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## **I try keep my friends list for those I have actually met and spoken with if you have sent me a request and we have met and my fish for a brain has forgotten your online name drop me a message and remind me otherwise message me and I will follow you back, we can then go from there, lotsa loves** Hi, I'm Mama T. I've been in and out of the scene since I was 21, and after all these years I've realised something important: no matter how much experience you gather, there's always more to learn. I've explored different corners of BDSM over the years, some beautiful, some challenging, all of them helping shape who I am. But curiosity has never left me. If anything, the more I've seen, the more I've wanted to understand. I found BDSM long before I knew there was a name for it. There was always something in me searching for connection, trust, service, power exchange, community, and authenticity. The first time I stepped into a space where people were living those things openly, I knew I'd found something I'd been missing. These days, my goal isn't to find a Dom. My goal is to find myself. To understand who I am when nobody else is telling me who I should be. To continue growing, learning, exploring, challenging myself, and living as authentically as I possibly can. If meaningful connections, friendships, play partners, lovers, mentors, or adventures happen along the way, then I'll welcome them for what they are. But the journey itself belongs to me. I'm seeking fulfilment in many forms. Friendship. Community. Connection. Laughter. Adventure. Play. Meaningful conversations. The occasional bit of well-earned mischief. I have come to realise that submission is part of my power, not its absence. What I offer is chosen, never assumed. Those who know me well know I love deeply, protect fiercely, and show up wholeheartedly for the people I care about. Submission is given when space is made for me to be soft. It's not an act of obedience, but an act of trust. I also have enormous respect for those brave enough to walk through the doors of their first munch or club. It takes courage to explore who you are, especially when the world tells you not to. Supporting local communities and organisers matters. They're the beating heart of our scene. A small note for those stopping by: please don't lead with your fantasies. Trust, respect, consistency, and connection will always be far more attractive to me than sexual promises. For me, intimacy is earned when words and actions align. I'm quite happy to take my time. The question is, are you? And whilst I do appreciate the male appendage, if your profile consists entirely of pictures of it, we probably won't be a match. I can admire a handsome cock in person. I'd much rather meet the mind attached to it first. If you see me out and about and I seem distracted, come and say hello. Sometimes these waters get choppy and I miss things. Want to be friends? Wonderful. See you at the club. 💜 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 96% Slave 95% Submissive 94% Rope bunny 92% Pet 91% Experimentalist 77% Brat 71% Voyeur 70% Primal (Prey) 67% Non-monogamist 50% Exhibitionist 17% Ageplayer 4% Primal (Hunter) 2% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Sadist 0% Switch 0% Vanilla http://bdsmtest.org/r/BnRU38je
Female (42) Wirral, Merseyside
bbw I'm a honest, kind and fun princess who likes to be treated right with respect but enjoys naughtiness and enjoy new experiences. I prefer building a connection as I believe this makes everything better. I'm not here for NSA, I prefer friendship. So if you know how to treat a princess, come say hi **Desires and Fantasies** I'm working on these ?? I'll let you know when I do
Female (40) Wirral, Merseyside
sub / brat, been out of the scene for a few years. looking for a dom who can lift me over his shoulder as if I don’t weigh anything 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have a dog, she’s my world. let me know if you want to join us for some hikes in the hills ⛰️
Female (27) Wirral, Merseyside
“Men” that expect kink on a casual basis disgust me. Take yourself far away and keep going until you fall a very long way down Looking for something very specific, most likely not you. I won’t respond to people with poor manners
Female (43) Wirral, Merseyside
