Find kinky women in South Yorkshire

About Me.. It is Masochistic /sub /slave/ Brat/*** slut. Solo Polyamarous/ambiamorous Cisgender Female, Heterosexual. I have NO interest in same sex relationships, unless it's friendship or mentoring. Nor do I wish to be a couple's plaything. My fetish list is long as I have enjoyed a growing number of kinks as the years have passed. My submission is all I need to be secure in the knowledge that I'm enough for the right man. That man will know what to say and what to do ... Giant tease.. or exhibitionist. Erm, yes! To save anyone guessing, if I am interested in you, there would be no mistaking the signs. If I ignore you, it's probably no. Send a msg, liking and lurking won't get you very far. Let's have a chat, manners, charisma, and intelligence are a big turn-on. If you intend to persue me, you should be able to lead a conversation and show intent, I do NOT chase guys! Whos the Dominant here? I have a beard kink, a soft spot for a ginger viking/rugby type and fondness for masculine men of a powerful nature. If your a man mountain and can pick up 100kg πŸ₯΅.. I have FB s that satisfy some needs but not all..
Female (50) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
This really could be the start of an exciting adventure, couldn't it........ So let me start by introducing myself, I'm El ✨️hiiii, you gorgeous people. In vanilla life, I am a mother to two ***age boys, this takes up a reasonable amount of time and it is my main responsibility to care for them, though now they are growing older and more independent I want to plant some seeds for myself. For my life and my future. I want to find/expand my tribe, I'm nurodiverse, I am adventurous, I am empathic, I am anti conformist. About my likes. I am a lover of all the beautiful things in life such as art, music, dance, oh and Mother Nature is my one true love. I would describe myself as spiritual, and i guess some would call me a pagen. I go to the gym regularly, I lovvve me some Yoga. I have done a lot of learning in my life, I know what I don't want, and now I am ready to do some discovering, could you be what I am looking for? In terms of kink, I am naturally a sub, but being a bit of a rebel, I definitely have a bratty side πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‡πŸ˜˜ there's lots I want to explore with the right person. But first, I want to establish a solid foundation with trust being at the core. Mutual respect and trust will come before I explore anything sexual with you after care is a must. You don't have to be the most experienced person. We can learn and grow together. But, if you want to be in my circle, in my space, and especially in my...i want to know you, you need to feel safe to me, to be kind, considerate and respctful ect. If you got to the end of that, you deserve a medal for concentration πŸ˜‚. I know my concentration is questionable at times. Anyyyywayyyy. That's me. See you on the other side, maybe.
Female (39) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m 31, a curvy gal, if you’re not at least a bit funny and can have a laugh then I’m just not that interested sorry πŸ˜… I need humour to find someone attractive. ❌ I don’t give out my number ❌ not interested in anyone under 40
Female (31) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
My name is kerri. I am looking for male or female to have fun NSA. I am more sub and I have no limits. Looking to meet in real life. Would love to be humiliated, and love ***. Love the thought of not being in control. Feel free to message
Female (35) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Myself & my long term partner, seek slim cucks '32' years of age & under or slim submissive females under '40'. Submit to Miss & Sir within a safe & sane BDSM play dynamic. Discretion assured - limits respected. ____________________________________ Miss will be cruel - Miss will be kind - Miss will give intense interest & Miss will ignore you You will speak when spoken to - You will know that you are nothing Sir shall take delight in the cucks denial ____________________________________ Uk only - Thank you but I am not here to chat to people that live abroad or those whom are beyond reach of Doncaster. ____________________________________ β€˜LIKES’ Objectify - Humiliate - Bondage - Gag - C.P. - Spitting - Face Slapping ____________________________________
Female (55) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with... I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive. The rules: * Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided. * Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel. * No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine). My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow. I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you. I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair. For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a *** or pizza and I'm happy πŸ˜‰
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hey everyone! I'm a polyamorous bisexual trans woman looking (ish, not very actively) for flirting, dates, dominants, play partners, *especially* other trans women! I'm switch, but lean submissive (though now I have some amazing domme energy from my girlfriend I'm tempted to explore the other side of me!). I have to feel very confident to top effectively. I am dating, and lady's maid to, the most wonderful girlfriend I could wish for. I live with my long-term ex with whom I have a house and a beautiful dog. I'm fond of eloquence, creativeness, ritual and power exchange - as well as intense sensations and feelings of transgression. Anyone interested in me has to be not only cool with my gender but actively excited for my journey. No chasers or transphobes! As of writing (end of Jan 2025) I am 5 weeks or so into HRT, so as regards boobs, watch this space! (Forms do a decent job in the meantime!) *Primarily* interested in people living nearby, and will have trouble hosting until/unless you get to know person I live with.
