Why are so many people against watersports an pee?

[Deleted Member]

So just a but of a trend iv noticed resently it seems like more an more people just have watersports an pee as a complete no go, I'm all good with everyone making their own choices but it just seems the amount overall is less now than a few years ago anyone else feel the same way?

[ge****]

I don't think it's any more or less than it's always been - like most activities there will be those that enjoy it and those for whom it's considered taboo and a limit
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No point worrying about those that don't enjoy it really

[Deleted Member]

I ❤️ pee!

[wo****]

I find it harder to find anyone who likes the same limit of pee play. Say I'm mostly into watching or the feel of it but drinking ? No. More of a soft side for me but I feel like if anyone see or hears ws or pee they probably think the hardcore stuff.

[20****]

I think even on a kink dating site people are afraid to share their pee fetish if they have one. There’s a stigma about mainstream kinks, lie BDSM, feet, anal, etc. having a peeing fetish in general is considered one of the “weirder” fetishes to have and one of the more that is looked down upon.

In my experience, finding a girl willing to piss on me has been more difficult than ever when that’s what I expect, or are my intentions.

This is for the guys. One thing I’ve noticed in heterosexual relationships with women, is that even if they don’t like your kink personally, if they love you enough, they’d be willing to do it for you anyway, because they love you and want to please you. Fellas.. hugging, kissing, dating, sex, and bonding come first before kinks are accepted in a relationship. It makes more sense that way. When the intention is to build a solid connection with a woman with mutual affection and decency, the participation in kink activities will come once the trust and bond are established.

At that point, the participation in the kink will not feel ***d, transactional, or shameful for either partner. Even for people that pee as their limit. Sometimes all it takes is to form a real connection first before you straight shoot for kink activivites

[Kermitsbiatch]

I was very no go with pee (receiving) however my fwb asked me and I like to please him. I actually really enjoyed it. It's very warming on my body and very horny 

[20****]

That’s what I mean. Honestly (for people they love and want to please) sometimes the limits go out the door for that kind of person. That kind of person you can feel safe with and enjoy being *** and naughty around. Men and women should find those qualities in one another first before we talk about limits, and maybe the world would be a better place if we all just pissed on eachother once😅

[Oh****]

Why is watersports such a guy thing? Go anywhere that involves watersports and dating. There will be a million guys and maybe 3 women.

[ey****]

it's the old issue, really

women being open about enjoying watersports = an inbox full of "piss on me please"

and they're not looking for someone just to piss on - they want someone who sees them as a partner first

[Oh****]

I've read some pretty rank headlines on posts made by women describing how they want to play watersports. Not everyone bothers with the partnership connection. 

 

 

[ey****]

8 hours ago, OhioSkinnyandyoung said:

I've read some pretty rank headlines on posts made by women describing how they want to play watersports. Not everyone bothers with the partnership connection. 

 

 

they don't - that's true - I probably should have included a word like "generally" and "typically" - but it still remains the issue.  

and of course a woman who is "you know what, happy to meet up with anyone for watersports" are both rare and high demand - but there are far more women into, or open to the idea of, watersports than those.

[MyNameDoesntFi]

Personally they're two hard limits of mine, however while talking limits in a DM yesterday I came upon an interesing question. Those who're into scat. At what point in your play are you doing it, assuming you're not doing scat alone?

Are you opening with it? At which point I guess hygene comes to mind. At the end? Do you finish up and then go "oh one last thing before we finish" and then squat over your partner?!  I guess to a lesser extent this can apply to watersports too

[20****]

I can’t relate to scat because that is not my kink. (Opinion, maybe fact) but piss and shit are two different things. One smells wayyyy worse, the other is a warm fluid (mostly water) that can easily be washed off. Especially if the pee is clear, it’s pretty much 99% water. Sometimes seeing fluids coming from beautiful genitals of your preference can be a massive turn on. This is where these kinks come from.

In relationships, and situationships, most of the time this kink is participated during sex, or when drunk and horny. In this case, she would piss on me in the tub and enjoy eachother while doing so.. then shower and clean up right after. It never really affected our hygiene.

[ey****]

12 hours ago, MyNameDoesntFi said:

Are you opening with it? At which point I guess hygene comes to mind. At the end? Do you finish up and then go "oh one last thing before we finish" and then squat over your partner?!  I guess to a lesser extent this can apply to watersports too

So - as above - scat and watersports are two very different things

But, for the most part - watersports is part of the end game for me.  I have done it mid or early in play but for assorted reasons it does often cause a break for a shower. 

