READ BEFORE YOU MESSAGE
I’ll show my face if we get talking
looking for a d/s dynamic
Can be bratty until I trust you more.
Attraction is important, I look after myself in the gym and I like a big man who does the same. Added bonus if you have tattoos and not afraid to wear a mask 👀
not after online, I can spot a fake a mile away so don’t bother
not looking for anyone younger than me or over 45
I'm looking for a pleasure dom.
I’m a fiery, playful woman who loves to surrender to a man who takes charge. I crave a Dom who knows exactly how to tease, push, and pleasure me until I’m gasping and begging, all while keeping me safe and worshiped. Confident, commanding, and unapologetically dominant men, I want you to take control—my limits are real, but my desire is endless. If you can match my fire, play with my mind, and make me ache in the best ways… show me what dominance really means.
I'd like to live the life 24/7.
Looking to make friends and to meet new people
NOT looking for another relationship, because I already have the one of my dreams ?
**Desires and Fantasies**
I can't tell you those!! They're secret!!!!
I am not looking to play with anyone individually, I only play along side my Dom.
I am, poly and demi sexual exploring BDSM with the house of Alpha only.
I started off on here as a sub looking for a Dominant, since meeting my amazing partner I have discovered I am switch.
Now I sub only to my Dominant who is also my partner.
We already have a sub who we both Dom, I play softly I’m not a dominatrix
bold textHello!
Keeping it to the point, I'm looking for a few specific things. If you don't relate to those things, please don't message and waste both our times
✨ If you are:
🐻 A Daddy Dom, that is equally caring, nurturing, and sadistic that is open to exploring my Little/Middle side, attend Little events with me, and build a friendship based dynamic.
😈 A couple where both parties are bi and open to playing with another bi couple
😜 A single bi male, that is happy to play with both male and female
I'm also open to meeting females for friendship, casual dates, and flirty fun
✨A bit more about me! ✨
I am romantically monogous, owned and collared to my partner, please respect this, if you send me messages asking me to lie, break rules, cross boundaries or anything like that, I will block you.
I am here to seek a Daddy that can help me explore my Little/Middle side. I'm on the other Fet site, same username, but I'm more active over there ❤️
I am not looking for a submissive, but seeing as you still keep messaging me, at least make yourself useful and pay me.
I'm new to kink. I'm looking for a Dom who I will be able to connect with on different levels. I want him to unlock my potential and make me want to be his good girl.
Please do not get in touch if you are married, in a relationship, or active with playmates. Thank you 🙏🏻
I've been away for awhile now looking to explore.
Happy to chat and get to know people but I'm not looking for one and done. Trust is a big thing for me to enable me to embrace my submissive side to the fullest
A little princess looking to date and find her caregiver!! I’m hoping to find someone with some experience and knowledge of kink and cgl dynamics. As a submissive I have a wide range of kinks and have experience in negotiating and carrying out scenes, some of my favourites including anal, edging and ***d orgasms. I’m still learning about my little side but I’m putting in the work and research about it so I can play safely both on my own and with partners!
On a self collaring journey as you read this 🖤
Outside of kink I am a Disney/Star Wars/Doctor Who nerd, I am always down for geeky chats! I’ve recently gotten into crochet and back into reading, ask me about my reading goals, I might make progress if people make me talk about it :D
I have played in ENM relationships as a FWB and would like to experience it as a partner and not a friend 🖤
Not looking for ONS 🖤
Freshly divorced from very vanilla marriage so dipping my toes back in. Trying to be semi sensible and not jumping in head first so after friends and connections mainly but open to options.
Not much fan of one off things as it feels like knowing the person you play with makes it better and also them knowing what works on you is just extra perk
**Desires and Fantasies**
Me in handcuffs and blindfolded, with my Dom whispering in my ear what he wants to do with me. Than he does just that with me going deep in just to be taken back up by him at the end
Welcome travellers 🌄
Who am I?
