Which Green Flags Do You Look For?

[Kirri]

How they react to an objection. Or if you disagree with them. How someone reacts tells you so much about them.

[DC****]

ummmmm hi hello. This was very helpful I am new to all of this kinda and I never really have know the green and red flags of things so thank you very much.

[To****]

This is an excellent idea, know before you go. My biggest *** is that I will say the wrong thing to upset a date. Zof course it's not healthy to break your boundaries to accommodate others but it seems in our world sometimes sacrifice means a lot to someone. We should all be on guard for those that don't take us seriously or simply are rude or mean, As a CD SUB and a SWITCHER, I find that being accommodating and nurturing to one needs and desires out of the bedroom as they are in the bedroom. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until proven wrong, be understanding, 🎧 AND EXPRESSING EMOTIONS are all a part 9f any relationship, be they ONS OR LTR we should always look out for the types that rub us the wrong way, usually a gut feeling is the correct feeling yet try not to project what you believe a person should be like because that just leads to trouble. Remember, none of us is perfect for anyone, we are all flawed, we all make mistakes, we all favor that ideal person that's in our head but never a reality. But at the same time it's okay to not let anyone cross over your boundaries as long as you provide the same respect. Always be ready and willing without judgement to hear and tell the truth. REMEMBER, WE ARE ALL ONLY HUMAN AND WE ARE ALL FALLIBLE! GOOD LUCK ON YOUR JOURNEY AND STAY SAFE, HAVE A SAFE WORD AND NEVER DO WHATS BEYOND YOUR COMFORT LEVEL, PEACE

[ph****]

A woman that takes control

[Du****]

She laughs at my jokes. I know it's simple, but it means everything to me.

[ho****]

Listens, supportive

[Deleted Member]

Open and clear communication. Understanding boundaries and a willingness to express those and needs.

[Deleted Member]

Ability to reason, kindness, especially towards ***s and those less fortunate.

[St****]

Being willing to at least start a conversation not ignore the first message

[Do****]

True

[ki****]

Maturity , respect , emotional intelligence , logic ,

[LadyV]

Pretty basic green flag:
The ability to hold a basic, vanilla, enjoyable conversation. Just a regular damn chat.

It's incredible how few people can do that.

[ho****]

She likes to use toys and is open-minded. She listens and doesn't think less for me sharing my worries or insecurities. She let's me be myself and still cares for me. I am safe to explore being queer and other identity preferences with her.

[Deleted Member]

Green flags? Honesty and open communication. Everything else is secondary.

[ho****]

Open communication is top

[Master_Vesuvius]

Openness, communication, emotional maturity on at least some level

[Mo****]

To anticipate my needs and to make me obey

[Jp****]

:)I don't consider myself red flags or green flags cause I'm just me like your you he is he him him she she she he what ever , love me and I'm love you period

[Ha****]

When a Dom actually takes the time to get to know you and works on building trust and respect so we could feed off each others emotional, physical, and mental support planes. Sex is always secondary to mental consciousness. I need a Dom who can take their time and mold me . I’m a demisexual so that explains it all. Also green flag for this site is ppl reading profiles and not just randomly messaging people just to meet their sexual needs. It just screams lack of fulfillment in life and self

[Un****]

When things arent based solely on ✨sex✨its a massive turn off from many men here 👀

[Uv****]

Openess, communication and willingness to build a rapport, sex and shared kinks are important but building a relationship is fundamental

[hy****]

respectful open minds, curious hearts and an appreciation for the art of give and take

[Ca****]

Communication is the biggest green flag for me . Understanding that no, in ANY language means no is another.. being a nerd, and kind to everyone, human and ***

[Deleted Member]

Their own passions that are separate from me.

Control over their emotions.

Fairness.

Kindness.

Understanding of how to be a good and active bottom.

[vi****]

No matter what kind of Relationship you might have ... Communication is a must without it you will Fail