Quick Version for those that like to skim.
* Ethically non monogamous.
* Demisexual with bite.
* Switch, not submissive.
* No hook-ups, no hotels, no drives.
* Connection, consent, and chemistry first, always.
* Test regularly. Speak honestly. Play with intent.
* Photos edited for privacy; tattoos, scars, and identifiers removed.
Contact details or meets outside events aren’t impossible, just earned. Most won’t have the patience for that, and that’s fine. Time, trust, and genuine connection open that door.
If you’re still here, the full version is below...
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About Me
Hi, I’m Rae, or Raven if you like it darker.
My world runs on caffeine, chaos, and curiosity. I don’t do sexual talk give me wit, depth, and a reason to stay past the first message.
I find calm in motion, open roads, beach walks with the salt wind biting at my skin, and the burn of a good session that leaves muscles humming. I’m happiest where the air feels alive and silence speaks louder than words.
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Kink & Connection
I move slow on purpose, deliberately, provocatively. I like tension that lingers, breath that catches, control that feels earned.
A bottom leaning switch with a Domme edge sharp enough to draw focus. I don’t submit; I choose when to yield, and that choice is rare.
Ethically non-monogamous. Demisexual, greysexual and androsexual. Attraction builds from presence and intent, not pictures or pick up lines.
STI/STD Testing, honesty, and consent are the baseline.
After that, it’s about rhythm, the kind that can’t be faked.
Beneath the armour, connection still wins: patience, wit, and curiosity are the real turn ons. The right person will know how to stoke a slow burn without reaching for the flame too soon.
I like voices that stay calm while saying dangerous things, and eye contact that feels like a touch, held just a second too long.
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Boundaries & Etiquette
* No hook-ups, no hotels, no car-park meetings.
* No unsolicited NSFW content, blocked faster than a plague outbreak.
* Don’t dump fetish scripts or copy-pasted fantasies into my inbox.
* Contact info isn’t a right; it’s earned through time and trust.
* Message filters exist for a reason, you’re not the exception.
* I don’t owe attention to anyone. Earn it, or fade quietly.
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A Note to the Submissive Men
Most approach like I’m a vending machine for their unmet desires. Don’t.
I’m not here to perform, fix, or fill a checklist.
If you’re genuinely self aware, respectful, and emotionally grounded, I see you. You’ll still have to prove you’re not like the ones who weren't, blame them for the armour.
This isn’t a challenge. It’s a warning label. Read it twice before you step closer.
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Photos & Privacy / In Short
My photos are always me, but edited for privacy; tattoos, scars, and identifiers removed. Face photos are earned, not freely given. Privacy and safety come first. Nothing fake, just boundaries respected.
Be honest. Be intentional. Know your etiquette.
Bring patience, confidence, and spark, and you’ll find I answer in kind.
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