Find kinky women in Cardiff

I am a Dominant who thrives on control, passion, and the intoxicating surrender of a willing submissive. Attractive, confident, and unapologetically commanding, I don’t roleplay dominance, I embody it. What I seek is a real exchange of power, where my slut offers complete submission and I take absolute control, mind, body, and desire. My nurturing side exists, but it is woven with sadism, discipline, and the thrill of ownership. I crave obedience, service, and devotion that goes beyond words, rituals, kneeling, offering yourself entirely at my feet. I want a submissive who finds pleasure in restraint, freedom in protocol, and arousal in punishment, knowing that every moan, every mark, every surrender is mine to claim. This is not casual play. With me, you will live in a constant state of belonging, collared, controlled, and utterly owned as my devoted slut.
Female (46) Cardiff, Wales
To explore and be guided into submission/Dominance roles and lifestyles. I'm also happy just to make friends! Edit: it seem either people aren't reading my profile or I haven't explained clearly. I'm looking into being guided into new things, whilst I absolutely know I want to switch, I *do not* have enough experience to confidently act as such. Pease don't message me asking me to Dom you, or message and expect me to submit instantly. These are things I want to be guided into and learn about to become.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
Im looking for a daddy dom, or a very caring dom. Someone who will make me obey no matter if we are together or apart from one another.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
Looking to learn more on the scene and find out more on myself and maybe find some friends. Not looking for a relationship.
Female (37) Cardiff, Wales
Very new to this life style just a sub looking for her Dom will need full training and guidance. Would love to try Cnc, primal play, impact play, mask play, breath play, knife play (not permanent marks or drawn ***), bondage/rope play and to have my sences taken away from me I'd like to see the rougher side of kink all of this would have to be achieved with someone I could trust completely.
Female (33) Cardiff, Wales
I'm 41 year old divorcee looking to spice up things. I have always been interested in being a little or a puppy play. I'm new to it and am looking in hope of finding someone who is willing to be patient with me and explore one of these options in a safe way. I don't have a dominant bone in my body and would like to find that person who will take care of me and guide me. i am looking for my daddy or my mummy and daddy. when I'm in my little space i can range from 18months to 5 years old. I will go as far as drinking out of a bottle eating baby food and using a nappy (no number 2s). my little likes her mummy or daddy to punish her with spanking if I've been naughty
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant, seeking obedient, intelligent partner for exploration and control. Not looking to be dominated; will not accept contact from anyone looking for a submissive.
Female (51) Cardiff, Wales
36 year old, curvy Welsh woman ⌛️ Face pics in my private gallery… I’m not shy just have to be partially discreet. If you don’t wanna see all my private pics, ask and I’ll happily DM a pic. Don’t let it put you off starting a conversation with me 😉
Female (36) Cardiff, Wales
Hi, my name is Panda, please only refer to me as Panda unless otherwise specified. Face pics are mainly in my private gallery due to work reasons, however, also happy to send face pics on request. WARNING TO ALL MEN: I’m not interested in you sexually so don’t come into my DMs expecting anything of the sort. I will also not allow you to see my private pictures so don’t bother asking to see them (it’s disappointing that this has to be explicitly said). I will rightfully be rude to you if you cannot be bothered to read my profile or ignore this warning. A little about me: - Hobbies include playing and coaching football (this is an absolute passion of mine but it’s not my whole personality, don’t worry), various artsy things, singing, and learning new things. There are more but I can’t give everything away here! - Some of my likes include serial killer documentaries, reading, various genres of music and spending time with my family. - Some of my dislikes include people that insist they’re right and refuse to consider other people’s point of view/perspective, a whole load of sensory things, people that are two-faced and getting overwhelmed. - WARNING: I can get overwhelmed by things in life and struggle to respond to messages, please be considerate during these times. - I have a wonderful fiancé/Daddy whom I love very much and am collared by. - I have a variety of kinks, some I have experienced, others I have not but am interested in, so message me if you’re interested in knowing more. Just as a taste I enjoy impact play, rope play, *** and praise. What am I looking for: - Friends are always welcome! I love being able to talk with people about kinky and non-kinky things, especially if there’s something to learn! - To extend my knowledge and experience with some of my kinks, message me to find out more. - I am only looking for women or femme-presenting person to be with in a sexual and kinky way for solo fun. However my partner and I are interested in women to play with together. I am a switch but don’t have much experience being Domme. - Ultimately looking for a lovely lady to experience a loving throuple with! Thank you for your consideration!
