Although I am considered an intellectual, I have a great deal of common sense, and I am in tune with body language (obviously that does not mean I exclude any communication, care, understanding, and instinct). I am approachable, and understanding!!! I believe in SSC and RACK!!! I have been involved in BDSM for many years. I have experienced being a Bottom to ensure what I already knew… that I am a Top/ Dom. Alongside this I gained insight into the Bottom aspect in order to understand this side of the same coin. I believe these experiences evolved me into being a better Top/ Dom!!! Although as a Top/ Dom or a Bottom/ sub, I have found that you never stop learning, that everyone is different and unique to their personal preferences, wants, desires, fantasies, kinks, limits, and fetishes!!! I believe either the App is not filtering properly or some have accidentally missed where my profile states that I’m into women… yes I am a lesbian!!! I don’t mind if you’re a guy and you want to chat about the BDSM community or potentially make a friend, but I am not sexually interested in men!!!

I give dom vibes because I’m confident and outgoing. But Im looking for someone whose presence makes me submit. A man that knows his role. bdsm, cnc, open to try anything that interests you… especially if I’m bound, blindfolded and gagged.

If you have no picture, move along. I'm a hard working girlie who needs more time alone than I do social, but I do want dates and romance before all the kinky stuff because I struggle with trust, want to be "wined and dined" as they say, even though I don't drink. I want to have gentle conversations with people who want to get to know me for me not just my body. I want a real connection with people who will actively listen and support me, will have the patience of a saint and is willing to spend time on me, not here for a quick and immediate play date, I need time to know who you are and build a rapport with you, I've been through so much sh*t and I don't want it anymore, I need to take my time and choose a partner wisely. I do enjoy a lot of what this app is all about but I will only share that with someone I trust. Do Not tell me "You can trust me" because it isn't up to you, it's up to me to trust you when I'M ready not when you say so. I'm incredibly independent and will tell you exactly what's what, especially over messages, I can be very blunt when I want to be. Sometimes I won't reply for a while but I do come back on here to check my messages.

mainly submissive but will switch if I feel comfortable. not looking for one night stands but a connection so that we can feel at home exploring and pushing limits whilst not breaking boundaries

im looking for the whole power exchange establish trust, communication, commitment, exploring my sexuality. looking more for a Dom/Submissive dynamic to learn from, to listen too, to trust, have a connection and explore together.

Although I am considered an intellectual, I have a great deal of common sense, and I am in tune with body language (obviously that does not mean I exclude any communication, care, understanding, and instinct). I am approachable, and understanding!!! I believe in SSC and RACK!!! I have been involved in BDSM for many years. I have experienced being a Bottom to ensure what I already knew… that I am a Top/ Dom. Alongside this I gained insight into the Bottom aspect in order to understand this side of the same coin. I believe these experiences evolved me into being a better Top/ Dom!!! Although as a Top/ Dom or a Bottom/ sub, I have found that you never stop learning, that everyone is different and unique to their personal preferences, wants, desires, fantasies, kinks, limits, and fetishes!!! I believe either the App is not filtering properly or some have accidentally missed where my profile states that I’m into women… yes I am a lesbian!!! I don’t mind if you’re a guy and you want to chat about the BDSM community or potentially make a friend, but I am not sexually interested in men!!!

I give dom vibes because I’m confident and outgoing. But Im looking for someone whose presence makes me submit. A man that knows his role. bdsm, cnc, open to try anything that interests you… especially if I’m bound, blindfolded and gagged.

mainly submissive but will switch if I feel comfortable. not looking for one night stands but a connection so that we can feel at home exploring and pushing limits whilst not breaking boundaries

im looking for the whole power exchange establish trust, communication, commitment, exploring my sexuality. looking more for a Dom/Submissive dynamic to learn from, to listen too, to trust, have a connection and explore together.

If you have no picture, move along. I'm a hard working girlie who needs more time alone than I do social, but I do want dates and romance before all the kinky stuff because I struggle with trust, want to be "wined and dined" as they say, even though I don't drink. I want to have gentle conversations with people who want to get to know me for me not just my body. I want a real connection with people who will actively listen and support me, will have the patience of a saint and is willing to spend time on me, not here for a quick and immediate play date, I need time to know who you are and build a rapport with you, I've been through so much sh*t and I don't want it anymore, I need to take my time and choose a partner wisely. I do enjoy a lot of what this app is all about but I will only share that with someone I trust. Do Not tell me "You can trust me" because it isn't up to you, it's up to me to trust you when I'M ready not when you say so. I'm incredibly independent and will tell you exactly what's what, especially over messages, I can be very blunt when I want to be. Sometimes I won't reply for a while but I do come back on here to check my messages.