[dook]

Love being peed on and drinking a women's urine, especially yellow. I love the smell. I like giving a golden shower then embracing. Once, My wife was peeing on the toilet and I peed on her pussy then ate her right there on the toilet.

[Oh****]

It's a shame all the posts in reddit forum for pee stuff are all male posting. Or if female they are scammers.

 

They must be making bank. I like to pretend to be into it with scammers for fun they talk amazing game. They're good. One just gave me a btc wallet to send btc for "contraceptive" with 30 btc in it. That's over a million

[ey****]

8 hours ago, OhioSkinnyandyoung said:

It's a shame all the posts in reddit forum for pee stuff are all male posting. Or if female they are scammers.

 

They must be making bank. I like to pretend to be into it with scammers for fun they talk amazing game. They're good. One just gave me a btc wallet to send btc for "contraceptive" with 30 btc in it. That's over a million

Some of this has been an issue for years - and - there's a lot I don't see getting much better

on another website, a lady posted a fantasy she had that was watersports related.  Basically, the concept of having someone on speed dial who'd rush over whenever she needed to pee.  After posting multiple disclaimers on the thread, that this was her fantasy - she didn't need people on the thread - or in her inbox - doing everything from "pick me", "wish we were closer", "why aren't there more women like you" etc. or simply want to talk this fantasy with her, to jerk off, she eventually had the thread deleted

and this is somewhat of a problem that makes it sometimes difficult for women to talk openly about fantasies without someone wishing to inject themselves into it. 

and obviously scammers are scammers, but then also a lot of people who are a bit "you know what, yes... I AM happy to talk to you about how you wish I was closer, or about your fetish, either a space for you to be open, or we can talk together and you can jack off... but... in exchange I want paid" and a lot of guys don't like this, but a lot of guys also will pay this

I wouldn't say it's necessarily big ***, and it's every chance the bitcoin wallet you saw was either a fake or an exception. There's a lot of lying goes on about how much people make to make it sound more successful

[Oh****]

I also learned you don't pay for hookups...you just pay for the "naughty material" like hey let's hookup buuuuut here pre game witt some pics of me send me PayPal. 

Ha scammers prostitutes or someone needing gas *** or *** for plan B first or something stupid.

 

Takes being left "high and dry" to a whole literal meaning 

[ey****]

the US in particular created a bit of a mess - there were lots of smart people warned about the unintended consequences of SESTA/FOSTA and it now being more difficult to openly advertise meets in a somewhat monitored environment has helped pave way for the situation where it's a lottery on who is going to meet or not

it'd certainly be a different landscape if the bill was repealed because you could then literally have a listing directory of people you know offer meets and sessions

mind

someone wanting paid, or to pay, by paypal always means one of two things (1) it's a scam (2) they have no idea what they're doing

so that should always be a flag

[Oh****]

I never send anyone *** on the internet. It's really unfortunate how smart scammers are now. I think a lot of scammers have studied how to talk dirty or use chat gpt to communicate. I'll post screenshot examples of how insanely good they are at flirting and how fast they flip into scam mode for btc when you give in to sending cash...

 

They'll lead ya on for days making u think it's legit for how well they communicate just to pull the scam eventually. I fell for it and got hopes for one person recently for 2 days before I caught on to how the scams go now days so I pretended to give in on $10 for buying something before we meet to test if they're scammers and immediately flipped the script to scam mode.

Their btc wallet they gave to send to was holding almost a million in USD. I don't think they'd con me with a wallet they'd not be able to cash out from. So it has to be good scam business for them to get $10 here and there and $50 for the pill which is what they nw demand to get before you meet.

 

Another scammer pretends to sell her porn before meeting which is probably legit stuff just to bait you with before demanding more *** for things when they know you're a sucker.

 

As I'm really not I to a lot of BDSM kinks most women are here or the fact they won't list watersports as interests or fetishes sucks for me. I only find the same 4 women profiles when I search for watersports. So I just hope fixing my account with the 18+ verification and adding other fetishes and interests of mine as active will help people find me.

Women should be allowed to add pee play or watersports to their profiles just hidden from public view to avoid spam from every dude or nonsense scammers and have that let profiles like mine find them in search

[pa****]

I’m not!

[Dave1460]

I love it!!!

[Largos]

Adore it

[Fe****]

I'm not I love it can't wait for next piss party

[Largos]

I am just waiting for the next lady or trans to make me all wet and messy