*polite request - please do not message me if you have no intention of actually speaking with me properly. I am looking for a genuine connection and I am not interested in being anything 'cheap'. I believe a good Dom should want to know and understand his submissive (and respect her, even within his dominance) - as she should strive to know him and his desires, as well as how to best fulfill them.*
I am brand new to the scene. I have always wanted to explore having a Dom... being a submissive (and perhaps a little playful and being good). I'm 20 though and quite young and I don't have tonnes of experience - really I would be hoping for someone who *does* and is able to be a little patient with me as I learn the ropes. (perhaps literally as well hehe 😌).
I learn fast and once I do, I genuinely want to try to make it work! I just need someone to help get me there. I think respect is important and a big thing - even if someone is a Dom or Submissive I think above that: we are all adults and humans and we should treat each other **kindly**. If that's not how you operate, that's fair, but I'm probably not for you.
I do have standards - in the sense that *I am looking for a high quality man who takes care of himself as well as his submissive*. If you do not value ethics, manners (when called for VS agreed upon kinky moments), or being a genuine person - unfortunately, this is something which will be highly incompatible with me. (so for both of our sakes it would be better to move onto the next person 😊 no judgment). I also value an *intellectual* connection, not just purely physical (although of course that is wonderful as well!). If not intellectual then there needs to be something that is going to genuinely engage both of us, whether that's humour, a good sense of character, or just being genuinely kind (outside the moments that might call for a bit more discipline 😉).
I don't want to waste anyone's time and equally I feel it's only fair if the same is done back. I'm a pretty nice person overall... I just want to meet someone with similar values who genuinely wants to be a Dom. If you are an **intentional person**, there is a high chance we will get along.
I am open-minded to exploring dynamics once a deeper level of trust and effort is established. I'm a firm believer that you get back what you give, so if you put in the work, I will match you - the results will be better overall for both of us.
If that interests you - I would love to talk. 😊 happy to answer any questions.
**please note: I am not looking for immediate meetups or hookups.** --- I do not wish to be viewed as an object nor simply as means of one-sided gratification.
Thank you 🤍
**languages spoken: English (Native), Spanish (advanced), French (intermediate), Mandarin (basic).**
notes: I have had certain users be abusive simply because I have not replied within an 8 hour period. (of sleeping!) they have been harsh, degrading and
genuinely unkind. This is a polite reminder that the person you are speaking to is still a human and does have feelings. True, not everyone processes the same, but for those who do care about other's unkind words - such as myself - please understand that even in a position as a submissive, I will not accept unfair treatment that is unjustified and is simply a reflection of poor character. Calling someone agreed upon degrading names is extremely different from what could actually read as bullying. The line is a hard stop for me - I value people who actually care.
BBW, neurospicy, and 5'6" of flirtation, humour, and good intentions. I’m the girl who’ll hype you up, make you laugh, and then tease you just enough to keep things interesting. People say I’m kind, fun, and a little addictive… I’ll let you decide if they’re right.
I'd want something substantial. Connection, consistency, and someone who actually shows up.
I’m looking for someone open minded, genuine, and ready for something that feels exciting but grounded. Bring your best energy, I’ll bring mine.
If you have a beard, a hairy chest, and big arms, you’re already halfway to winning me over 😘
Have tried and liked
•aftercare
•facefucking
•spanking
•praising
•sensory deprivation
•edging
•restrains
•breath play
•toys
•temperature play
•creampies
•nipples play
•control
•orgasm control
Want to try
•blind folded
•gagging
•bondage
•free use
a little shy, very new to this and very curious xx
things I like
being told what to do
being told how to do it
hair pulling
hand around the throat
and hard fucking
Hello :) My Name is Elena.
I am submissive. i consider myself a masochist. I was a slave for a Master a few years ago. Ideally my potential date would be interested in or have experience as a Master and is also a Sadist.
i look forward to chatting :)
A plus-size curvy queen that likes to test your patience, I like to brat until ***d into submission. I won't do it then we'll then make me it's not that hard stop being a bitch.
although i like to brat, I do love praise. Maybe you'll actually get what you want if you can actually praise me.
never been hunted, but it is one of my fantasies.
