Find kinky women in South Yorkshire

About Me.. It is Masochistic /sub /slave/ Brat/*** slut. Solo Polyamarous/ambiamorous Cisgender Female, Heterosexual. I have NO interest in same sex relationships, unless it's friendship or mentoring. Nor do I wish to be a couple's plaything. My fetish list is long as I have enjoyed a growing number of kinks as the years have passed. My submission is all I need to be secure in the knowledge that I'm enough for the right man. That man will know what to say and what to do ... Giant tease.. or exhibitionist. Erm, yes! To save anyone guessing, if I am interested in you, there would be no mistaking the signs. If I ignore you, it's probably no. Send a msg, liking and lurking won't get you very far. Let's have a chat, manners, charisma, and intelligence are a big turn-on. If you intend to persue me, you should be able to lead a conversation and show intent, I do NOT chase guys! Whos the Dominant here? I have a beard kink, a soft spot for a ginger viking/rugby type and fondness for masculine men of a powerful nature. If your a man mountain and can pick up 100kg 🥵.. I have FB s that satisfy some needs but not all..
Female (50) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Myself & my long term partner, seek slim cucks '32' years of age & under or slim submissive females under '40'. Submit to Miss & Sir within a safe & sane BDSM play dynamic. Discretion assured - limits respected. ____________________________________ Miss will be cruel - Miss will be kind - Miss will give intense interest & Miss will ignore you You will speak when spoken to - You will know that you are nothing Sir shall take delight in the cucks denial ____________________________________ Uk only - Thank you but I am not here to chat to people that live abroad or those whom are beyond reach of Doncaster. ____________________________________ ‘LIKES’ Objectify - Humiliate - Bondage - Gag - C.P. - Spitting - Face Slapping ____________________________________
Female (55) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
So, this is all abit new to me... A friend pointed me in this direction. So I came to have a look around see what's happening. I'm into men who love larger ladies.... And want to throw them around.
Female (46) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My name is kerri. I am looking for male or female to have fun NSA. I am more sub and I have no limits. Looking to meet in real life. Would love to be humiliated, and love ***. Love the thought of not being in control. Feel free to message
Female (34) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm a Yorkshire lass looking for friends and fun! You can call me Chel. New to the kink scene so looking to explore myself, my limits and my boundaries. ~ I want to find my Dom. Ideally, I'm after a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship with a D/s dynamic. I dont want to move in with anyone but I do want a proper, full relationship. I dont want to be a bit on the side or a second or third sub so single men only. ~ I am in no way dominant so I'm not interested in subs. ~ Bi curious so after a lady to pop that cherry. ~ Get me in person in a sexual situation and I'm very submissive. Once limits are set, I do as I'm told! ~ Cannot accommodate. Can travel within reason. ~
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
Hey everyone! I'm a polyamorous bisexual trans woman looking (ish, not very actively) for flirting, dates, dominants, play partners, *especially* other trans women! I'm switch, but lean submissive and am primarily interested in being submissive. My switching is occasional, I can't sustain it as a relationship dynamic, and I have to feel very confident to top effectively. I am dating, and lady's maid to, the most wonderful girlfriend I could wish for. I live with my long-term ex with whom I have a house and a beautiful dog. I'm fond of eloquence, creativeness, ritual and power exchange - as well as intense sensations and feelings of transgression. Anyone interested in me has to be not only cool with my gender but actively excited for my journey. No chasers or transphobes! As of writing (end of Jan 2025) I am 5 weeks or so into HRT, so as regards boobs, watch this space! (Forms do a decent job in the meantime!) *Primarily* interested in people living nearby, and will have trouble hosting until/unless you get to know person I live with.
