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hi guys. firstly I can’t see likes so send a message instead. looking for meets with guys, I do prefer regular meets over one offs. I’m a top, experienced Fister, have wide tastes including leathers, age/role play, showing straight and Bi curious what they need. discretion given.
I've not long ago found the pleasures of cbt especially ball streaching . Looking for like minded individuals to help push the limits with me **Desires and Fantasies** I often fantasize about being dominated by another guy. Yielding to his every whim. Id love to be bound and fucked in my ass and deepthroated at the same time. I love cock in all shapes and sizes and would love to be streached out by a huge cock or dildo. Would like to get cock and also lo meet local lads whos up for it.
Male (50) Coventry, West Midlands
like to be turned on and to serve a dom man. aim to please. I am not one of them lazy bottom bitches who just lay there. I interact. I can be your henry the hoover. love verbal tied up toys am more bbttm ff whatever . love cnc stuff
Hello, I’m Mally—a gay man excited to make new friends and connect with like-minded men interested in exploring kink, fetish, and BDSM. I’m submissive, curious, and always open to discovering new experiences. After many years away, I’ve returned to Northern Ireland and can’t wait to meet new people and have some fun. I'm creative, confident, genuine, loyal, and caring, and I love people who can make me laugh beyond the role-play arena. I’d love to hear from you—and, if you’re interested, perhaps we could meet for a coffee first.
Male (53) Muckamore, Antrim
Hi! I'm an ultra open minded guy . Total exhibitionist. Offer massage. Stripper. Kinky as fuck. Into feet, socks, sheers, mesh, hosiery, office wear, sports wear, underwear, costumes, leather, lycra, zentai. Total top, dom daddy.
slim to average build. blonde. blue eyes. really into pretty much everything! even diverse n unusual kinks n fetishes. don’t be scared to suggest anything. live in sheffield uk
I’m looking for submissive who willingly chooses to submit to my guidance and be under my control.
Hey! I'm 21 and from the UK 🐾 I'm gay, a little and really enjoy ABDL, and I'm also into pup play. I'm fairly new to the wider community and looking to meet people, make friends and hopefully find someone special. I'm a pretty chill guy who loves gaming, anime, music and just hanging out. I'm affectionate, cuddly and love being able to relax and be myself around someone I trust. 💜 I'm especially interested in the little/caregiver side of ABDL and would love to meet someone who genuinely enjoys that dynamic too. 🍼🐶
Male (21) Blackpool, Lancashire
Very Open minded lad who just wants to please a dominant deviant top **Desires and Fantasies** Just hear to be used and ***d
Male (42) Taunton, Somerset
Im into pup stuff and chastity, but am very interested in trying some long term chastity with the goal of shrinkage. But would like someone have me and train me as a pup. Abdl interests me, as dose unpotty training. And ive always had a facination with latex and rubber but never the funds to try it. Outside of kink, im a computer science studen. I love manga, and fantacy novels. I play the occasional game, like bauders gate, or pokemon, but i love retro gaming on the ds, current grindin on bravly defulat. My favorate movie is walfwalkers, my favoarte manga is 'so im a spider, so what?'. My favorate book serise is the cradle serise by will wight.
Male (20) Erewash, Derbyshire
I am looking for friends and some fetish fun, and I'd like to go to some fetish events sometimes, I like videogames and music, I am 29, love leather and latex and I have a average to big cock, long for full coverage latex
Tall (6ft 7) sub looking for a Master to serve. I give excellent foot rubs!
Male (43) Woking, Surrey
I’m a 43 yo Aussie male living in West Yorkshire . I’m partnered but we have an open relationship. I’m vers and very sexual. love being a dom top but also can be a very sl&tty sub
Male (43) Halifax, West Yorkshire
If u like me please message me Im looking for someone who will love me and my kinks and not body shame me I'm into DDLB, puppy play, role play, bondage and being made into a sissy
Male (30) Great Yarmouth, Norfolk
Cute young bdsm virgin, submissive boy. Very new to this world, looking for a dom/daddy. Am into diapers, *** holding and wetting, general bdsm. Have been very vanilla and want someone to teach me and punish me.
