My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.

I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since. A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s. Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids. I insist on a safe word, even for discipline. I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me. I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing. Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for. Stephie

some of you have the weirdest pictures on your profile, like really ?. dont message me if you plus 200lb, have long hair or a long beard, smoke, or live abroad. looking for: Trust and safety emotional and physical connection long term dating / relationship / training rules in and out of the bedroom (reasonable rules) pleasure / *** dominant / master experienced age 36 min - 50 max good sense of humour can control a brat (without resorting to extreme ***) more then just a dynamic doesn't just want to talk about sex as thats such a small part of it. i thrive with: Emotional attunement, Warmth and connection, Psychological intimacy. A Dom who reads me, not manages me, Soft structure, not rigid rules, A dynamic that grows organically, Trust before obedience, Playfulness and chemistry. My submissiveness is: responsive, intuitive, relational, emotional, sensual. Im not a ritualprotocol sub. I'm a connectionpsychology sub.

Now on here for networking for my current relationship, looking for a potential third either; a couple, a male, a female, anything in between! (preferably no straight male doms but not opposed entirely)

I am a subbie and have been for many years. My Dom was my husband, and he rescued me from an abusive marriage. He died about 5 years ago and have been out of the lifestyle since. A heads up i am not in my earliest flush of youth, being in my early 60s. Also I am disabled and use a walker when outside. Indoors I can walk reasonably without aids. I insist on a safe word, even for discipline. I am find it difficult enough without my husband, sex would be be impossible for me, the guilt would kill me. I love OTK being held ro stop me reaching back. The bondage takes all control away, so releasing. Well, that's a bit about what i am looking for. Stephie

My submissive side would like to find a caregiver that can give a firm hand where needed. I would love to be collared and owned. My pet side is a Dragon. I'm looking for a connection that isn't purely kink related I'd prefer to take conversations to discord when I feel more comfortable, as I often miss messages here.

Now on here for networking for my current relationship, looking for a potential third either; a couple, a male, a female, anything in between! (preferably no straight male doms but not opposed entirely)

some of you have the weirdest pictures on your profile, like really ?. dont message me if you plus 200lb, have long hair or a long beard, smoke, or live abroad. looking for: Trust and safety emotional and physical connection long term dating / relationship / training rules in and out of the bedroom (reasonable rules) pleasure / *** dominant / master experienced age 36 min - 50 max good sense of humour can control a brat (without resorting to extreme ***) more then just a dynamic doesn't just want to talk about sex as thats such a small part of it. i thrive with: Emotional attunement, Warmth and connection, Psychological intimacy. A Dom who reads me, not manages me, Soft structure, not rigid rules, A dynamic that grows organically, Trust before obedience, Playfulness and chemistry. My submissiveness is: responsive, intuitive, relational, emotional, sensual. Im not a ritualprotocol sub. I'm a connectionpsychology sub.