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Hello, I am mainly looking to have some CNC fun with someone who will excite me and that I trust. I find it hard to get what I am looking for in the regular sites so I am looking to explore on this.
Married but open,I enjoy play parties and movies.. looking to meet other kinksters irl and helping the newbies who need a direction which is pretty common
i'm looking for open minded people who appreciates confidence, trust, respect and not afraid to show their adventurous side
I am a woman with inner peace and a lively heart. I combine charm, honesty, and natural appeal. My loved ones appreciate my kindness, understanding, and ability to listen. I am intuitive, empathetic, and attentive to detail and the feelings of others. I am calm and reserved, yet sensitive and open. I love depthin conversations, in people, in relationships. It's important to me not just to be there, but to truly feel a connection.
Kiss…lick….bite…. Your mouth travels up my arm. Your natural scent mixed with the aroma of wood, and pepper intoxicating my senses. My mind relocates the feeling of your tongue, anticipation surging through my nerves. My body shivers as you dance the tip of your tongue on my…
Intermittent active imagination, I write smut sometimes. Haven’t found anyone fun enough to play scenes with me yet.
**I am in a relationship and he is my priority in all things. If this is an issue, please see yourself out now**
We are both pretty chill and have a taste for sharing. He likes to see me enjoying myself with others, and he's bisexual and we are hoping to indulge that aspect some more so always looking for bisexual tops to join us in our fun 😊
For people who want solo time with me, that is an option but he and I both have to agree to it and there is a factor to that which can be discussed later that you would have to be OK with. Obviously if you have questions please ask.
looking for a fun time w a man who knows what he wants
**Desires and Fantasies**
im open to almost anything. no *** or *** or shit and we are all good
I have a kink for kinks, there aren't many things i won't or haven't tried. However, from the depths of my most intimate desires what excites me most is having a woman to serve devotedly. I was a lifestyle sub/slave for several years but for a number of reasons my contract was breached and I left. I have been searching aimlessly trying to find a woman to pick up my leash. the depths to my devotion have no bounds when it comes to serving a mistress. with my previous master, id cleaned the house, make sure dinner was ready when he got home from work, and wait kneeling by his front door wearing heels and lingerie. unfortunately though I did my best to appease him, Ive never actually ever been into men, but due to my desire to submit I chose to take a chance and see if it maybe my feelings could change. I was wrong. I found that I can spend endless hours day dreaming about what I desire from a mistress l, but have never spent more than a couple minutes trying to be enjoy the thought of being under a masters rule again. If your a woman searching for a sexy, cute, occasionally bratty sub who's drive for life comes from my desire to worship and serve you the way every mistress should be worshiped. please feel free to inquire.
I blend femininity, inner peace, and a genuine love for life. I'm open-minded and value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor in people. While I stand firmly on my own two feet, I will always remain a dreamer at heart. I'm looking for a kindred spirit a man to share my thoughts with, hold hands, and build a beautiful future together. I appreciate a good sense of humor, emotional maturity, and the ability to hold a deep conversation. I'm looking for a partner who stands firmly on his own feet, values family and closeness, and is ready to build a loving, supportive relationship. Someone who can be both my best friend and my biggest supporter whether we are navigating daily life or watching the sunset by the sea.
Strong woman who submits to whom she chooses.
I've got a ton of filthy kinks and fetishes, but my number one fetish is intelligent men who are mindful, communicative, calm, confident, and empathetic. If we can't talk about our lives and the world with a decent conversation - nothing else is going to happen.
Best wishes to everyone in their search.
YES TO:
* DD/lg dynamic (must have)
* Spankings and other really hard impact play without "you've been a bad girl" messaging - I love it! 😍
* Firm, structured, disciplined-but-positive Dominants
* Men 45 years old+
* Health-conscious men 😍
* Those very local to the Phoenix Metro Area
NO TO:
* Smokers - it tastes yucky to kiss 🤷♀️
* Grouchy people 😂
* Switches, Subs, Vanilla, or "I'm so horny" guys / those "kinda curious about this stuff"
* Doms who live to "punish" w/ "bad girl"
* People who ghost other people
* Doms who aren't comfortable being called Daddy
* Men under 45
* MAGA people - I'm a centrist
* Heavy alcohol or 420 users
* Men who aren't health-conscious
* More than 40 miles from N Phoenix
* ***, kids, *** play, ***s
This is a long profile just to warn everyone as it gives information about me and what i am seeking as well as giving some information about my past. i am only seeking Dominant’s with experience please.
About me
Hi everyone, my name is Isabella—or Bella, either is fine. I am 33 years old, born and raised in Glendale, AZ. I have a kitty who is an orange tabby, and he means the world to me. He is my emotional support and helps me when I really need it. His name is Kai Tenchi, and he is 3 years old.
To give you an idea of what that name means, I’ll explain. For Kai, there are two different languages with different meanings. In Scottish, Kai means Fire, and in Hawaiian it means Ocean. Then for Tenchi, it means Heaven and Earth in Japanese. I like to think that he is both an angel and a demon depending on how he is behaving, as they are opposites in a way.
