Find kinky women in Derbyshire

Here for connection and to see where it goes. Not one nights stands. I am not a Domme. I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well. I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few. When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
Coming out of a long term monogamous relationship I have really enjoyed exploring my sexuality over the last six months or so. I have found myself to be quite kinky and submissive although I will switch. I like the idea that I look innocent and vanilla when I am really quite dirty underneath. . I am looking to continue this exploration but want to find people living relatively close to me with whom I can possibly build longerterm friendships alongside the physical aspect. I have two *** so sometimes I may be able to chat online or meet to socialise generally but not to play or fuck. . I find the concept of solo and/or garden party polyamory appealing. The ethical part of ENM is important to me. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN CONNECTING WITH ANYONE WHOSE OTHER HALF IS NOT FULLY IN AGREEMENT WITH THE RELATIONSHIP BEING NON MONOGAMOUS. . I'm Bicurious and I would like to experience multiple partners, rope play and further explore BDSM as a submissive. I have been told I can take my punishment well. . I lack confidence in my body and self image but I'm becoming more self assured. I am 5'2", a size 18 and bra size 38E. . It would be great to continue having fun living my fantasies whilst making new friends and close companions.
Female (45) High Peak, Derbyshire
I hate writing these things, describing myself in a few paragraphs feels impossible. I'm married so not looking for anything more than FWB situation. I'm a complete geek, I read a lot and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch a soap opera. I have a good sense of humour, am witty and sarcastic and banter is important to me. If I can't have a laugh with you then it's pretty much guaranteed there will be no chemistry **Desires and Fantasies**
Female (44) Derby, Derbyshire
Part of a couple looking for a woman who needs a bit of adventure - you can be domme/sub/switch any works ;) And to prove you have read my profile mention Bacardi in your first message or I will ignore you. My profile isnt long, there isnt much to read, but if you cannot be bother to read it then you are telling me you dont put effort into things, so do not be surprised when i call you out.
Female (34) Bolsover, Derbyshire
I am 5,2 I got short brown hair and eyes I am bit silm I am looking for so fun and also i am sub
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
Female (53) Derby, Derbyshire
insta ~ *** interests ~ public sex, CNC, Somnophillia, throatfucking, edge play, denial, teasing, ***, hard rough sex, spitting, slapping, begging, crawling, degrading, ***
Female (22) Littleover, Derbyshire
goddess, art director, stylist, poetess, modern geisha, experimenter, ikebana mistress recently moved from berlin to derby (uk). meow. i am a wild cat - i purr and i bite
Female (39) Derby, Derbyshire
mainly submissive but will switch if I feel comfortable. not looking for one night stands but a connection so that we can feel at home exploring and pushing limits whilst not breaking boundaries
Female (42) Chesterfield, Derbyshire
books are 1 of 2 ways to my heart it’s your job to figure out the other. I will just talk for hours about random bullshit so be warned. looking for someone to be like all those fictional men
Female (20) High Peak, Derbyshire
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart. I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long. I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits. Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
I want smarts and kindness as well as the ability to pin me to a wall and take what you want 😅 I'm looking for maturity, I need focus and attention to detail. Confidence is also key because I have none 😅 Despite my kinks I expect respect. I'm very independent in almost every aspect of my life, but when it comes to this stuff I'm quite shy, so patience is key, no pressuring me into pictures or meeting up, the more you push the further I pull away.
Female (34) Chesterfield, Derbyshire
Read my profile before you message Owned by daddy but free to have fun 😇. NOT looking for another dom. Casual fun no feelimgs encounters only. Hotwife Sassy, fiesty and won’t hold back. If you can’t handle a fiery personality and a smart ass mouth I’m not the one you’re looking for. Romantically monogamous (no one will take Daddy’s place) but sexually promiscuous. You don’t get to dom me just because I’m submissive. I’m not new to scene and I take safety and vetting seriously. I have boundaries and limits and these will be respected at all times or play does not happen. Monoromantic but polysexual.
Female (32) Kings Newton, Derbyshire
I'm looking for someone to help guide and teach me. I'm relatively new to this and am still exploring my sub side. I'm more of a little (headspace) with a side of submissive. Help me push my limits and see how far we can go?
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
im looking for the whole power exchange establish trust, communication, commitment, exploring my sexuality. looking more for a Dom/Submissive dynamic to learn from, to listen too, to trust, have a connection and explore together.
