Popular Post Go**** Posted January 7 Popular Post Posted January 7 We tend to see lots of writings on the various and many kinds of red flags to keep a look out for; fantastic, helpful, informative writings. Writings I believe should always be shared. But what I also think we need to see shared around, (well, some of us anyway) is the green flags we should also be on the look out for. I've listed a few below. Feel free to add your own in the comments ☺️ ✅️ Do they approach you politely and respectfully? Treat you like the...shock horror...human being that you are? ✅️ They demonstrate that your safety is important to them ✅️ Do they tell you that they're happy to answer whatever questions you might have, however many they might be? ✅️ Do they express, and more importantly, demonstrate that they wish to respect your boundaries? ✅️ Remains calm during conversation/doesn't raise their voice at you, regardless of the topic/circumstance ✅️ Accepts responsibility and apologises, in the event that you express something they've done or said has upset you ✅️ They value truth and honesty, and can communicate their own, effectively ✅️ You feel safe, comfortable and respected around them, particularly when expressing your feelings Obviously there are plenty more, but these are some things that I try to remember to routinely look for within any interaction, regardless of whether the person is friend, play partner or more. And not forgetting, we need to ensure we are accountable for ensuring and maintaining our own green flags, too.