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Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (53) Basildon, Essex
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (44) Basildon, Essex
Confident, controlled, and unapologetically dominant. I enjoy power exchange built on consent, tension, and psychological control. If you know your place and value boundaries as much as desire, we’ll get along just fine.
Female (38) Basildon, Essex
Hi I'm shell and I love being punished and being donated too I also like poking after my master but I don't like doing as I'm told as like more punishment I love being slapped and whipped and paddle and love it hard and fast
Female (34) Basildon, Essex
Discovering that I'm not as vanilla as I thought I was. I'm new, be gentle.. or don't ? I can't engage with someone unless I feel safe, so don't send dick pics or expect me to send photos. Let's chat first, then we can get naughty.
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
Princess vibes with a sweet grin and a teasing spark... A free-spirited little doll who loves sensation, indulgence, and playful power games. Masochistic by nature, hucow-aligned by desire—soft, body-positive, and a little bit spoiled. Polyamorous and demisexual, I’m all about intentional connections, slow-burn chemistry, and mutual excitement. I bounce between sugar and sass, drawn to confident energy, creative chemistry, and connections that feel like dress-up, ritual, and shared mischief.
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
I’m quite new to exploring this world always been into it though. I’m a switch so looking for friends and subs to dominate or dominate me😈 I’m a big curvy girl ready for some fun.
Female (29) Basildon, Essex

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Hey welcome to my profile So I have been in this life style for around 10 year. I sway more towards being a Domme, but every so often being a sub is a turn on. I am looking for real meets with real guys, if you are looking for more than chatting on here, lets see if we have a connection. My bio's are from real and is about a guy I met awhile ago. All my stories are all true, and gives you an insight on what I enjoy Anyone that does not know how to send a first message and is crued, rude, send dick picks, or demand anything from me (like you know me)or down right wouldn kiss your mam with that mouth I will just block. Im not for you I cnt see "likes" so come say hi. Please read my hard limits as they are important. I have a age limit so anyone under 30 unfortunatley your too young even if you feel you are mature for your age, I have kids around 30's. Im not for you Im not hear to jump into bed with just anyone lets get to know each other. My first will always be a coffee or a drink no sexual touching so if thats what your looking for unfortunatley Im not for you. If I message back and say your too young dnt take it as an insult as its not ment to be, but unfortunatley Im not for you Happy hunting and good luck
Female (53) Basildon, Essex
Im looking for an old school type Dom who likes protocol and wants to teach and look after his sub. A Dom/mentor who isn’t just going to give up if/ when I say the wrong thing but understand and correct my mistake so I am able to learn and become a better submissive for you. One who is strict and serious, who likes rules, structure and discipline as well as enjoying a bit of fun and playfulness at times when appropriate. (I am apparently still learning where that line is) I want to see and feel your control, your power - I crave and enjoy it! I do like a lot of communication and messages. But understand there are times you can not do this with other commitments likewise that goes for me too. I’m aware a lot of Doms who may message me are in vanilla or D/s dynamics already. I’m totally fine with this and have spoken to many other dynamics during my many years on fet. I will not accept friend requests from random people who do not even send a message first! Or those of you who just want to perv at pics and not even bother to message me at all! I think it’s extremely rude! I don’t like naked pics so if that’s all your after move along
Female (44) Basildon, Essex
Confident, controlled, and unapologetically dominant. I enjoy power exchange built on consent, tension, and psychological control. If you know your place and value boundaries as much as desire, we’ll get along just fine.
Female (38) Basildon, Essex
I’m quite new to exploring this world always been into it though. I’m a switch so looking for friends and subs to dominate or dominate me😈 I’m a big curvy girl ready for some fun.
Female (29) Basildon, Essex
Hi I'm shell and I love being punished and being donated too I also like poking after my master but I don't like doing as I'm told as like more punishment I love being slapped and whipped and paddle and love it hard and fast
Female (34) Basildon, Essex
Discovering that I'm not as vanilla as I thought I was. I'm new, be gentle.. or don't ? I can't engage with someone unless I feel safe, so don't send dick pics or expect me to send photos. Let's chat first, then we can get naughty.
Female (33) Basildon, Essex
Princess vibes with a sweet grin and a teasing spark... A free-spirited little doll who loves sensation, indulgence, and playful power games. Masochistic by nature, hucow-aligned by desire—soft, body-positive, and a little bit spoiled. Polyamorous and demisexual, I’m all about intentional connections, slow-burn chemistry, and mutual excitement. I bounce between sugar and sass, drawn to confident energy, creative chemistry, and connections that feel like dress-up, ritual, and shared mischief.
Female (33) Basildon, Essex

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