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An elegant and self-assured Mistress seeking a genuine, long-term connection with a dedicated submissive. I value honesty, mutual respect, trust, and consistency, believing that the strongest dynamics are built on a solid foundation rather than short-lived interactions. With a naturally commanding presence and a calm, confident approach, I enjoy leading, inspiring, and helping my submissive reach their full potential. I appreciate someone who is attentive, loyal, communicative, and willing to invest in a meaningful relationship that grows over time. I expect maturity, respect for boundaries, and a sincere desire to build something lasting. In return, I offer guidance, stability, encouragement, and a dynamic where both individuals feel valued and understood. I am looking for a submissive who understands the importance of commitment and takes pride in devotion and personal growth. If you seek a strong, authoritative woman who values depth, connection, and long-term compatibility, I would be pleased to hear from you.
Female (43) Cardiff, Wales
Looking to learn more on the scene and find out more on myself and maybe find some friends. Not looking for a relationship.
Female (37) Cardiff, Wales
I'm ideally looking for a long-term relationship with a huge focus on a D/s or DDlg dynamic. So, if you're miles and miles away or in another country then don't bother. I want to meet someone in person. Not interested in chatting online only or any long-distance type relationship. I have a high sex drive and I'm looking for a man who has the same drive as me. I love being dominated and I want to explore more. I have limited experience so I need someone to teach me. I also wouldn't mind being with a Dom who would "***" me to satisfy other men as well. It's a big turn on and a life-long fantasy of mine. My non-kink related interests include: Reading. Huge fantasy nerd. Going for walks Travelling Foodie Baking and cooking TV Series and Films
Female (35) Cardiff, Wales
To explore and be guided into submission/Dominance roles and lifestyles. I'm also happy just to make friends! Edit: it seem either people aren't reading my profile or I haven't explained clearly. I'm looking into being guided into new things, whilst I absolutely know I want to switch, I *do not* have enough experience to confidently act as such. Pease don't message me asking me to Dom you, or message and expect me to submit instantly. These are things I want to be guided into and learn about to become.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
I am an attentive, confident, and intuitive Mistress who values depth, devotion, and genuine connection above all else. While I carry a naturally commanding presence, my approach is rooted in warmth, understanding, and an unwavering desire to nurture the person I choose to claim. Control, to me, is not about harshness it’s about guidance, structure, and the quiet comfort that comes from knowing exactly where you belong. I’m seeking a long-term dynamic with a submissive who craves not only direction, but emotional closeness. Someone who finds peace in offering their loyalty, who enjoys the stability of clear expectations, and who appreciates a Mistress who listens as intently as she leads. I cherish honesty, communication, and the kind of trust that grows slowly, strengthened by shared vulnerability and consistent care. In return for your devotion, you’ll receive a steady, reassuring presence, someone who notices the details, encourages your growth, and takes joy in bringing out your best. I’m firm when needed, gentle when earned, and always invested in the well-being of what’s mine. If you’re looking for a relationship where affection intertwines with authority, and where commitment is met with wholehearted attention, you may find your place with me.
Female (53) Cardiff, Wales
Im looking for a daddy dom, or a very caring dom. Someone who will make me obey no matter if we are together or apart from one another.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
Very new to this life style just a sub looking for her Dom will need full training and guidance. Would love to try Cnc, primal play, impact play, mask play, breath play, knife play (not permanent marks or drawn ***), bondage/rope play and to have my sences taken away from me I'd like to see the rougher side of kink all of this would have to be achieved with someone I could trust completely.
Female (33) Cardiff, Wales
I'm 41 year old divorcee looking to spice up things. I have always been interested in being a little or a puppy play. I'm new to it and am looking in hope of finding someone who is willing to be patient with me and explore one of these options in a safe way. I don't have a dominant bone in my body and would like to find that person who will take care of me and guide me. i am looking for my daddy or my mummy and daddy. when I'm in my little space i can range from 18months to 5 years old. I will go as far as drinking out of a bottle eating baby food and using a nappy (no number 2s). my little likes her mummy or daddy to punish her with spanking if I've been naughty
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant, seeking obedient, intelligent partner for exploration and control. Not looking to be dominated; will not accept contact from anyone looking for a submissive.
