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I’m fun curvy nice eyes tattoos and thick thighs, looking for fun and to explore things I would never have even thought of before but with full consent and lots of rigging :)
Female (32) Maldon, Essex
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (52) Basildon, Essex
I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, scat or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first. Message if you want to get to know me, please no time wasters.
Female (31) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. Looking for the older man **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal abuse I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
Female (49) Colchester, Essex
Going to keep this short and sweet, feel free to ask me any questions Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with, someone dominant who can help me to explore my boundaries I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments **Desires and Fantasies** Love being tied to a bed, legs spread wide and having my pussy spanked until I’m soaking wet. Then some edge play, I love having to beg and ask permission to cum. Or helping me stretch my tight little pussy. Just an example of one of the many things I like
Female (33) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.
Female (36) Colchester, Essex
My dominant side is a Mommy/Caregiver side. My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (36) Harlow, Essex
Here to explore my sexual desires... Been limited within my sexual wants and needs for far to long and finally giving in to some of my fantasies.... Very chilled person and easy to talk to. (I do not use KIK or Telegram. And do not give out my number.. I use SC & Twitter)
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
Welcome to the Haus of Chaos. The Domme: 31F Essex based dominant. Pleasure Domme with a Sadistic streak. The want: Looking for kinky like-minded counterparts to set the world on fire and watch it burn. So - I have an insatiable appetite that many cannot satisfy, so here I am. While I do enjoy a kinky power exchange I also want to explore more NSA meet ups either one on one, threesomes or swinging experiences, with both males and females. I am a demisexual and I do drive so happy to travel. Thankyou for reading and happy hunting ? D
Female (32) Harlow, Essex
Always happy to make friends but when talking/ dating someone will NOT cheat, or sexy message. Pictures will still be posted. Not new in theory but new in practice, eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Into Praise and Breeding. Prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop. Enjoy; light bondage, light spanking, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually.
Female (22) Colchester, Essex
I'm as honest as you'll get. Kind empathic. Treat me right and you'll have a wonderful companion. I don't do drama and arguing, cant be bothered with all that, what you see is what you get! Im independent but looking for a companion to complement my life.
Female (55) Colchester, Essex
Results from bdsmtest.org == 92% Rope bunny 79% Brat 76% Experimentalist 75% Submissive 70% Voyeur 69% Switch 68% Masochist 61% Non-monogamist 44% Exhibitionist 43% Vanilla 43% Primal (Prey) 33% Degradee 31% Pet 21% Slave 17% Rigger 13% Dominant 9% Sadist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Owner 0% Master/Mistress 0% Boy/Girl 0% Degrader 0% Brat tamer 0% Primal (Hunter) **Desires and Fantasies** http://bdsmtest.org/r/yUaPBje9
Female (50) Colchester, Essex
Hey lovelies! I'm a bisexual switch, into feedism, light BDSM, roleplay, pet play, pig play, pegging and loads more Ideally looking for something more long term, something committed where we can explore our fantasies together and play with other people as a unit - I think I'm more demisexual so if you hit me up with sex chat straight away I probably won't reply - people that are fun and intelligent are the most sexy :) I love people of all shapes n sizes, ancient history, embroidery, smoking ? and chaotic fun, message me if you're interested in any of that!
Female (28) Colchester, Essex
♡ Level 21 (y/o) ♡ Game Designer ♡ Pansexual ♡ Gender fluid ♡ Satanist ♡ 420 Smoker ♡ Submissive ♡ Otaku ♡ ~ looking for someone to suit up as Tech from The Bad Batch and fuck me like you hate me ~ Have to be tall, smart, nerdy and funny ♡ I'm not a dominant, please don't DM me asking to be one, thank you! *I'll reject you if there's barely anything (especially photos) on your profile or if you send me anything unsolicited* PRAISE ME PRAISE ME PRAISE ME
Female (21) Colchester, Essex
i am small, cute, sassy and cheeky. am I looking for a lady, a switch preferably, a lady who is interested in exploring both sides of our kinks, to learn what each role means to us. I have been bi openly since my teens but have not had a long term relationship with a woman but I feel it is time I owned that part of me. Genuine call out for someone real and open **Desires and Fantasies** bondage orgasm control spanking whips collars corsets heels hair pulling this could go on and on.......... ? Toys shibari
Female (39) Uttlesford, Essex
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 26 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to guide me and help me regress into the little i wanna be. I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, animals and anything fantasy related and there's nothing I want more than to be snuggled into someone while falling asleep having my hair and back rubbed. I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on. I have fluid on the brain, autism, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems but I never let that stop me. My Little age is newborn to 3 yrs and my Pup side is 2 month old husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Fetishes(browse|bulk edit) Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),caging/confinement(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),discipline(everything to do with it),humiliation(everything to do with it),masks(everything to do with it),master/slave(everything to do with it),masturbation(everything to do with it),nipples(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),rubber(everything to do with it),spanking(everything to do with it),toys(everything to do with it),vibrators(everything to do with it). Curious about:bondage(everything to do with it).