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
new to this! I’m excited to try new things though 😅 prefer women and especially women older than me :] if u used ai to generate ur profile pictures don’t dm me lol
Female (18) Cardiff, Wales
Happy, curvy switch looking to have fun while I’m still young enough to enjoy it ;) I have been enjoying learning more about my kinkier side and want to find like minded people for drinks etc. Not looking for anything long term at the minute but open to the idea in future. If you want my attention… GET IT 😈👀
Female (36) Cardiff, Wales
24 , domme , switch (in bedroom) welsh not looking for fwb or casual do not show me nudes unless you ask / I say so
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
looking for a ltr and not into one night stands DO NOT MESSAGE FOR CYBERFUN OR FOR NUDES not into anal or deepthroating been told I’m overwhelming, suffocating and over emotional from past experiences so bare that in mind before you want to talk also check out my problems so you know what you’re getting yourself in for I do have my problems and can be too much hobbies - puzzles, reading, movies, art, gaming and more looking for someone between 20-29
Female (22) Cardiff, Wales
I’m a playful, teasing submissive… maybe a tad bratty. Still new to this, but eager to learn, so please share your knowledge…. not your dirty pictures!
Female (33) Cardiff, Wales
📸 ⭐ Commenting on my pictures will get my attention to show you have put some effort in . ⭐ Mature experienced Mistress with 30 years of knowledge behind me in BDSM ⭐ Experienced key holder ⭐ Happy to interact with newbies learning and evolving looking for direction ⭐ I am very respected in the BDSM world , I'm not desperate and I have high standards . 🛑 Honesty is everything to me . I give It and expect it . Permission to DM if you prefer but do not send cock pics you will be blocked . Time and a place and all that . ⭐ I like to be worshipped and spoilt . Kneeling for me will be expected . You will be trained MY way I don't care what your past domme expected it you had one . ⭐ Send a detailed message ...Dont message if you can't handle a strong independent woman and shy away easily when reprimanded. ⭐ Seeking someone Alpha in vanilla life and 24/7 sub to me is what will hold my attention. Brats don't even bother messaging I have no time for the games . 🛑 If I claim you ..you will be mine . You will be loyal and your desire will be to make me happy and please me . ⭐ If you approach then do so appropriately..I have no time for time wasters . ⏰ Time has been mentioned multiple times ...Do get that as soon as I'm live I'm flooded with messages ...I only chat to the deserving . My time is precious 💞 ⭐ Approach if your slave / sub with respect and address me properly. ⭐ Not looking for anyone that is a switch or dom themselves . I am naturally dominant so don't ask if I switch either. ⭐ I am NOT a mommy to play ⭐ If you give this code when I ask then I know you have read it all the above and not been lazy !!! code ... OBEDIENT
Female (56) Cardiff, Wales
Sub-leaning switch based in Cardiff Looking for casual fun and friendship with other neurodivergent queers Absolutley no cis men (not that they can read) Haf-M on fetlife
Female (22) Cardiff, Wales
I’m a dominant woman who knows how to take charge — but the real thrill is finding someone who can keep up. I’m passionate, driven, and love deep conversations mixed with a little tension and play. What excites me? Bold moves, real honesty, and sparks that don’t burn out. I’m here to explore real connections with real people — chemistry, passion, and everything in between. Want to know who’s behind this profile? Just ask for my photo… I don’t bite — unless you ask nicely.