Male (32) London, Greater London
Out going guy in to leather and latex bdsm . Very open minded looking for guys . Straight guys very welcome All about the gear
Male (49) Stafford, Staffordshire
**UK ONLY ** **MEN ONLY** I'm a straight acting blue collar male that is very feminine in the bedroom, hence the lingerie and sissification kink 😉 so meeting someone who gets off on that would be a massive bonus 😀 my Sissy name is Poppy 😘 Overweight, but I'm working quite hard to change that. I run my own business, and not doing a bad job either with it 🤣. But time is never on my side. 🥺 Looking to find a regular FWB, or even just some new friends. Younger (24 - 40) Daddy Dom would be the perfect one 😃. If I happen to have liked your profile or pictures, it is a compliment, I do read profiles. I know you're only interested in women 😘 I can't see spanks or likes, Haven't decided if I'm gonna pay for the app yet, so please just send a message. Sub slave bottom. Chastity, ***d sissification, BDSM is a new fave. Bukakke is on my to-do list. 😈 Pig bottom subservient, please don't message me and ask me to top you... It's not going to happen. Love to be dominated and used by younger fit guys (that's a literal plural as well as a generalisation). I love being used by straight/curious guys... They f**k better and harder. If you're a smoker... Move to the front of the queue, should there ever be one 🤣 Gay guys... Prove me wrong 😉 It's all role play. I cannot host, but I am willing to travel after getting to know you a little first. I would love to get to know a few people and find friends. NSFB, and horny chat. I have a *** kink and a praise kink... yes they can and do exist together. Conversation is quite important at the start and throughout.A good Dom needs to seduce consent from their sub. So let's get chatting. Considering OF content also. 🤔 As well as considering.... 😛
Male (48) St Helens, Merseyside
Not sure about my BDSM Test results to be honest!! I am looking to expand my kinky fetish world with new experiences and new friends and more regular play with people I can get to know so we can both have a good time. Only have basic version so far so cannot see Spanks or Likes. Please DM me if you want to chat or are interested in more.
Male (69) Carmarthenshire, Wales
looking for skinny to medium build fem/guys/trans buy must have penis with desire to perform/pose and show me what ur strong points are. I’m an open minded, fit and yogi trained dom **Desires and Fantasies** wearing tight jeans/knickers, girly gym wear, that cissy look, boots, hold ups, body aware folk, stretching, yoga, breath play within reason, or folk willing to submit to training/posing/photography, safe limits strictly adhered, massage, mutual edging, experimental playtime in safe space.. smooth younger guys/trans top of the queue wanting strict instructions, subs welcome. can accom
Male (62) Frome, Somerset
A professional man who loves dressing for the outdoors in any sort of protective clothing - to keep dry or to keep warm or both. In London at least two days a week. **Desires and Fantasies** To enjoy that intense feeling of being dressed and constrained in a fully protective suit of gear, crucially hooded: could be mountain waterproofs, arctic gear, sailing waterproofs, any down suits or jackets - just need to have that gear put on me by another like minded guy
Male (74) London, Greater London
Nympho. If I liked your profile/ photos it means I want you to breed me. I’m a sexually submissive gay male with a latex fetish who loves being gang banged & spit roasted. If you’re fucking me, I’m getting your load.
Male (36) London, Greater London
I enjoy wearing diapers and only looking for other guys who get off on it too....no woman **Desires and Fantasies** Above ...long hot nappy sessions
Male (58) Bournemouth, Dorset
There are two parts to my profile. i seek a position within a male household as his male maid/slave - no strings , put me to work The other is as a no strings cock sucker. All explained below. i am looking for Male Masters who like sissy subs i am "The_Mouth" You are on this site today with certain desires or expectations, looking for that ideal or near ideal encounter. Can I ask though , how many times have you logged on here , hoping to get sexual relief , with an “ideal” but not achieved it ? I may not be what you came here looking for , but , I do have the solution for your frustration. You are horny , it looks like you won’t get a “date” today and why have yet another wank ? There is no need for you to do that as I am “The_Mouth”. This emasculated, therefore non-threatening male , locked in chastity, provides cock sucking service. My own dick is off limits , i am in chastity, it re-in***s my role as simply being a 2 hole pleasuregiver to Alpha males, so , not looking for reciprocation. So , if you SERIOUSLY need your cock sucked and you are aged 18 - 55 and dont have a beer belly/gut - message me. The type of scenario is , you visit me , or we meet in a public place . like a public toilet. The only words spoken are yours “get on your knees and open your mouth” I drop , I suck , you cum down my throat , I rise and turn around and leave. You have enjoyed a warm , moist , talented mouth around your cock. i am just a regular guy in the streets , jeans and t-shirt type , not handsome , not ugly, normal build. BUT under those jeans i am ALWAYS wearing stockings, suspenders and panties as a constant reminder that i am simply a "sissy" , who is inferior to Alpha males and i am to do their bidding whenever they require it. i am NOT a TV who has not "made the grade". i have NO DESIRE to wear make-up , wigs etc... and present as female. More intense servitude is possible if the location and time availability is good - e.g i will rim you , if required, or present my clean ass to you to fuck . For the more demanding male I would submit to bondage , fisting, human toilet training, w/s etc... i am sorry , i will NEVER send a face picture , as i can't have my mates finding out that i am actually an inferior sissy who drops for cock. I AM ALSO SEEKING UNPAID EMPLOYMENT AS A MALE MAID. This does not have to include sex. This would suit a male who needs his home kept spotless , his kitchen clean , his shirts ironed , so that fconquests visiting him will have a lovely environment to spend time in. If you require me to be your maid , you MUST live in London and you must live alone , or in an all male household. i COULD travel for this duty , but , if it is a distance , i would have to be accommodated overnight and roped or chained when not in service. **Desires and Fantasies** To be enslaved , kept chained/captive , be put to work , serve domestically and sexually, serve a Master, serve a Master and his friends , Master could also sell my services to other men to recoup his upkeep.