NYA THE DOMME Black, queer, disabled and unapologetically selective. I am Nya, an authoritative Domme based near Cheshire Oaks in Cheshire, with occasional availability in London. I value precision, restraint, initiative and people who genuinely enjoy making my life easier. My dynamics centre on invitation-only, non-sexual Domestic and Ritual Devotion. DOMESTIC DEVOTION Domestic Devotees may be instructed to clean, organise, launder, change bedding, prepare refreshments, sanitise personal items and leave my home noticeably better than they found it. Your labour is practical. Your submission is personal. Work may be inspected. Carelessness may be corrected. Consensual verbal *** may form part of the dynamic. Domestic Devotion does not automatically grant access to greater intimacy. RITUAL DEVOTION Trusted attendants may be considered for Ritual Devotion, including bath preparation, moisturising, massage, grooming, dressing, feeding and other closely directed body rituals. Every touch is instructed. Every permission is precise, temporary and revocable. Nudity and intimate proximity may occur. Sexual contact does not. Closeness is granted. Entitlement never is. You are not rescuing me. You are demonstrating that you can serve a Black disabled woman without pity, infantilisation, medical curiosity, fetishisation or the desire to make yourself indispensable. My disability does not make me passive, innocent or publicly available. It makes competent service more meaningful. I do not provide free domination through messages, audition for authority or chase unfinished applications. Strategic ***ness is deeply unattractive. Read carefully. Approach properly. Answer questions directly. Devotion earns proximity. Competence earns trust. Nothing creates entitlement. Outside the dynamic, I enjoy good food, books, deep conversations, philosophy, gardening, naps and life with my dog, Zuba. I am warm, curious and playful with people who have earned that access. Warmth is not availability. WHO SHOULD APPROACH You should be: • Hygienic and discreet • Emotionally responsible • Politically compatible • Genuinely service-oriented • Capable of following clear instructions • Able to receive correction without sulking • Interested in making my life easier rather than becoming additional work Do not approach with copied worship, explicit fantasies, instant declarations of devotion or a one-line greeting. YOUR FIRST INSTRUCTION Send a considered letter of intent explaining: • What drew you to me specifically • What service and submission mean to you • What practical value you offer • How you respond to correction • What kind of dynamic you are seeking • Your relevant skills, experience and limits • Your location, availability and ability to travel • How you would serve a Black disabled woman without pity, entitlement or saviourism Your letter should demonstrate clarity, self-awareness, restraint and attention to detail. Do not merely claim to possess them. An approach grants no title, intimacy or guarantee of selection. Your letter is the first instruction. How you complete it tells me whether you are worth considering. Serve precisely. Remain useful. Leave my life easier than you found it.
Female (31) Wirral, Merseyside
A true cumslut. Desire to be filled/covered in cum at any given moment. Massively enjoy: -Blowjobs/Deepthroating -Being ***d to cum/orgasm control -Cock worship -Cum play I love to watch 👀 Please ask any questions, I’m an open book! ☺️ *I don’t share my private pictures straight away due to my job* I’m here to explore, you’ll almost certainly be ignored if you don’t try and make an effort/if you’re not original with your initial message
Female (30) Wirral, Merseyside
im Lia, mum to 2 boys, gamer, cosplayer. bpd, adhd, asd, ptsd, depression and anxiety I have a low sex drive which mean even with “your tongue” or “something big” that aint gonna change the trauma i went through so kindly stfu with ur crappy pick up lines idek why im on this app my friend said use it cause all other dating apps are full of idiots
Female (25) Wirral, Merseyside
Looking for a Soft Master/Daddy/Pleasure Dom. Interested in restraint, rope, ddlg/feeling little, praise, praise/***, sensory play, rough play, hair pulling, impact, obedience and ownership. Always with high trust, respect, friendship and aftercare. Prefer regular and ongoing but fairly discreet connections
Female (37) Wirral, Merseyside
Single looking for NSA Interested in Men & Women Larger than life, energetic creative who's caring, quirky and a filthy dancer when required. Looking for naughty chats, kinky dates, hotel escapes. Open to a relationship with the right person. Predominantly Dom, but has a soft sub side for the right older figure. Burlesque dancer and stripper, with a lust for the finer things in life. Sober for over a year out of choice and damned proud of it. drop me a message and let’s have some fun ✨
Female (31) Wirral, Merseyside
29, love anything to do with makeup. not really sure what to put here haha Submissive, brat at heart Got a dominant and looking for like minded submissive girls who want to worship him with me. I'm a shy girl 😂 looking to make new friends and build up my confidence
Female (29) Wirral, Merseyside
More active later at night ? Hope to talk soon x Looking for a local bi guy for mmf, message me if interested 20-30 preferably
Female (21) Wirral, Merseyside