Female (32) Cardiff, Wales
I am a true submissive, hard-wired for it for as long as I can remember. While my daily life requires me to be highly independent and practical—I have a 'mechanic’s brain' that is always fixing or doing—at my core, I am happiest when I truly 'belong' to someone. I spent the last ten years in a relationship where the D/s dynamic drifted long before it ended, leaving me to carry the lead for far too long. I’ve proven I can handle everything alone, but I’m ready to return to my natural state. I miss the peace that comes with yielding to a competent, present Dom. I deeply value intelligence and a sharp sense of humor. I need someone who can keep up with me intellectually and isn't afraid to use laughter to break the tension of a long day. I’m looking for a dynamic built on genuine presence and resonance. I don’t need to be 'managed,' but I do need to be led. I value a Dom who is consistent, capable, and understands the relief I feel when I can finally hand over the mental load to someone I respect. I’m grounded, authentic, and looking for a connection that feels like coming home.
Female (38) Cardiff, Wales
filthy stinking little whore that enjoys nothing more then being used to her full potential 😈😇in hopes of being someone’s bottomless cum bucket 💦🪣 very discreet well behaved an kinda classy in public until told otherwise 😈🤭 I love being a dirty little secret that you can indulge in especially for married men or even better bring your wife to 😍😏 absolutely adore attention especially from more then one person 🤗🤤 three sums, orgy, gangbang, private party events I’m the girl for you 😏😈👅 I’m a sucker for new/freaky kinks an fetishes nothing is to weird for me 🤪😛
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
Cymraes, yapper, a little strange. I’m looking to explore my sexuality more and potentially get into a power exchange relationship as a submissive. I’m looking for a genuine connection and even though sexual chemistry is important to me, please don’t begin conversations with anything sexual, I want be known and get to know you first!
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
I’m an author. I used to write thrillers, now I write smut. as a vicar’s daughter my sex life was marred by shame for years and when I started reading smut all the shame fell away and I want to make up for lost time. I want to call you Daddy, I want to be your good girl. I want impact play, I want to be tied up and exposed. I want someone to enjoy my body. I’d like them to put their pleasure first sometimes, use me like their little fuck toy. I’m up for experimenting and not looking for commitment, but if I could find a partner to consistently play with - non-monogamously - I think that would help build my confidence and help me learn. I’m ready for an experienced Dom to teach me what my body can feel, to pull out of myself and my own head. I want to turn off my brain and get fucked and feel everything. I’m an exhibitionist. I’d love my Dom to show me off to others, show them how good he is at getting me off. Ideally, I’d like to meet men around my age or older, with more experience than me.
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
I suck at describing myself, but well I have to start somewhere. I’m quite into dark kinks that one can call taboo (since my favourite kink ever is CNC) I want to meet a dom who could make all my fantasies come true, while I of course would give them the challenge their crave. I don’t like submitting immediately, and I hate sexting, so don’t ask for pics.
Female (27) Cardiff, Wales
Hey, I'm Zoe, I'm here to gain more knowledge and experience within the community. I am looking for a partner to connect with on an emotional, spiritual, and physical level, and a LTR. IM FROM WALES IN THE UK, PLEASE DONT MESSAGE IF NOT LOCAL AND STOP MESSAGING ME ASKING ME TO PEG YOU, JEEEEESUSSSSS My main interests are DDLG, praise and ***. I'm bratty :) Rubbish at checking this- follow my IG - -ali3nprincess95 - Im a single momma of 1, Youth Worker and studying my masters degree(: - If you're a believer of the pandemic and non believer of the New World Order and The Great Reset, please don't waste any of our time, it ain't gonna work. - UNVACCINATED QUEEN - 5'2 - Love thought-provoking conversations and anything ancient civilisations related - Aliens are definitely real Joe Rogan Jordan Peterson Russell Brand Play Fortnite with me and praise me when I get a kill, which isn't very often xoxo Let's make something together Little PSA: if you message me with the intention of believing you right off the bat deserve my respect or submission, I will not reply. BDSM in general, requires a lot of trust and mutual understanding. And a fundamental connection needs to be formed first. Respect and trust need to be earned. This especially applies to DDLG, you earn the right to be called daddy or dominate me. and the same goes to me earning the right to be someone's sub or little. I'm not interested in meeting up and shagging strangers without any form of connection so stop asking me lmao. Too many guys use DDLG or BDSM as a means of getting sex or doing whatever they want to a woman. This ***es me off and just isn't going to interest me. So unless you're actually interested in what BDSM and DDLG is, and me as an individual, don't message me. I'm here to find a true connection and relationship with someone who is also my best friend, I will want that to be established before anything else, I want a competent man that will provide in all ways, who has his life together, who also has goals and aspirations and wants to grow with someone ? and as a woman, I would also want to meet his needs in every way. Thankyouuuuuuuu for coming to my Ted Talk xoxo
