Primarily looking for a partner to build trust with that may have more experience with DDlg caregiver dynamic and rigging/rope play. Goal setting, rewarding/praising, cheeky defiance, soft discipline. Open to monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, potential polyamory.
Not interested in hookups/ONS
Please don’t DM if you cannot conceptualize the above, and hard limits. if you don’t have anything in your description worth reading, I’m not responding. if you’re thousands of miles away I’m not responding.
I enjoy a well rounded amount of hobbies, like gaming, reading, learning new things, crafting, traveling, live music concerts/festivals, camping and swimming. Things I haven’t done in a while but still enjoy are roller skating, hula hooping. Getting back into the gym.
Not in search of couples or being a unicorn, without an established friendship. Open to honest conversations of what a couple might be looking for in a third, whether that is just sex, or includes emotional intimacy-polypartnership leaning.
Sites I’ve frequented for research:
TheDuchy.com
BrandonTheDom.com
pleasuredplay.com
Open to suggestions for more sites ☺️
✅ Public first time meeting
✅ Planned Safe Word(s) / Scene Planning
✅ Safe, Tested Partners - Before Play
❌ Not STI/STD Testing between Partners
❌ Feces, Urine, Needles
❌Permanent Scarring
:1776051737,1252150, In other words, it's not always cluelessness, sometimes it's just not knowing, and I can't tell you how many times I've seen people complain that asking directly for clarification "ruins it".
Well, until everyone gets on the same page with using the same Read more… signals consistently, I guess have fun hoping that the other person is psychic and dealing with the issues when they aren't?
I’m guilty of thinking, “moment is ruined now” after having to explain, but maturing and understanding what consent means to me now it’s more like, “wow they respect my comfort and boundaries, that’s even hotter”.
If you’re attracted to someone, you could get back into the mood with them. If you get the “ick” after confirmation of sexual desire, you didnt want them in the first place. Imo.
If intentions aren’t clear between both parties, does consent actually exist?
I know sometimes as a woman, it can also be like, are they paying attention to my body language and tone, but that all comes later with familiarity of dynamic/relationship. Yeah nobody can read minds.
It says 2.5 hours before this post, they are in an open relationship on their profile?
I agree though, if your partner doesn’t respect your boundaries and everything has already been discussed in a non-judgmental discussion… and you both want different things, there may be another topic of Read more… discussion at hand to have next, unfortunately.