Female (38) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with... I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive. The rules: * Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided. * Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel. * No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine). My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow. I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you. I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair. For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a *** or pizza and I'm happy 😉
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m 31, a curvy gal, if you’re not at least a bit funny and can have a laugh then I’m just not that interested sorry 😅 I need humour to find someone attractive. ❌ I don’t give out my number ❌ not interested in anyone under 40
Female (31) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hi im new to all this so Happy to chat with anyone and see where it leads Im willing to give most things except the below limits ago im probalby most excited by bondage
Female (28) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m looking for a online Daddy Dom, I’m 52 & not single so need to be discreet, I won’t send naked pictures or videos as I’ve had a bad experience in the past x
Female (53) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hi, I am a submissive looking for friends in the lifestyle. My Dom has been training me to be his slut so looking for men to join us. He will always be involved and nothing happens without his say so, so no you can't borrow me. I am bi-curious too so looking for a woman to join us (my Dom will be there but not involved with another woman) I do not respond to one line messages and prefer people that can actual have a conversation.
Female (51) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
4f9 very much interested in having a total slave, a puppy boy/man absolute lover boy, looking for someone to be my absolute toy to explore with, who expects nothing and is happy to just to be. I love any types of masks or suits...like motorbike helmets, Knight armour, gimp masks,army masks, any type of face covering is very hot, I like most body types, I like chubby, muscle. I love the fact a man can over power me but deeply yearns to let a tiny woman completely own him and be her guard dog. I am interested in, punctuality in men, normal things , and men that benefit or enhance my life, help me achieve my dreams. The type to turn up with flowers and a gift. only interested in true providers, can make my life easier, provide in order to allow me to take more time off, a guy who can roll with the punches and not a hot fuse, innovative, driven, not a bum, emotional protection, men or women who appreciate a women to stay in a feminine energy. someone who can keep up and likes to show rather than tell. someone who wants their own life but likes to enjoy ours when we are together. I'm not experienced but not a push over. I sometimes game and invite people sometimes my snappy is riblet 26
Female (24) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Quick Version for those that like to skim. * Ethically non monogamous. * Demisexual with bite. * Switch, not submissive. * No hook-ups, no hotels, no drives. * Connection, consent, and chemistry first, always. * Test regularly. Speak honestly. Play with intent. * Photos edited for privacy; tattoos, scars, and identifiers removed. . . . Sexual Health Screening - 3rd January 2026 (link available for potential meets/play only) Chlamydia - Negative Gonorrhoea - Negative HIV - Negative Syphilis - Negative Get yours at sh.uk - no proof - no play. It's that simple. No excuses. . . . Contact details or meets outside events aren’t impossible, just earned. Most won’t have the patience for that, and that’s fine. Time, trust, and genuine connection open that door. If you’re still here, the full version is below... --- About Me Hi, I’m Rae, or Raven if you like it darker. My world runs on caffeine, chaos, and curiosity. I don’t do sexual talk give me wit, depth, and a reason to stay past the first message. I find calm in motion, open roads, beach walks with the salt wind biting at my skin, and the burn of a good session that leaves muscles humming. I’m happiest where the air feels alive and silence speaks louder than words. --- Kink & Connection I move slow on purpose, deliberately, provocatively. I like tension that lingers, breath that catches, control that feels earned. A bottom leaning switch with a Domme edge sharp enough to draw focus. I don’t submit; I choose when to yield, and that choice is rare. Ethically non-monogamous. Demisexual, greysexual and androsexual. Attraction builds from presence and intent, not pictures or pick up lines. STI/STD Testing, honesty, and consent are the baseline. After that, it’s about rhythm, the kind that can’t be faked. Beneath the armour, connection still wins: patience, wit, and curiosity are the real turn ons. The right person will know how to stoke a slow burn without reaching for the flame too soon. I like voices that stay calm while saying dangerous things, and eye contact that feels like a touch, held just a second too long. --- Boundaries & Etiquette * No hook-ups, no hotels, no car-park meetings. * No unsolicited NSFW content, blocked faster than a plague outbreak. * Don’t dump fetish scripts or copy-pasted fantasies into my inbox. * Contact info isn’t a right; it’s earned through time and trust. * Message filters exist for a reason, you’re not the exception. * I don’t owe attention to anyone. Earn it, or fade quietly. --- A Note to the Submissive Men Most approach like I’m a vending machine for their unmet desires. Don’t. I’m not here to perform, fix, or fill a checklist. If you’re genuinely self aware, respectful, and emotionally grounded, I see you. You’ll still have to prove you’re not like the ones who weren't, blame them for the armour. This isn’t a challenge. It’s a warning label. Read it twice before you step closer. --- Photos & Privacy / In Short My photos are always me, but some are edited for privacy, some tattoos, scars, and identifiers, that are easily seen are removed. Face photos are earned, not freely given. Privacy and safety come first. Nothing fake, just boundaries respected. Be honest. Be intentional. Know your etiquette. Bring patience, confidence, and spark, and you’ll find I answer in kind. ---
Female (39) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
*Edit* currently just reading forums I’m a professional with a curious mind and a bit of a wild streak. Into deep chats, live music, good energy, and a hint of kink. Spiritually open, emotionally self-aware (most days), and looking for someone real to build something honest and fun with. Monogamous. No interest in surface-level anything.
