Kinky women in Essex

Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck

Always happy to make friends but when dating someone will NOT cheat, or send sexy messages unless it's an open relationship, partners will be aware of everything. {NOT looking for anything EXCLUSIVE or LONG-TERM ATM.} {DON'T go looking for my other socials. ONLY use the ones I give you. Do you know how off putting it is getting talked to on apps I have family on?!} Pictures will still be posted. Not new, but eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Heavily into Praise and Creampies (I'm on the non hormonal coil). I prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop, so that means take me out for a drink and we'll see if the vibe check is passing or not before getting down and dirty. No long distance (needs to be in country) or cyber fun without a meet up first, I prefer in-person fun because that's just who I am. Hosting and travelling; Can host but only partly in that I have a room in a house share with strangers, and can only travel by public transport as I don't have a driver's licence yet. Enjoy; breeding, light choking, light bondage, spanking, tit slapping, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Preferences for nicknames; Baby, Baby Girl, Princess, Kitten, Bunny, and Brat and Slut (but only affectionately) basically as long as it's meant possessively sweet I'll be happy. Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually. Bit of a nerd in that I like anime, shows and books. My favourites: in anime; is isekai and reincarnation or just plain fantasy. in shows; *** mysteries, crime dramas, some action movies and some romance movies (ideally a mix of both) in books; Anything I can get my hands on. I'm an avid reader and I have kindle unlimited for a reason but nothing beats actual books in my hands. 420 friendly as I do occasionally smoke when I have it but I primarily vape non nicotine.

I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, *** or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first.

• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Who am I? I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness.. I enjoy control just as much as surrender.... Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same.. I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery.... I don’t chase fast thrills.... I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest.... Presence over promises always I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence.... And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness.... A lover of the complexities of the mind. I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful.... • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •

Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with. I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I love travelling, dancing, working out From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know) **Desires** Tied up Pussy spanking (I like it hard) Rough sex Oral Squirting Edging Orgasm denial Pussy exam with gloves Clit clamps/pump

hi (head down shy) not sure what my kinks are or what I would describe myself as, I guess I've been pretty sheltered in my last relationships. I know I have a need to be looked after , nurtured, I can be bratty and a bit of a little. I want to explore that other side of myself which I haven't fully explored yet.

My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.

I looking for fun.. right now for a people with same mindset to talk and relax. I do not looking for dates, meeting people in reality or one night fun . Looking forward to make friends that can understand my desires and have same interest in sex lifestyle **Desires and Fantasies** Anything good in the correct time

i am small, cute, sassy and cheeky. am I looking for friends and conversations, maybe something blooms from that. we'll have to wait and see. I will not send nudes or dirty pics so don't ask me to! Also, when you message please answer this question Does kinky means easy to you? Ghosting is a shit thing to do, do not contact if you're someone who does this, I'm interested in connecting deeper than a fuck. If you're not then I'm not the person you're looking for **Desires and Fantasies** bondage orgasm control spanking whips collars corsets heels hair pulling this could go on and on.......... ? Toys shibari

I’m a submissive looking for a dominant male. I am looking to explore my submissive side and how to please a dominant who will teach me, use me and care for me.

I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.

Average looking single, vegan lady, looking for friendship maybe more. New to this scene, interested in cross dressing males and men in touch with their feminine side.

Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist

I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more. **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal *** I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave. I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used

Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 28 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me and I can be there for them . I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),

Not sure what to write, really Things have been up and down Trying to find someone to connect with, not just in the lifestyle but outside it aswell.

Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.

Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along

I am particular most times I like intelligence in my little doves, don’t bore me, you know you want what I can give you 😏, I like erm spicy but not forward( cause I dunno who you’re giving attitude to 😔) - so don’t push me, but I do so love when I meet a good boy I can rub my feet all over, Teach you to some earn points with Miss I love a good munch so if you need me to teach I’m down for that ( and you better listen or that’d be your first no no) I’m spoilt like that…….. 🍑💦👅

. **Slavic Siren, a Sin made to be worshipped.** . I’m in a very happy and a very monogamous relationship, which means I’m not looking for anything now. I switch, but only for my partner. I won’t be your ‘good girl’ and I’m certainly not kneeling for you. You may, however, approach on your knees. . Not looking for any subs atm. All slots are filled, I’m afraid. .

If you like your women thicker then I'm your gal! Looking for new friends in the community as well as some good times. Not looking for a Dom so please stop asking! I've classed myself here as fully submissive but I can switch given the right occasion/ person. I'm down to give most things a try before writing them off, only things I won't do are listed in my limits. I have some experience in kink but not as much as I'd hope, so looking forward to exploring more. Please don't take my lack of experience as lack of knowledge, I can spot your red flags from a mile away! If you don't have a picture of your face in your profile please send me one with your message otherwise I most likely won't respond! Thanks x

Was recommended by a friend, I just wanna find my kinky forever person. Will fill this out better if I decide to stay coz at the moment this app feels glitchy as hell.

