Hi to everyone,
I have been amicably divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a successful Mentor Dom and sometime ***inant.
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship.I'm looking for a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared and complementary kinks. I have always found it mutually beneficial if the first couple of meetings are purely social in order to learn about each other and to build that vital rapport; say in a pleasant cafe or restaurant which is safe and convivial. It is important to be able to communicate openly and candidly in order to achieve a mutually loving, fulfilling and enduring friendship or relationship.
You may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 63 years ● 75km around UK Leeds

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds

Greetings my next Sub? :)

Well, thank you for reading this. I am a professional working guy but am a Dom also! I adore the female psyche and form.

If your nervous then that is perfect as I love to build the relationship and make a full trust connection as I have to know your are comfortable before we begin. I am very charismatic so we will have a laugh on the way so we both comfortable.

I need a physically clean girl who has smear checks when they are called for. You must never have had a cold sore or scabs that are unexplained or warts.
If you sleep around you will stop and devote yourself to me.

In return you will be looked after both physically and mentally, I practice psychology too so will help you with any life issues you share with me I will both resolve and as your a sub then there will be a reason but you must trust me totally.

No your body size does not matter to me love BBW's too!

Into tit nothing too severe ie no or cuts! I like to tie them maybe slight marks from slapping and sucking, up to you :)

I am a conscientious guy and so the build up of trust that hopefully develops is important to me, I find it hard to 'let go' until I/we feel that connection and trust THEN I can let loose my 'DOM side!

You will be totally respected until we are both at ease with all the naughty stuff we both want to do, your choice if you prefer rough and hard or soft and gentle or maybe a bit of both! ;)

Oh yes daytime meets if possible with you as I work late afternoons/evenings so plenty of daytime to go at. If your still here then please message me and "Let's start this adventure"....
x

NSA18 to 60 years ● 75km around UK Bradford

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