Female (49) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
fun & outgoing. looking for a male to join me and my male partner for some fun? threesome, or maybe someone who will admire my body and allow my partner to watch us both? hotwifing😈😇
Female (23) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
hey 👋 I'm a submissive slut from England who's eager to please 😈 My kinks are - Anal, it's my favourite hole to get fucked 🍑 Spanking, nothing I love more than going over someone's knee 👋 Rough sex/cnc, I love being used as a free use toy for the right person 😈 Praise/being called a good girl, I get so wet when I hear daddy tell me how well I took his dick 🥺
Female (34) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
looking for some fun as i’m in an open relationship happy to talk kink more in messages as I’m shy about putting everything out there :)
Female (22) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I started experience with this world about 4 -5 years ago with my husband. Never actually done kinky dating. So my experience is limited. no we have split up, I miss the kink. Im not really looking for one night stands, but rather someone i can build trust with, future regular meet ups and maybe some holidays together. I’m looking for long term relationship, which includes sharing interest in kink, experienced Dom in a bedroom, and caring partner outside of
Female (46) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm one half of a swinging couple, come to fet to try and learn more about a few things. mainly shibari, as I think it's the most beautiful thing
Female (45) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I am here for some like minded chat& to start exploring some of my desires/ kinks Push my boundaries see if the desires are just that or something I feel I really need Hate describing/ labelling some have been practiced obvs don’t get to my age without a little practice Not vanilla, not sadist somewhere in between I’m a bitch, I’m a lover I'm a child, I'm a mother I'm a sinner, I'm a saint I do not feel ashamed I'm your Hell, I'm your dream I'm nothing in between I'm a bitch, I'm a tease I'm a goddess on my knees When you hurt, when you suffer I'm your angel undercover I've been numb, I'm revived Can't say I'm not alive l don’t know all … but know don’t have to show all I have parents so don’t need a daddy ty Ain’t no girl
Female (53) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
Welcome to the world of pleasure and ***, where desires are unleashed and boundaries are pushed as much as you'd like, im your ultimate guide to the realm of BDSM, where you can explore your deepest desires and experience the ultimate thrill. My name is MistressMinx, and I am a seasoned Dom/me with years of experience in the art of BDSM. I specialize in various forms of BDSM, including but not limited to bondage, discipline, submission, sadism, and masochism. My expertise lies in creating a safe, consensual, and pleasurable environment for both beginners and experienced enthusiasts alike.
Female (24) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
hi, I'm new to this whole thing, idrk what to put here
Female (19) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My partner and I are new to the scene but not new to BDSM. We are exploring a M/s dynamic in our relationship and looking into new and different things we can explore. We are hoping to meet new people and find friendships in the community! I’d love to talk to Doms and fellow subs/slaves! Please read my profile before messaging! Don’t just assume I’m going to be down to fuck or play! everything goes by my master first! But I’d love to chat and see where things go. Something we are both open to is meeting another person to join our relationship as an equal partner. We would want to date them individually first also :) I’m a crafter, avid reader (smut obsessed), and also a writer! Currently writing some smutty fantasy! happy to share more intimate photos for a price 💋
Female (25) Sheffield, South Yorkshire

New members in South Yorkshire

So, this is all abit new to me... A friend pointed me in this direction. So I came to have a look around see what's happening. I'm into men who love larger ladies.... And want to throw them around.