Tea drinker, over thinker, book girl, *** lover, nature needer, filthy minded lovable perv girl. Love playing board games and card games. Dancing and late night karaoke. Will cry at many/most films. An absolute slut for praise.
Things I love:
Being a very good slut
Pleasing and praise.
Being hyper affectionate and caring
Being loved and cared for
Seeing and feeling how pleased with me you are
Things I need for this to work:
Trust
Honesty and openness
Excellent communication
Enthusiasm
Clear boundaries
Some kind of commitment (not interested in one offs)
Consistency
Things I want:
A Daddy or Dom (or Mummy or Domme) to treat me with love and adoration, make me feel safe and warm and special, then do awful things to me at the same time
A Dom who makes me WANT to please and serve them with encouragement and praise, not someone who just expects "yes Daddy". Get in my mind. That's where my submission comes from.
Someone who knows what they want from a sub (beyond just do as I say)
Lots of praise and worship.
To see, hear and the effect of my actions and how much someone wants me.
A Dominant who has good grasp of their own strength and how to control it. (I'm only little and easily hurt!)
Fun *** mixed with a head fuck of praise.
To be ***d to orgasm (please 😭)
Things I'm not interested in:
Jumping into anything, sex, D/s, relationships etc.
Bossy and entitled "doms"
Hard play kinksters and Sadists.
Casual hookups, casual anything
Long distance anythingships
Drama of any variety
Online only dynamics
What am I looking for?
For the most part I am looking for friendship within the community and Midlands scene.
Potentially I am looking for
A Top, Daddy/Mummy or Dom/Domme who will treat me with care, love and affection. Praising lots and using me for their pleasure and allowing my need to please be recognised and rewarded.
Someone who would love explore my role play breeding kink with me.
Pics can be sent once I'm genuinely interested in your mind.
If you message something about what I'm looking for, don't bother, I'll just refer you to read my profile
How you message me is how I feel our relationship of any sort will play out so you will be judged on your messages and responses. If your message is boring I probably won't reply.
Ways to win me over:
Lots of enthusiastic communication about all sorts
Ask questions and tell me what you're passionate about.
Give me loads of specific feedback and praise (I really like how you xyz because abc) (when you abc it makes me xyz)
If you're going to tell me I have great tits then do it in an impressive way.
Words. Lots of words.
Playing hard to get or treat them mean are the fastest turn offs (not in a play scene)
I won't give you my full effort unless I can see you're able give me the praise I need.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
92% Little Baby Girl
90% Submissive
90% Degradee
89% Voyeur
86% Exhibitionist
84% Non-monogamist
81% Experimentalist
81% Ageplayer
68% Vanilla
Kat❣️
5’2 feisty brat 💋
Hard kinks 🩸
Not looking for gentle aftercare doms, bedroom spankers, or “kinky but vanilla” guys. I need a real sadist — experienced, dark-edged, unapologetic.
I’m the kind of sub who’s already cracked—emotionally and raw. *** isn’t just play for me; it’s the only thing that quiets the noise inside my head. I need marks that last, bruises that throb for days, tears that come whether I want them or not
BPD&PanicDisorder 🏽
Looking for a Dominant who is plus size friendly, emotionally literate
and consistent.
I enjoy being wooed and treated well. A gentleman with old fashioned manners and a bit of a potty mouth would be perfect. Princess energy here. I like dates, gifts, regular contact and effort. I will not chase but I will match good energy in the exact same way 🎁🥂💬
I am demisexual so connection HAS to be there and I prefer a talking stage because of this. If you need to meet right away, I’m not for you.
In everyday life I have a busy professional career and a young family, so this (or you) are my escape.
Neurodivergent people are welcome if you understand your own process. Self awareness matters.
Immaculate personal hygiene is a must. No cheesy wotsits or fishing trawlers, thank you.
I am tall and plus size (18), so only message if you have had your Weetabix or are ready to put your back out.💪🏻
If you read this, include a ❤️ in your message. I do not respond to generic or low effort messages.
I go by Bunny or Bunz or Buns
sub/brat here
Im not here looking for anything I'm only here for friendships!