Female (26) Barking, Essex
5' 9 busty brunette looking for NSA fun with a guy, cuckolding hubby with a bull. **Desires and Fantasies** To meet up with a bull so my sissy husband can watch his Hot Wife get fucked, licked by a real man.
Female (53) Colchester, Essex
Single, into many things, spitting, choking, spanking, restraint, edging etc. I do also enjoy vanilla. I lean toward being naturally submissive, but can switch in the right environment. I enjoy running, reading, red wine, cooking and travelling. Looking to meet new people, make friends and potentially date like minded individuals leading to a LTR. Happy to share photos (not explicit) if we chat.
Female (37) Chelmsford, Essex
I hate these, I never know what to write! I’m 28 and Im a playful domme. I’m looking for someone to chat to, swap pics and possibly meet. I’m looking to find new kinks to have fun with. Please send me a message if you think you can help a girl out ☺️ I am a size 16 with E boobs and a really big bum x
Female (29) Chelmsford, Essex
Submissive looking to be totally trained and owned. Can be spoilt and bratty need someone to completely own me and somebody who will meet me regularly. I will belong to you and serve you x I’m into daddy I want a daddy’s little princess relationship x tell me what you can offer me and I’m up for meeting and serving you
Female (30) Brentwood, Essex
Currently being trained by Master Benjamin As training is done virtually, Master Benjamin agreed that it would be of benefit for me to have some real life experience. If you would like to meet up, you will have to talk to Master Benjamin first and any picture request will have to go through him.
Female (32) Romford, Essex
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the Torture Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged. On OF troubleandtease
Female (50) Colchester, Essex
My private photos are just of me, nothing explicit. I’m a plus size babe wanting to either be dominated or to dominate. I love the switch roles. I would like to explore my submissive side more… Let’s have some flirty chat and see where it goes.
Female (30) Colchester, Essex
I wanna be up front that I don't check this every day so may not reply to messages immediately but I will reply. Queer, genderfluid, all around kinky person just looking for something fun and casual. I wanna get to know you and make sure we vibe, but im not looking to fall in love. have a very wide variety of kinks. Pretty much everything I enjoy as both a Dom and a Sub. Most of my experience is as a dom, so I guess I'm looking more to explore my sub side right now but I'm open to anything as long as it's fun!
Female (22) Ilford, Essex

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♡ Level 21 (y/o) ♡ Game Designer ♡ Pansexual ♡ Gender fluid ♡ Satanist ♡ 420 Smoker ♡ Submissive ♡ Otaku ♡ ~ looking for someone to suit up as Tech from The Bad Batch and fuck me like you hate me ~ Have to be tall, smart, nerdy and funny ♡ I'm not a dominant, please don't DM me asking to be one, thank you! *I'll reject you if there's barely anything (especially photos) on your profile or if you send me anything unsolicited* PRAISE ME PRAISE ME PRAISE ME
Female (21) Colchester, Essex
I’m fun curvy nice eyes tattoos and thick thighs, looking for fun and to explore things I would never have even thought of before but with full consent and lots of rigging :)
Female (32) Maldon, Essex
I'm as honest as you'll get. Kind empathic. Treat me right and you'll have a wonderful companion. I don't do drama and arguing, cant be bothered with all that, what you see is what you get! Im independent but looking for a companion to complement my life.
Female (55) Colchester, Essex
Single, into many things, spitting, choking, spanking, restraint, edging etc. I do also enjoy vanilla. I lean toward being naturally submissive, but can switch in the right environment. I enjoy running, reading, red wine, cooking and travelling. Looking to meet new people, make friends and potentially date like minded individuals leading to a LTR. Happy to share photos (not explicit) if we chat.
Female (37) Chelmsford, Essex
Welcome to the Haus of Chaos. The Domme: 31F Essex based dominant. Pleasure Domme with a Sadistic streak. The want: Looking for kinky like-minded counterparts to set the world on fire and watch it burn. So - I have an insatiable appetite that many cannot satisfy, so here I am. While I do enjoy a kinky power exchange I also want to explore more NSA meet ups either one on one, threesomes or swinging experiences, with both males and females. I am a demisexual and I do drive so happy to travel. Thankyou for reading and happy hunting ? D
Female (32) Harlow, Essex
Always happy to make friends but when talking/ dating someone will NOT cheat, or sexy message. Pictures will still be posted. Not new in theory but new in practice, eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Into Praise and Breeding. Prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop. Enjoy; light bondage, light spanking, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually.