Female (46) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m 31, a curvy gal, if you’re not at least a bit funny and can have a laugh then I’m just not that interested sorry 😅 I need humour to find someone attractive. ❌ I don’t give out my number ❌ not interested in anyone under 40
Female (31) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I’m looking for a online Daddy Dom, I’m 52 & not single so need to be discreet, I won’t send naked pictures or videos as I’ve had a bad experience in the past x
Female (53) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with... I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive. The rules: * Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided. * Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel. * No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine). My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow. I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you. I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair. For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a *** or pizza and I'm happy 😉
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hi im new to all this so Happy to chat with anyone and see where it leads Im willing to give most things except the below limits ago im probalby most excited by bondage
Female (28) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Myself & my long term partner, seek slim cucks '32' years of age & under or slim submissive females under '40'. Submit to Miss & Sir within a safe & sane BDSM play dynamic. Discretion assured - limits respected. ____________________________________ Miss will be cruel - Miss will be kind - Miss will give intense interest & Miss will ignore you You will speak when spoken to - You will know that you are nothing Sir shall take delight in the cucks denial ____________________________________ Uk only - Thank you but I am not here to chat to people that live abroad or those whom are beyond reach of Doncaster. ____________________________________ ‘LIKES’ Objectify - Humiliate - Bondage - Gag - C.P. - Spitting - Face Slapping ____________________________________
Female (55) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm a Yorkshire lass looking for friends and fun! You can call me Chel. New to the kink scene so looking to explore myself, my limits and my boundaries. ~ I want to find my Dom. Ideally, I'm after a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship with a D/s dynamic. I dont want to move in with anyone but I do want a proper, full relationship. I dont want to be a bit on the side or a second or third sub so single men only. ~ I am in no way dominant so I'm not interested in subs. ~ Bi curious so after a lady to pop that cherry. ~ Get me in person in a sexual situation and I'm very submissive. Once limits are set, I do as I'm told! ~ Cannot accommodate. Can travel within reason. ~
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
My name is kerri. I am looking for male or female to have fun NSA. I am more sub and I have no limits. Looking to meet in real life. Would love to be humiliated, and love ***. Love the thought of not being in control. Feel free to message
Female (34) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
About Me.. It is Masochistic /sub /slave/ Brat/*** slut. Solo Polyamarous/ambiamorous Cisgender Female, Heterosexual. I have NO interest in same sex relationships, unless it's friendship or mentoring. Nor do I wish to be a couple's plaything. My fetish list is long as I have enjoyed a growing number of kinks as the years have passed. My submission is all I need to be secure in the knowledge that I'm enough for the right man. That man will know what to say and what to do ... Giant tease.. or exhibitionist. Erm, yes! To save anyone guessing, if I am interested in you, there would be no mistaking the signs. If I ignore you, it's probably no. Send a msg, liking and lurking won't get you very far. Let's have a chat, manners, charisma, and intelligence are a big turn-on. If you intend to persue me, you should be able to lead a conversation and show intent, I do NOT chase guys! Whos the Dominant here? I have a beard kink, a soft spot for a ginger viking/rugby type and fondness for masculine men of a powerful nature. If your a man mountain and can pick up 100kg 🥵.. I have FB s that satisfy some needs but not all..
Female (50) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hey everyone! I'm a polyamorous bisexual trans woman looking (ish, not very actively) for flirting, dates, dominants, play partners, *especially* other trans women! I'm switch, but lean submissive and am primarily interested in being submissive. My switching is occasional, I can't sustain it as a relationship dynamic, and I have to feel very confident to top effectively. I am dating, and lady's maid to, the most wonderful girlfriend I could wish for. I live with my long-term ex with whom I have a house and a beautiful dog. I'm fond of eloquence, creativeness, ritual and power exchange - as well as intense sensations and feelings of transgression. Anyone interested in me has to be not only cool with my gender but actively excited for my journey. No chasers or transphobes! As of writing (end of Jan 2025) I am 5 weeks or so into HRT, so as regards boobs, watch this space! (Forms do a decent job in the meantime!) *Primarily* interested in people living nearby, and will have trouble hosting until/unless you get to know person I live with.