Can find me in chat having banter with current friends on here.
5ft5, chunky but funky woman after her man.
I prefer men between 26-36, 5ft10+, someone I fancy but can be a best friend 😉 please be close to me too!!!
I ideally want to date and find someone 🥰 don’t be shy, drop me a message! you are more likely to get a reply if you have pics on your profile. please read my BDSM results!
I have a professional job so face pics when I feel comfortable.
I am a praise sub, not a *** sub! Mainly submissive but can switch. I am more than my body so I want someone who wants me for me. I am on here cause most men get scared when they realise how kinky I am 😜
alternatively, will consider a SD
Hi!
I am currently an art student in college (I had to do an extra year don’t bully me for it 😂) and I love music,going for walks,reading,movies, Pokemon and playing magic the gathering. I may be a bit awkward at first but I promise once you get to know me I’m alright haha.
I’ve dabbled in bdsm with a couple of past partners so I have very light experience in being tied up and whipped and things of that nature but I would love to find someone to explore it with in more depth.
I am not only just looking for that but also just friends in general who share the same common interests 😊
I’m in an open relationship with a wonderful partner — transparency and honesty are non-negotiable for me. He’ll always know who I’m talking to or meeting, so if that’s not your thing, no hard feelings.
I’m neurodivergent, which means I experience connection, intensity, structure, and emotion in a slightly different (and often deeper) way. I thrive in clear communication, consistency, reassurance, and dynamics with defined roles and expectations. I can be playful and teasing, but I also value emotional intelligence, patience, and someone who understands that my brain can be both beautifully chaotic and deeply loyal.
Right now I’m looking to chat and build something online first. If the right dynamic naturally develops, I’m open to exploring in person in the future — but there’s no rush.
I’m not here for quick gratification, random nudes, or being someone’s boredom fix. I know what I want from a dynamic: connection, chemistry, structure, and mutual respect.
If that aligns with you, feel free to message and let’s see where it goes
Heyy
happily married in a polyamorous relationship with Sleepysilva who is also lurking on here😂
been on and off the app loads, keep coming back for the giggles! love making new friends 🥹
I’m a cheeky, giggly sub who loves attention mainly positive as I work in complaints so get my fill of *** at work😂
What can I say! I like to have fun, what person doesn’t?
My fave is to be gagged and bound so i have no say in what you do to me.
P.S total size queen so come packing boys 😈
Hi. I’m reasonable new to the scene and still finding my limits, but have. a pretty good idea of what I like and would like to explore more with someone experienced.
I’m not looking for multiple people, I would like to be with someone that would like it all, the kink with the vanilla but who is patient and happy to take me on this journey.
Trust is something that I need so I’m not just going to jump into anything without getting to know someone first, so let’s chat and see where things go.
New to this community just looking to see what’s what and talk to people.
I love reading so get me a book and you’ll get what you want instantly. It’s a joke unless…😏😂
Please feel free to message me just be patient with the possibility of a slower reply it’s a bit overwhelming.
ask questions I’ll answer honestly always😊
Have a wonderful day💚
Profile revamp cause fuck it
**Not looking for subs, please stop!**
Kink/fetish and boudoir photographer
Bratty Domme of over 15 years, but I'm a switch.
I don't fit the typical brat archetype
I'm more a feral chaos gremlin
I like pleasure
I like sensuality
I'm not interested in being made to submit. It's a gift.
I'm also not a masochist.
I cannot stress enough how much I DONT WANT TO SEE YOUR PENIS in my dms without consent. It's not hard to ask if I'd like to see it OR wait for her to ask, if she's curious. Shocking I know.
I am 420 friendly, I consume via prescription daily (yes, an actual prescription).
AuDHD so I'm fun and weird with special interests that include art, gaming and HER PLEASURE. Yes I can absolutely be a pillow princess but I also like giving for my own pleasure. Which makes the oral mind blowing.
I am married and they are aware of me being on here and other places.
No, he is not my sub, no I'm not his.