Anyhoo, I have been in the lifestyle for 9 years, and while it’s not been easy, it has allowed me to discover myself and grow in a way I never knew could happen. Personality-wise, I am very friendly, cute, sweet, loving, thoughtful, very loyal, a good listener, stubborn, strong-willed, and I can be wise, silly, and romantic.
I will be doing a section dedicated to my vanilla side, then one for the different sides I have. After that, I will be talking about what I am seeking, and finally a little bit about my past. I do apologize in advance—I suddenly got a lot of creative inspiration and wrote more than I thought I would. Please read it, as it will help you learn more about me as a person and as a submissive.
Vanilla me
Hmm, there are a lot of things I would like to do, or at least think about doing. I would like to travel someday to Japan, as I am fascinated by the culture. I am curious about the festivals they have there, especially the Cherry Blossom festival, if that is what it is called. To see the cherry blossoms bloom would be a sight to behold. I am not sure about the food in Japan, as most of it is seafood, which is not something I particularly like.
Another wish of mine is to see the ocean again—to smell the salty air, feel the warm sand between my toes, and look out at what feels like an endless sea. I would love to go horseback riding along the beach, to feel the wind in my hair and have my eyes light up from happiness. Those are a couple of dreams I have. It has been a long time since I was last at a beach, and I miss it.
The other things I enjoy doing are puzzles on my phone. I like doing either jigsaw puzzles when I feel like it, or cross-stitch color-by-letter, which is my current obsession. I have been doing anywhere from 3–5 a day. I continue even when my hand starts hurting; I only stop and rest my arm once the strain becomes too much from the continuous activity.
I also like different types of food depending on my mood. I enjoy baking when I have the chance. I went to culinary school for two years and did end up dropping out, but I never lost that passion. I like seeing whoever eats my sweets light up and smile as they enjoy them. I can cook as well, as long as I have a recipe.
Some things I dislike are loud noises, as I have sensitive ears and certain frequencies genuinely hurt. Growing up, I disliked my dad playing his guitar because the sound—especially acoustic—would hurt my ears. My parents always said I was exaggerating, but it is simply the truth.
I also hate being yelled at, as it genuinely hurts my feelings and will likely make me flinch. I do not like being startled either, as it causes the same reaction and can make me let out a growl of annoyance or anger.
In a past job, I worked in a call center. At the last hour most days, everyone would yell out “Power Hour,” signaling the end of the day. Each time it happened, it startled me badly and made me very agitated, especially if I was on a call, as it disrupted my work. Because of that, I really do not like being startled.
I also hate being ignored and being abandoned. I do not like being ghosted, as that has happened a lot as well.
I think that is it. I will move on to kink and explain my different sides.
Kink me
I want to be upfront that, although I have been in the lifestyle for nine years, most of that time has been spent in toxic or unhealthy relationships where I didn’t really learn much.
Through experience, I know that I am a little, a pet (specifically a puppy), a masochist in the sense that I enjoy ***, and a submissive who enjoys the freedom of serving a Dominant. At one point in my life, I was also a slave, and I had training in that role for almost two years under my ex-Master.
Because of the trauma I experienced, I will not take on a slave role again unless I fully trust my Dominant.
My little side is still something I am learning about. I know I enjoy stuffed ***s and have quite a few of them. I recently got a new one from my real-life protector, Master Dennis, who is well known in the community. He is my protector and Papa, and he is the first person I have ever fully trusted immediately. We have a very strong bond, and I know he always has my best interests at heart.
I have a strong sense that my little side is quite young. I estimate it can feel as young as around one year old and up to around four years old, depending on my state. I think it may even be younger at times, as I have had moments in the past where I would babble to myself or chew on things without really thinking about it.
When I am in that space, I like being cuddled while doing things like color-by-number, and I enjoy showing my finished work. I am still unsure about diapers; I am curious, but it would depend on the Daddy involved. I like pacifiers because they are soothing, although I don’t usually keep them in my mouth for long and tend to spit them out. I also like chewing on things because it helps calm me. I sometimes slip into baby talk in this state because it feels more comfortable.
As for my pet side, I identify as a puppy. I am still learning about this side of myself, but I do know I am very loyal to those I choose to trust. I sometimes enjoy squeaky toys, depending on how sensitive I feel, and I like attention and will often seek it out.
I enjoy doing tricks for treats and am very motivated by rewards, especially things like steak, cookies, or crackers. I also enjoy playing fetch and bringing the toy back when called. However, I can also be mischievous—sometimes I’ll sit and look back with playful eyes, pretending not to listen just to make someone come get me. If they do, I may back away or run to avoid being caught, and if I can, I’ll hide. Once caught, I may resist giving up the toy unless I am made to submit. I can be a bit of a brat, but I am also very loving.
My masochist side I will only touch on briefly. I don’t fully know my *** tolerance yet. I can handle a fair amount, but I’m not sure of my limits. I recently attended an event where I allowed beginners to use a flogger on my upper back. I was already relaxed while an experienced person demonstrated, and when the beginners started, I stayed calm and even giggled a little, not really bothered by it. I even pouted a bit when I was told to let someone else have a turn. I know I enjoy ***, and it can easily lead to arousal for me.
My slave side is something I don’t want to go into deeply right now, as I still have difficult memories connected to it. If you want to know more, I don’t mind sharing privately in a DM.