I like me, a strong man with a dad or close to dad, bod, and tattoos and bearda. I love them. i want a man strong enough to lift me but bulky, so he's nice to cuddle. I love to breed or at least some facial hair. I am in the middle with knowing my stuff, but tbh I don't think the person who taught me most of it was a real dom.
safe words are an extreme must.
aftercare is so important. I never really had it, but the few times I have was so needed. I want someone who is good with communication and understandable boundaries. If you can't have respect for the boundaries, move on.
I am a very happy go lucky person or so I used to be im just trying to find that person again which I know I'll get there I just need someone to allow me to let that inner child out.
I am a book girly. i love my dark romance spicy books.
yes, I do have both mental health and physical health conditions, my health conditions consist of nerve damage and yes my private area is effected by it so youd need to work hard with your hands or tongue if you dont have length or and or girth. which do stop me from working, but I am a full stay at home mum, which is a job in itself. if you don't like that, then move on. but maybe if you actually get to know me, you'll understand why.
I don't share and won't be shared.
you will need patience. i am now a single mumma to 3. p.s I am married but separated, waiting on divorce he gave me HSV-2 if this is a problem then please dont message me although people see this as a deal breaker I am fine with that. although i have this virus, I haven't flared/shed in almost 2 years.
although im looking for fun to begin with, im also looking for someone to possibly spend the rest of my life with.
I believe honesty is best, and even if that puts you off me or you dont like it, that again is fine like me for me or dont your choice.
Slightly nerdy, alt girl looking for friends and a daddy too 🐶 (i’m not trying to be a dom to anyone else, so pls don’t ask me)
Still trying to find my feet in the world of kink, so please be patient with me if I don’t know much, but I do love to learn ☺️
Feel free to drop me a message and I’ll do my best to reply back!
*polite request - please do not message me if you have no intention of actually speaking with me properly. I am looking for a genuine connection and I am not interested in being anything 'cheap'. I believe a good Dom should want to know and understand his submissive (and respect her, even within his dominance) - as she should strive to know him and his desires, as well as how to best fulfill them.*
I am brand new to the scene. I have always wanted to explore having a Dom... being a submissive (and perhaps a little playful and being good). I'm 20 though and quite young and I don't have tonnes of experience - really I would be hoping for someone who *does* and is able to be a little patient with me as I learn the ropes. (perhaps literally as well hehe 😌).
I learn fast and once I do, I genuinely want to try to make it work! I just need someone to help get me there. I think respect is important and a big thing - even if someone is a Dom or Submissive I think above that: we are all adults and humans and we should treat each other **kindly**. If that's not how you operate, that's fair, but I'm probably not for you.
I do have standards - in the sense that *I am looking for a high quality man who takes care of himself as well as his submissive*. If you do not value ethics, manners (when called for VS agreed upon kinky moments), or being a genuine person - unfortunately, this is something which will be highly incompatible with me. (so for both of our sakes it would be better to move onto the next person 😊 no judgment). I also value an *intellectual* connection, not just purely physical (although of course that is wonderful as well!). If not intellectual then there needs to be something that is going to genuinely engage both of us, whether that's humour, a good sense of character, or just being genuinely kind (outside the moments that might call for a bit more discipline 😉).
I don't want to waste anyone's time and equally I feel it's only fair if the same is done back. I'm a pretty nice person overall... I just want to meet someone with similar values who genuinely wants to be a Dom. If you are an **intentional person**, there is a high chance we will get along.
I am open-minded to exploring dynamics once a deeper level of trust and effort is established. I'm a firm believer that you get back what you give, so if you put in the work, I will match you - the results will be better overall for both of us.
If that interests you - I would love to talk. 😊 happy to answer any questions.