Male (53) London, Greater London
I’m really into spandex/lycra and would love to meet more people into it too. I’m quite shy and so take a bit of time to come out of my shell, especially as I’m not out to many people. Would love to boost my confidence in meeting up with more spandex lovers. Telegram: kal_el2022
Male (32) Rugby, Warwickshire

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Hello, I’m Mally—a gay man excited to make new friends and connect with like-minded men interested in exploring kink, fetish, and BDSM. I’m submissive, curious, and always open to discovering new experiences. After many years away, I’ve returned to Northern Ireland and can’t wait to meet new people and have some fun. I'm creative, confident, genuine, loyal, and caring, and I love people who can make me laugh beyond the role-play arena. I’d love to hear from you—and, if you’re interested, perhaps we could meet for a coffee first.
Male (53) Muckamore, Antrim
Hey! I'm 21 and from the UK 🐾 I'm gay, a little and really enjoy ABDL, and I'm also into pup play. I'm fairly new to the wider community and looking to meet people, make friends and hopefully find someone special. I'm a pretty chill guy who loves gaming, anime, music and just hanging out. I'm affectionate, cuddly and love being able to relax and be myself around someone I trust. 💜 I'm especially interested in the little/caregiver side of ABDL and would love to meet someone who genuinely enjoys that dynamic too. 🍼🐶
Male (21) Blackpool, Lancashire
Ideally I would like a LTR, I would seriously consider TPE (as Dom) or a switch TPE. I’m 50/50 depending on the person. I’m open to discuss PPE. Relationship should be about discussion. But I am more than happy for meets, ideally regular but one offs are considered . Kink club meets would be great! Travel a bit around the UK. So say hi, and I maybe in your area at some point. I only travel ATM, though I have my own house, I have lodger for a bit. Buying a house was expensive. Im very varied and happy to discuss. Got a list of things I want to do. I have a few key elements, trust, legal, consent and limits. What I like: Bondage, Role play, Gags, Rope, ABDL, Threesomes/group. You don’t have to be in all of them for us to get on. I have a good creative mind! Perfect for kink. I do not like fisting, ***. Why no photo? Private person when it comes to kink. Adding to profile*
Male (36) Moccas, Herefordshire
I’m looking for submissive who willingly chooses to submit to my guidance and be under my control.
like to be turned on and to serve a dom man. aim to please. I am not one of them lazy bottom bitches who just lay there. I interact. I can be your henry the hoover. love verbal tied up toys am more bbttm ff whatever . love cnc stuff
I’m a chilled 34 year old guy, who is vastly inexperienced and looking to change that. I’m totally up for chats, meets, nsa or some commitment. Whilst I’m not 100% sure on all the kinks out there so many intrigue me and I’m open to trying most things at least once or twice before making judgment. I do like wearing some diapers have done for a few years but totally get that some aren’t into it and equally happy to ditch it if needed. More of a DL than an AB but again open to it. 💦 only in the padding though, 💩 is just messy, stinks and *** to cleanup What I lack in experience I make up for in not being a timewaster, committed and open minded
Male (34) Canterbury, Kent
Am 57 Gay male looking to explore Sub/Dom dynamic as a sub with other Gay male. Completely new to this so not sure what to expect. looking for someone to show me ropes,
Male (58) Wirral, Merseyside
Not sure about my BDSM Test results to be honest!! I am looking to expand my kinky fetish world with new experiences and new friends and more regular play with people I can get to know so we can both have a good time. Only have basic version so far so cannot see Spanks or Likes. Please DM me if you want to chat or are interested in more.