Lastly, I do have a feral side, which I experience as a wolf. This side is protective and only comes forward when needed. If it does appear, she is cautious with others and focused entirely on keeping my human side safe. Once trust is built, she becomes more open and friendly, but she does not submit easily and will resist until she fully acknowledges her Alpha if there is one. She will fight if she needs to. I have only explored this side in roleplay, not in real life, but I would like to experience it with the right person.
I think that covers all of my sides. I will also be listing a website where all of this can be viewed more easily. I will place it at the end—if you can’t see it, let me know.
Now onto the next section.
What i am seeking
* i am seeking a Daddy, Owner and possibly an Alpha again if it’s possible. i would love to speak to someone who has knowledge and experience with BDSM.
* i want someone who is taller than me. i am 5 foot 4 with dark brown eyes and dark brown hair just to put out there.
* I want him to be older than me in his late 30’s and potentially up to mid 40’s.
* Not a requirement. I would love to find the one who i want to grow old with and possibly have kids. i am not sure if i will ever be ready for kids but i want that at least be open.
* I would prefer he does not have kids.
* If he is out of state, i would like him to potentially relocate to me. i have anxiety and i don’t know anywhere else out of Arizona. i can’t think of moving out of Arizona as my family is here.
*i want him to be patient to know that i have my insecurities and it will take a while to settle. i rather he be okay with being only with me. While i know poly is amazing or at least it could be amazing as it depends on the people in the relationship, i’m not sure if it’s for me. Maybe it is if i have a solid enough connection first.
* i want him to be okay with cats as i will not give up my baby boy for anyone as that is non-negotiable.
* Would prefer he be secure in himself as i want to have someone help me with everything i am going through and to be my rock. To help me learn how to manage myself and to have someone i can be dependent on.
* i want to find someone who will accept all of me, the good and the bad. Who will support me, not abandon me and who will have communication every day throughout the day. i work from home and can easily talk for hours unless i am absorbed on a call.
* i want someone who will be fine with my little ages as i know there are not a lot of Daddy’s out there who want someone so small.
* i want to feel safe, loved, cared for and most of all know that he will always be there. i have been ghosted a lot in the past. Recently i spoke to someone for 6 days and felt like i had a connection on Discord and he unfriended me for no reason. i felt so hurt and crushed before i was able to move on.
Now onto my past
As I said, the last 9 years have been hell and back for me. Most people I have been with hurt me in some way, some more than others and others less. It caused me to mistrust people, and I so desperately want to trust and be accepted. I have so much love to give if given a chance. I do have a funny story to tell everyone. It’s funny in the beginning and becomes sad towards the end, just to warn you.
I actually regressed years ago at a little conference in California called the West Coast Jungle Gym. I got to let out my puppy side a couple times and had a lot of fun. After, I was with my Ex Master at the time along with his little. We went to a casino and I regressed. I think I was maybe 2 years old, maybe a little younger, as I was giggling a lot. I wanted to hold hands, but they did not like to hold hands and had to deal with holding their elbows. I was sad about that. I was pointing to things a lot. I knew my adult mind was in the back. I just felt safe enough to let myself out, and it all was triggered as I chewed on a lanyard. They made sure I did not wander away and kept me close.
I gambled a little, only $20, and had fun. That was my first time doing something like that. I came out of my headspace naturally later on. I told my Ex-Master and his little how I felt, and the little nearly attached me in the McDonald’s wanting to rip my hair out and feed it to me. After that I was scared to let my little side out. It took a long time, even after I left them, to even let out my little side.
What I experienced in that relationship was the worst I have ever experienced, and I hate that with passion. I can’t change the past, but that one ***nce I wish I could just prevent myself from going through the ***. That relationship with the Ex-Master and the little who for the first year I was with was trying to learn to be a Domme. I was her pet. At the end of the first year I was thrown away as she wanted a male puppy and did not want me. That is why I hold a grudge and can’t seem to let go.
My Ex-Master hurt me just as much, if not more. Even after everything I have been through, I still want to hope, to love, to serve, to want to be needed and cared for. It shows how strong I truly am, as I have never just given up, even though I wanted to so many times, but deep inside of me something refused to give up.
I am still so eager to learn more about myself and who I really am, to grow into myself more and to find the one I want to be with. That is why I don’t give up and I never will. I have come close a couple times, and at one point a part of myself after leaving those 2 was missing for a long time.
Now I am here still seeking a Daddy, someone who will actually want to get to know me. The real me hidden underneath the barriers I put up to protect myself. I hope to find you soon, as I am not sure how much longer I can be by myself.
About me.... I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination, and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. It's the mental mindfuck, the slight ***, it's how intensely erotic it is to be owned by an intelligent and creative owner.
I want you to know that.. All this is just formalities, and when we meet, don’t expect tenderness. The moment I look into your eyes, I’ll know one thing: you belong to me.
Mine to hurt.
I won’t stroke you unless it’s just to hit you harder right after.
You’ll greet me on your knees. If you look at me without permission, you’ll get slapped.
If you speak out of turn.. You will earn a gag.
I’ll lock you in a corner like a useless rag until you forget your name.
And when I finally decide to use you… You will do everything I say, even if it makes you scream and cry.
You will exalt my name and worship my feet, slave. You will find happiness in my power and domination.
