I'm only looking for kinky dates. I'm a sub with bratty tendencies: tell me what to do and chances are I'll "fight" you, force me into doing it and I'm yours. Pain and humiliation won't turn me on although I understand 1 or 2 spanks are deserved. I'd rather see your face than your dick in a photo as I think it just spoils the fun. Also, I'm not looking to embrace the full sub life, I'm in charge on my life but you can indeed have all the power when under the sheets.