Male (69) Carmarthenshire, Wales
My names david looking for a casual *** to feed my wallet i want to watch my ***s do things for my enjoyment im very dom and commanding if this is what your looking for give me a message
Male (18) Oldham, Lancashire
Pathetic worthless gay slave desperately seeking a Master to own and destroy me. I exist only to serve and suffer. I’m a broken, inferior faggot who gets off on being treated like disposable meat. Heavy metal bondage is my obsession — I need thick, heavy steel shackles, iron chains, cages, and restraints that leave permanent marks and remind me I’m nothing but locked-up property.Use me hard. Break me. I crave brutal pony play — strapped in heavy harnesses, bit gag in my mouth, pulling your cart until I collapse. *** me into endless hard labor like the human work *** I am. Whip and cane my worthless ass until it’s raw and bleeding. Make me worship your boots and feet for hours, licking them clean while you spit on me and call me a disgusting slave bitch. I’m addicted to *** and ***. Mock me, expose me, objectify me, treat me like a stupid *** or piece of furniture. Lock my worthless cock in steel and ruin any hope of pleasure. I want to be beaten, broken, and used until I only know how to obey. Craving: Extreme heavy metal bondage & inescapable restraint Savage pony play & hard labor Merciless whipping, flogging & corporal punishment Boot/foot worship & total *** Intense ***, verbal *** & objectification Chastity, ***, and total power exchange If you’re a ruthless, experienced Master who knows how to crush a slave’s ego and turn him into your personal property, message me. I have no rights. No limits worth mentioning. Just a eager *** pig and slave hole ready to be claimed and ruined. Use me. Destroy me. Own me.
I’m really into spandex/lycra and would love to meet more people into it too. I’m quite shy and so take a bit of time to come out of my shell, especially as I’m not out to many people. Would love to boost my confidence in meeting up with more spandex lovers. Telegram: kal_el2022
Male (32) Rugby, Warwickshire
South hamstead, 68 yr old. Disabled pure active top guy only, avarage looking, smoker, various interests and hobbies and music taste , I'm a television watcher, I live alone and would love some one to watch telly with / holidays / day trips out together / shopping / naked afternoon naps together / playing naked domineos together / naked evening meals in , !!....someone to go to bed with at night and Someone to wake up in the mornings with !!....i don't do casual sex / time wasters / fly by nights / gay couples / open relationships / bi married men ... i am very loyal and very romantic and out spoken.......i also love to pull and twist nipples hard , .........I am seeking a single 70 yr old to 100yrs old, ( lord hailsham / harold wilson look-a-like )....22 stone / 25 stone, grumpy looking clean shaven faced with white graying eye brows and white hair, pure bottom, love receiving nipple ***, no screaming out, smooth chested and shaved below,
Male (68) Reading, Berkshire
Im into pup stuff and chastity, but am very interested in trying some long term chastity with the goal of shrinkage. But would like someone have me and train me as a pup. Abdl interests me, as dose unpotty training. And ive always had a facination with latex and rubber but never the funds to try it. Outside of kink, im a computer science studen. I love manga, and fantacy novels. I play the occasional game, like bauders gate, or pokemon, but i love retro gaming on the ds, current grindin on bravly defulat. My favorate movie is walfwalkers, my favoarte manga is 'so im a spider, so what?'. My favorate book serise is the cradle serise by will wight.
Male (20) Erewash, Derbyshire
Asian switch male. Enjoys bondage, tying/being tied up. relatively new to the scene. Also enjoys tickling/edging.
Male (27) London, Greater London
Out going guy in to leather and latex bdsm . Very open minded looking for guys . Straight guys very welcome All about the gear
Male (49) Stafford, Staffordshire
I’m a 43 yo Aussie male living in West Yorkshire . I’m partnered but we have an open relationship. I’m vers and very sexual. love being a dom top but also can be a very sl&tty sub
Male (43) Halifax, West Yorkshire
Tall (6ft 7) sub looking for a Master to serve. I give excellent foot rubs!
