Just a busy girl, looking for thrill aligned with substance. I do not care how you are at ‘X,Y & Z’ if you can’t hold a curious discussion outwith bedroom talk, I ain’t the ‘good girl’ for you. ✊💋
Irl I am a busy, independent, assertive, creative wee soul, I love to give gifts, create, learn and volunteer, with a healthy side of acts of service ( I love this, it fulfils me deeply) BUT the exhaustion that comes from being hyper attentive and being a solo provider is real. I’ve found it hard to advocate for my own ‘wants, pleasure or fun’ in regards to sex; often accepting that sex is not for mutual benefit and sadly only recently decided to change this.
I am dipping my toe in the water of becoming thoughtless, agreeable and obedient in very particular sexy circumstances.
my self discovery has led me to currently feel/prefer
the following;
1. I don’t want a ‘typical’ relationship BUT I also thrive on bonding and connection so also do not wish for ONS.
2. I am not a huge *** seeker, but I like a touch of rough e.g a spanking, hands to command type thing.
3. I need to know things can be silly, in my mid 30’s I have enough tax returns, documents to signs and bills to pay to bore me for a lifetime, I’m not a serious person for the most part. Feel free to laugh 🤭
4. How I look is the least interesting thing about me. Attraction/hot/handsome/pretty is great, but being pretty is not a survival skill (in fact the opposite) So if you find me attractive great, let me know and visa versa BUT if men find me unattractive, personally I see that as a point against the patriarchy ✊ if my bestie says I look pretty, that’s when I blush ☺️
In life communication is key, in sex land it’s hyper communication is the key and the padlock.
Although I’m turned on by the idea of being objectified, I’m a feminist self empowered whole woman and outwith anything sexy and agreed, I’d appreciate that being objectified, used, or ***d irl is the opposite of my goal/ THEE goal.
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