Female (39) Chesterfield, Derbyshire
Would like to get along personally before doing anything physical. I know I would like someone kind and considerate but also confident and in control. I should mention I am a larger lady in height and weight. Also, I have Autism so I will be blunt at times. Kinks I love being praised when I do good, I like pleasing, I like being dominated, sometimes rough, sometimes soft depends on the mood, I love giving head, but I can't swallow, I like being risky in public and have a bit of a breeding kink (I'm not ready for kids tho)
Female (33) Langley Mill, Derbyshire
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention. I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more. If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦‍♀️ If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither. looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together! I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
new to all this so looking to meet people who are experienced and will guide me in this new, intimidating and curious world
Female (47) Derby, Derbyshire
hey 32 bi female Been awhile since I've done anything im very open to alot of things as long as discussed overall looking for somthing long time but down for some fun
Female (32) Erewash, Derbyshire
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊 * UPDATE* After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇 I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me. I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know! Example let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋 we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲 - Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner! - I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️ If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
if you identify as any of the following: TERF, ICE supporter, homophobe, transphobe, anti immigrants, pro-israel, Trump supporter, Tory or reform supporter, JK Rowling supporter, racist, mysogynist, and similar: PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM ME. Poly, in two relationships (nesting partners, I don't condone cheating). Ideally I'd like to find people to have a good relationship with, without it being a romantic one, but with a lot of communication, respect, and the interest in sharing intimacy, kink, desire. Not interested in a monogamous relationship or a situation where you chat only to wank or to meet for hookups, without any conversation whatsoever in between. Need to chat and get to know someone a bit before meeting. I don't do phone or video calls.
Female (36) Alfreton, Derbyshire
I am in an open relationship I'm looking for friends, FWBs, and anyone to have fun with! Im open-minded and easy to get along with. Im very much a sub and love *** 😈 I want new other worldly experiences 😏
Female (33) Derby, Derbyshire
Hi there I’m not sure what to put here lol, best off messaging me looking to expand my bdsm experience, potentially with a long term dom? if not, I’m open to the occasional play session both online and in person
Female (18) Derby, Derbyshire
Please nobody older than 26. Just a sub with ADHD, looking for a partner who can be a long term guiding light. No ONS or FWB, my attachment issues can’t deal with that ✨ Must haves: Excellent communication, understanding when it comes to my emotions, a cuddler, is ok to listen to me ramble, treats me like a princess. Looking for a dom who’s a care giver and a brat tamer, who’s in it for the long run. Someone who understands that a dynamic isn’t just in the bedroom ✨ • I like to play fight- I’m a huge WWE nerd •I am 5 foot 3 ish, so it’s a bonus if you’re taller • I like pushing buttons
Female (20) Derby, Derbyshire

New members in Derbyshire

Here for connection and to see where it goes. Not one nights stands. I am not a Domme. I’m not looking for long distance connections and I am looking to form real life connections with fun and respectful people not just be pen pals I’d like to connect with others who are also experienced and are emotionally intelligent and very capable of communicating well. I am a Rope slut. I've been tying and being tied 10 years. I enjoy being restrained, orgasm control, servitude, being given princess treatment, impact play - I enjoy many other things but these are a few. When you find the right person that you want to submit to, and you find the one that you want to sacrifice for - you don't feel it, like it's not an emotion. You just are it. It's a need, it's a constant and it's like it feels part of you and it completes you.
Female (34) Derby, Derbyshire
I have a lovely partner and mentor, with whom I am exclusive sexually. I am exploring impact play on a strictly non-sexual basis. I'm also keen to learn rope work and shibari. I'm hoping to make friends in the kink scene, and perhaps play, non-sexually, at events. I love writing erotica, and publish my stories on Fetlife under the profile name of PurpleCrocus.
Female (53) Derby, Derbyshire
Coming out of a long term monogamous relationship I have really enjoyed exploring my sexuality over the last six months or so. I have found myself to be quite kinky and submissive although I will switch. I like the idea that I look innocent and vanilla when I am really quite dirty underneath. . I am looking to continue this exploration but want to find people living relatively close to me with whom I can possibly build longerterm friendships alongside the physical aspect. I have two *** so sometimes I may be able to chat online or meet to socialise generally but not to play or fuck. . I find the concept of solo and/or garden party polyamory appealing. The ethical part of ENM is important to me. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN CONNECTING WITH ANYONE WHOSE OTHER HALF IS NOT FULLY IN AGREEMENT WITH THE RELATIONSHIP BEING NON MONOGAMOUS. . I'm Bicurious and I would like to experience multiple partners, rope play and further explore BDSM as a submissive. I have been told I can take my punishment well. . I lack confidence in my body and self image but I'm becoming more self assured. I am 5'2", a size 18 and bra size 38E. . It would be great to continue having fun living my fantasies whilst making new friends and close companions.
