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I'm new here and still figuring things out. I'm only interested in men who can handle and appreciate voluptuous women, I'm a size 18. I'm very sensual and love having my big nipples played with. 😉
Female (40) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long! I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves. For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but *** for ***s sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over *** and love filthy talk but not being degraded. I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with. In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love music, art, travelling and the outdoors. Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR. Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Female (58) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I am a Mistress who believes in the art of dominance: clear, composed, and always consensual. My work blends psychological precision with the practical skills of bondage, discipline, and ritualized protocol. I begin every encounter with a careful negotiation to learn your limits, desires, and safe words; I design scenes that honor those boundaries while guiding you to meaningful edges. Safety checks, aftercare, and emotional stewardship are integral to my practice you will be led, heard, and valued throughout. For those seeking transformation through structure, ceremony, or careful discipline, I provide a reliable, respectful, and deeply attentive experience.
Female (34) Bedford, Bedfordshire
First and foremost I am a mum and my boy will always come first over kink. I started my discovery of kink through erotica and have began exploring over the past year. I’m a brat (apparently) but would say I have a little/middle side, I’m not into diapers or bottles. I love coddling, being taken care of and watching films while eating ice cream. I also love being put in my place and apparently my sense of humour is just me being a brat (they’re lying I’m hilarious) In my vanilla life I’m a student, I enjoy sports but haven’t been able to participate in a couple of years due to health. I’m creative and love writing and reading (smut of course👀). I also love to ***t and enjoy the smaller things in life. Nature is my safe haven I love walks and going on adventures.
Female (26) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Eclectic Pagan- Roman, Hellenic, Norse Paganism & I believe in demons, i'm also interested in Satanism, Luciferianism, Demonology, witchcraft, occultism, spirituality, alternative spiritual beliefs and occult practices, I'm open-minded and believe in various things and I would he respectful towards people that have alternative beliefs & practices as long as they treat me in the same way. I believe in the Roman/Greek version of Lucifer-"the light-bringer" "the light bearer" I only want to talk to open-minded people that practice witchcraft that aren't going to judge/shame me for the kinks/fetishes i'm into or my alternative spiritual/occult related beliefs. I only want to have mutual, equal respectful conversations & interactions with people that are interested in the same things as me, instead of having conversations and interactions that are abusive, exploitative or sometimes a minority of men try to *** the kinks & fetishes they are into onto me when sometimes it's a kink or fetish that I am definitely not into, I shouldn't have to explain the concept of respect, consent, boundaries to a minority of men. Kinks/Fetishes that I am into: Dd/lg Mask kink-Ghostface, Michael Myers, horror film characters, cosplayers, vintage, Mardi Gras, Renaissance, Venetian masks, Carnival masks, occult masks, masquerade ball masks Old fashioned clothing for roleplaying Satanic sex-consensual sex magick or sex with entities, demons and spirits Astral sex Mutual exchange of energy for tantric & healing purposes. Gentle Domination- being touched gently Being seduced by a man that is my boyfriend/Daddy Dom (When I know he respects me, is trustworthy and I feel safe with him) Verbal *** Praise Kink Predator-prey kink CnC & similar roleplay Knife play, *** play Vampirism as a kink/fetish Roleplaying Narratophilia-Dirty talk, Spicy ASMR Auralism-Men growling, grunting, purring like a big cat, speaking in a foreign language or with a accent when they speak in English, Spicy ASMR, Audio Erotica (Quinn App & audiodesires.com) Mental stimulation- blindfold, *** deprivation Erotic Hypnosis- Fantasies, it helps with being sexually repressed/sexually frustrated Astral Sex- Astral projection, Astral sex, Lucid dreaming Spiritual BDSM, a spiritual Dom/sub dynamic that involves witchcraft, astral sex, BDSM, a spiritual connection/bond, Different types of *** (including being held in a man's arms & being bitten in various places, held down during sex and seduced, bitten a lot) I'm a shy, awkward, direct/honest person & i'm sexually repressed, I have a long-distance boyfriend (he doesn't use this website so I can't add my relationship status) so I want to make some friends. There are specific things I want/need from a Dom/sub dynamic, I want/need to feel safe, respected, to be able to trust a guy 100%) I'm not into the Dd/lg kink for incestuous/peadophilic reasons/purposes & I don't hurt ***s/kids either. People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important. No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female (38) Bedford, Bedfordshire
check my fetlife profile. Kin_Kay
Female (32) Bedford, Bedfordshire
i’m new to kink and still figuring out what i like. i know i’m drawn to control, connection, and the kind of energy that makes me want to give in. submissive, but thoughtful about it. i don’t give that part of myself to just anyone. it takes trust, tension, and someone who knows how to build it slowly. not into rushing, pushing, or performative dom vibes. if you’re grounded, patient, and know how to keep things simmering, i’ll probably want to know more. good luck earning it.