I will push the limits of thee and take him places he has only dreamed of, although I understand the fragile nature of mind and body and will never violate the trust given Me.
I am patient, taking time to learn. Expanding limits, as the trust grows, so will he.
I know Mine responds to me out of wishing to please Me. Compliance comes from wanting to please, not from the *** of punishment.
I am secure enough to laugh at myself and the absurdities of life. Open-minded enough to be creative, learn new things, and strong enough to grow together with my pet. I will forever be above you and come first always slut. Know this and digest it. It will help you with me.
Pushy or presumptuous approaches will most likely end up with you being ignored or blocked. If I like your approach, I'll get back to you sooner or later. If I don't, please just get over it and move on.
What I want, when I want it. I like to create ***. I avoid very structured scenes. I love to improvise as I go along. I enjoy heavy corporal contact, punching, deep percussion, pinching, and face-slapping. Rods, paddles, canes, floggers, pegging, wax, and clamps… shoes, telephone cords, coat hangers, firewood, bottles – I enjoy the traditional play, but really, truly enjoy a random aspect of play. I love sharp things. There is just so much out there! Bondage & sensory deprivation (and on the flip side, sensory overload), interrogation. I throw things. Darts and blow guns and (only a few times but OMG so fun) ***tball! I enjoy corsets and leather and rubber and textured clothing. I enjoy feminization and love to dress up sissy boys.
I know my preferred play can be edgy, but I do go into everything with a sober sense of what could go wrong, and never, ever promise more safety than I can provide. The sub understands what we are doing and knows the risks. I also enjoy more traditional play and heed “Safe, Sane & Consensual”.
I am here for one person. who is looking for a physically charged partnership. not here for a crowd or a rotation.
Soft curves, soft round perky natural tits, and a lot of affection to give. I appreciate a man who is confident, established, and generous. If you enjoy spoiling your woman with attention, affection, and thoughtful gestures, say hello.
I don't feel to make a very long profile because headlines are the magnet to a good following discussion who will let us know quickly if we are a match.
Cheers
basically a companion, someone to obey and listen to me upon getting to know each other as i command and control with my orders. if you're new to this arrangement i'll be so willing to guide and spoil you through this arrangement as long as you're honest, obedient and down for me.
At the core of me I am pretty sexy and bossy. I love being in charge in my everyday life for the most part.
I am a 28 year old dark skin woman 🤎 I’m here to look for any individuals who need their fetish met 🙂↕️ ( Feet, breast milk, panties, etc.) for a price of course 😚 don’t be shy your fetish is safe with me
It was his night; I was his prize. The stage was ours, all eyes on us, yet untouchable. He thrived on the attention, especially the attention I drew. Everyone envied him, and I? I adored him. The way he noticed every detail, the way his hands moved over me, his hands on my throat, fingers in my mouth, kissing my neck while whispering how filthy I was. I craved it, I wanted to worship him. On my knees, I begged, desperate to be a part of him. He grabbed my face, then slapped me. In that ***nt, I understood pure bliss. Finally, the real thrill was about to begin. It was my turn to show him my devotion... I yearned for him, to be consumed by him. That night, I was his slave. His slave, forever.
based on a true event.😊
I love anime
I LOVE The Weeknd (the artist)
i’m a little princess, i need a daddy, hard and soft doms are welcomed ♡ my purpose in life is to please and serve you, Sir ♡
daddy issues so i absolutelyyy love older men ^_^
age gaps, getting hit, somnophilia, size differences turn me on. we can talk more about what we both like ♡
| small | exploring CNC / free use | 18+ only | no weirdos | vintage looks | pic exchange | 4’10 | not selling, but looking for of co creator | ***: madamfandom
just a fun loving kinky girl. who does random shit.
100% Mexican 🇲🇽. I speak a few languages and love learning about people and cultures. Physical affection is my love language especially slow, sloppy kisses. I have a soft spot for sweet, confident men who can make me laugh.
I’m a brat with a wicked tongue. not looking for anything serious. power play with limits. nsa quick fun.
Tributes from subby boys looking for a mean mouth mommy message me for details
Hi there!
32. Pan. Poly.
Mother to one human and many ***s.
Lover of all ***s and music.
Feel free to say hello
Oh, and I smoke a ton of cannabis.
Looking for that irl booktok boyfriend, iykyk
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Accepting applications, and if qualified our team will get back to you 😉
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sapiosexual so turn on my mind and you'll turn on my body 😏
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I don't feel to make a very long profile because headlines are the magnet to a good following discussion who will let us know quickly if we are a match.
Cheers
basically a companion, someone to obey and listen to me upon getting to know each other as i command and control with my orders. if you're new to this arrangement i'll be so willing to guide and spoil you through this arrangement as long as you're honest, obedient and down for me.
At the core of me I am pretty sexy and bossy. I love being in charge in my everyday life for the most part.
