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I am looking for a sir or madam that I can have some fun with. Please be patient with me as I have been through some stuff and I am not quick to trust. My last LTR was emotionaly abusive and I am still recovering from that (vanilla 11yr marriage). And some much more recently, so yeah, I find my trust is very hard to give as I always end up the one hurt and losing out in the long run. And my last Sir just vanished off the face of the earth and has left me feeling very *** and unwanted... Another got all upset because my username is not the same as my real name, but they didn't ask... I've been offline for a good couple of years and only just starting to dip my toes back in so to speak and did not have the app installed. I needed the break from everything for my own mental health, so sorry if I have not replied to anyone. I need to feel at least a bit of an attraction to you so please make sure I can see what you look like in your photos? I am a shallow bratty sub basically hahaha. Also, I get that you might want to be 'private' but let us also not forget this is a dating site first and foremost, and if you are are embarrassed by who you are, maybe this is not the place for you... I really don't care if you say, oh, but people would judge me where I work if I show my face... You do realise that sexual orientation is a protected characteristic - so don't be ashamed of being who you are, online or off. You Do You. If your are significantly younger than me that really puts me off, while I am very open minded I would prefer someone around my age or older :) Also as everyone seems to think that all subs like and want it: anal, ***, swallowing. Hard limits. I do not have to explain myself, you should respect the fact I have them and that should be enough. **Desires and Fantasies** I need to trust you before I can share these.

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A plus-size curvy queen that likes to test your patience, I like to brat until ***d into submission. I won't do it then we'll then make me it's not that hard stop being a bitch. although i like to brat, I do love praise. Maybe you'll actually get what you want if you can actually praise me. never been hunted, but it is one of my fantasies. I like me, a strong man with a dad or close to dad, bod, and tattoos and bearda. I love them. i want a man strong enough to lift me but bulky, so he's nice to cuddle. I love to breed or at least some facial hair. I am in the middle with knowing my stuff, but tbh I don't think the person who taught me most of it was a real dom. safe words are an extreme must. aftercare is so important. I never really had it, but the few times I have was so needed. I want someone who is good with communication and understandable boundaries. If you can't have respect for the boundaries, move on. I am a very happy go lucky person or so I used to be im just trying to find that person again which I know I'll get there I just need someone to allow me to let that inner child out. I am a book girly. i love my dark romance spicy books. yes, I do have both mental health and physical health conditions, my health conditions consist of nerve damage and yes my private area is effected by it so youd need to work hard with your hands or tongue if you dont have length or and or girth. which do stop me from working, but I am a full stay at home mum, which is a job in itself. if you don't like that, then move on. but maybe if you actually get to know me, you'll understand why. I don't share and won't be shared. you will need patience. i am now a single mumma to 3. p.s I am married but separated, waiting on divorce he gave me HSV-2 if this is a problem then please dont message me although people see this as a deal breaker I am fine with that. although i have this virus, I haven't flared/shed in almost 2 years. although im looking for fun to begin with, im also looking for someone to possibly spend the rest of my life with. I believe honesty is best, and even if that puts you off me or you dont like it, that again is fine like me for me or dont your choice.

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I am looking for a sir or madam that I can have some fun with. Please be patient with me as I have been through some stuff and I am not quick to trust. My last LTR was emotionaly abusive and I am still recovering from that (vanilla 11yr marriage). And some much more recently, so yeah, I find my trust is very hard to give as I always end up the one hurt and losing out in the long run. And my last Sir just vanished off the face of the earth and has left me feeling very *** and unwanted... Another got all upset because my username is not the same as my real name, but they didn't ask... I've been offline for a good couple of years and only just starting to dip my toes back in so to speak and did not have the app installed. I needed the break from everything for my own mental health, so sorry if I have not replied to anyone. I need to feel at least a bit of an attraction to you so please make sure I can see what you look like in your photos? I am a shallow bratty sub basically hahaha. Also, I get that you might want to be 'private' but let us also not forget this is a dating site first and foremost, and if you are are embarrassed by who you are, maybe this is not the place for you... I really don't care if you say, oh, but people would judge me where I work if I show my face... You do realise that sexual orientation is a protected characteristic - so don't be ashamed of being who you are, online or off. You Do You. If your are significantly younger than me that really puts me off, while I am very open minded I would prefer someone around my age or older :) Also as everyone seems to think that all subs like and want it: anal, ***, swallowing. Hard limits. I do not have to explain myself, you should respect the fact I have them and that should be enough. **Desires and Fantasies** I need to trust you before I can share these.

in an open relationship but am only looking for a women who can satisfy my urges. I am slightly new to the bdsm world. want to know more message me. fuck around and find out baby😉

A plus-size curvy queen that likes to test your patience, I like to brat until ***d into submission. I won't do it then we'll then make me it's not that hard stop being a bitch. although i like to brat, I do love praise. Maybe you'll actually get what you want if you can actually praise me. never been hunted, but it is one of my fantasies. I like me, a strong man with a dad or close to dad, bod, and tattoos and bearda. I love them. i want a man strong enough to lift me but bulky, so he's nice to cuddle. I love to breed or at least some facial hair. I am in the middle with knowing my stuff, but tbh I don't think the person who taught me most of it was a real dom. safe words are an extreme must. aftercare is so important. I never really had it, but the few times I have was so needed. I want someone who is good with communication and understandable boundaries. If you can't have respect for the boundaries, move on. I am a very happy go lucky person or so I used to be im just trying to find that person again which I know I'll get there I just need someone to allow me to let that inner child out. I am a book girly. i love my dark romance spicy books. yes, I do have both mental health and physical health conditions, my health conditions consist of nerve damage and yes my private area is effected by it so youd need to work hard with your hands or tongue if you dont have length or and or girth. which do stop me from working, but I am a full stay at home mum, which is a job in itself. if you don't like that, then move on. but maybe if you actually get to know me, you'll understand why. I don't share and won't be shared. you will need patience. i am now a single mumma to 3. p.s I am married but separated, waiting on divorce he gave me HSV-2 if this is a problem then please dont message me although people see this as a deal breaker I am fine with that. although i have this virus, I haven't flared/shed in almost 2 years. although im looking for fun to begin with, im also looking for someone to possibly spend the rest of my life with. I believe honesty is best, and even if that puts you off me or you dont like it, that again is fine like me for me or dont your choice.

a little shy, very new to this and very curious xx things I like being told what to do being told how to do it hair pulling hand around the throat and hard fucking