If anyone mentions having no limits, I'm no longer willing to speak to you. Everyone has limits!
Also I have body hair. If pubes, pits and legs hair is offensive to your delicate disposition, please do pass me by 😂😂😂 psssst also to those guys claiming body hair on women is unhygienic.... Doesn't that mean you're unhygienic then...
As Delilah Bon do eloquently puts it "I WANNA SEE BUSH!" 😂😂
Ultimately I would like to meet like minded people who I can become friends with and have fun with, be that having a chat/drink or maybe more...
I would love to explore my bi curious side, with the right person of course.. Im new to alla that but im sure it wouldnt take me long 😏😜
please don't expect feet pics or convos about feet and your cock for free! unless you're special lol as much as I love them worshipped!!
Please only contact me if you're 25+
Must have a full clean sexual health test.
I'm a plus size, tattooed girl who's not great at describing herself. I can be quite funny, depending on who you ask, but I'm not the best conversationalist so bear with me. The autism gene missed but it sure did nick me 😂
Actively looking for either a 3rd man to join myself and my male fwb where all are expected to participate with each other or a purely sexual Dom/sub relationship, not after a TPE relationship.
I can't lie, as much as I hate to admit it, I am shallow and I do care what you look like so if you contact me please include photos with the understanding I would only share with my fwb if that it what is agreed upon, otherwise I won't respond.
Non-monogamous
I'm looking for a pleasure dom.
I’m a fiery, playful woman who loves to surrender to a man who takes charge. I crave a Dom who knows exactly how to tease, push, and pleasure me until I’m gasping and begging, all while keeping me safe and worshiped. Confident, commanding, and unapologetically dominant men, I want you to take control—my limits are real, but my desire is endless. If you can match my fire, play with my mind, and make me ache in the best ways… show me what dominance really means.
I'd like to live the life 24/7.
READ BEFORE YOU MESSAGE
I’ll show my face if we get talking
looking for a d/s dynamic
Can be bratty until I trust you more.
Attraction is important, I look after myself in the gym and I like a big man who does the same. Added bonus if you have tattoos and not afraid to wear a mask 👀
not after online, I can spot a fake a mile away so don’t bother
not looking for anyone younger than me or over 45
I've been away for awhile now looking to explore.
Happy to chat and get to know people but I'm not looking for one and done. Trust is a big thing for me to enable me to embrace my submissive side to the fullest
A little princess looking to date and find her caregiver!! I’m hoping to find someone with some experience and knowledge of kink and cgl dynamics. As a submissive I have a wide range of kinks and have experience in negotiating and carrying out scenes, some of my favourites including anal, edging and ***d orgasms. I’m still learning about my little side but I’m putting in the work and research about it so I can play safely both on my own and with partners!
On a self collaring journey as you read this 🖤
Outside of kink I am a Disney/Star Wars/Doctor Who nerd, I am always down for geeky chats! I’ve recently gotten into crochet and back into reading, ask me about my reading goals, I might make progress if people make me talk about it :D
I have played in ENM relationships as a FWB and would like to experience it as a partner and not a friend 🖤
Not looking for ONS 🖤
I am not looking to play with anyone individually, I only play along side my Dom.
I am, poly and demi sexual exploring BDSM with the house of Alpha only.
I started off on here as a sub looking for a Dominant, since meeting my amazing partner I have discovered I am switch.
Now I sub only to my Dominant who is also my partner.
We already have a sub who we both Dom, I play softly I’m not a dominatrix
bold textHello!
Keeping it to the point, I'm looking for a few specific things. If you don't relate to those things, please don't message and waste both our times
✨ If you are:
🐻 A Daddy Dom, that is equally caring, nurturing, and sadistic that is open to exploring my Little/Middle side, attend Little events with me, and build a friendship based dynamic.
😈 A couple where both parties are bi and open to playing with another bi couple
😜 A single bi male, that is happy to play with both male and female
I'm also open to meeting females for friendship, casual dates, and flirty fun
✨A bit more about me! ✨
I am romantically monogous, owned and collared to my partner, please respect this, if you send me messages asking me to lie, break rules, cross boundaries or anything like that, I will block you.