Married but open,I enjoy play parties and movies.. looking to meet other kinksters irl and helping the newbies who need a direction which is pretty common
i'm looking for open minded people who appreciates confidence, trust, respect and not afraid to show their adventurous side
I blend femininity, inner peace, and a genuine love for life. I'm open-minded and value honesty, kindness, and a good sense of humor in people. While I stand firmly on my own two feet, I will always remain a dreamer at heart. I'm looking for a kindred spirit a man to share my thoughts with, hold hands, and build a beautiful future together. I appreciate a good sense of humor, emotional maturity, and the ability to hold a deep conversation. I'm looking for a partner who stands firmly on his own feet, values family and closeness, and is ready to build a loving, supportive relationship. Someone who can be both my best friend and my biggest supporter whether we are navigating daily life or watching the sunset by the sea.
I am a 28 year old dark skin woman 🤎 I’m here to look for any individuals who need their fetish met 🙂↕️ ( Feet, breast milk, panties, etc.) for a price of course 😚 don’t be shy your fetish is safe with me
About me.... I'm that mistress who understands that Erotic intelligence stretches far beyond a repertoire of sexual techniques. It is an intelligence that celebrates curiosity and play, the power of the imagination, and our infinite fascination with what is hidden and mysterious. It's the mental mindfuck, the slight ***, it's how intensely erotic it is to be owned by an intelligent and creative owner.
I want you to know that.. All this is just formalities, and when we meet, don’t expect tenderness. The moment I look into your eyes, I’ll know one thing: you belong to me.
Mine to hurt.
I won’t stroke you unless it’s just to hit you harder right after.
You’ll greet me on your knees. If you look at me without permission, you’ll get slapped.
If you speak out of turn.. You will earn a gag.
I’ll lock you in a corner like a useless rag until you forget your name.
And when I finally decide to use you… You will do everything I say, even if it makes you scream and cry.
You will exalt my name and worship my feet, slave. You will find happiness in my power and domination.
I will push the limits of thee and take him places he has only dreamed of, although I understand the fragile nature of mind and body and will never violate the trust given Me.
I am patient, taking time to learn. Expanding limits, as the trust grows, so will he.
I know Mine responds to me out of wishing to please Me. Compliance comes from wanting to please, not from the *** of punishment.
I am secure enough to laugh at myself and the absurdities of life. Open-minded enough to be creative, learn new things, and strong enough to grow together with my pet. I will forever be above you and come first always slut. Know this and digest it. It will help you with me.
Pushy or presumptuous approaches will most likely end up with you being ignored or blocked. If I like your approach, I'll get back to you sooner or later. If I don't, please just get over it and move on.
What I want, when I want it. I like to create ***. I avoid very structured scenes. I love to improvise as I go along. I enjoy heavy corporal contact, punching, deep percussion, pinching, and face-slapping. Rods, paddles, canes, floggers, pegging, wax, and clamps… shoes, telephone cords, coat hangers, firewood, bottles – I enjoy the traditional play, but really, truly enjoy a random aspect of play. I love sharp things. There is just so much out there! Bondage & sensory deprivation (and on the flip side, sensory overload), interrogation. I throw things. Darts and blow guns and (only a few times but OMG so fun) ***tball! I enjoy corsets and leather and rubber and textured clothing. I enjoy feminization and love to dress up sissy boys.
I know my preferred play can be edgy, but I do go into everything with a sober sense of what could go wrong, and never, ever promise more safety than I can provide. The sub understands what we are doing and knows the risks. I also enjoy more traditional play and heed “Safe, Sane & Consensual”.
Soft curves, soft round perky natural tits, and a lot of affection to give. I appreciate a man who is confident, established, and generous. If you enjoy spoiling your woman with attention, affection, and thoughtful gestures, say hello.
I am a woman with inner peace and a lively heart. I combine charm, honesty, and natural appeal. My loved ones appreciate my kindness, understanding, and ability to listen. I am intuitive, empathetic, and attentive to detail and the feelings of others. I am calm and reserved, yet sensitive and open. I love depthin conversations, in people, in relationships. It's important to me not just to be there, but to truly feel a connection.
Kiss…lick….bite…. Your mouth travels up my arm. Your natural scent mixed with the aroma of wood, and pepper intoxicating my senses. My mind relocates the feeling of your tongue, anticipation surging through my nerves. My body shivers as you dance the tip of your tongue on my…
Intermittent active imagination, I write smut sometimes. Haven’t found anyone fun enough to play scenes with me yet.
Hello, I am mainly looking to have some CNC fun with someone who will excite me and that I trust. I find it hard to get what I am looking for in the regular sites so I am looking to explore on this.
I have a kink for kinks, there aren't many things i won't or haven't tried. However, from the depths of my most intimate desires what excites me most is having a woman to serve devotedly. I was a lifestyle sub/slave for several years but for a number of reasons my contract was breached and I left. I have been searching aimlessly trying to find a woman to pick up my leash. the depths to my devotion have no bounds when it comes to serving a mistress. with my previous master, id cleaned the house, make sure dinner was ready when he got home from work, and wait kneeling by his front door wearing heels and lingerie. unfortunately though I did my best to appease him, Ive never actually ever been into men, but due to my desire to submit I chose to take a chance and see if it maybe my feelings could change. I was wrong. I found that I can spend endless hours day dreaming about what I desire from a mistress l, but have never spent more than a couple minutes trying to be enjoy the thought of being under a masters rule again. If your a woman searching for a sexy, cute, occasionally bratty sub who's drive for life comes from my desire to worship and serve you the way every mistress should be worshiped. please feel free to inquire.