I am Goddess DarkRose. A vampiric sovereign with a sadistic soul elegant in presence, merciless in command. Cold. Intoxicating. Unapologetically dominant. I do not roleplay power. I embody it. Those who approach me understand there is one throne and one will. Submission is not assumed it is earned. Obedience is not requested it is expected. I train submissives. I own slaves. I know the difference. Gender is irrelevant. Your position is decided by how well you kneel, listen, and endure. I offer RT & Online Dominant Sessions, including: • Foot worship • Pegging • Tease & Denial / Edging • Financial Domination & Draining • Sissification • Discipline, Authority & Psychological Control • Impact Play • CBT / Ballbusting (fetish impact only) • Watersports (fetish domination only) • Obedience & Behavioural Training I do not chase. I do not rush. You speak when permitted. You serve when commanded. Do not contact me to negotiate, fantasise idly, or test boundaries. I have no patience for weakness masquerading as curiosity. If you are here to submit fully, intelligently, and without entitlement then approach correctly. Tribute. Manners. Consistency. Obedience. These are not suggestions. Your devotion sustains me. Your *** amuses me. Book respectfully below only if you are ready to be shaped. https://www.goddessdarkrose.co.uk/

I am short but not short of attitude, I am very caring although i struggle with communication and listening like following rules😅. looking to see if I can find a dom long term.

hi (head down shy) not sure what my kinks are or what I would describe myself as, I guess I've been pretty sheltered in my last relationships. I know I have a need to be looked after , nurtured, I can be bratty and a bit of a little. I want to explore that other side of myself which I haven't fully explored yet.

Average looking single, vegan lady, looking for friendship maybe more. New to this scene, interested in cross dressing males and men in touch with their feminine side.

Always happy to make friends but when dating someone will NOT cheat, or send sexy messages unless it's an open relationship, partners will be aware of everything. {NOT looking for anything EXCLUSIVE or LONG-TERM ATM.} {DON'T go looking for my other socials. ONLY use the ones I give you. Do you know how off putting it is getting talked to on apps I have family on?!} Pictures will still be posted. Not new, but eager to learn new things and have new experiences. Heavily into Praise and Creampies (I'm on the non hormonal coil). I prefer conversation rather than straight into sex stuff, but once I get going I find it hard to stop, so that means take me out for a drink and we'll see if the vibe check is passing or not before getting down and dirty. No long distance (needs to be in country) or cyber fun without a meet up first, I prefer in-person fun because that's just who I am. Hosting and travelling; Can host but only partly in that I have a room in a house share with strangers, and can only travel by public transport as I don't have a driver's licence yet. Enjoy; breeding, light choking, light bondage, spanking, tit slapping, ice play, collar and leash, and occasionally hickey marks. Interested; wax play and shibari Preferences for nicknames; Baby, Baby Girl, Princess, Kitten, Bunny, and Brat and Slut (but only affectionately) basically as long as it's meant possessively sweet I'll be happy. Also I've noticed I go little and pet sometimes but purely non sexually. Bit of a nerd in that I like anime, shows and books. My favourites: in anime; is isekai and reincarnation or just plain fantasy. in shows; *** mysteries, crime dramas, some action movies and some romance movies (ideally a mix of both) in books; Anything I can get my hands on. I'm an avid reader and I have kindle unlimited for a reason but nothing beats actual books in my hands. 420 friendly as I do occasionally smoke when I have it but I primarily vape non nicotine.

• • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Proudly owned by the only man who claimed my soul, earned my trust and has my complete submission. • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • I’m open to exploring play in agreement with my Dominant. I’m also interested in connecting with a submissive so I may step into my Domme side. Beyond that, I’d love to build genuine friendships with likeminded people • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • Who am I? I’m a Submissive leaning switch with a soft heart and a strong sense of self-awareness.. I enjoy control just as much as surrender.... Theres something beautiful in that contrast… to kneel for one man and to guide another to do the same.. I’m an explorer at heart... passionate about kink... the intensity of BDSM and the evolution of discovery.... I don’t chase fast thrills.... I crave consistency... realness and steady connection... The kind of energy that’s calm...grounded and honest.... Presence over promises always I’m drawn to masculine energy... Dominance that’s rooted in presence.. patience... and emotional intelligence.... And I’m equally drawn to submission that’s offered with intention... sincerity and calmness.... A lover of the complexities of the mind. I love connection that feels alive...conversation that flows.. laughter that comes easy and play that feels both fun and meaningful.... • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • •

Looking to explore and come out of my shell with some much needed guidance! == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 97% Brat 86% Degradee 84% Rope bunny 80% Slave 72% Masochist 62% Primal (Prey) 62% Vanilla 49% Experimentalist 48% Pet 18% Voyeur 14% Switch 8% Exhibitionist 3% Non-monogamist 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Ageplayer 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Primal (Hunter) 0% Sadist

Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck

My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.

Looking for someone to have some naughty, kinky fun with. I travel for my job so I’m looking for something casual to fit around my work commitments I take a lot of pride in my appearance. I love travelling, dancing, working out From the UK with Greek and Irish heritage (unusual mix, I know) **Desires** Tied up Pussy spanking (I like it hard) Rough sex Oral Squirting Edging Orgasm denial Pussy exam with gloves Clit clamps/pump

I am a brat, not particularly looking for a dom but if one comes along I click with then I'll consider it. I have hard limits but like experimenting, I am pretty open to trying new things. I like a person with some meat and strength as I am a plus size woman. **Desires and Fantasies** I have loads, but I like role-playing. Strictly no anal play. If you want to know anything else ask me.

