Question for the more mature ladies

[Thefunguy]

This question is mature ladies. I’m talking cougars, milfs and gilfs. Are y’all really interested in younger guys? if so why or why not? Also, what what do you like or dislike about younger guys? Looking back, some of the best and most fun experiences I have had were with more mature ladies. Just kinda wanted to hear y’all’s side of it.

[MsDrawers]

Personally, no, not at all. I have a particular dislike for being fetishised because of my age, and I'd certainly have more respect than to do that to someone else.

[Deleted Member]

I'm not interested in younger men. My main kinks are PE/ Ds based and I don't like to sub to someone younger than me. I'm not interested in stamina/ you orgasming multiple times and going all night etc so for me there's no real draw.

[Je****]

I prefer older than me. I find them more matureand responsible. In my of my experiences... especially with emotions. But i know this doesn't apply to every guy. 

 

Saying that last two peoples ive encountered with are my 2yr long relationship with someone 2yr younger. 

And a guy 4yr younger who was a complete ghoster due to emotions. So yeh. Bit of each in the mix there. 

 

 

Each to their own i say. But i wont date under 25. I lile being older some times though, but not by too much

[Deleted Member]

RL observation leads me to say 10 yrs younger to older than me is best range for compatibility if I wanted the partnership to extend beyond kink. 15 years older is where it hurts when partners age and can no longer do shared interests, especially if one or both are unwilling to grow or modify.

As a BBW, it's been younger partners that have cheated or just checked the box to bang a fat chick, so I'm leary. I realize that's an unfair bias so I work on it. I would definitely take longer getting to know a significantly younger play partner to protect us both.

[CopperKnob]

I'm not fussed about age, unless it's a significant gap, as long as there's emotional maturity and common interests else what are you gonna chat about?
What does get on my nerves is younger guys specifically wanting an older woman. There's a huge difference between being kinky and being a kink.
I'd also have something to say if someone called me a cougar, Milf and whatever TF a Gilf is.
Also, this same question was asked not so long ago

[ey****]

44 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

whatever TF a Gilf is.

The G is 'Gran' or 'Grandma' 

[ey****]

I saw this and obviously held off - but a couple of bits.

No one outside of porn describes themselves as MILF or GILF - and - even in porn, people do this for traffic and not because they actually like it.   (especially as many of the ladies get pushed into the categories and are actually mothers - and can start to get pushed into the categories from late 20s as a way to tell them they no longer pass as '***' - it's one of the gross sides of porn)

I think it's important not to use that kinda language for two reasons - one is the above - and the other is that it comes across very fetishising or objectification which a lot of people find a turn off.   

I know a few years ago there was a guy on the forum (he didn't last long) who basically said he would message women who were older and/or "overweight" feeling that they had fewer options and that they should be flattered a young man like himself was interested.  This obviously went down as well as you'd expect.  But while he was explicit in how gross he was with his negging - there are others, who, sometimes come across that way. 

[CopperKnob]

30 minutes ago, eyemblacksheep said:

The G is 'Gran' or 'Grandma' 

WTF??? i was going for girl, not that i'd have been impressed by that but Grandma???

[ey****]

40 minutes ago, CopperKnob said:

WTF??? i was going for girl, not that i'd have been impressed by that but Grandma???

yep - I'm not sure what age this comes under, but, yep.  

[Dustykat]

The guy has to be around my age or older and if it’s a girl can be 10 years younger and I don’t mind the grandma’s either.              Ps I’m a grandma 🧚🏻‍♀️

[SE****]

I'm looking for an actual LTR so younger guys typically arent looking for the same type of commitment as I want