Hi, Im Katie, I’m 26, this is going to be a lot so strap in!
I’m not exactly new to BDSM, (but not very experienced in practice) I knew i was a sub for a long time, did a lot of research, but was kind of scared about it, and it just made me miserable, as well as scared.
Recently I made a discussion, I may not be able to change who I am, or what I’m into, but I can decide to still love myself, and I can still choose who i submit to, when and how ect.
So i'm trying it back on here, meet new people, hopefully make some friends and have some positive experiences that make being a being a sub less terrifying, and hopefully become more comfortable in that indentity.
Besides kink stuff, I love Doctor Who (big nerd!), and Percy Jackson. Ihave recently finished a Health Psychology Masters degree. I also knit. Very happy to talk about any of it.
Do feel free to message, I want to meet new people, but please get to know me first before hitting on me! I have brain and heart as well ❤️🩹
If you don’t know where to start, fun facts or questions about my hobbies are always appreciated, bonus points if it’s a fact i don’t know!
Because I keep getting these questions, here are some answers;
Things I think I like/am looking for; aftercare, cuddles, subspace, 24/7 dynamic, affectionate dominance, begging, blindfolds, caging, cock warming, collars, control, cuddling, bedtime, kitten play, handcuff, sensual play, senual dominanation, spanking.
(see limits tab for limits)
I’m not into ***, or someone who’s just looking for rough sex. someone who understands the difference between discussions/negotiations and dirty talk (I don’t mind dirty talk, but after negotiations and please be clear on intentions).
I just want someone to help me with decisions, tell me I’m a good girl, helps me feel safe and cared for. and above all, listens to me and cares about my safety above their pleasure.
Also very open to just chat as friends 💞
if you have read this far, thank you, I really really appreciate it!!! 🥰🥰🥰
in your first/next message please put the word ‘Skiffle’ (love a bit of whimsy 😂) so I know you’ve read this far, and will do my best to respond as quickly as possible!!
(messages without the Skiffle will be ignored)