Female (45) High Peak, Derbyshire
I am 5,2 I got short brown hair and eyes I am bit silm I am looking for so fun and also i am sub
Female (40) Derby, Derbyshire
I hate writing these things, describing myself in a few paragraphs feels impossible. I'm married so not looking for anything more than FWB situation. I'm a complete geek, I read a lot and would rather gouge my eyes out than watch a soap opera. I have a good sense of humour, am witty and sarcastic and banter is important to me. If I can't have a laugh with you then it's pretty much guaranteed there will be no chemistry **Desires and Fantasies**
Female (44) Derby, Derbyshire
Part of a couple looking for a woman who needs a bit of adventure - you can be domme/sub/switch any works ;) And to prove you have read my profile mention Bacardi in your first message or I will ignore you. My profile isnt long, there isnt much to read, but if you cannot be bother to read it then you are telling me you dont put effort into things, so do not be surprised when i call you out.
Female (34) Bolsover, Derbyshire
Soft domme energy with a switch’s heart. I lead with a slow smile and steady hands, but I melt just as beautifully when the right person takes control. I crave connection as much as control — tension, teasing, eye contact that lingers a second too long. I adore power play in all its forms: the quiet dominance, the playful brat-taming, the gentle praise, the firm grip at the small of your back. I’m equal parts velvet and steel — nurturing but commanding, sweet but deliciously wicked when the mood hits. Gender? Vibes matter more. I love confidence, curiosity, and people who aren’t afraid to explore the edges of themselves with me.
Female (37) Derby, Derbyshire
Please nobody older than 26. Just a sub with ADHD, looking for a partner who can be a long term guiding light. No ONS or FWB, my attachment issues can’t deal with that ✨ Must haves: Excellent communication, understanding when it comes to my emotions, a cuddler, is ok to listen to me ramble, treats me like a princess. Looking for a dom who’s a care giver and a brat tamer, who’s in it for the long run. Someone who understands that a dynamic isn’t just in the bedroom ✨ • I like to play fight- I’m a huge WWE nerd •I am 5 foot 3 ish, so it’s a bonus if you’re taller • I like pushing buttons
Female (20) Derby, Derbyshire
mainly submissive but will switch if I feel comfortable. not looking for one night stands but a connection so that we can feel at home exploring and pushing limits whilst not breaking boundaries
Female (42) Chesterfield, Derbyshire
im looking for the whole power exchange establish trust, communication, commitment, exploring my sexuality. looking more for a Dom/Submissive dynamic to learn from, to listen too, to trust, have a connection and explore together.
Female (39) Chesterfield, Derbyshire
I am in an open relationship I'm looking for friends, FWBs, and anyone to have fun with! Im open-minded and easy to get along with. Im very much a sub and love *** 😈 I want new other worldly experiences 😏
Female (33) Derby, Derbyshire
new to all this so looking to meet people who are experienced and will guide me in this new, intimidating and curious world
Female (47) Derby, Derbyshire
I’m Ellie (23F). I love anything horror and spooky. Also love exploring outdoors or chilling at home playing sims. I’m on here to see where things go.