Female (51) Cardiff, Wales
36 year old, curvy Welsh woman ⌛️ Face pics in my private gallery… I’m not shy just have to be partially discreet. If you don’t wanna see all my private pics, ask and I’ll happily DM a pic. Don’t let it put you off starting a conversation with me 😉
Female (36) Cardiff, Wales
kinda gothy, kinda silly, kinda nerdy🕷️ just wanna chat n flirt not on my phone much, replies will most likely be slow - so this is just for fun🤭
Female (25) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant, deliberate and confident. I like structured, fun, obedient men that know how to cater to a true goddess’ needs If you’re looking for empty talk, I don’t engage in that. Looking for loyal submissive’s to play with P.s I’ll only entertain you if you come with a tribute to my throne 👑 Goddess Kali loves you😘
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
I’m a dominant woman who knows how to take charge — but the real thrill is finding someone who can keep up. I’m passionate, driven, and love deep conversations mixed with a little tension and play. What excites me? Bold moves, real honesty, and sparks that don’t burn out. I’m here to explore real connections with real people — chemistry, passion, and everything in between. Want to know who’s behind this profile? Just ask for my photo… I don’t bite — unless you ask nicely.
Female (32) Cardiff, Wales
Cymraes, yapper, a little strange. I’m looking to explore my sexuality more and potentially get into a power exchange relationship as a submissive. I’m looking for a genuine connection and even though sexual chemistry is important to me, please don’t begin conversations with anything sexual, I want be known and get to know you first!
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
I’m an author. I used to write thrillers, now I write smut. as a vicar’s daughter my sex life was marred by shame for years and when I started reading smut all the shame fell away and I want to make up for lost time. I want to call you Daddy, I want to be your good girl. I want impact play, I want to be tied up and exposed. I want someone to enjoy my body. I’d like them to put their pleasure first sometimes, use me like their little fuck toy. I’m up for experimenting and not looking for commitment, but if I could find a partner to consistently play with - non-monogamously - I think that would help build my confidence and help me learn. I’m ready for an experienced Dom to teach me what my body can feel, to pull out of myself and my own head. I want to turn off my brain and get fucked and feel everything. I’m an exhibitionist. I’d love my Dom to show me off to others, show them how good he is at getting me off. Ideally, I’d like to meet men around my age or older, with more experience than me.
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
I suck at describing myself, but well I have to start somewhere. I’m quite into dark kinks that one can call taboo (since my favourite kink ever is CNC) I want to meet a dom who could make all my fantasies come true, while I of course would give them the challenge their crave. I don’t like submitting immediately, and I hate sexting, so don’t ask for pics.
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
I am a true submissive, hard-wired for it for as long as I can remember. While my daily life requires me to be highly independent and practical—I have a 'mechanic’s brain' that is always fixing or doing—at my core, I am happiest when I truly 'belong' to someone. I spent the last ten years in a relationship where the D/s dynamic drifted long before it ended, leaving me to carry the lead for far too long. I’ve proven I can handle everything alone, but I’m ready to return to my natural state. I miss the peace that comes with yielding to a competent, present Dom. I deeply value intelligence and a sharp sense of humor. I need someone who can keep up with me intellectually and isn't afraid to use laughter to break the tension of a long day. I’m looking for a dynamic built on genuine presence and resonance. I don’t need to be 'managed,' but I do need to be led. I value a Dom who is consistent, capable, and understands the relief I feel when I can finally hand over the mental load to someone I respect. I’m grounded, authentic, and looking for a connection that feels like coming home.
Female (37) Cardiff, Wales
Hey, I'm Zoe, I'm here to gain more knowledge and experience within the community. I am looking for a partner to connect with on an emotional, spiritual, and physical level, and a LTR. IM FROM WALES IN THE UK, PLEASE DONT MESSAGE IF NOT LOCAL AND STOP MESSAGING ME ASKING ME TO PEG YOU, JEEEEESUSSSSS My main interests are DDLG, praise and ***. I'm bratty :) Rubbish at checking this- follow my IG - -ali3nprincess95 - Im a single momma of 1, Youth Worker and studying my masters degree(: - If you're a believer of the pandemic and non believer of the New World Order and The Great Reset, please don't waste any of our time, it ain't gonna work. - UNVACCINATED QUEEN - 5'2 - Love thought-provoking conversations and anything ancient civilisations related - Aliens are definitely real Joe Rogan Jordan Peterson Russell Brand Play Fortnite with me and praise me when I get a kill, which isn't very often xoxo Let's