Kinky women in Maidstone

**Update**: I have met a wonderful Dom who I am very much enjoying speaking with and getting to know. I am, therefore, not looking for any *romantic* connections. I am happy to talk as **friends** for anyone who values openness and an intellectual connection (with someone who obviously isn't going to judge you for certain lifestyle preferences). I would say I'm in relatively good company 😂 but that can be decided. Just want to be upfront and open ☺️ thank you! I have also included women in my profile however with absolute respect for the LGBTQ+ community, I am not bisexual or a lesbian ☺️. I have simply included women in my profile for any females who are interested in a friendship etc as well on here. 😌 hopefully it's a bit more visible for anyone that is interested in that. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- *polite request - please do not message me if you have no intention of actually speaking with me properly. I am looking for a genuine connection and I am not interested in being anything 'cheap'. I believe a good Dom should want to know and understand his submissive (and respect her, even within his dominance) - as she should strive to know him and his desires, as well as how to best fulfill them.* I am brand new to the scene. I have always wanted to explore having a Dom... being a submissive (and perhaps a little playful and being good). I'm 20 though and quite young and I don't have tonnes of experience - really I would be hoping for someone who *does* and is able to be a little patient with me as I learn the ropes. (perhaps literally as well hehe 😌). I learn fast and once I do, I genuinely want to try to make it work! I just need someone to help get me there. I think respect is important and a big thing - even if someone is a Dom or Submissive I think above that: we are all adults and humans and we should treat each other **kindly**. If that's not how you operate, that's fair, but I'm probably not for you. I do have standards - in the sense that *I am looking for a high quality man who takes care of himself as well as his submissive*. If you do not value ethics, manners (when called for VS agreed upon kinky moments), or being a genuine person - unfortunately, this is something which will be highly incompatible with me. (so for both of our sakes it would be better to move onto the next person 😊 no judgment). I also value an *intellectual* connection, not just purely physical (although of course that is wonderful as well!). If not intellectual then there needs to be something that is going to genuinely engage both of us, whether that's humour, a good sense of character, or just being genuinely kind (outside the moments that might call for a bit more discipline 😉). I don't want to waste anyone's time and equally I feel it's only fair if the same is done back. I'm a pretty nice person overall... I just want to meet someone with similar values who genuinely wants to be a Dom. If you are an **intentional person**, there is a high chance we will get along. I am open-minded to exploring dynamics once a deeper level of trust and effort is established. I'm a firm believer that you get back what you give, so if you put in the work, I will match you - the results will be better overall for both of us. If that interests you - I would love to talk. 😊 happy to answer any questions. **please note: I am not looking for immediate meetups or hookups.** --- I do not wish to be viewed as an object nor simply as means of one-sided gratification. Thank you 🤍 **languages spoken: English (Native), Spanish (advanced), French (intermediate), Mandarin (basic).** notes: I have had certain users be abusive simply because I have not replied within an 8 hour period. (of sleeping!) they have been harsh, degrading and genuinely unkind. This is a polite reminder that the person you are speaking to is still a human and does have feelings. True, not everyone processes the same, but for those who do care about other's unkind words - such as myself - please understand that even in a position as a submissive, I will not accept unfair treatment that is unjustified and is simply a reflection of poor character. Calling someone agreed upon degrading names is extremely different from what could actually read as bullying. The line is a hard stop for me - I value people who actually care.

BBW, neurospicy, and 5'6" of flirtation, humour, and good intentions. I’m the girl who’ll hype you up, make you laugh, and then tease you just enough to keep things interesting. People say I’m kind, fun, and a little addictive… I’ll let you decide if they’re right. I'd want something substantial. Connection, consistency, and someone who actually shows up. I’m looking for someone open minded, genuine, and ready for something that feels exciting but grounded. Bring your best energy, I’ll bring mine. If you have a beard, a hairy chest, and big arms, you’re already halfway to winning me over 😘 Have tried and liked •aftercare •facefucking •spanking •praising •sensory deprivation •edging •restrains •breath play •toys •temperature play •creampies •nipples play •control •orgasm control Want to try •blind folded •gagging •bondage •free use

creator of chaos in an adorable way I have been shown the beauty in kink respect honesty

Slightly nerdy, alt girl looking for friends and a daddy too 🐶 (i’m not trying to be a dom to anyone else, so pls don’t ask me) Still trying to find my feet in the world of kink, so please be patient with me if I don’t know much, but I do love to learn ☺️ Feel free to drop me a message and I’ll do my best to reply back!