Female (38) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hi, I am a submissive looking for friends in the lifestyle. My Dom has been training me to be his slut so looking for men to join us. He will always be involved and nothing happens without his say so, so no you can't borrow me. I am bi-curious too so looking for a woman to join us (my Dom will be there but not involved with another woman) I do not respond to one line messages and prefer people that can actual have a conversation.
Female (51) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm wanting to experience new things and get a taste of so much more in the bedroom. I can't say what I like and don't like because I'm just vanilla with this. I'm open to hearing new ideas.
Female (36) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm one half of a swinging couple, come to fet to try and learn more about a few things. mainly shibari, as I think it's the most beautiful thing
Female (45) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hiya! You can call me by *** or call be "Sunflower". It is an online name until I trust you with more. I enjoy diapers, abdl, *** holding and desperation, ***, punishments, pussy *** and nipple ***, cnc, private play, spanking, whipping, *** and more. I am curious to try enemas, semi public play, little play (ddlg) and pet play I am not into feet, wax, or ice. Other than the kinky side of things, I enjoy being spontaneous and adventuring. I want to jump off cliffs (with safety obviously), climb volcanoes, surf in the coral reefs and more. I enjoy writing, coding, volunteering, and saving lives.
Female (20) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I started experience with this world about 4 -5 years ago with my husband. Never actually done kinky dating. So my experience is limited. no we have split up, I miss the kink. Im not really looking for one night stands, but rather someone i can build trust with, future regular meet ups and maybe some holidays together. I’m looking for long term relationship, which includes sharing interest in kink, experienced Dom in a bedroom, and caring partner outside of
Female (46) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
hi, I'm new to this whole thing, idrk what to put here
Female (19) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Riddled with ADHD so buckle up or laugh along. Love spontaneity, smutty books to recreate and drinks! Don’t ask me where I wanna go, just book something and tell me what to wear🤷🏼‍♀️ Yes I am 6ft so if your short be secure.. or strong enough to throw me over your shoulders
Female (24) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm a shy girl, but once you have got to know me. aoutgoingg person. looking for a 3rd
Female (24) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
looking for some fun as i’m in an open relationship happy to talk kink more in messages as I’m shy about putting everything out there :)
Female (22) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I am a submissive woman seeking dominant males to have fun with! Relatively new to the lifestyle, but have always been kinky. Happy to do whatever pleases my dom (excluding my limits!). I currently have a particular interest in being played with by a sadistic dom and MFM threesomes... can be a very obedient and good girl, but also have a cheeky side and may misbehave at times. But hopefully the right dom can put me in my place 🤭. I don't have any public photos for my privacy, but will share my private gallery if we get on! I can travel, but not host currently.
Female (30) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
Very curious single submissive (a little bratty/switch occasionally) looking for a LTR with the right dominant male. Here for serious dates, not ONS or penpals. looking for a gent who knows how to lead in life. I'm very independent, so I'm looking for someone to be a safe space to express my submissive side who enjoys adventures and exploring inside and outside of the bedroom. Likes: Hiking, scrambling, skiing, and wild camping, travelling and exploring new places. Reading and crafting, sports events, festivals, binge watching series. Dislikes: Shopping & Materialistic people
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
hey 👋 I'm a submissive slut from England who's eager to please 😈 My kinks are - Anal, it's my favourite hole to get fucked 🍑 Spanking, nothing I love more than going over someone's knee 👋 Rough sex/cnc, I love being used as a free use toy for the right person 😈 Praise/being called a good girl, I get so wet when I hear daddy tell me how well I took his dick 🥺
Female (34) Sheffield, South Yorkshire

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