make something together Little PSA: if you message me with the intention of believing you right off the bat deserve my respect or submission, I will not reply. BDSM in general, requires a lot of trust and mutual understanding. And a fundamental connection needs to be formed first. Respect and trust need to be earned. This especially applies to DDLG, you earn the right to be called daddy or dominate me. and the same goes to me earning the right to be someone's sub or little. I'm not interested in meeting up and shagging strangers without any form of connection so stop asking me lmao. Too many guys use DDLG or BDSM as a means of getting sex or doing whatever they want to a woman. This ***es me off and just isn't going to interest me. So unless you're actually interested in what BDSM and DDLG is, and me as an individual, don't message me. I'm here to find a true connection and relationship with someone who is also my best friend, I will want that to be established before anything else, I want a competent man that will provide in all ways, who has his life together, who also has goals and aspirations and wants to grow with someone ? and as a woman, I would also want to meet his needs in every way. Thankyouuuuuuuu for coming to my Ted Talk xoxo
Female (31) Cardiff, Wales
📸 ⭐ Commenting on my pictures will get my attention to show you have put some effort in . ⭐ Mature experienced Mistress with 30 years of knowledge behind me in BDSM ⭐ Experienced key holder ⭐ Happy to interact with newbies learning and evolving looking for direction ⭐ I am very respected in the BDSM world , I'm not desperate and I have high standards . 🛑 Honesty is everything to me . I give It and expect it . Permission to DM if you prefer but do not send cock pics you will be blocked . Time and a place and all that . ⭐ I like to be worshipped and spoilt . Kneeling for me will be expected . You will be trained MY way I don't care what your past domme expected it you had one . ⭐ Send a detailed message ...Dont message if you can't handle a strong independent woman and shy away easily when reprimanded. ⭐ Seeking someone Alpha in vanilla life and 24/7 sub to me is what will hold my attention. Brats don't even bother messaging I have no time for the games . 🛑 If I claim you ..you will be mine . You will be loyal and your desire will be to make me happy and please me . ⭐ If you approach then do so appropriately..I have no time for time wasters . ⏰ Time has been mentioned multiple times ...Do get that as soon as I'm live I'm flooded with messages ...I only chat to the deserving . My time is precious 💞 ⭐ Approach if your slave / sub with respect and address me properly. ⭐ Not looking for anyone that is a switch or dom themselves . I am naturally dominant so don't ask if I switch either. ⭐ I am NOT a mommy to play ⭐ If you give this code when I ask then I know you have read it all the above and not been lazy !!! code ... OBEDIENT
Female (56) Cardiff, Wales
Hi all! Please read before starting a conversation with me ☺️ I am looking for a long term committed relationship based on a D/s dynamic with vanilla life wrapped around it. if you’re here looking for ONS’s or a fling, I’m not, so please don’t waste either of our time. I am a kind, caring, loyal and dedicated sub who is ready to find someone to build a life with. I bring a lot to the table. I am well educated and read. I have my life in order and am emotionally intelligent with lots of empathic tendancies. I would like to meet someone who is looking for the same. I would like someone who is also well educated and read, intelligent and has a good understanding of D/s dynamics. I want to be led by someone competent. I’m a natural care giver, I love to take care of my loved ones and my favourite job of the three that I have is being a mother. If this sounds like something you would be interested in please get in touch, otherwise thank you for stopping by and I wish you all the best in your search for whatever it is you’re looking for 🏻
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
filthy stinking little whore that enjoys nothing more then being used to her full potential 😈😇in hopes of being someone’s bottomless cum bucket 💦🪣 very discreet well behaved an kinda classy in public until told otherwise 😈🤭 I love being a dirty little secret that you can indulge in especially for married men or even better bring your wife to 😍😏 absolutely adore attention especially from more then one person 🤗🤤 three sums, orgy, gangbang, private party events I’m the girl for you 😏😈👅 I’m a sucker for new/freaky kinks an fetishes nothing is to weird for me 🤪😛
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
full time pet girl :3 not looking for anything serious, just looking for some more kink experience very willing to learn and try new things. not interested in subs.
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
hi! welcome! I’m new to the kink scene so looking to explore and get a feel for it. I like to take things slow and steady until I feel comfortable. feel free to say hi :)
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
I’m a playful, teasing submissive… maybe a tad bratty. Still new to this, but eager to learn, so please share your knowledge…. not your dirty pictures!