Female (25) Bedford, Bedfordshire
soft sub energy, figuring it out as i go. please be gentle 💗 a little shy but slowly learning to open up. drawn to caring, patient doms with a teasing side. i like gentle guidance, playful energy, and feeling safe enough to let go. open to both online and in-person if it feels right.
Female (24) Bedford, Bedfordshire
hey! we are a couple looking for a girl, we are open to suggestions, we are willing to try something new. if you would like to join, send a message and we will definitely get back to you
Female (40) Bedford, Bedfordshire
• Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully • New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want: control, structure, and connection. I’m a natural sub with a bratty edge, but I take trust, communication, and boundaries seriously. • Interested in D/s, discipline, mental power exchange, and scenes that go deeper than just play. •I’m still exploring - I value patience, safety, and experience over ego. •I’m currently open to casual play and connections that don’t need to lead to something long-term. That doesn’t mean casual about consent, safety, or emotional care — just that I’m young, exploring, and not rushing. If we vibe and there’s trust, I’m open to letting things unfold with intention, not pressure. • Looking to learn, connect, and eventually serve. • I love art, fitness, late-night sarcasm, and anyone who understands aftercare isn’t optional. • Message respectfully - if you know how to guide and teach without pushing, I’ll listen.
Female (19) Bedford, Bedfordshire
A Loving, passionate, loyal Submissive. who loves to be loved and cared for, treated like a princess by day, but……. A Lover of good morning and good night texts, deep and meaningful chats, sharing our day, ‘how you doing’ checks etc… after care goes beyond just the end of play. Emotional Intimacy is a must. I'm A true romantic at heart but ultimately a Lover of structured but primal, impact BDSM play with sensual and tender loving mixed in. Vanilla me is strong and independent , a natural carer of others. Honesty, respect, good communication and a good sense of humour are a must. Every day is a learning day, so if you reach out, and inspire me, then prepare to be peppered with questions from my inquisitive brain! Happy to chat. Respect and manners are key so I wont reply if they are not present. You don't yet know what I look like so dont start with hey beautiful or anything similar as you’ll lose my interest straight away. I don’t play lightly or just for fun with randoms, I'm not just looking for play partners or an affair either so please don't bother reaching out if that's what your after. My Unicorn Dom is - A mature, well-mannered ,strong minded, firm handed. Experianced, Primal, emotionally intimate Dom. Who likes structure, is good at communication in and outside of play. For a loving, intimate, long term manogamous D/s based relationship. Trust is earnt and A deep connection is a must before any trust is given.
Female (55) Bedford, Bedfordshire

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I am a Mistress who believes in the art of dominance: clear, composed, and always consensual. My work blends psychological precision with the practical skills of bondage, discipline, and ritualized protocol. I begin every encounter with a careful negotiation to learn your limits, desires, and safe words; I design scenes that honor those boundaries while guiding you to meaningful edges. Safety checks, aftercare, and emotional stewardship are integral to my practice you will be led, heard, and valued throughout. For those seeking transformation through structure, ceremony, or careful discipline, I provide a reliable, respectful, and deeply attentive experience.