Female (38) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm a Yorkshire lass looking for friends and fun! You can call me Chel. New to the kink scene so looking to explore myself, my limits and my boundaries. ~ I want to find my Dom. Ideally, I'm after a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship with a D/s dynamic. I dont want to move in with anyone but I do want a proper, full relationship. I dont want to be a bit on the side or a second or third sub so single men only. ~ I am in no way dominant so I'm not interested in subs. ~ Bi curious so after a lady to pop that cherry. ~ Get me in person in a sexual situation and I'm very submissive. Once limits are set, I do as I'm told! ~ Cannot accommodate. Can travel within reason. ~
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
So, this is all abit new to me... A friend pointed me in this direction. So I came to have a look around see what's happening. I'm into men who love larger ladies.... And want to throw them around.
Female (46) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Open honest caring blah blah I'm much better at a conversation. I believe I'm open minded but still time to shock the hell out of me ! I'm a tad of a brat often speak an opinion/make a joke without being asked or sparing a thought for the consequences. Maybe I need a firm hand ?!
Female (50) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Hi im new to all this so Happy to chat with anyone and see where it leads Im willing to give most things except the below limits ago im probalby most excited by bondage
Female (28) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m looking for a online Daddy Dom, I’m 52 & not single so need to be discreet, I won’t send naked pictures or videos as I’ve had a bad experience in the past x
Female (53) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I am an owned submissive and I am looking for other submissive friends. Guys, my Dom loves sharing me but I won’t talk to you without you talking to him first, I need permission to talk to other men. Sorry but I will delete any messages from guys that do not have permission to talk to me. Outside of this lifestyle I like Rock and Metal music, walking my dog and playing the Sims. I have a regular life and I do not live in a porn film like guys like to imagine lol.
Female (51) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
jumping back into this lifestyle after being with my bf for 18 months! looking to play seperate with other naughty females or play together with couples! don’t be shy to message xx if you recognise me, no you don’t xo
Female (25) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
if you want to know anything just ask me. its just like that, only looking for certain people
Female (33) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
Quick Version for those that like to skim. * Ethically non monogamous. * Demisexual with bite. * Switch, not submissive. * No hook-ups, no hotels, no drives. * Connection, consent, and chemistry first, always. * Test regularly. Speak honestly. Play with intent. * Photos edited for privacy; tattoos, scars, and identifiers removed. . . . Sexual Health Screening - 3rd January 2026 (link available for potential meets/play only) Chlamydia - Negative Gonorrhoea - Negative HIV - Negative Syphilis - Negative Get yours at sh.uk - no proof - no play. It's that simple. No excuses. . . . Contact details or meets outside events aren’t impossible, just earned. Most won’t have the patience for that, and that’s fine. Time, trust, and genuine connection open that door. If you’re still here, the full version is below... --- About Me Hi, I’m Rae, or Raven if you like it darker. My world runs on caffeine, chaos, and curiosity. I don’t do sexual talk give me wit, depth, and a reason to stay past the first message. I find calm in motion, open roads, beach walks with the salt wind biting at my skin, and the burn of a good session that leaves muscles humming. I’m happiest where the air feels alive and silence speaks louder than words. --- Kink & Connection I move slow on purpose, deliberately, provocatively. I like tension that lingers, breath that catches, control that feels earned. A bottom leaning switch with a Domme edge sharp enough to draw focus. I don’t submit; I choose when to yield, and that choice is rare. Ethically non-monogamous. Demisexual, greysexual and androsexual. Attraction builds from presence and intent, not pictures or pick up lines. STI/STD Testing, honesty, and consent are the baseline. After that, it’s about rhythm, the kind that can’t be faked. Beneath the armour, connection still wins: patience, wit, and curiosity are the real turn ons. The right person will know how to stoke a slow burn without reaching for the flame too soon. I like voices that stay calm while saying dangerous things, and eye contact that feels like a touch, held just a second too long. --- Boundaries & Etiquette * No hook-ups, no hotels, no car-park meetings. * No unsolicited NSFW content, blocked faster than a plague outbreak. * Don’t dump fetish scripts or copy-pasted fantasies into my inbox. * Contact info isn’t a right; it’s earned through time and trust. * Message filters exist for a reason, you’re not the exception. * I don’t owe attention to anyone. Earn it, or fade quietly. --- A Note to the Submissive Men Most approach like I’m a vending machine for their unmet desires. Don’t. I’m not here to perform, fix, or fill a checklist. If you’re genuinely self aware, respectful, and emotionally grounded, I see you. You’ll still have to prove you’re not like the ones who weren't, blame them for the armour. This isn’t a challenge. It’s a warning label. Read it twice before you step closer. --- Photos & Privacy / In Short My photos are always me, but some are edited for privacy, some tattoos, scars, and identifiers, that are easily seen are removed. Face photos are earned, not freely given. Privacy and safety come first. Nothing fake, just boundaries respected. Be honest. Be intentional. Know your etiquette. Bring patience, confidence, and spark, and you’ll find I answer in kind. ---
Female (40) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm married. 4'11"..quiet until I care. Looking for friends/like-minded people. I'm bored of the "norm". Say something I wouldn't expect. My ex looks like Peter Sutcliffe and I miss him.