Strong woman who submits to whom she chooses.
I've got a ton of filthy kinks and fetishes, but my number one fetish is intelligent men who are mindful, communicative, calm, confident, and empathetic. If we can't talk about our lives and the world with a decent conversation - nothing else is going to happen.
Best wishes to everyone in their search.
YES TO:
* DD/lg dynamic (must have)
* Spankings and other really hard impact play without "you've been a bad girl" messaging - I love it! 😍
* Firm, structured, disciplined-but-positive Dominants
* Men 45 years old+
* Health-conscious men 😍
* Those very local to the Phoenix Metro Area
NO TO:
* Smokers - it tastes yucky to kiss 🤷♀️
* Grouchy people 😂
* Switches, Subs, Vanilla, or "I'm so horny" guys / those "kinda curious about this stuff"
* Doms who live to "punish" w/ "bad girl"
* People who ghost other people
* Doms who aren't comfortable being called Daddy
* Men under 45
* MAGA people - I'm a centrist
* Heavy alcohol or 420 users
* Men who aren't health-conscious
* More than 40 miles from N Phoenix
* ***, kids, *** play, ***s
**I am in a relationship and he is my priority in all things. If this is an issue, please see yourself out now**
We are both pretty chill and have a taste for sharing. He likes to see me enjoying myself with others, and he's bisexual and we are hoping to indulge that aspect some more so always looking for bisexual tops to join us in our fun 😊
For people who want solo time with me, that is an option but he and I both have to agree to it and there is a factor to that which can be discussed later that you would have to be OK with. Obviously if you have questions please ask.
I am here for one person. who is looking for a physically charged partnership. not here for a crowd or a rotation.
looking for a fun time w a man who knows what he wants
**Desires and Fantasies**
im open to almost anything. no *** or *** or shit and we are all good
This is a long profile just to warn everyone as it gives information about me and what i am seeking as well as giving some information about my past. i am only seeking Dominant’s with experience please.
About me
Hi everyone, my name is Isabella—or Bella, either is fine. I am 33 years old, born and raised in Glendale, AZ. I have a kitty who is an orange tabby, and he means the world to me. He is my emotional support and helps me when I really need it. His name is Kai Tenchi, and he is 3 years old.
To give you an idea of what that name means, I’ll explain. For Kai, there are two different languages with different meanings. In Scottish, Kai means Fire, and in Hawaiian it means Ocean. Then for Tenchi, it means Heaven and Earth in Japanese. I like to think that he is both an angel and a demon depending on how he is behaving, as they are opposites in a way.
Anyhoo, I have been in the lifestyle for 9 years, and while it’s not been easy, it has allowed me to discover myself and grow in a way I never knew could happen. Personality-wise, I am very friendly, cute, sweet, loving, thoughtful, very loyal, a good listener, stubborn, strong-willed, and I can be wise, silly, and romantic.
I will be doing a section dedicated to my vanilla side, then one for the different sides I have. After that, I will be talking about what I am seeking, and finally a little bit about my past. I do apologize in advance—I suddenly got a lot of creative inspiration and wrote more than I thought I would. Please read it, as it will help you learn more about me as a person and as a submissive.
Vanilla me
Hmm, there are a lot of things I would like to do, or at least think about doing. I would like to travel someday to Japan, as I am fascinated by the culture. I am curious about the festivals they have there, especially the Cherry Blossom festival, if that is what it is called. To see the cherry blossoms bloom would be a sight to behold. I am not sure about the food in Japan, as most of it is seafood, which is not something I particularly like.
Another wish of mine is to see the ocean again—to smell the salty air, feel the warm sand between my toes, and look out at what feels like an endless sea. I would love to go horseback riding along the beach, to feel the wind in my hair and have my eyes light up from happiness. Those are a couple of dreams I have. It has been a long time since I was last at a beach, and I miss it.
The other things I enjoy doing are puzzles on my phone. I like doing either jigsaw puzzles when I feel like it, or cross-stitch color-by-letter, which is my current obsession. I have been doing anywhere from 3–5 a day. I continue even when my hand starts hurting; I only stop and rest my arm once the strain becomes too much from the continuous activity.
I also like different types of food depending on my mood. I enjoy baking when I have the chance. I went to culinary school for two years and did end up dropping out, but I never lost that passion. I like seeing whoever eats my sweets light up and smile as they enjoy them. I can cook as well, as long as I have a recipe.
Some things I dislike are loud noises, as I have sensitive ears and certain frequencies genuinely hurt. Growing up, I disliked my dad playing his guitar because the sound—especially acoustic—would hurt my ears. My parents always said I was exaggerating, but it is simply the truth.
I also hate being yelled at, as it genuinely hurts my feelings and will likely make me flinch. I do not like being startled either, as it causes the same reaction and can make me let out a growl of annoyance or anger.
In a past job, I worked in a call center. At the last hour most days, everyone would yell out “Power Hour,” signaling the end of the day. Each time it happened, it startled me badly and made me very agitated, especially if I was on a call, as it disrupted my work. Because of that, I really do not like being startled.
I also hate being ignored and being abandoned. I do not like being ghosted, as that has happened a lot as well.