Female (34) Bedford, Bedfordshire
First and foremost I am a mum and my boy will always come first over kink. I started my discovery of kink through erotica and have began exploring over the past year. I’m a brat (apparently) but would say I have a little/middle side, I’m not into diapers or bottles. I love coddling, being taken care of and watching films while eating ice cream. I also love being put in my place and apparently my sense of humour is just me being a brat (they’re lying I’m hilarious) In my vanilla life I’m a student, I enjoy sports but haven’t been able to participate in a couple of years due to health. I’m creative and love writing and reading (smut of course👀). I also love to ***t and enjoy the smaller things in life. Nature is my safe haven I love walks and going on adventures.
Female (26) Bedford, Bedfordshire
I'm new here and still figuring things out. I'm only interested in men who can handle and appreciate voluptuous women, I'm a size 18. I'm very sensual and love having my big nipples played with. 😉
Female (40) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Hey, I’m slowly exploring and discovering my kinky side, which I think seems to have been denied for far too long! I need a man with a wicked sense of humour - playful and cheeky conversation is a bonus - and who appreciates a woman with curves. For kink, I favour restraint and control over sadistic tendencies - correction and punishment have their place but *** for ***s sake isn’t for me. I prefer praise over *** and love filthy talk but not being degraded. I need a man taller than myself - I’m 5 foot 10 - to dominate me, take control and have fun with. In my vanilla life, I’m very independent and professional and love music, art, travelling and the outdoors. Ultimately, I am hoping to meet someone to adore and be adored by and have an LTR. Most definitely am NOT into feet and foot fetishes!
Female (58) Bedford, Bedfordshire
Eclectic Pagan- Roman, Hellenic, Norse Paganism & I believe in demons, i'm also interested in Satanism, Luciferianism, Demonology, witchcraft, occultism, spirituality, alternative spiritual beliefs and occult practices, I'm open-minded and believe in various things and I would he respectful towards people that have alternative beliefs & practices as long as they treat me in the same way. I believe in the Roman/Greek version of Lucifer-"the light-bringer" "the light bearer" I only want to talk to open-minded people that practice witchcraft that aren't going to judge/shame me for the kinks/fetishes i'm into or my alternative spiritual/occult related beliefs. I only want to have mutual, equal respectful conversations & interactions with people that are interested in the same things as me, instead of having conversations and interactions that are abusive, exploitative or sometimes a minority of men try to *** the kinks & fetishes they are into onto me when sometimes it's a kink or fetish that I am definitely not into, I shouldn't have to explain the concept of respect, consent, boundaries to a minority of men. Kinks/Fetishes that I am into: Dd/lg Mask kink-Ghostface, Michael Myers, horror film characters, cosplayers, vintage, Mardi Gras, Renaissance, Venetian masks, Carnival masks, occult masks, masquerade ball masks Old fashioned clothing for roleplaying Satanic sex-consensual sex magick or sex with entities, demons and spirits Astral sex Mutual exchange of energy for tantric & healing purposes. Gentle Domination- being touched gently Being seduced by a man that is my boyfriend/Daddy Dom (When I know he respects me, is trustworthy and I feel safe with him) Verbal *** Praise Kink Predator-prey kink CnC & similar roleplay Knife play, *** play Vampirism as a kink/fetish Roleplaying Narratophilia-Dirty talk, Spicy ASMR Auralism-Men growling, grunting, purring like a big cat, speaking in a foreign language or with a accent when they speak in English, Spicy ASMR, Audio Erotica (Quinn App & audiodesires.com) Mental stimulation- blindfold, *** deprivation Erotic Hypnosis- Fantasies, it helps with being sexually repressed/sexually frustrated Astral Sex- Astral projection, Astral sex, Lucid dreaming Spiritual BDSM, a spiritual Dom/sub dynamic that involves witchcraft, astral sex, BDSM, a spiritual connection/bond, Different types of *** (including being held in a man's arms & being bitten in various places, held down during sex and seduced, bitten a lot) I'm a shy, awkward, direct/honest person & i'm sexually repressed, I have a long-distance boyfriend (he doesn't use this website so I can't add my relationship status) so I want to make some friends. There are specific things I want/need from a Dom/sub dynamic, I want/need to feel safe, respected, to be able to trust a guy 100%) I'm not into the Dd/lg kink for incestuous/peadophilic reasons/purposes & I don't hurt ***s/kids either. People really need to learn the basics of respect, consent, the basic principles of BDSM as well & learn why the vetting process for any potential Dom or sub is important. No one automatically has your consent, respect, trust or submission, especially when you are getting to know them.