Female (37) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm one half of a swinging couple, come to fet to try and learn more about a few things. mainly shibari, as I think it's the most beautiful thing
Female (45) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
31 years.,.. apparently the bdsm test has me down for a typical switch, not going to deny that I like a dominant male but also like to take charge on occasion new here so feel free to message il perv over your profile and maybe message but also open to receiving those messages
Female (32) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm a female sub looking for a regular male Dom to play with (or should I say, play with me!). πŸ’« -I am extremely kinky. Not just trying it out because I watched 50 Shades of Grey once (although I did watch that and it was terrible!). -I love bondage, being gagged, impact play (happy to be bruised, just not permanently marked), anal play (love my anal hook!), having toys used on me, giving oral, and rough sex (face slapping, hair pulling, etc.) -I like to be an obedient sub, but can be bratty sometimes if it works in the dynamic. -I am single, live alone and drive. Can meet up evenings and weekends. -Would like a FWB-type Dom. Not actively looking for a relationship, but may consider if everything matches up. -Not interested in 24/7 dynamics or online-only stuff. -Don't try to dominate me over message before we've even met. I'm not sending you pictures/videos just because you say you're a "Dom". -My pictures are private on here for my safety. Will happily share if we get along. - My limits are lower down in my profile. πŸ’« My Dom needs to be; -My age or older. Won't play with anyone younger than 26/27. -Sadistic. -Share a lot of the same kinks as me. -Single. I do not engage with people who are trying to cheat on their partners. -Honest, respectful and good at communicating. I hate rudeness and emotional immaturity! -Not into DDLG or call themselves a "Daddy Dom". This is a hard limit for me and if it is mentioned anywhere on your profile, I won't be interested. πŸ’« If you fit the above, and fancy chatting, just drop me a message!
Female (30) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
Riddled with ADHD so buckle up or laugh along. Love spontaneity, smutty books to recreate and drinks! Don’t ask me where I wanna go, just book something and tell me what to wearπŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ Yes I am 6ft so if your short be secure.. or strong enough to throw me over your shoulders
Female (24) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
sub. kinks include(not limited to); -impact play -choking -restraints -praise -face fucking -Daddy Dom’s -free use
Female (27) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
fun & outgoing. looking for a male to join me and my male partner for some fun? threesome, or maybe someone who will admire my body and allow my partner to watch us both? hotwifingπŸ˜ˆπŸ˜‡
Female (23) Doncaster, South Yorkshire

New members in South Yorkshire

So, this is all abit new to me... A friend pointed me in this direction. So I came to have a look around see what's happening. I'm into men who love larger ladies.... And want to throw them around.
Female (46) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Open honest caring blah blah I'm much better at a conversation. I believe I'm open minded but still time to shock the hell out of me ! I'm a tad of a brat often speak an opinion/make a joke without being asked or sparing a thought for the consequences. Maybe I need a firm hand ?!
