okay so I didnt do this bit properly as was just getting it done.
my name is Michelle but get called mimi, nice to meet ya...
im neurospicy, so I am blessed and cursed with both autism and adhd, so i have my odd little quirks from both of those. I can be rebellious, cheeky, sassy, all depending on the day and how ive slept.
Not been in the world of kink before but its always something ive wanted to dip my toes into.But apparently never came across someone that has ACTUAL experience. Plenty of the fake people though, yano the ones that think hair pulling and choking for 2 seconds is how its done 🙄😒
I no the film 50 shades ain't what the world of kink is all about, but the bedroom stuff peaks my interest, the 50 shades of fkd energy, attitude how he treats her is a fkin no go for me. im not about 50 shades of fkd up baggage, bad attitudes, confusing emotions, shit communication skills or anyone that tries to gaslight and manipulate which doesn't work on neurospicey people BTW.
im not looking for any young person or older people, I want to stay withinclose to my own age group, so 37 to 45.
I work 5 days a week in the security industry, and its mentally taxing on me and can run out of spoons to deal with people, so if I read messages and dont respond to message im not meaning to be rude I just cant deal with talking at the time and will get back to you as and when.
I also dont mess with people in a relationship, even if that's what your dynamic is, its not for me, I couldn't do that, I'm just greedy and dont like to share 🤣
im big on trust, communication, transparency and loyalty, if one is broken then its bye bye for you. I dont accept manipulation, gaslighting or any kind of shit along those lines, just wasted 2.5yrs with someone who constantly tried all those things. Being adhd none of that works on us, its like our supernatural power, its ehy narcissists hate us 🤣 but sadly neurospicy people tend to attract those types of boys