I am here to seek a Daddy that can help me explore my Little/Middle side. I'm on the other Fet site, same username, but I'm more active over there ❤️
I am not looking for a submissive, but seeing as you still keep messaging me, at least make yourself useful and pay me.
I'm new to kink. I'm looking for a Dom who I will be able to connect with on different levels. I want him to unlock my potential and make me want to be his good girl.
Please do not get in touch if you are married, in a relationship, or active with playmates. Thank you 🙏🏻
Welcome travellers 🌄
Who am I?
Tea drinker, over thinker, book girl, *** lover, nature needer, filthy minded lovable perv girl. Love playing board games and card games. Dancing and late night karaoke. Will cry at many/most films. An absolute slut for praise.
Things I love:
Being a very good slut
Pleasing and praise.
Being hyper affectionate and caring
Being loved and cared for
Seeing and feeling how pleased with me you are
Things I need for this to work:
Trust
Honesty and openness
Excellent communication
Enthusiasm
Clear boundaries
Some kind of commitment (not interested in one offs)
Consistency
Things I want:
A Daddy or Dom (or Mummy or Domme) to treat me with love and adoration, make me feel safe and warm and special, then do awful things to me at the same time
A Dom who makes me WANT to please and serve them with encouragement and praise, not someone who just expects "yes Daddy". Get in my mind. That's where my submission comes from.
Someone who knows what they want from a sub (beyond just do as I say)
Lots of praise and worship.
To see, hear and the effect of my actions and how much someone wants me.
A Dominant who has good grasp of their own strength and how to control it. (I'm only little and easily hurt!)
Fun *** mixed with a head fuck of praise.
To be ***d to orgasm (please 😭)
Things I'm not interested in:
Jumping into anything, sex, D/s, relationships etc.
Bossy and entitled "doms"
Hard play kinksters and Sadists.
Casual hookups, casual anything
Long distance anythingships
Drama of any variety
Online only dynamics
What am I looking for?
For the most part I am looking for friendship within the community and Midlands scene.
Potentially I am looking for
A Top, Daddy/Mummy or Dom/Domme who will treat me with care, love and affection. Praising lots and using me for their pleasure and allowing my need to please be recognised and rewarded.
Someone who would love explore my role play breeding kink with me.
Pics can be sent once I'm genuinely interested in your mind.
If you message something about what I'm looking for, don't bother, I'll just refer you to read my profile
How you message me is how I feel our relationship of any sort will play out so you will be judged on your messages and responses. If your message is boring I probably won't reply.
Ways to win me over:
Lots of enthusiastic communication about all sorts
Ask questions and tell me what you're passionate about.
Give me loads of specific feedback and praise (I really like how you xyz because abc) (when you abc it makes me xyz)
If you're going to tell me I have great tits then do it in an impressive way.
Words. Lots of words.
Playing hard to get or treat them mean are the fastest turn offs (not in a play scene)
I won't give you my full effort unless I can see you're able give me the praise I need.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
92% Little Baby Girl
90% Submissive
90% Degradee
89% Voyeur
86% Exhibitionist
84% Non-monogamist
81% Experimentalist
81% Ageplayer
68% Vanilla
Freshly divorced from very vanilla marriage so dipping my toes back in. Trying to be semi sensible and not jumping in head first so after friends and connections mainly but open to options.
Not much fan of one off things as it feels like knowing the person you play with makes it better and also them knowing what works on you is just extra perk
**Desires and Fantasies**
Me in handcuffs and blindfolded, with my Dom whispering in my ear what he wants to do with me. Than he does just that with me going deep in just to be taken back up by him at the end
Looking to make friends and to meet new people
NOT looking for another relationship, because I already have the one of my dreams ?
**Desires and Fantasies**
I can't tell you those!! They're secret!!!!
Married woman looking for people to chat with to get hot ideas for the bedroom.