Female (50) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I’m 31, a curvy gal, if you’re not at least a bit funny and can have a laugh then I’m just not that interested sorry πŸ˜… I need humour to find someone attractive. ❌ I don’t give out my number ❌ not interested in anyone under 40
Female (31) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I’m looking for a online Daddy Dom, I’m 52 & not single so need to be discreet, I won’t send naked pictures or videos as I’ve had a bad experience in the past x
Female (53) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My husband and I have decided to enter an ENM/POLY marriage. I am looking for a DOM for my monthly "Date night" with the potential of becoming a SECONDARY PARTNER for me to meet more frequently in time and explore the world of kink with... I'm looking to have new experiences and learn more about myself, I'm adventurous and curious with a high sex drive. The rules: * Condoms must be worn unless up to date test results can be provided. * Our home is off limits so "date nights" would be in a hotel especially for a first meet then either your place or the hotel. * No permanent or visible marks (hidden is fine). My personal rule: Blow jobs must be on my terms, if I wanna do it, I will but I have to be in complete control of the s***d, depth etc as I'm not overly keen but cherry lube or something to make it taste sweet would help me swallow. I have ADHD so I may reply straight away or read your messages get distracted and forget until days later. I want to get to know you first before talking kinks so things like your hobbies and interests, to find common ground and connect with you. I'm cannabis friendly plus others within reason. if you want a drink on a meet that's fine and if you don't drink I won't either as it's only fair. For Hotel meets, All I ask is we split the cost of the room keeping it as low as possible for both of us and I don't expect you to pay for food or anything for me but if you want to, I'm low maintenance so a *** or pizza and I'm happy πŸ˜‰
Female (35) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Hi im new to all this so Happy to chat with anyone and see where it leads Im willing to give most things except the below limits ago im probalby most excited by bondage
Female (28) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Myself & my long term partner, seek slim cucks '32' years of age & under or slim submissive females under '40'. Submit to Miss & Sir within a safe & sane BDSM play dynamic. Discretion assured - limits respected. ____________________________________ Miss will be cruel - Miss will be kind - Miss will give intense interest & Miss will ignore you You will speak when spoken to - You will know that you are nothing Sir shall take delight in the cucks denial ____________________________________ Uk only - Thank you but I am not here to chat to people that live abroad or those whom are beyond reach of Doncaster. ____________________________________ β€˜LIKES’ Objectify - Humiliate - Bondage - Gag - C.P. - Spitting - Face Slapping ____________________________________
Female (55) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm a Yorkshire lass looking for friends and fun! You can call me Chel. New to the kink scene so looking to explore myself, my limits and my boundaries. ~ I want to find my Dom. Ideally, I'm after a 'boyfriend/girlfriend' relationship with a D/s dynamic. I dont want to move in with anyone but I do want a proper, full relationship. I dont want to be a bit on the side or a second or third sub so single men only. ~ I am in no way dominant so I'm not interested in subs. ~ Bi curious so after a lady to pop that cherry. ~ Get me in person in a sexual situation and I'm very submissive. Once limits are set, I do as I'm told! ~ Cannot accommodate. Can travel within reason. ~
Female (44) Rotherham, South Yorkshire
This really could be the start of an exciting adventure, couldn't it........ So let me start by introducing myself, I'm El ✨️hiiii, you gorgeous people. In vanilla life, I am a mother to two ***age boys, this takes up a reasonable amount of time and it is my main responsibility to care for them, though now they are growing older and more independent I want to plant some seeds for myself. For my life and my future. I want to find/expand my tribe, I'm nurodiverse, I am adventurous, I am empathic, I am anti conformist. About my likes. I am a lover of all the beautiful things in life such as art, music, dance, oh and Mother Nature is my one true love. I would describe myself as spiritual, and i guess some would call me a pagen. I go to the gym regularly, I lovvve me some Yoga. I have done a lot of learning in my life, I know what I don't want, and now I am ready to do some discovering, could you be what I am looking for? In terms of kink, I am naturally a sub, but being a bit of a rebel, I definitely have a bratty side πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‡πŸ˜˜ there's lots I want to explore with the right person. But first, I want to establish a solid foundation with trust being at the core. Mutual respect and trust will come before I explore anything sexual with you after care is a must. You don't have to be the most experienced person. We can learn and grow together. But, if you want to be in my circle, in my space, and especially in my...i want to know you, you need to feel safe to me, to be kind, considerate and respctful ect. If you got to the end of that, you deserve a medal for concentration πŸ˜‚. I know my concentration is questionable at times. Anyyyywayyyy. That's me. See you on the other side, maybe.
Female (39) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
My name is kerri. I am looking for male or female to have fun NSA. I am more sub and I have no limits. Looking to meet in real life. Would love to be humiliated, and love ***. Love the thought of not being in control. Feel free to message
Female (35) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
I'm fun and outgoing and looking for something new something different something out of my comfort zone. **Desires and Fantasies** I'd like to get to know someone first before I disclose these.
