see me enjoying myself and the more of a sadist he is the more my masochistic self loves it, we have yet to reach the line where pleasure becomes ***

They say best way to 'punish' a maso is with no *** 😉

[Leisa]

As part of the negotiations process it is made clear that I don’t respond to punishment. I shutdown instead therefore punishments do not happen. I guess the worst punishment I have ever received was self induced and it was the feeling that I had disappointed him. It was the look in his eyes that I had not measured up at that moment.

[Emeru]

Worst punishment. 

“No messages for a week.”

no need to elaborate, somehow you’ll understand the ***, worst than any physical ***. 

[Deleted Member]

Worst punishment is to see the prize and not get it or it’s given to another person , that drives me crazy . It can be anything like candy or something shiny or he keeps it 🧚🏻‍♀️

[ey****]

For Dominant me - I'm not massively into punishment structures.  I did try once where we were adding cane strokes to a tally over time.   And it just didn't work.

That said I've done scenes which have centred around punishments (as in school or military role play) but a lot of that was built around pre discussed activities : though I'm sure we did have someone write a fucktonne of lines we scrumpled without even checking.

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For sub me

Ha.

So, again, I'm not really into punishments as such but obviously doing a lot of filming some scripts are built around being punished for something.   There was once a ballbusting scene I did which WAS a punishment for something I'd done previously (cumming without permission) but, I dunno - I just thought it was a good tie in to a filmed scene, but, especially as I didn't know I needed permission the Mistress was later a little mixed on it - that it wasn't fair to punish me for something I genuinely didn't know I shouldn't do.

But; there has been things where... I felt I was being punished and possibly was including cold/distant contact, promised things done with other people, so on - and - nah; I think a conversation would have worked a lot better as it caused everythign to be a mess.

[Deleted Member]

Due to being disabled I can’t be physically “punished” as that just leads to health problems. And because I’m not owned and neither have I had a real Daddy of my own Iv yet to experience a worst punishment. Lines I don’t like. One mentor made me write 100 lines that wasn’t nice. He tried to do the not talking “punishment” cause I do suffer with detachment issues if that’s the right word. And considering when he started mentoring me it was agreed he would do the no talking or texting me punishment so I just blocked him yes it was online.

[BigPolly]

12 hours ago, Emeru said:

Worst punishment. 

“No messages for a week.”

no need to elaborate, somehow you’ll understand the ***, worst than any physical ***. 

Agreed! This is guaranteed to just make me walk away, I struggle to read people anyway so don’t do well with mind/emotional games. 

[Emeru]

It is really a messed up punishment, f*cking up my mind real good. 

[Deleted Member]

Omg 'time outs'... Hoe a, D9m can deny tgemselvescand carrybthriugh eith a 'time out' gains my utmost repect. Bu damn as a oerson suffering a 'time out' it's hell.