I think that is it. I will move on to kink and explain my different sides.
Kink me
I want to be upfront that, although I have been in the lifestyle for nine years, most of that time has been spent in toxic or unhealthy relationships where I didn’t really learn much.
Through experience, I know that I am a little, a pet (specifically a puppy), a masochist in the sense that I enjoy ***, and a submissive who enjoys the freedom of serving a Dominant. At one point in my life, I was also a slave, and I had training in that role for almost two years under my ex-Master.
Because of the trauma I experienced, I will not take on a slave role again unless I fully trust my Dominant.
My little side is still something I am learning about. I know I enjoy stuffed ***s and have quite a few of them. I recently got a new one from my real-life protector, Master Dennis, who is well known in the community. He is my protector and Papa, and he is the first person I have ever fully trusted immediately. We have a very strong bond, and I know he always has my best interests at heart.
I have a strong sense that my little side is quite young. I estimate it can feel as young as around one year old and up to around four years old, depending on my state. I think it may even be younger at times, as I have had moments in the past where I would babble to myself or chew on things without really thinking about it.
When I am in that space, I like being cuddled while doing things like color-by-number, and I enjoy showing my finished work. I am still unsure about diapers; I am curious, but it would depend on the Daddy involved. I like pacifiers because they are soothing, although I don’t usually keep them in my mouth for long and tend to spit them out. I also like chewing on things because it helps calm me. I sometimes slip into baby talk in this state because it feels more comfortable.
As for my pet side, I identify as a puppy. I am still learning about this side of myself, but I do know I am very loyal to those I choose to trust. I sometimes enjoy squeaky toys, depending on how sensitive I feel, and I like attention and will often seek it out.
I enjoy doing tricks for treats and am very motivated by rewards, especially things like steak, cookies, or crackers. I also enjoy playing fetch and bringing the toy back when called. However, I can also be mischievous—sometimes I’ll sit and look back with playful eyes, pretending not to listen just to make someone come get me. If they do, I may back away or run to avoid being caught, and if I can, I’ll hide. Once caught, I may resist giving up the toy unless I am made to submit. I can be a bit of a brat, but I am also very loving.
My masochist side I will only touch on briefly. I don’t fully know my *** tolerance yet. I can handle a fair amount, but I’m not sure of my limits. I recently attended an event where I allowed beginners to use a flogger on my upper back. I was already relaxed while an experienced person demonstrated, and when the beginners started, I stayed calm and even giggled a little, not really bothered by it. I even pouted a bit when I was told to let someone else have a turn. I know I enjoy ***, and it can easily lead to arousal for me.
My slave side is something I don’t want to go into deeply right now, as I still have difficult memories connected to it. If you want to know more, I don’t mind sharing privately in a DM.
Lastly, I do have a feral side, which I experience as a wolf. This side is protective and only comes forward when needed. If it does appear, she is cautious with others and focused entirely on keeping my human side safe. Once trust is built, she becomes more open and friendly, but she does not submit easily and will resist until she fully acknowledges her Alpha if there is one. She will fight if she needs to. I have only explored this side in roleplay, not in real life, but I would like to experience it with the right person.
I think that covers all of my sides. I will also be listing a website where all of this can be viewed more easily. I will place it at the end—if you can’t see it, let me know.
Now onto the next section.
What i am seeking
* i am seeking a Daddy, Owner and possibly an Alpha again if it’s possible. i would love to speak to someone who has knowledge and experience with BDSM.
* i want someone who is taller than me. i am 5 foot 4 with dark brown eyes and dark brown hair just to put out there.
* I want him to be older than me in his late 30’s and potentially up to mid 40’s.
* Not a requirement. I would love to find the one who i want to grow old with and possibly have kids. i am not sure if i will ever be ready for kids but i want that at least be open.
* I would prefer he does not have kids.
* If he is out of state, i would like him to potentially relocate to me. i have anxiety and i don’t know anywhere else out of Arizona. i can’t think of moving out of Arizona as my family is here.
*i want him to be patient to know that i have my insecurities and it will take a while to settle. i rather he be okay with being only with me. While i know poly is amazing or at least it could be amazing as it depends on the people in the relationship, i’m not sure if it’s for me. Maybe it is if i have a solid enough connection first.
* i want him to be okay with cats as i will not give up my baby boy for anyone as that is non-negotiable.
* Would prefer he be secure in himself as i want to have someone help me with everything i am going through and to be my rock. To help me learn how to manage myself and to have someone i can be dependent on.
* i want to find someone who will accept all of me, the good and the bad. Who will support me, not abandon me and who will have communication every day throughout the day. i work from home and can easily talk for hours unless i am absorbed on a call.
* i want someone who will be fine with my little ages as i know there are not a lot of Daddy’s out there who want someone so small.
* i want to feel safe, loved, cared for and most of all know that he will always be there. i have been ghosted a lot in the past. Recently i spoke to someone for 6 days and felt like i had a connection on Discord and he unfriended me for no reason. i felt so hurt and crushed before i was able to move on.
Now onto my past
As I said, the last 9 years have been hell and back for me. Most people I have been with hurt me in some way, some more than others and others less. It caused me to mistrust people, and I so desperately want to trust and be accepted. I have so much love to give if given a chance. I do have a funny story to tell everyone. It’s funny in the beginning and becomes sad towards the end, just to warn you.