hey 32 bi female Been awhile since I've done anything im very open to alot of things as long as discussed overall looking for somthing long time but down for some fun
Female (32) Erewash, Derbyshire
Sweet with a little edge. I melt for confidence, clarity, and calm control. Looking for someone who knows what they want and isn’t afraid to show it, I’m also a gentle soul with a curious mind. Drawn to confidence, structure, and a steady presence. I appreciate someone who leads with intention. I’m looking to give up complete control though out the relationship as well as the bedroom, I don’t want to think for myself any more. If you are just going to message to leave me on read in 3 days time or ask for pics then please leave me alone 🤦‍♀️ If your not interested in actually getting in a relationship then please don’t message me neither. looking for someone who’s willing to go to the gym with me and make process together! I won’t message first…I’m to shy :)
Female (24) Derby, Derbyshire
hiii!! fairly new to this sort of thing, super duper shy little just wanting to find someone to talk to and explore with 😄 🎀🐰🧸 DDLG/ daddy little dynamics, open to exploring other kinds of dynamics with the right person :) would love some rules and daily tasks to be good for someone! I love following orders
Female (18) Belper, Derbyshire
hey, major cat lover who has a slightly kinky side. I'm not into hardcore kink as far as I know as I'm still experimenting on what I enjoy/want, But if I say no it really means no. I have been restrained before and had given over control but only after trust has been built up
Female (48) Erewash, Derbyshire
Hello, 👋 I'm been a big girl and trying this. I'm a complete newby so bare with me! I'm looking for someone to hold my hand and teach me a thing or two. 😊 * UPDATE* After a little exploring on here I have learnt a few things about what I'm after so here goes. . . . . 🐇 I definitely need an emotional connection first. I genuinely want to know how your day was 🥰 I am Neurospicy so I'm doing my best with communication but please bare with me. I'm making a new category on here of "COZY KINKSTER " like let's get hot and heavy, but first a nice cup of tea 😂☕💝 if anyone knows a better place to find fellow CK's please let me know! Example let's take a stroll out into the woods. . . but first we look for toadstools and moss, then I get lost in the whimsy of your eyes and press you firmly against the nearest tree as you gasp at the touch of my cold hand on your cheek. . . . 🍄🌳💋 we cook some cozy food and settle in to watch a film , candles lit, Blankets a plenty. . . . But the many soft warm layers hide our mischievous hands. . . 🍲 - Unfortunately I have not yet had the pleasure of being intimate with a lady , I'm here to change that. I need a gentle touch to guide me, but don't worry I'm a fast learner! - I'm curious to explore been a Little. I didn't know I was until my partner pointed out that (and my giant toy dinosaur collection) I probably already was! 😂🦕❤️ If you have got this far don't be shy and send me a message 🥰 why not start by telling me what your favourite dinosaur is, or woodland creature? 🍄🦕🐇
Female (36) Derby, Derbyshire
Read my profile before you message Owned by daddy but free to have fun 😇. NOT looking for another dom. Casual fun no feelimgs encounters only. Hotwife Sassy, fiesty and won’t hold back. If you can’t handle a fiery personality and a smart ass mouth I’m not the one you’re looking for. Romantically monogamous (no one will take Daddy’s place) but sexually promiscuous. You don’t get to dom me just because I’m submissive. I’m not new to scene and I take safety and vetting seriously. I have boundaries and limits and these will be respected at all times or play does not happen. Monoromantic but polysexual.
Female (32) Kings Newton, Derbyshire
Where to start...10 years ago I met someone who offered to introduce me to a few kinks and I remember saying I'm not into that shit but here I am, and it seems I was ☺️ I'm an easy going, fun loving, no dramas kinda person who finds conversation, intelligence and a mental connection just as important as any physical dynamics. The sub role is the one I get the biggest kick out of. Drop me a message, would love to chat and see what happens.
Female (58) Newhall, Derbyshire
Hey, I'm Mel. New to this kind of dating site, but not new to kink, looking to find someone with similar interests in the bedroom and normal dating sites just aren't cutting it 😅 I'm a massive *** lover, got 2 dogs, 2 snakes and 2 guinea pigs and I also work with dogs. I love getting out into nature any chance I can get, also love reading. On a weight loss journey, as I'm not exactly on the skinny side so hope my pics show that.
Female (28) Clay Cross, Derbyshire
Would like to get along personally before doing anything physical. I know I would like someone kind and considerate but also confident and in control. I should mention I am a larger lady in height and weight. Also, I have Autism so I will be blunt at times. Kinks I love being praised when I do good, I like pleasing, I like being dominated, sometimes rough, sometimes soft depends on the mood, I love giving head, but I can't swallow, I like being risky in public and have a bit of a breeding kink (I'm not ready for kids tho)
Female (33) Langley Mill, Derbyshire
if you identify as any of the following: TERF, ICE supporter, homophobe, transphobe, anti immigrants, pro-israel, Trump supporter, Tory or reform supporter, JK Rowling supporter, racist, mysogynist, and similar: PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM ME. Poly, in two relationships (nesting partners, I don't condone cheating). Ideally I'd like to find people to have a good relationship with, without it being a romantic one, but with a lot of communication, respect, and the interest in sharing intimacy, kink, desire. Not interested in a monogamous relationship or a situation where you chat only to wank or to meet for hookups, without any conversation whatsoever in between. Need to chat and get to know someone a bit before meeting. I don't do phone or video calls.
Female (36) Alfreton, Derbyshire
Hi there I’m not sure what to put here lol, best off messaging me looking to expand my bdsm experience, potentially with a long term dom? if not, I’m open to the occasional play session both online and in person
Female (18) Derby, Derbyshire

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