Female (36) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
About Me.. It is Masochistic /sub /slave/ Brat/*** slut. Solo Polyamarous/ambiamorous Cisgender Female, Heterosexual. I have NO interest in same sex relationships, unless it's friendship or mentoring. Nor do I wish to be a couple's plaything. My fetish list is long as I have enjoyed a growing number of kinks as the years have passed. My submission is all I need to be secure in the knowledge that I'm enough for the right man. That man will know what to say and what to do ... Giant tease.. or exhibitionist. Erm, yes! To save anyone guessing, if I am interested in you, there would be no mistaking the signs. If I ignore you, it's probably no. Send a msg, liking and lurking won't get you very far. Let's have a chat, manners, charisma, and intelligence are a big turn-on. If you intend to persue me, you should be able to lead a conversation and show intent, I do NOT chase guys! Whos the Dominant here? I have a beard kink, a soft spot for a ginger viking/rugby type and fondness for masculine men of a powerful nature. If your a man mountain and can pick up 100kg πŸ₯΅.. I have FB s that satisfy some needs but not all..
Female (50) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hey everyone! I'm a polyamorous bisexual trans woman looking (ish, not very actively) for flirting, dates, dominants, play partners, *especially* other trans women! I'm switch, but lean submissive (though now I have some amazing domme energy from my girlfriend I'm tempted to explore the other side of me!). I have to feel very confident to top effectively. I am dating, and lady's maid to, the most wonderful girlfriend I could wish for. I live with my long-term ex with whom I have a house and a beautiful dog. I'm fond of eloquence, creativeness, ritual and power exchange - as well as intense sensations and feelings of transgression. Anyone interested in me has to be not only cool with my gender but actively excited for my journey. No chasers or transphobes! As of writing (end of Jan 2025) I am 5 weeks or so into HRT, so as regards boobs, watch this space! (Forms do a decent job in the meantime!) *Primarily* interested in people living nearby, and will have trouble hosting until/unless you get to know person I live with.
Female (38) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I am an owned submissive and I am looking for other submissive friends. Guys, my Dom loves sharing me but I won’t talk to you without you talking to him first, I need permission to talk to other men. Sorry but I will delete any messages from guys that do not have permission to talk to me. Outside of this lifestyle I like Rock and Metal music, walking my dog and playing the Sims. I have a regular life and I do not live in a porn film like guys like to imagine lol.
Female (51) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
jumping back into this lifestyle after being with my bf for 18 months! looking to play seperate with other naughty females or play together with couples! don’t be shy to message xx if you recognise me, no you don’t xo
Female (25) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
if you want to know anything just ask me. its just like that, only looking for certain people
Female (33) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
very new to BDSM, wanting to explore my likes and dislikes with a Dom who will communicate and look after me if things become overwhelming, whilst making me feel safe to explore.
Female (21) Barnsley, South Yorkshire
I'm one half of a swinging couple, come to fet to try and learn more about a few things. mainly shibari, as I think it's the most beautiful thing
Female (45) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
Hiya! You can call me by *** or call be "Sunflower". It is an online name until I trust you with more. I enjoy diapers, abdl, *** holding and desperation, ***, punishments, pussy *** and nipple ***, cnc, private play, spanking, whipping, *** and more. I am curious to try enemas, semi public play, little play (ddlg) and pet play I am not into feet, wax, or ice. Other than the kinky side of things, I enjoy being spontaneous and adventuring. I want to jump off cliffs (with safety obviously), climb volcanoes, surf in the coral reefs and more. I enjoy writing, coding, volunteering, and saving lives.
Female (20) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm married. 4'11"..quiet until I care. Looking for friends/like-minded people. I'm bored of the "norm". Say something I wouldn't expect. My ex looks like Peter Sutcliffe and I miss him.
Female (37) Doncaster, South Yorkshire
hi, I'm new to this whole thing, idrk what to put here
Female (19) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
Riddled with ADHD so buckle up or laugh along. Love spontaneity, smutty books to recreate and drinks! Don’t ask me where I wanna go, just book something and tell me what to wearπŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ Yes I am 6ft so if your short be secure.. or strong enough to throw me over your shoulders
Female (24) Sheffield, South Yorkshire
I'm a shy girl, but once you have got to know me. aoutgoingg person. looking for a 3rd
Female (24) Doncaster, South Yorkshire

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