Robbiesub Posted May 14 Speaking as an older submissive. I find virtually impossible to find a Mistress of any kind
MistressWhipplash Posted May 14 2 hours ago, Robbiesub said: Speaking as an older submissive. I find virtually impossible to find a Mistress of any kind It depends what you are seeking her for. Most guys who only want a kink service should seek a pay-to-play ProDomme.
MistressWhipplash Posted May 14 11 minutes ago, Robbiesub said: Not my thing. I like to have some kind of attachment. Other than cash Go along and socialise where kinksters are. Dominant Women rarely hang on these sites they go to drinks at a pub or a meal at a munch, an alternative markets or fetish club. Make an effort and get offline is my advice.
Robbiesub Posted May 14 Been to several of the local munches. Plenty of Dommes there all of witch bring there subs with them. Have spoken with a lot of them. Very few are looking for submissives of my age. Thank you for taking the time to advise of my options. You are very kind ❤.
ey**** Posted May 14 6 hours ago, Robbiesub said: Been to several of the local munches. Plenty of Dommes there all of witch bring there subs with them. Have spoken with a lot of them. Very few are looking for submissives of my age. Thank you for taking the time to advise of my options. You are very kind ❤. Couple of bits. Some of this is stuff I'm not saying is the case - but... an issue I see a lot of guys in general fall into is they start going to munches and events expecting a relationship/play/etc and then get disappointed when it doesn't happen - it is a slow burn but partaking is a good first step an issue I've often seen older guys run into is they particularly, for one reason or another, start chasing younger women. the reasons aren't necessarily nofarious. But age gap relationships can be difficult and can have somewhat power imbalances and, ultimately the Domme still has to see how having you as a sub would, overall, benefit her life. A sad story from a few years ago is there was a guy quite active locally, and getting a lot of play without necessarily relationships - and he DID meet someone around his own age. I think he was mid/late 60s at the time and she was 50s so not a huge age gap. But it fell apart a little cos he used as somewhat of a stopgap while still chasing younger women. So showing longetivity and long term commitment is very valuable. But also takes a lot of time to show.
ge**** Posted May 15 13 hours ago, Robbiesub said: Been to several of the local munches. Plenty of Dommes there all of witch bring there subs with them. Have spoken with a lot of them. Very few are looking for submissives of my age. Thank you for taking the time to advise of my options. You are very kind ❤. But you see that's where you've gone wrong - you've gone along in the hope of meeting a play partner rather than to network - the Dommes that attend may well have their own subs with them, but they may know of others, or might invite you along to events/parties if you take the time to get to know them, not as a potential submissive to them but as a friend. . You have to become a regular at Munches and take time to get to know people as people not targets and that then leads to more. . It did for me, and I'm not far off your age.
Robbiesub Posted May 15 Thank you all for your input. Mostly from other submissives and one Domme. I would like to have had the opinions of Dommes.
ge**** Posted May 15 1 hour ago, Robbiesub said: Thank you all for your input. Mostly from other submissives and one Domme. I would like to have had the opinions of Dommes. Surely the advice of other submissives is just as valuable though? We after all are the ones who've approached the problem from the same perspective as you.
MistressWhipplash Posted May 15 6 hours ago, Robbiesub said: Thank you all for your input. Mostly from other submissives and one Domme. I would like to have had the opinions of Dommes. Most Dominant Women don't respond here as guys take that as an opportunity to message which isn't cool.
ge**** Posted May 15 3 hours ago, Robbiesub said: Wasn't knocking submissive input. You weren't no, not directly - but the last line suggesting you'd have liked to have had the opinions of Dommes suggests either you don't value the input of fellow subs as much, or that actually you're fishing for Dommes as @MistressWhiplash indicated some do
MistressWhipplash Posted Tuesday at 01:09 PM Saturday at 01:36 AM, SerbianSubBi said: Ive only been to 2 munches in my life... where are Sarnia ones? I can't even advise you where to look, as this web site Mods don't allow the mention of other sites.
Se**** Posted Wednesday at 07:01 PM Well Mistress ... we can outsmart the A. I. Factor I. E. I love value village , Lun-don , great spot for cheap clothing 😃 😊
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