Curvy, geeky, switch. I am non monogamous, solo poly currently, and enjoy swinging. I have several close fwbs but I am not currently in a romantic relationship. I have been in the scene for a couple of years now, a mix of swing and kink, and I am a regular at Townhouse. I am mostly into men but will play with other sexes/genders. I love being taken care of - I definitely have a Goddess/Princess/Mistress side. But I also love to be dominated, treated rough and used as a sexual object (within pre- agreed parameters and with lots of aftercare). I won't meet without getting to know you first. And I won't meet in private until we have met in public and I feel safe with you. My vanilla interests are boardgames, D&D, crafting, steampunk, cats, wildlife. I'm a single mum, and I don't work as I have a chronic energy limiting condition (makes daytime meets a good option). I am also late diagnosed neurodivergent. If we're getting on well, then please be patient with me, even if it takes us a while to arrange to meet. Scheduling can get tricky sometimes. I love treats - ***/lulabellekitty xx
Female (48) Wirral, Merseyside
I'm a very kinky sub. I like abdl, medical play, bondage and more. I am bi but have a preference for women. At the moment, I don't want to meet or video call. I might send pics if I am particularly into you.
Female (37) Wirral, Merseyside
Hey! I'm Alex (she/they). Honestly I'm just here to get a feel for the local kink scene and make friends but I'm also happy to see what happens. I am a yapper at heart so if I like you and we get on I will become a feral little creature and talk your ear off until you tell me to shut up. Other than that though I am fairly laid back and will happily spend my days reading or with my pets. I am relatively inexperienced, both in and out of kink but what I lack in experience, I (hopefully) make up for in enthusiasm. I'm mostly submissive but I have been known to switch on occasion for the right person and situation
Female (23) Wirral, Merseyside

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bbw I'm a honest, kind and fun princess who likes to be treated right with respect but enjoys naughtiness and enjoy new experiences. I prefer building a connection as I believe this makes everything better. I'm not here for NSA, I prefer friendship. So if you know how to treat a princess, come say hi **Desires and Fantasies** I'm working on these ?? I'll let you know when I do
Female (40) Wirral, Merseyside
## **I try keep my friends list for those I have actually met and spoken with if you have sent me a request and we have met and my fish for a brain has forgotten your online name drop me a message and remind me otherwise message me and I will follow you back, we can then go from there, lotsa loves** Hi, I'm Mama T. I've been in and out of the scene since I was 21, and after all these years I've realised something important: no matter how much experience you gather, there's always more to learn. I've explored different corners of BDSM over the years, some beautiful, some challenging, all of them helping shape who I am. But curiosity has never left me. If anything, the more I've seen, the more I've wanted to understand. I found BDSM long before I knew there was a name for it. There was always something in me searching for connection, trust, service, power exchange, community, and authenticity. The first time I stepped into a space where people were living those things openly, I knew I'd found something I'd been missing. These days, my goal isn't to find a Dom. My goal is to find myself. To understand who I am when nobody else is telling me who I should be. To continue growing, learning, exploring, challenging myself, and living as authentically as I possibly can. If meaningful connections, friendships, play partners, lovers, mentors, or adventures happen along the way, then I'll welcome them for what they are. But the journey itself belongs to me. I'm seeking fulfilment in many forms. Friendship. Community. Connection. Laughter. Adventure. Play. Meaningful conversations. The occasional bit of well-earned mischief. I have come to realise that submission is part of my power, not its absence. What I offer is chosen, never assumed. Those who know me well know I love deeply, protect fiercely, and show up wholeheartedly for the people I care about. Submission is given when space is made for me to be soft. It's not an act of obedience, but an act of trust. I also have enormous respect for those brave enough to walk through the doors of their first munch or club. It takes courage to explore who you are, especially when the world tells you not to. Supporting local communities and organisers matters. They're the beating heart of our scene. A small note for those stopping by: please don't lead with your fantasies. Trust, respect, consistency, and connection will always be far more attractive to me than sexual promises. For me, intimacy is earned when words and actions align. I'm quite happy to take my time. The question is, are you? And whilst I do appreciate the male appendage, if your profile consists entirely of pictures of it, we probably won't be a match. I can admire a handsome cock in person. I'd much rather meet the mind attached to it first. If you see me out and about and I seem distracted, come and say hello. Sometimes these waters get choppy and I miss things. Want to be friends? Wonderful. See you at the club. 💜 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Degradee 100% Masochist 96% Slave 95% Submissive 94% Rope bunny 92% Pet 91% Experimentalist 77% Brat 71% Voyeur 70% Primal (Prey) 67% Non-monogamist 50% Exhibitionist 17% Ageplayer 4% Primal (Hunter) 2% Daddy/Mommy 0% Rigger 0% Brat tamer 0% Degrader 0% Dominant 0% Boy/Girl 0% Master/Mistress 0% Owner 0% Sadist 0% Switch 0% Vanilla http://bdsmtest.org/r/BnRU38je
Female (42) Wirral, Merseyside