Male (43) Woking, Surrey
**UK ONLY ** **MEN ONLY** I'm a straight acting blue collar male that is very feminine in the bedroom, hence the lingerie and sissification kink 😉 so meeting someone who gets off on that would be a massive bonus 😀 my Sissy name is Poppy 😘 Overweight, but I'm working quite hard to change that. I run my own business, and not doing a bad job either with it 🤣. But time is never on my side. 🥺 Looking to find a regular FWB, or even just some new friends. Younger (24 - 40) Daddy Dom would be the perfect one 😃. If I happen to have liked your profile or pictures, it is a compliment, I do read profiles. I know you're only interested in women 😘 I can't see spanks or likes, Haven't decided if I'm gonna pay for the app yet, so please just send a message. Sub slave bottom. Chastity, ***d sissification, BDSM is a new fave. Bukakke is on my to-do list. 😈 Pig bottom subservient, please don't message me and ask me to top you... It's not going to happen. Love to be dominated and used by younger fit guys (that's a literal plural as well as a generalisation). I love being used by straight/curious guys... They f**k better and harder. If you're a smoker... Move to the front of the queue, should there ever be one 🤣 Gay guys... Prove me wrong 😉 It's all role play. I cannot host, but I am willing to travel after getting to know you a little first. I would love to get to know a few people and find friends. NSFB, and horny chat. I have a *** kink and a praise kink... yes they can and do exist together. Conversation is quite important at the start and throughout.A good Dom needs to seduce consent from their sub. So let's get chatting. Considering OF content also. 🤔 As well as considering.... 😛
Male (48) St Helens, Merseyside
**UPDATE: 1st July 2026 - simgle again and seeking a Mistress or Master** SEEKING people into extreme CBT NOTE: I have had my frenum and foreskin burnt off, glans split, urethra partly burnt away and nerves removed in addition to my niples being burnt off too. I am no longer able to orgasm nomally. I need anal or my balls beating to achieve orgasm. NOTE2: I am not gay or even bi however I have a very weird kink/fetish of being used amd that includes by men. switch (although been mostly slave for past 30yrs), into most kink Previous experience in gay porn, have body modifications and brandings including frenum removal/split glans/urethra, burnt off nipples, cock nerve removal, balls pretty much destroyed and sterile. Love verbal humilation and rough anal. I am no longer able to get erect easily unless with extreme stimulation but do enjoy anal and can get 'orgasm' from it (whether from strap on or real thing) Was in chastity for nearly 30 years with various devices but no longer able to use std ball trap cages cos balls too small even for a 40mm ring and can't use PA locked devices cos of glans mods. However currently locked in a cage wih a bespoke 35mm ring Been sissy slave for many years to several Dommes/Doms. Was slave to a Dom when I was 21, then various Dommes including my wife for 25yrs up until 2019 then slave to a black Dom for last 4 years.
Male (59) Brigg, Lincolnshire
Hi! I'm a playful and expressive chubby submissive, hoping to meet safe, sane dominant gentlemen for some fun! Interested to experience new kinds of play, but I know I love being tied down, tickled teased and edged without mercy! I'm sensitive all over but as you can tell from my name, I really get excited when some attention is given to my belly and bellybutton. Love being the nude male in CMNM situations, happy to be a life model, used for massage practise, medical exams or other roleplays! Happy to have friendship, maybe enjoy some drinks as well as sexy time, and maybe even go to events together - totally fine with NSA as well! Thanks for reading - please feel free to drop me a message!
Big fetish for fems, sissy’s and damsels, particularly wearing lace or silk lingerie. I like to wear suits/formalwear and would want you to find that hot Ideal role play is me in a suit chasing, capturing, tickling and dominating you into submission. Maybe you like the idea of a villain? 😈 Looking for younger and smaller than me Open to lots of role play ideas!
Male (43) London, Greater London
Nympho. If I liked your profile/ photos it means I want you to breed me. I’m a sexually submissive gay male with a latex fetish who loves being gang banged & spit roasted. If you’re fucking me, I’m getting your load.
Male (36) London, Greater London
Hairy bearish mainly top, into smooth, uncut kinky minded men who like the get dirty and wet. Smooth uncut Asian men are a huge turn on!!!! Uncut unwashed cock smells, dirty hole pushing down into my mouth while rimming, smearing and wet fun.
Male (58) Leatherhead, Surrey
looking for skinny to medium build fem/guys/trans buy must have penis with desire to perform/pose and show me what ur strong points are. I’m an open minded, fit and yogi trained dom **Desires and Fantasies** wearing tight jeans/knickers, girly gym wear, that cissy look, boots, hold ups, body aware folk, stretching, yoga, breath play within reason, or folk willing to submit to training/posing/photography, safe limits strictly adhered, massage, mutual edging, experimental playtime in safe space.. smooth younger guys/trans top of the queue wanting strict instructions, subs welcome. can accom
Male (62) Frome, Somerset

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