Female (31) Cardiff, Wales
Hi all! Please read before starting a conversation with me ☺️ I am looking for a long term committed relationship based on a D/s dynamic with vanilla life wrapped around it. if you’re here looking for ONS’s or a fling, I’m not, so please don’t waste either of our time. I am a kind, caring, loyal and dedicated sub who is ready to find someone to build a life with. I bring a lot to the table. I am well educated and read. I have my life in order and am emotionally intelligent with lots of empathic tendancies. I would like to meet someone who is looking for the same. I would like someone who is also well educated and read, intelligent and has a good understanding of D/s dynamics. I want to be led by someone competent. I’m a natural care giver, I love to take care of my loved ones and my favourite job of the three that I have is being a mother. If this sounds like something you would be interested in please get in touch, otherwise thank you for stopping by and I wish you all the best in your search for whatever it is you’re looking for 🏻
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales

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Im looking for a daddy dom, or a very caring dom. Someone who will make me obey no matter if we are together or apart from one another.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
I am a Dominant who thrives on control, passion, and the intoxicating surrender of a willing submissive. Attractive, confident, and unapologetically commanding, I don’t roleplay dominance, I embody it. What I seek is a real exchange of power, where my slut offers complete submission and I take absolute control, mind, body, and desire. My nurturing side exists, but it is woven with sadism, discipline, and the thrill of ownership. I crave obedience, service, and devotion that goes beyond words, rituals, kneeling, offering yourself entirely at my feet. I want a submissive who finds pleasure in restraint, freedom in protocol, and arousal in punishment, knowing that every moan, every mark, every surrender is mine to claim. This is not casual play. With me, you will live in a constant state of belonging, collared, controlled, and utterly owned as my devoted slut.
Female (46) Cardiff, Wales
I'm 41 year old divorcee looking to spice up things. I have always been interested in being a little or a puppy play. I'm new to it and am looking in hope of finding someone who is willing to be patient with me and explore one of these options in a safe way. I don't have a dominant bone in my body and would like to find that person who will take care of me and guide me. i am looking for my daddy or my mummy and daddy. when I'm in my little space i can range from 18months to 5 years old. I will go as far as drinking out of a bottle eating baby food and using a nappy (no number 2s). my little likes her mummy or daddy to punish her with spanking if I've been naughty
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
Looking to learn more on the scene and find out more on myself and maybe find some friends. Not looking for a relationship.
Female (37) Cardiff, Wales
Very new to this life style just a sub looking for her Dom will need full training and guidance. Would love to try Cnc, primal play, impact play, mask play, breath play, knife play (not permanent marks or drawn ***), bondage/rope play and to have my sences taken away from me I'd like to see the rougher side of kink all of this would have to be achieved with someone I could trust completely.
Female (33) Cardiff, Wales
To explore and be guided into submission/Dominance roles and lifestyles. I'm also happy just to make friends! Edit: it seem either people aren't reading my profile or I haven't explained clearly. I'm looking into being guided into new things, whilst I absolutely know I want to switch, I *do not* have enough experience to confidently act as such. Pease don't message me asking me to Dom you, or message and expect me to submit instantly. These are things I want to be guided into and learn about to become.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant, seeking obedient, intelligent partner for exploration and control. Not looking to be dominated; will not accept contact from anyone looking for a submissive.