Female (38) Bedford, Bedfordshire
soft sub energy, figuring it out as i go. please be gentle 💗 a little shy but slowly learning to open up. drawn to caring, patient doms with a teasing side. i like gentle guidance, playful energy, and feeling safe enough to let go. open to both online and in-person if it feels right.
Female (24) Bedford, Bedfordshire
i’m new to kink and still figuring out what i like. i know i’m drawn to control, connection, and the kind of energy that makes me want to give in. submissive, but thoughtful about it. i don’t give that part of myself to just anyone. it takes trust, tension, and someone who knows how to build it slowly. not into rushing, pushing, or performative dom vibes. if you’re grounded, patient, and know how to keep things simmering, i’ll probably want to know more. good luck earning it.
Female (25) Bedford, Bedfordshire
• Curious, Cheeky, and learning to kneel - respectfully • New to the scene, but not new to knowing what I want: control, structure, and connection. I’m a natural sub with a bratty edge, but I take trust, communication, and boundaries seriously. • Interested in D/s, discipline, mental power exchange, and scenes that go deeper than just play. •I’m still exploring - I value patience, safety, and experience over ego. •I’m currently open to casual play and connections that don’t need to lead to something long-term. That doesn’t mean casual about consent, safety, or emotional care — just that I’m young, exploring, and not rushing. If we vibe and there’s trust, I’m open to letting things unfold with intention, not pressure. • Looking to learn, connect, and eventually serve. • I love art, fitness, late-night sarcasm, and anyone who understands aftercare isn’t optional. • Message respectfully - if you know how to guide and teach without pushing, I’ll listen.
Female (19) Bedford, Bedfordshire
A Loving, passionate, loyal Submissive. who loves to be loved and cared for, treated like a princess by day, but……. A Lover of good morning and good night texts, deep and meaningful chats, sharing our day, ‘how you doing’ checks etc… after care goes beyond just the end of play. Emotional Intimacy is a must. I'm A true romantic at heart but ultimately a Lover of structured but primal, impact BDSM play with sensual and tender loving mixed in. Vanilla me is strong and independent , a natural carer of others. Honesty, respect, good communication and a good sense of humour are a must. Every day is a learning day, so if you reach out, and inspire me, then prepare to be peppered with questions from my inquisitive brain! Happy to chat. Respect and manners are key so I wont reply if they are not present. You don't yet know what I look like so dont start with hey beautiful or anything similar as you’ll lose my interest straight away. I don’t play lightly or just for fun with randoms, I'm not just looking for play partners or an affair either so please don't bother reaching out if that's what your after. My Unicorn Dom is - A mature, well-mannered ,strong minded, firm handed. Experianced, Primal, emotionally intimate Dom. Who likes structure, is good at communication in and outside of play. For a loving, intimate, long term manogamous D/s based relationship. Trust is earnt and A deep connection is a must before any trust is given.
Female (55) Bedford, Bedfordshire
hey! we are a couple looking for a girl, we are open to suggestions, we are willing to try something new. if you would like to join, send a message and we will definitely get back to you
Female (40) Bedford, Bedfordshire
check my fetlife profile. Kin_Kay
Female (32) Bedford, Bedfordshire

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