sub / brat, been out of the scene for a few years. looking for a dom who can lift me over his shoulder as if I don’t weigh anything 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have a dog, she’s my world. let me know if you want to join us for some hikes in the hills ⛰️
Female (27) Wirral, Merseyside
im Lia, mum to 2 boys, gamer, cosplayer. bpd, adhd, asd, ptsd, depression and anxiety I have a low sex drive which mean even with “your tongue” or “something big” that aint gonna change the trauma i went through so kindly stfu with ur crappy pick up lines idek why im on this app my friend said use it cause all other dating apps are full of idiots
Female (25) Wirral, Merseyside
“Men” that expect kink on a casual basis disgust me. Take yourself far away and keep going until you fall a very long way down Looking for something very specific, most likely not you. I won’t respond to people with poor manners
Female (43) Wirral, Merseyside
29, love anything to do with makeup. not really sure what to put here haha Submissive, brat at heart Got a dominant and looking for like minded submissive girls who want to worship him with me. I'm a shy girl 😂 looking to make new friends and build up my confidence
Female (29) Wirral, Merseyside
Looking for a Soft Master/Daddy/Pleasure Dom. Interested in restraint, rope, ddlg/feeling little, praise, praise/***, sensory play, rough play, hair pulling, impact, obedience and ownership. Always with high trust, respect, friendship and aftercare. Prefer regular and ongoing but fairly discreet connections
Female (37) Wirral, Merseyside
NYA THE DOMME Black, queer, disabled and unapologetically selective. I am Nya, an authoritative Domme based near Cheshire Oaks in Cheshire, with occasional availability in London. I value precision, restraint, initiative and people who genuinely enjoy making my life easier. My dynamics centre on invitation-only, non-sexual Domestic and Ritual Devotion. DOMESTIC DEVOTION Domestic Devotees may be instructed to clean, organise, launder, change bedding, prepare refreshments, sanitise personal items and leave my home noticeably better than they found it. Your labour is practical. Your submission is personal. Work may be inspected. Carelessness may be corrected. Consensual verbal *** may form part of the dynamic. Domestic Devotion does not automatically grant access to greater intimacy. RITUAL DEVOTION Trusted attendants may be considered for Ritual Devotion, including bath preparation, moisturising, massage, grooming, dressing, feeding and other closely directed body rituals. Every touch is instructed. Every permission is precise, temporary and revocable. Nudity and intimate proximity may occur. Sexual contact does not. Closeness is granted. Entitlement never is. You are not rescuing me. You are demonstrating that you can serve a Black disabled woman without pity, infantilisation, medical curiosity, fetishisation or the desire to make yourself indispensable. My disability does not make me passive, innocent or publicly available. It makes competent service more meaningful. I do not provide free domination through messages, audition for authority or chase unfinished applications. Strategic ***ness is deeply unattractive. Read carefully. Approach properly. Answer questions directly. Devotion earns proximity. Competence earns trust. Nothing creates entitlement. Outside the dynamic, I enjoy good food, books, deep conversations, philosophy, gardening, naps and life with my dog, Zuba. I am warm, curious and playful with people who have earned that access. Warmth is not availability. WHO SHOULD APPROACH You should be: • Hygienic and discreet • Emotionally responsible • Politically compatible • Genuinely service-oriented • Capable of following clear instructions • Able to receive correction without sulking • Interested in making my life easier rather than becoming additional work Do not approach with copied worship, explicit fantasies, instant declarations of devotion or a one-line greeting. YOUR FIRST INSTRUCTION Send a considered letter of intent explaining: • What drew you to me specifically • What service and submission mean to you • What practical value you offer • How you respond to correction • What kind of dynamic you are seeking • Your relevant skills, experience and limits • Your location, availability and ability to travel • How you would serve a Black disabled woman without pity, entitlement or saviourism Your letter should demonstrate clarity, self-awareness, restraint and attention to detail. Do not merely claim to possess them. An approach grants no title, intimacy or guarantee of selection. Your letter is the first instruction. How you complete it tells me whether you are worth considering. Serve precisely. Remain useful. Leave my life easier than you found it.
