MY BIGGEST FEAR REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

[br****]

It's time to open your heart! 💜

Complete the sentence: My biggest fear regarding my fetishes is...

[Ed****]

I would say rejection from a long-term partner that I'm in love with.

[Deleted Member]

Trusting people with myself and my body.

[Deleted Member]

Trusting everything to someone else that they will be there. And that they will make me feel like I’m important just like they would be to me.. and pain more then i can handle

[ti****]

How it is perceived in vanilla life

[ch****]

if it is even exciting enough, and acceptable

[Dom_Kev]

My biggest fear regarding My fetishes is… finding that special someone, and then making a mess of it because I don’t have the experience to keep them happy, and not realising that is happening until it is too late

[16****]

Unconsentually hurting my partner mentally, emotionally or physically. I never want to violate consent

[ca****]

My vanilla friends will not understand and will have misconceptions

[do****]

never finding my equal and being fully satisfied, unbored and it's reciprocated.

[Fl****]

Mine would have to be, never being accepted due to my kinks. I feel like every female wants a Dom these days and it's so difficult to find someone genuine and not just someone after money. I'm only speaking from personal experience but it's tough out there and I feel I'm doing all I can my end to put myself out there, but with little to no success.

[Iamthedriver20]

Feeling like a weirdo all my life lol

[Co****]

Its that will I find the ' One' , that matches, and will he treasure me for the Gift that I am?
Give as much as I do.....
And not be a User......

[Sw****]

…. Never finding that Special One and settling for less than I deserve 💜

[Dark_Norse_Heart666]

Not being fully accepted, respected, taken seriously or understood as a woman/as a person or as a sub. The dynamic isn't equal, mutual, respectful so it involves what you both want/need from the dynamic and isn't just about sex.
Some of the specific kinks/fetishes I am into maybe triggering to some men if they self-harm or have issues related to that.
Due to not being experienced in-person with BDSM it's difficult to find like-minded, experienced men that would be understanding.
Being sexually repressed, shy about sex or shy about being into BDSM puts men off me, even if I was single.

[Cypresswillys]

Finding I have a curiosity of an activity and never have the courage to go through with it.
Or trying something and liking it a lot and never have a partner to do it again.

[AnxiolyticPlease]

I'm a big, intelligent, confident, outspoken, and highly independent person... outside of a relationship or dynamic. I'm a submissive bottom. I fear that it'll be hard for me to ever find that sort of relationship, because i present so differently to the world than i would to my Dom/Master/Mistress.

[Lilithpie66]

I just don't think I have a body suited to the kinks and fets I love. I can't look in the mirror when I'm all tied up .so I just never fully dive on in .
Double stander though everyone else is beautiful ❤️.

[ba****]

Not being listened to

[Do****]

The men who think they're dominants but are actually self-glorified abusers.

[YorkshireBiker]

Having the courage to actually admit to it, both to myself and my partner.

[Fo****]

Never being able to find someone who matches up with what I need. I've settled before and that hasn't worked out well for me.

[Debris]

Being rejected because of how I look

[x2****]

Catching glimpse of myself in a mirror whislt enjoying a scene and thinking who the fuck that old perv. ? ...... oh balls its me 🤪

[Ja****]

That people are needlessly made aware of them for no reason. The person I am behind closed doors is far different than the one the world sees and I would struggle with other people not understanding how drastic the difference is.