Female (51) Cardiff, Wales
Sub-leaning switch based in Cardiff Looking for casual fun and friendship with other neurodivergent queers Absolutley no cis men (not that they can read) Haf-M on fetlife
Female (22) Cardiff, Wales
I’m an author. I used to write thrillers, now I write smut. as a vicar’s daughter my sex life was marred by shame for years and when I started reading smut all the shame fell away and I want to make up for lost time. I want to call you Daddy, I want to be your good girl. I want impact play, I want to be tied up and exposed. I want someone to enjoy my body. I’d like them to put their pleasure first sometimes, use me like their little fuck toy. I’m up for experimenting and not looking for commitment, but if I could find a partner to consistently play with - non-monogamously - I think that would help build my confidence and help me learn. I’m ready for an experienced Dom to teach me what my body can feel, to pull out of myself and my own head. I want to turn off my brain and get fucked and feel everything. I’m an exhibitionist. I’d love my Dom to show me off to others, show them how good he is at getting me off. Ideally, I’d like to meet men around my age or older, with more experience than me.
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
Looking for my next long term experienced dom. Preferably close by. Likes: Pet play, spanking, whipping, ***, clit ***, overstimulation, praise.
Female (21) Cardiff, Wales
new to this! I’m excited to try new things though 😅 prefer women and especially women older than me :] if u used ai to generate ur profile pictures don’t dm me lol
Female (18) Cardiff, Wales
I suck at describing myself, but well I have to start somewhere. I’m quite into dark kinks that one can call taboo (since my favourite kink ever is CNC) I want to meet a dom who could make all my fantasies come true, while I of course would give them the challenge their crave. I don’t like submitting immediately, and I hate sexting, so don’t ask for pics.
Female (27) Cardiff, Wales
Hi all! Please read before starting a conversation with me ☺️ I am looking for a long term committed relationship based on a D/s dynamic with vanilla life wrapped around it. if you’re here looking for ONS’s or a fling, I’m not, so please don’t waste either of our time. I am a kind, caring, loyal and dedicated sub who is ready to find someone to build a life with. I bring a lot to the table. I am well educated and read. I have my life in order and am emotionally intelligent with lots of empathic tendancies. I would like to meet someone who is looking for the same. I would like someone who is also well educated and read, intelligent and has a good understanding of D/s dynamics. I want to be led by someone competent. I’m a natural care giver, I love to take care of my loved ones and my favourite job of the three that I have is being a mother. If this sounds like something you would be interested in please get in touch, otherwise thank you for stopping by and I wish you all the best in your search for whatever it is you’re looking for 🏻
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
very private about putting photos on here, apologies 😅 into: leather l
Female (18) Cardiff, Wales
hi! welcome! I’m new to the kink scene so looking to explore and get a feel for it. I like to take things slow and steady until I feel comfortable. feel free to say hi :)
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
36 year old, curvy Welsh woman ⌛️ Face pics in my private gallery… I’m not shy just have to be partially discreet. If you don’t wanna see all my private pics, ask and I’ll happily DM a pic. Don’t let it put you off starting a conversation with me 😉
Female (36) Cardiff, Wales
filthy stinking little whore that enjoys nothing more then being used to her full potential 😈😇in hopes of being someone’s bottomless cum bucket 💦🪣 very discreet well behaved an kinda classy in public until told otherwise 😈🤭 I love being a dirty little secret that you can indulge in especially for married men or even better bring your wife to 😍😏 absolutely adore attention especially from more then one person 🤗🤤 three sums, orgy, gangbang, private party events I’m the girl for you 😏😈👅 I’m a sucker for new/freaky kinks an fetishes nothing is to weird for me 🤪😛
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
little kinky goth who loves to be a unicorn. established ENM with nesting partner not looking for serious long term FFM solo female play riggers and pleasure doms are welcome very heavily tattood if that's not your thing you have been warned currently pregnant
Female (34) Cardiff, Wales
I’m a dominant woman who knows how to take charge — but the real thrill is finding someone who can keep up. I’m passionate, driven, and love deep conversations mixed with a little tension and play. What excites me? Bold moves, real honesty, and sparks that don’t burn out. I’m here to explore real connections with real people — chemistry, passion, and everything in between. Want to know who’s behind this profile? Just ask for my photo… I don’t bite — unless you ask nicely.