I actually regressed years ago at a little conference in California called the West Coast Jungle Gym. I got to let out my puppy side a couple times and had a lot of fun. After, I was with my Ex Master at the time along with his little. We went to a casino and I regressed. I think I was maybe 2 years old, maybe a little younger, as I was giggling a lot. I wanted to hold hands, but they did not like to hold hands and had to deal with holding their elbows. I was sad about that. I was pointing to things a lot. I knew my adult mind was in the back. I just felt safe enough to let myself out, and it all was triggered as I chewed on a lanyard. They made sure I did not wander away and kept me close.
I gambled a little, only $20, and had fun. That was my first time doing something like that. I came out of my headspace naturally later on. I told my Ex-Master and his little how I felt, and the little nearly attached me in the McDonald’s wanting to rip my hair out and feed it to me. After that I was scared to let my little side out. It took a long time, even after I left them, to even let out my little side.
What I experienced in that relationship was the worst I have ever experienced, and I hate that with passion. I can’t change the past, but that one ***nce I wish I could just prevent myself from going through the ***. That relationship with the Ex-Master and the little who for the first year I was with was trying to learn to be a Domme. I was her pet. At the end of the first year I was thrown away as she wanted a male puppy and did not want me. That is why I hold a grudge and can’t seem to let go.
My Ex-Master hurt me just as much, if not more. Even after everything I have been through, I still want to hope, to love, to serve, to want to be needed and cared for. It shows how strong I truly am, as I have never just given up, even though I wanted to so many times, but deep inside of me something refused to give up.
I am still so eager to learn more about myself and who I really am, to grow into myself more and to find the one I want to be with. That is why I don’t give up and I never will. I have come close a couple times, and at one point a part of myself after leaving those 2 was missing for a long time.
Now I am here still seeking a Daddy, someone who will actually want to get to know me. The real me hidden underneath the barriers I put up to protect myself. I hope to find you soon, as I am not sure how much longer I can be by myself.
I’m a down-to-earth person who enjoys good conversation, laughter, and meaningful connections. I love trying new things, spending time outdoors, and surrounding myself with positive people. Looking to meet someone who values honesty, kindness, and a sense of humor..
I think anything is worth exploring when there's real feelings involved
| small | exploring CNC / free use | 18+ only | no weirdos | vintage looks | pic exchange | 4’10 | not selling, but looking for of co creator | ***: madamfandom
I'm brand spanking new to all this...pun totally intended.
Looking for a supportive, patient dominant to provide the structure my decision-fatigued brain craves. I’m still learning the ropes, so I need high emotional awareness and ability to call "yellow".
WHAT WINS ME:
Leaders who focus heavily on high aftercare and keeping my nervous system safe and relaxed.
Genuine guidance while I learn my submissive role; not frustration over learning curves.
I definitely have a playful, bratty streak in me. I need someone who finds that fun and knows how to gracefully tame it with patience, not frustration.
PLOT TWIST!!!
Mainly looking for one amazing guy right now, but I am highly interested in a Double-Dom/Polyamorous dynamic. If you're a duo or open to a care-focused triad, that’s a massive plus.
If you know how to hold space, take the wheel, and communicate like a grown-up, hit me up.
Will try anything at least once. Long term project here.
I’m a kind, sweet,and caring person. I’m a little a shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, I can be very talkative. I enjoy good conversations, learning new things and spending time with people who make me happy. I value honesty, respect and a genuine connection
Hey, I’m PrettyEnigma . I’m new to exploring the BDSM world. I’m a switch who is versatile and open to exploring both submissive and dominant roles. I would like to have an emotional connection in my BDSM experience (LTR).
I’m a brat with a wicked tongue. not looking for anything serious. power play with limits. nsa quick fun.
Tributes from subby boys looking for a mean mouth mommy message me for details
READ THIS BEFORE YOU MESSAGE: I'm married. and in an open relationship. Hoping to find a good looking man who is open to meeting for dating from time to time. Time to time means maybe once every couple weeks or when schedules allow.
Well-endowed is mandatory. This will definitely be a deal breaker otherwise. Girth matters more than length.
If you are married, that's fine, as long as you're open. Please have good hygiene and be generally clean and healthy.
I love all things sci fi and nerdy. Love reading. I also have a passion for food (have formal training as a chef).
Bonus points if you've had a vasectomy, though you'll need to show a recent test showing you are clean.
Husband is going to manage this account and filter initially. If she is interested we will arrange an initial intro meeting with the three of us. Nothing is going to happen at the time of that meeting. If all goes well, we may ask you to meet again. If anything happens then, Husband must be present for at least the first encounter. He may or may not be involved (no guy guy, just focused on her). Thereafter, if/when she is comfortable the two of you can go out alone.
Ultimately hoping to find someone she can date. Preferably with an occasional threesome with focus on her. She would love to be doted on, pampered, and taken to reasonably nice restaurants. Most importantly, pay attention to her when you're with her, and treat her well. Just show some kindness and appreciation.
Lastly, please remember, if you message here, you are talking to husband first. So, starting your message with "hey, baby girl" doesn't make sense and just shows us you didn't read.
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