Female (33) Cardiff, Wales

New members in Cardiff

I'm ideally looking for a long-term relationship with a huge focus on a D/s or DDlg dynamic. So, if you're miles and miles away or in another country then don't bother. I want to meet someone in person. Not interested in chatting online only or any long-distance type relationship. I have a high sex drive and I'm looking for a man who has the same drive as me. I love being dominated and I want to explore more. I have limited experience so I need someone to teach me. I also wouldn't mind being with a Dom who would "***" me to satisfy other men as well. It's a big turn on and a life-long fantasy of mine. My non-kink related interests include: Reading. Huge fantasy nerd. Going for walks Travelling Foodie Baking and cooking TV Series and Films
Female (35) Cardiff, Wales
An elegant and self-assured Mistress seeking a genuine, long-term connection with a dedicated submissive. I value honesty, mutual respect, trust, and consistency, believing that the strongest dynamics are built on a solid foundation rather than short-lived interactions. With a naturally commanding presence and a calm, confident approach, I enjoy leading, inspiring, and helping my submissive reach their full potential. I appreciate someone who is attentive, loyal, communicative, and willing to invest in a meaningful relationship that grows over time. I expect maturity, respect for boundaries, and a sincere desire to build something lasting. In return, I offer guidance, stability, encouragement, and a dynamic where both individuals feel valued and understood. I am looking for a submissive who understands the importance of commitment and takes pride in devotion and personal growth. If you seek a strong, authoritative woman who values depth, connection, and long-term compatibility, I would be pleased to hear from you.
Female (43) Cardiff, Wales
Im looking for a daddy dom, or a very caring dom. Someone who will make me obey no matter if we are together or apart from one another.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
I am an attentive, confident, and intuitive Mistress who values depth, devotion, and genuine connection above all else. While I carry a naturally commanding presence, my approach is rooted in warmth, understanding, and an unwavering desire to nurture the person I choose to claim. Control, to me, is not about harshness it’s about guidance, structure, and the quiet comfort that comes from knowing exactly where you belong. I’m seeking a long-term dynamic with a submissive who craves not only direction, but emotional closeness. Someone who finds peace in offering their loyalty, who enjoys the stability of clear expectations, and who appreciates a Mistress who listens as intently as she leads. I cherish honesty, communication, and the kind of trust that grows slowly, strengthened by shared vulnerability and consistent care. In return for your devotion, you’ll receive a steady, reassuring presence, someone who notices the details, encourages your growth, and takes joy in bringing out your best. I’m firm when needed, gentle when earned, and always invested in the well-being of what’s mine. If you’re looking for a relationship where affection intertwines with authority, and where commitment is met with wholehearted attention, you may find your place with me.
Female (53) Cardiff, Wales
I'm 41 year old divorcee looking to spice up things. I have always been interested in being a little or a puppy play. I'm new to it and am looking in hope of finding someone who is willing to be patient with me and explore one of these options in a safe way. I don't have a dominant bone in my body and would like to find that person who will take care of me and guide me. i am looking for my daddy or my mummy and daddy. when I'm in my little space i can range from 18months to 5 years old. I will go as far as drinking out of a bottle eating baby food and using a nappy (no number 2s). my little likes her mummy or daddy to punish her with spanking if I've been naughty
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
Looking to learn more on the scene and find out more on myself and maybe find some friends. Not looking for a relationship.
Female (37) Cardiff, Wales
Very new to this life style just a sub looking for her Dom will need full training and guidance. Would love to try Cnc, primal play, impact play, mask play, breath play, knife play (not permanent marks or drawn ***), bondage/rope play and to have my sences taken away from me I'd like to see the rougher side of kink all of this would have to be achieved with someone I could trust completely.
Female (33) Cardiff, Wales
To explore and be guided into submission/Dominance roles and lifestyles. I'm also happy just to make friends! Edit: it seem either people aren't reading my profile or I haven't explained clearly. I'm looking into being guided into new things, whilst I absolutely know I want to switch, I *do not* have enough experience to confidently act as such. Pease don't message me asking me to Dom you, or message and expect me to submit instantly. These are things I want to be guided into and learn about to become.
Female (30) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant, seeking obedient, intelligent partner for exploration and control. Not looking to be dominated; will not accept contact from anyone looking for a submissive.
Female (51) Cardiff, Wales
kinda gothy, kinda silly, kinda nerdy🕷️ just wanna chat n flirt not on my phone much, replies will most likely be slow - so this is just for fun🤭
Female (25) Cardiff, Wales
I’m an author. I used to write thrillers, now I write smut. as a vicar’s daughter my sex life was marred by shame for years and when I started reading smut all the shame fell away and I want to make up for lost time. I want to call you Daddy, I want to be your good girl. I want impact play, I want to be tied up and exposed. I want someone to enjoy my body. I’d like them to put their pleasure first sometimes, use me like their little fuck toy. I’m up for experimenting and not looking for commitment, but if I could find a partner to consistently play with - non-monogamously - I think that would help build my confidence and help me learn. I’m ready for an experienced Dom to teach me what my body can feel, to pull out of myself and my own head. I want to turn off my brain and get fucked and feel everything. I’m an exhibitionist. I’d love my Dom to show me off to others, show them how good he is at getting me off. Ideally, I’d like to meet men around my age or older, with more experience than me.