Female (32) Cardiff, Wales
Cymraes, yapper, a little strange. I’m looking to explore my sexuality more and potentially get into a power exchange relationship as a submissive. I’m looking for a genuine connection and even though sexual chemistry is important to me, please don’t begin conversations with anything sexual, I want be known and get to know you first!
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
Hi, my name is Panda, please only refer to me as Panda unless otherwise specified. Face pics are mainly in my private gallery due to work reasons, however, also happy to send face pics on request. WARNING TO ALL MEN: I’m not interested in you sexually so don’t come into my DMs expecting anything of the sort. I will also not allow you to see my private pictures so don’t bother asking to see them (it’s disappointing that this has to be explicitly said). I will rightfully be rude to you if you cannot be bothered to read my profile or ignore this warning. A little about me: - Hobbies include playing and coaching football (this is an absolute passion of mine but it’s not my whole personality, don’t worry), various artsy things, singing, and learning new things. There are more but I can’t give everything away here! - Some of my likes include serial killer documentaries, reading, various genres of music and spending time with my family. - Some of my dislikes include people that insist they’re right and refuse to consider other people’s point of view/perspective, a whole load of sensory things, people that are two-faced and getting overwhelmed. - WARNING: I can get overwhelmed by things in life and struggle to respond to messages, please be considerate during these times. - I have a wonderful fiancé/Daddy whom I love very much and am collared by. - I have a variety of kinks, some I have experienced, others I have not but am interested in, so message me if you’re interested in knowing more. Just as a taste I enjoy impact play, rope play, *** and praise. What am I looking for: - Friends are always welcome! I love being able to talk with people about kinky and non-kinky things, especially if there’s something to learn! - To extend my knowledge and experience with some of my kinks, message me to find out more. - I am only looking for women or femme-presenting person to be with in a sexual and kinky way for solo fun. However my partner and I are interested in women to play with together. I am a switch but don’t have much experience being Domme. - Ultimately looking for a lovely lady to experience a loving throuple with! Thank you for your consideration!
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
📸 ⭐ Commenting on my pictures will get my attention to show you have put some effort in . ⭐ Mature experienced Mistress with 30 years of knowledge behind me in BDSM ⭐ Experienced key holder ⭐ Happy to interact with newbies learning and evolving looking for direction ⭐ I am very respected in the BDSM world , I'm not desperate and I have high standards . 🛑 Honesty is everything to me . I give It and expect it . Permission to DM if you prefer but do not send cock pics you will be blocked . Time and a place and all that . ⭐ I like to be worshipped and spoilt . Kneeling for me will be expected . You will be trained MY way I don't care what your past domme expected it you had one . ⭐ Send a detailed message ...Dont message if you can't handle a strong independent woman and shy away easily when reprimanded. ⭐ Seeking someone Alpha in vanilla life and 24/7 sub to me is what will hold my attention. Brats don't even bother messaging I have no time for the games . 🛑 If I claim you ..you will be mine . You will be loyal and your desire will be to make me happy and please me . ⭐ If you approach then do so appropriately..I have no time for time wasters . ⏰ Time has been mentioned multiple times ...Do get that as soon as I'm live I'm flooded with messages ...I only chat to the deserving . My time is precious 💞 ⭐ Approach if your slave / sub with respect and address me properly. ⭐ Not looking for anyone that is a switch or dom themselves . I am naturally dominant so don't ask if I switch either. ⭐ I am NOT a mommy to play ⭐ If you give this code when I ask then I know you have read it all the above and not been lazy !!! code ... OBEDIENT
Female (56) Cardiff, Wales
Happy, curvy switch looking to have fun while I’m still young enough to enjoy it ;) I have been enjoying learning more about my kinkier side and want to find like minded people for drinks etc. Not looking for anything long term at the minute but open to the idea in future. If you want my attention… GET IT 😈👀
Female (36) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant Goddess seeking a Flr with the right submissive male. I dislike submissives who think they can play at this lifestyle, I want a genuine submissive male who embraces his submission and enjoys his place beneath her.
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales

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