Hello :) My Name is Elena. I am submissive. i consider myself a masochist. I was a slave for a Master a few years ago. Ideally my potential date would be interested in or have experience as a Master and is also a Sadist. i look forward to chatting :)

😊 I’m a little. I don’t have a little age for those who are curious but you can ask about my interests as a little. I’m looking for a daddy dom (more caregiver than dom), online to start with. I’m looking for a connection with someone, intellectually as well as emotionally. I’m still trying to figure out ddlg. I’ve known I’m a little for 4 years now but I’ve only ever had two online dynamics so not a lot of experience with it. I feel little a lot and I’m trying to figure out how to best to satisfy that part of me, I think having a daddy would help a lot.

a little shy, very new to this and very curious xx things I like being told what to do being told how to do it hair pulling hand around the throat and hard fucking

**Update**: I have met a wonderful Dom who I am very much enjoying speaking with and getting to know. I am, therefore, not looking for any *romantic* connections. I am happy to talk as **friends** for anyone who values openness and an intellectual connection (with someone who obviously isn't going to judge you for certain lifestyle preferences). I would say I'm in relatively good company 😂 but that can be decided. Just want to be upfront and open ☺️ thank you! I have also included women in my profile however with absolute respect for the LGBTQ+ community, I am not bisexual or a lesbian ☺️. I have simply included women in my profile for any females who are interested in a friendship etc as well on here. 😌 hopefully it's a bit more visible for anyone that is interested in that. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- *polite request - please do not message me if you have no intention of actually speaking with me properly. I am looking for a genuine connection and I am not interested in being anything 'cheap'. I believe a good Dom should want to know and understand his submissive (and respect her, even within his dominance) - as she should strive to know him and his desires, as well as how to best fulfill them.* I am brand new to the scene. I have always wanted to explore having a Dom... being a submissive (and perhaps a little playful and being good). I'm 20 though and quite young and I don't have tonnes of experience - really I would be hoping for someone who *does* and is able to be a little patient with me as I learn the ropes. (perhaps literally as well hehe 😌). I learn fast and once I do, I genuinely want to try to make it work! I just need someone to help get me there. I think respect is important and a big thing - even if someone is a Dom or Submissive I think above that: we are all adults and humans and we should treat each other **kindly**. If that's not how you operate, that's fair, but I'm probably not for you. I do have standards - in the sense that *I am looking for a high quality man who takes care of himself as well as his submissive*. If you do not value ethics, manners (when called for VS agreed upon kinky moments), or being a genuine person - unfortunately, this is something which will be highly incompatible with me. (so for both of our sakes it would be better to move onto the next person 😊 no judgment). I also value an *intellectual* connection, not just purely physical (although of course that is wonderful as well!). If not intellectual then there needs to be something that is going to genuinely engage both of us, whether that's humour, a good sense of character, or just being genuinely kind (outside the moments that might call for a bit more discipline 😉). I don't want to waste anyone's time and equally I feel it's only fair if the same is done back. I'm a pretty nice person overall... I just want to meet someone with similar values who genuinely wants to be a Dom. If you are an **intentional person**, there is a high chance we will get along. I am open-minded to exploring dynamics once a deeper level of trust and effort is established. I'm a firm believer that you get back what you give, so if you put in the work, I will match you - the results will be better overall for both of us. If that interests you - I would love to talk. 😊 happy to answer any questions. **please note: I am not looking for immediate meetups or hookups.** --- I do not wish to be viewed as an object nor simply as means of one-sided gratification. Thank you 🤍 **languages spoken: English (Native), Spanish (advanced), French (intermediate), Mandarin (basic).** notes: I have had certain users be abusive simply because I have not replied within an 8 hour period. (of sleeping!) they have been harsh, degrading and genuinely unkind. This is a polite reminder that the person you are speaking to is still a human and does have feelings. True, not everyone processes the same, but for those who do care about other's unkind words - such as myself - please understand that even in a position as a submissive, I will not accept unfair treatment that is unjustified and is simply a reflection of poor character. Calling someone agreed upon degrading names is extremely different from what could actually read as bullying. The line is a hard stop for me - I value people who actually care.

BBW, neurospicy, and 5'6" of flirtation, humour, and good intentions. I’m the girl who’ll hype you up, make you laugh, and then tease you just enough to keep things interesting. People say I’m kind, fun, and a little addictive… I’ll let you decide if they’re right. I'd want something substantial. Connection, consistency, and someone who actually shows up. I’m looking for someone open minded, genuine, and ready for something that feels exciting but grounded. Bring your best energy, I’ll bring mine. If you have a beard, a hairy chest, and big arms, you’re already halfway to winning me over 😘 Have tried and liked •aftercare •facefucking •spanking •praising •sensory deprivation •edging •restrains •breath play •toys •temperature play •creampies •nipples play •control •orgasm control Want to try •blind folded •gagging •bondage •free use

😊 I’m a little. I don’t have a little age for those who are curious but you can ask about my interests as a little. I’m looking for a daddy dom (more caregiver than dom), online to start with. I’m looking for a connection with someone, intellectually as well as emotionally. I’m still trying to figure out ddlg. I’ve known I’m a little for 4 years now but I’ve only ever had two online dynamics so not a lot of experience with it. I feel little a lot and I’m trying to figure out how to best to satisfy that part of me, I think having a daddy would help a lot.

Slightly nerdy, alt girl looking for friends and a daddy too 🐶 (i’m not trying to be a dom to anyone else, so pls don’t ask me) Still trying to find my feet in the world of kink, so please be patient with me if I don’t know much, but I do love to learn ☺️ Feel free to drop me a message and I’ll do my best to reply back!

Hello :) My Name is Elena. I am submissive. i consider myself a masochist. I was a slave for a Master a few years ago. Ideally my potential date would be interested in or have experience as a Master and is also a Sadist. i look forward to chatting :)

a little shy, very new to this and very curious xx things I like being told what to do being told how to do it hair pulling hand around the throat and hard fucking

creator of chaos in an adorable way I have been shown the beauty in kink respect honesty