Female (31) Wirral, Merseyside
More active later at night ? Hope to talk soon x Looking for a local bi guy for mmf, message me if interested 20-30 preferably
Female (21) Wirral, Merseyside
Curvy, geeky, switch. I am non monogamous, solo poly currently, and enjoy swinging. I have several close fwbs but I am not currently in a romantic relationship. I have been in the scene for a couple of years now, a mix of swing and kink, and I am a regular at Townhouse. I am mostly into men but will play with other sexes/genders. I love being taken care of - I definitely have a Goddess/Princess/Mistress side. But I also love to be dominated, treated rough and used as a sexual object (within pre- agreed parameters and with lots of aftercare). I won't meet without getting to know you first. And I won't meet in private until we have met in public and I feel safe with you. My vanilla interests are boardgames, D&D, crafting, steampunk, cats, wildlife. I'm a single mum, and I don't work as I have a chronic energy limiting condition (makes daytime meets a good option). I am also late diagnosed neurodivergent. If we're getting on well, then please be patient with me, even if it takes us a while to arrange to meet. Scheduling can get tricky sometimes. I love treats - ***/lulabellekitty xx
Female (48) Wirral, Merseyside
Single looking for NSA Interested in Men & Women Larger than life, energetic creative who's caring, quirky and a filthy dancer when required. Looking for naughty chats, kinky dates, hotel escapes. Open to a relationship with the right person. Predominantly Dom, but has a soft sub side for the right older figure. Burlesque dancer and stripper, with a lust for the finer things in life. Sober for over a year out of choice and damned proud of it. drop me a message and let’s have some fun ✨
Female (31) Wirral, Merseyside
I'm a very kinky sub. I like abdl, medical play, bondage and more. I am bi but have a preference for women. At the moment, I don't want to meet or video call. I might send pics if I am particularly into you.
Female (37) Wirral, Merseyside
A true cumslut. Desire to be filled/covered in cum at any given moment. Massively enjoy: -Blowjobs/Deepthroating -Being ***d to cum/orgasm control -Cock worship -Cum play I love to watch 👀 Please ask any questions, I’m an open book! ☺️ *I don’t share my private pictures straight away due to my job* I’m here to explore, you’ll almost certainly be ignored if you don’t try and make an effort/if you’re not original with your initial message
Female (30) Wirral, Merseyside
Hey! I'm Alex (she/they). Honestly I'm just here to get a feel for the local kink scene and make friends but I'm also happy to see what happens. I am a yapper at heart so if I like you and we get on I will become a feral little creature and talk your ear off until you tell me to shut up. Other than that though I am fairly laid back and will happily spend my days reading or with my pets. I am relatively inexperienced, both in and out of kink but what I lack in experience, I (hopefully) make up for in enthusiasm. I'm mostly submissive but I have been known to switch on occasion for the right person and situation
Female (23) Wirral, Merseyside

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