Female (22) Colchester, Essex
Submissive looking to be totally trained and owned. Can be spoilt and bratty need someone to completely own me and somebody who will meet me regularly. I will belong to you and serve you x I’m into daddy I want a daddy’s little princess relationship x tell me what you can offer me and I’m up for meeting and serving you
Female (30) Brentwood, Essex
Here to explore my sexual desires... Been limited within my sexual wants and needs for far to long and finally giving in to some of my fantasies.... Very chilled person and easy to talk to. (I do not use KIK or Telegram. And do not give out my number.. I use SC & Twitter)
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
Hey lovelies! I'm a bisexual switch, into feedism, light BDSM, roleplay, pet play, pig play, pegging and loads more Ideally looking for something more long term, something committed where we can explore our fantasies together and play with other people as a unit - I think I'm more demisexual so if you hit me up with sex chat straight away I probably won't reply - people that are fun and intelligent are the most sexy :) I love people of all shapes n sizes, ancient history, embroidery, smoking ? and chaotic fun, message me if you're interested in any of that!
Female (28) Colchester, Essex
I hate these, I never know what to write! I’m 28 and Im a playful domme. I’m looking for someone to chat to, swap pics and possibly meet. I’m looking to find new kinks to have fun with. Please send me a message if you think you can help a girl out ☺️ I am a size 16 with E boobs and a really big bum x
Female (29) Chelmsford, Essex
Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (52) Basildon, Essex
My dominant side is a Mommy/Caregiver side. My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.
Female (36) Harlow, Essex
Going to keep this short and sweet, feel free to ask me any questions Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with, someone dominant who can help me to explore my boundaries I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments **Desires and Fantasies** Love being tied to a bed, legs spread wide and having my pussy spanked until I’m soaking wet. Then some edge play, I love having to beg and ask permission to cum. Or helping me stretch my tight little pussy. Just an example of one of the many things I like
Female (33) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.
Female (36) Colchester, Essex
Results from bdsmtest.org == 92% Rope bunny 79% Brat 76% Experimentalist 75% Submissive 70% Voyeur 69% Switch 68% Masochist 61% Non-monogamist 44% Exhibitionist 43% Vanilla 43% Primal (Prey) 33% Degradee 31% Pet 21% Slave 17% Rigger 13% Dominant 9% Sadist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Ageplayer 0% Owner 0% Master/Mistress 0% Boy/Girl 0% Degrader 0% Brat tamer 0% Primal (Hunter) **Desires and Fantasies** http://bdsmtest.org/r/yUaPBje9
Female (50) Colchester, Essex
I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, scat or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first. Message if you want to get to know me, please no time wasters.
Female (31) Southend-on-Sea, Essex
i am small, cute, sassy and cheeky. am I looking for a lady, a switch preferably, a lady who is interested in exploring both sides of our kinks, to learn what each role means to us. I have been bi openly since my teens but have not had a long term relationship with a woman but I feel it is time I owned that part of me. Genuine call out for someone real and open **Desires and Fantasies** bondage orgasm control spanking whips collars corsets heels hair pulling this could go on and on.......... ? Toys shibari
Female (39) Uttlesford, Essex
Currently being trained by Master Benjamin As training is done virtually, Master Benjamin agreed that it would be of benefit for me to have some real life experience. If you would like to meet up, you will have to talk to Master Benjamin first and any picture request will have to go through him.
Female (32) Romford, Essex
I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. Looking for the older man **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal abuse I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used
Female (49) Colchester, Essex
Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 26 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to guide me and help me regress into the little i wanna be. I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, animals and anything fantasy related and there's nothing I want more than to be snuggled into someone while falling asleep having my hair and back rubbed. I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me when I need a shoulder to cry on. I have fluid on the brain, autism, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems but I never let that stop me. My Little age is newborn to 3 yrs and my Pup side is 2 month old husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Fetishes(browse|bulk edit) Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),caging/confinement(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),discipline(everything to do with it),humiliation(everything to do with it),masks(everything to do with it),master/slave(everything to do with it),masturbation(everything to do with it),nipples(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),rubber(everything to do with it),spanking(everything to do with it),toys(everything to do with it),vibrators(everything to do with it). Curious about:bondage(everything to do with it).
Female (26) Barking, Essex
5' 9 busty brunette looking for NSA fun with a guy, cuckolding hubby with a bull. **Desires and Fantasies** To meet up with a bull so my sissy husband can watch his Hot Wife get fucked, licked by a real man.
Female (53) Colchester, Essex
Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the Torture Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged. On OF troubleandtease
Female (50) Colchester, Essex
I'm a dominant woman looking to be appreciated by a submissive of any flavour, simps, piggies, sugar daddies. Just looking to feel appreciated and cared for in my needs, someone who wants to get to know me, the way I mother others. You may see me naked, you may not ? ;) it would be wise not to expect it though. Make an offering and see if I bite ??
Female (32) Colchester, Essex
I'm a passionate woman who finds beauty in every moment, whether through exploring nature or diving into exhilarating adventures. And from yoga to mountain hikes, staying active fuels my soul. Travelling broadens my horizons, and learning languages connects me with people worldwide. On this dating platform, I'm seeking a partner who shares my zest for life and dreams of endless adventures filled with love and mutual understanding. If you value passion, warmth, and shared experiences, let's explore this journey together.
Female (52) Colchester, Essex

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