I'm a true Masochist at heart, that is looking for a sadist. I just love that feeling of being bruised and beaten. I have past experience of being owned by 2 Dom's but had to end due to distance. I love all forms of impact play, bondage and medical play with needles. I'm not interested in public play, *** or watersports these are my limits. Simply a hard working natural person that will devote time to serving a potential Dom or Master. I am looking for a long term relationship, that will grow and develop over time. Not looking to rush into things with discussion first.

i am small, cute, sassy and cheeky. am I looking for friends and conversations, maybe something blooms from that. we'll have to wait and see. I will not send nudes or dirty pics so don't ask me to! Also, when you message please answer this question Does kinky means easy to you? Ghosting is a shit thing to do, do not contact if you're someone who does this, I'm interested in connecting deeper than a fuck. If you're not then I'm not the person you're looking for **Desires and Fantasies** bondage orgasm control spanking whips collars corsets heels hair pulling this could go on and on.......... ? Toys shibari

Not sure what to write, really Things have been up and down Trying to find someone to connect with, not just in the lifestyle but outside it aswell.

I looking for fun.. right now for a people with same mindset to talk and relax. I do not looking for dates, meeting people in reality or one night fun . Looking forward to make friends that can understand my desires and have same interest in sex lifestyle **Desires and Fantasies** Anything good in the correct time

I’m a submissive looking for a dominant male. I am looking to explore my submissive side and how to please a dominant who will teach me, use me and care for me.

I’m married and don’t want to leave my husband but want to spice up my sex life. I’m outgoing fun and love a glass of wine. I like a good laugh and a good personality. I don’t want the sweet and nice guy all the time I need the mean dominate guy more. **Desires and Fantasies** I want to just be taken controlled used verbal *** I want to be trained to be a slut made to fuck others told how to dress at all times and told how to act behave. I need to be used like a woman is ment to be used

Hey everyone a little bit about me I am 28 yrs old and I am a little\pup submissive I have been on here a while , looking for someone to be with Dom mainly but I do switch from time to time sometimes I love video games, reading, drawing,watching movies and tv shows, walking on the beach, bowling , mini golf , arcade ect and anything fantasy related. I'm mainly into the little space but wanna try get into the pup scene more as well , I'm open to meet people local to see how it goes , looking for a ddlg or mdlg but open to a mix of stuff I am looking for someone kind, caring,who can be there for me and I can be there for them . I have fluid on the brain, autism and a little ADHD, anxiety and depression and back and neck problems and functional neurological disorder but I never let that stop me. My Little age is any where from 1 to 5 sometimes older Pup side is a husky called Sam U can message me on here if u want too , I want to find someone I can connect with and hopefully not just online. Looking for a genuine relationship Into:age play(everything to do with it),breast/nipple play(everything to do with it),collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it),role play(everything to do with it),

Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along

Perfectionist who works hard and plays harder. Will say as is. Trust and respect are equal, so no BS or wannabes I like to "play" but especially "tease" those that are locked. Looking at meeting up with like minded people and going to events. One event ticked off a visit to the *** Garden club **Desires and Fantasies** I have a few high heels and 5" pointy boots that always look good when pressed in against the skin. I'm a lover of lingerie, boots and heels. Do like a guy caged. If you are my sub (not that I am wanting any more) I expect you caged.

Was recommended by a friend, I just wanna find my kinky forever person. Will fill this out better if I decide to stay coz at the moment this app feels glitchy as hell.

Submissive, in an open relationship. Rarely switch. Into misogyny, ***, ***. 💗

hello! I’m Holly , 19 , I’m autistic , British , and I’m single! looking for a dynamic relationship! looking for a dom , somewhat of a caregiver , someone who can put me in my place when I’m being a brat lol. but I also want someone who I genuinely have a connection with! and similar interests , just like a normal relationship. I’m 5’2 , curvy / chubby girl , white , long brown hair ! I’m friendly , stupid at times , love to laugh , I’m a nerd and love video games! I love art , animation and cute things!

message and find out 😏 im gayyyyyy no men or couples tyyyy...just my older women

I’m someone who listens, laughs easily, and appreciates effort.I care about meaningful conversations and mutual respect.I like people who are kind, curious, and authentic.I’m drawn to deep conversations and feeling understood. I like building closeness naturally, at the right pace.I like connection with a hint of blush. Sweet vibes with a little spark. Empathy is attractive to me. A little flirt 😉 a lot of empathy 💞 Playful vibes 😌 warm heart 💛 No pressure, just good energy. Soft heart, real intentions 🤍 Sweet souls welcome 🤍 Let’s chat and share some smiles 🌸 Maybe it’s you 💕👀 No meanness and selfishness, please 🌸

new here to this country. Looking for kinky people. i like confident people who are attractive and very open minded. no relationships please