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
Looking for my next long term experienced dom. Preferably close by. Likes: Pet play, spanking, whipping, ***, clit ***, overstimulation, praise.
Female (21) Cardiff, Wales
Dominant, deliberate and confident. I like structured, fun, obedient men that know how to cater to a true goddess’ needs If you’re looking for empty talk, I don’t engage in that. Looking for loyal submissive’s to play with P.s I’ll only entertain you if you come with a tribute to my throne 👑 Goddess Kali loves you😘
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
I suck at describing myself, but well I have to start somewhere. I’m quite into dark kinks that one can call taboo (since my favourite kink ever is CNC) I want to meet a dom who could make all my fantasies come true, while I of course would give them the challenge their crave. I don’t like submitting immediately, and I hate sexting, so don’t ask for pics.
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
well im 19, currently studying, I can also drive 🤭 eeek im so big. ummm im also very...very bad at remembering and concentrating (wsiting adhd diagnosis) teheh. ooo i also like ***ting and reading and playing guitar. BUTT I love rage baiting the most. I will say you smell all the time. I will do so many annoying little things just to see if I can annoy you 🤭 oh an my blanket, blankie, is superior xx
Female (19) Cardiff, Wales
Hi all! Please read before starting a conversation with me ☺️ I am looking for a long term committed relationship based on a D/s dynamic with vanilla life wrapped around it. if you’re here looking for ONS’s or a fling, I’m not, so please don’t waste either of our time. I am a kind, caring, loyal and dedicated sub who is ready to find someone to build a life with. I bring a lot to the table. I am well educated and read. I have my life in order and am emotionally intelligent with lots of empathic tendancies. I would like to meet someone who is looking for the same. I would like someone who is also well educated and read, intelligent and has a good understanding of D/s dynamics. I want to be led by someone competent. I’m a natural care giver, I love to take care of my loved ones and my favourite job of the three that I have is being a mother. If this sounds like something you would be interested in please get in touch, otherwise thank you for stopping by and I wish you all the best in your search for whatever it is you’re looking for 🏻
Female (41) Cardiff, Wales
very private about putting photos on here, apologies 😅 into: leather l
Female (18) Cardiff, Wales
hi! welcome! I’m new to the kink scene so looking to explore and get a feel for it. I like to take things slow and steady until I feel comfortable. feel free to say hi :)
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
Can’t see likes… so if you want me, you’ll have to come say hi first 😉 Looking for a Dom who knows how to take the lead… and maybe enjoy teasing me a little along the way. I like the idea of being a brainless slut 😏 to be a complete mindless mess. Wanting to be brainwashed by you Big fan of roleplay, especiallyif your on top, and dirty talk that keeps me on edge. I’m completely new to all this… Tell me what you'd do to me? Make me drip and squirm? Or take me hard and fast? In private or not? And do you ask first? Or just fuck me and make me yours? If anyone's into it I'm interested in being hypnotised. Just curious
Female (19) Cardiff, Wales
just trying to meet new people and see what catches my eye I suppose ,not sure if it’ll go anywhere or not
Female (20) Cardiff, Wales
36 year old, curvy Welsh woman ⌛️ Face pics in my private gallery… I’m not shy just have to be partially discreet. If you don’t wanna see all my private pics, ask and I’ll happily DM a pic. Don’t let it put you off starting a conversation with me 😉
Female (36) Cardiff, Wales
I'm a plus size (size 24) woman. if this is an issue, please don't message me. I'm bi curious and very shy to begin with so will need to get to know you a bit before anything happens. I've only ever been with my husband and never really got to experiment before settling down. I would like to try and find out what my kinks are. I will only be playing as a couple with my husband, who is also bi curious.
Female (46) Cardiff, Wales
filthy stinking little whore that enjoys nothing more then being used to her full potential 😈😇in hopes of being someone’s bottomless cum bucket 💦🪣 very discreet well behaved an kinda classy in public until told otherwise 😈🤭 I love being a dirty little secret that you can indulge in especially for married men or even better bring your wife to 😍😏 absolutely adore attention especially from more then one person 🤗🤤 three sums, orgy, gangbang, private party events I’m the girl for you 😏😈👅 I’m a sucker for new/freaky kinks an fetishes nothing is to weird for me 🤪😛
Female (26) Cardiff, Wales
little kinky goth who loves to be a unicorn. established ENM with nesting partner not looking for serious long term FFM solo female play riggers and pleasure doms are welcome very heavily tattood if that's not your thing you have been warned currently pregnant
Female (34) Cardiff, Wales

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