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Birthday fantasy


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**disclaimer - I wrote this 2 years ago but Covid prevented it. Other than my upcoming birthday being a “significant one” the rest remains true **


I have a birthday coming up, a “significant one” (although I’m sure that’s actually just a commercialised way to make us celebrate/commiserate more and subsequently spend more - anyway I digress).

People keep asking what I’m doing, how I’m celebrating and honestly I’m not. I have no plans it feels weird to organise your own party as an adult and expect people to come and celebrate you.

But what I’d love more than anything as I enter this new decade is to feel sexually liberated. To experience the things I think I want to, to learn, to grow, to explore, to play, to FEEL and be free.

I jokingly mentioned I’d have a dungeon party (not that I’d have any clue about something like that at all). But I think it would be so much fun.

To have someone “show me the ropes” as it were, to watch others and understand more about this lifestyle I’m so fascinated with but yet to explore, to experiment, to meet new people and make new friends.

That’s my fantasy these days. To be free, safe, and able to explore with someone who knows what they’re doing and can guide and teach me.


Maybe try searching for a fetish meetup group in your area and go along? Or a fetish club nearest to where you live and go down? Sometimes i have done things on my own for my birthday - one year it was really nice weather in April so I drove all the way to the beach and lay there in the Sun and tried to become more comfortable with myself as a gay man. I look back on that as much better than some/most of my other birthdays.

Also love the show me the ropes pun lol
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