**please note: I am not looking for immediate meetups or hookups.** --- I do not wish to be viewed as an object nor simply as means of one-sided gratification.
Thank you 🤍
**languages spoken: English (Native), Spanish (advanced), French (intermediate), Mandarin (basic).**
notes: I have had certain users be abusive simply because I have not replied within an 8 hour period. (of sleeping!) they have been harsh, degrading and
genuinely unkind. This is a polite reminder that the person you are speaking to is still a human and does have feelings. True, not everyone processes the same, but for those who do care about other's unkind words - such as myself - please understand that even in a position as a submissive, I will not accept unfair treatment that is unjustified and is simply a reflection of poor character. Calling someone agreed upon degrading names is extremely different from what could actually read as bullying. The line is a hard stop for me - I value people who actually care.
BBW, neurospicy, and 5'6" of flirtation, humour, and good intentions. I’m the girl who’ll hype you up, make you laugh, and then tease you just enough to keep things interesting. People say I’m kind, fun, and a little addictive… I’ll let you decide if they’re right.
I'd want something substantial. Connection, consistency, and someone who actually shows up.
I’m looking for someone open minded, genuine, and ready for something that feels exciting but grounded. Bring your best energy, I’ll bring mine.
If you have a beard, a hairy chest, and big arms, you’re already halfway to winning me over 😘
Have tried and liked
•aftercare
•facefucking
•spanking
•praising
•sensory deprivation
•edging
•restrains
•breath play
•toys
•temperature play
•creampies
•nipples play
•control
•orgasm control
Want to try
•blind folded
•gagging
•bondage
•free use
Slightly nerdy, alt girl looking for friends and a daddy too 🐶 (i’m not trying to be a dom to anyone else, so pls don’t ask me)
Still trying to find my feet in the world of kink, so please be patient with me if I don’t know much, but I do love to learn ☺️
Feel free to drop me a message and I’ll do my best to reply back!
A plus-size curvy queen that likes to test your patience, I like to brat until ***d into submission. I won't do it then we'll then make me it's not that hard stop being a bitch.
although i like to brat, I do love praise. Maybe you'll actually get what you want if you can actually praise me.
never been hunted, but it is one of my fantasies.
I like me, a strong man with a dad or close to dad, bod, and tattoos and bearda. I love them. i want a man strong enough to lift me but bulky, so he's nice to cuddle. I love to breed or at least some facial hair. I am in the middle with knowing my stuff, but tbh I don't think the person who taught me most of it was a real dom.
safe words are an extreme must.
aftercare is so important. I never really had it, but the few times I have was so needed. I want someone who is good with communication and understandable boundaries. If you can't have respect for the boundaries, move on.
I am a very happy go lucky person or so I used to be im just trying to find that person again which I know I'll get there I just need someone to allow me to let that inner child out.
I am a book girly. i love my dark romance spicy books.
yes, I do have both mental health and physical health conditions, my health conditions consist of nerve damage and yes my private area is effected by it so youd need to work hard with your hands or tongue if you dont have length or and or girth. which do stop me from working, but I am a full stay at home mum, which is a job in itself. if you don't like that, then move on. but maybe if you actually get to know me, you'll understand why.
I don't share and won't be shared.
you will need patience. i am now a single mumma to 3. p.s I am married but separated, waiting on divorce he gave me HSV-2 if this is a problem then please dont message me although people see this as a deal breaker I am fine with that. although i have this virus, I haven't flared/shed in almost 2 years.
although im looking for fun to begin with, im also looking for someone to possibly spend the rest of my life with.
I believe honesty is best, and even if that puts you off me or you dont like it, that again is fine like me for me or dont your choice.
Hello :) My Name is Elena.
I am submissive. i consider myself a masochist. I was a slave for a Master a few years ago. Ideally my potential date would be interested in or have experience as a Master and is also a Sadist.
i look forward to chatting :)
a little shy, very new to this and very curious xx
things I like
being told what to do
being told how to do it
hair pulling
hand around the throat
and hard fucking
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