Deleted Member Posted December 20, 2018 Posted December 20, 2018 Hey guys! So recently, I have become curious as to how people have discovered the diverse bdsm community. Did you stumble across it by mistake? Did a friend or partner introduce you? I don't know! That's why I am asking. Just curious as to how you found these things. Comment below and let me know. Thanks!
Deleted Member Posted December 21, 2018 Author Posted December 21, 2018 For me it was just a case of searching for somewhere online to chat about this sort of stuff. I don’t actually have any friends(that I know of!) that are into the bdsm scene but it was always something that interested me :)
Deleted Member Posted December 21, 2018 Author Posted December 21, 2018 I was introduced by my first husband who kept it a secret for many years before telling me, we tried for a year but his kink was very selfish and unfortunately/ fortunately the marriage ended 🔥
ey**** Posted December 21, 2018 Posted December 21, 2018 this seems very similar to another thread - but if the question is discovering BDSM community... OK... phase 1... Me text friend : are you out at the gig on Thursday? Her : yes, but I won't be staying as we're going to Tension Me : What's Tension? Her : A fetish club Me : Can I come? Her : Sure... -- Simple and to the point. I did go for a few months but then stopped with an intention on going back and... err... didn't... It was kinda always inevitable I'd start to go to Liber8 - I'm very active on the local Goth scene and so had a few friends from overlap - and that basically a friend I had who was very much into the kink scene asked me if I'd attend with her and I had no hesitations.  After that I then started attending munches and other events - and it pretty much snowballed from there.
Mi**** Posted December 21, 2018 Posted December 21, 2018 I met a guy on line and when we met in person he produced a hairbrush and asked me to spank him with it. I thought omg what have I done!! All my friends were right about guys online. Fortunately for me curiosity got the better of me so I gave it a go, it didn't take long for my inner domme to take over
TxxxTom Posted December 22, 2018 Posted December 22, 2018 I got into this through my Ex girlfriend, we had been friends for a long time and one night at a house party she asked if want to sleep with her (she was a bit more graphic with what she wanted) and I said yes. Things went from here but it soon ended and now I'm here...
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