Please read my profile clearful.
Good Morning and Hello. i am a black plus size women who is looking for a relationship that is mixed with bdsm. So it would be like a girlfriend/sub and Boyfriend/dom kind of relationship. So to the outside world it would be a usual typically simple basic vanilla normal relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend.
But behind closed door, when it just the two of us, alone, on the indside and when we are in the mood. It would be sub and dom relationship. Completely private. I would say that i am more like a bedroom submissive.
For example vanilla - would be like sitting on the sofa like normal around other people or just the two of us. Then kink/ bdsm - it would be me sitting on the floor wearing a collar with a lead attached to it. And you holding on to the lead.
I am looking for some one who has a job, can drive and has a car, independant, strong minded, determinded, ambitious, brave, has is own views and opinons and not afraid to share them, leader, not afraid to stand up for what is right, kind, funny, caring, dominated. I do have a lists of questions that i like to asks as it create topics of disscussions and make it easier to talk to people and finding out what we have in common beside from BDSM and sex. plus talking about sex is boring.
Talking about sex as you can see by my bdsm lists of do's and dont. I dont do sex and have no intent on having sex outside of marriage. that includes vaginal sex and anal sex. This is due to my religious belief that sex is for marriage and i am still a virgin. So NO VAGINAL SEX and NO ANAL SEX. And have no plans on changing that. However i do have a lot of sex toys. My sex toy collection is growing continulous. Currently have over 70 items so far. I also have a lists of them as well but have no pictures. However i do have pictures of bdsm pic collages that i make in my free time.
I want to make this clear i am not looking for friends with benefits, one night stands or anything like that if you are intrested in that kind of thing. Please dont start a conversation with me
i am looking for local people to medway for example chatham, gillingham, rochester, strood, rainham, cuxton, maidstone, barming, ashford. I have no intention in traveling anywhere near london as it is too far. I cant host or accomadate.
Thank you taking the time for reading profile.
incase i dont see you - Good Afternoon, Good Evening and Good Night.