I am starting to explore sub/dom style scenarios and would like inspiration.
Hi!
I am currently an art student in college (I had to do an extra year don’t bully me for it 😂) and I love music,going for walks,reading,movies, Pokemon and playing magic the gathering. I may be a bit awkward at first but I promise once you get to know me I’m alright haha.
I’ve dabbled in bdsm with a couple of past partners so I have very light experience in being tied up and whipped and things of that nature but I would love to find someone to explore it with in more depth.
I am not only just looking for that but also just friends in general who share the same common interests 😊
Kat❣️
5’2 feisty brat 💋
Hard kinks 🩸
Not looking for gentle aftercare doms, bedroom spankers, or “kinky but vanilla” guys. I need a real sadist — experienced, dark-edged, unapologetic.
I’m the kind of sub who’s already cracked—emotionally and raw. *** isn’t just play for me; it’s the only thing that quiets the noise inside my head. I need marks that last, bruises that throb for days, tears that come whether I want them or not
BPD&PanicDisorder 🏽
Hi! I have a scuba fetish, I've had it for as long as I can remember! I love the look and feel of scuba gear, black shiny wetsuits, the sight of a diver's lips wrapped tighly around the regulator, along with the arousing hissing sounds of breathing air from a tank. I'm really into breath play while wearing scuba gear, and often have fantasies of having my air restricted or turned off while being tied up in rope or bondage. Also really into the idea of underwater sex! Would also be fun to get spanked with split fins.
Unfortunately, I'm not scuba certified but hoping to change that soon! Maybe If someone on here has scuba gear I could try on, we could have some kinky breath play fun in a pool!
New to this community just looking to see what’s what and talk to people.
I love reading so get me a book and you’ll get what you want instantly. It’s a joke unless…😏😂
Please feel free to message me just be patient with the possibility of a slower reply it’s a bit overwhelming.
ask questions I’ll answer honestly always😊
Have a wonderful day💚
What can I say! I like to have fun, what person doesn’t?
My fave is to be gagged and bound so i have no say in what you do to me.
P.S total size queen so come packing boys 😈
We're looking for a woman to join us in some fun. We are open to a one time thing or, if you vibe with us, we would be open to a regular play partner. Also open to playing with other couples.
We don't play separately - it's either both of us or none of us
fetishes and kinks include: DDLG, CNC, ***, breeding, age gaps, feet, spit, multiple partners/gangbangs/being shared, cucking, ass eating, anal, hair (I love long hair), latex, leather, impact, bondage etc
i love hearing about fucked up fantasies
18F looking to be someone’s toy :3
5ft5, chunky but funky woman after her man.
I prefer men between 26-36, 5ft10+, someone I fancy but can be a best friend 😉 please be close to me too!!!
I ideally want to date and find someone 🥰 don’t be shy, drop me a message! you are more likely to get a reply if you have pics on your profile. please read my BDSM results!
I have a professional job so face pics when I feel comfortable.
I am a praise sub, not a *** sub! Mainly submissive but can switch. I am more than my body so I want someone who wants me for me. I am on here cause most men get scared when they realise how kinky I am 😜
alternatively, will consider a SD
New here so not sure what to expect 😅
I can be a switch but mostly submissive, can be a bit bratty sometimes 😏🤷🏼♀️ so looking for a dom to teach me how to behave😏 big praise kink! 😝🥵would like someone serious.
I am a submissive who loves to be tied and controlled but who hates ***. looking for a sensualist dom who will control me with endless pleasure. I am multi orgasmic and love sensory play. would like a regular FWB situation and happy to hang out on a platonic level if we get on as well. I'd like someone who i can talk to and who will communicate with me regularly so that we can build trust and explore boundaries together. poo or ***.
I AM A LESBIAN. i would be down for a man if they purely want kink relationship, i want control over men.
I want a puppy to take care of, cherish in return I want your devotion. I won't tolerate brats, I want someone obedient and ready to serve me completely. online only please, meeting men off the internet is odd....
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