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also on fetlife, same name. may post some nsfw stuff there since i can't here.
if you know me irl, don't be weird please🙏. in real life people probably know me as the reserved nerdy girl who sits in the front row and gets straight a's. in reality i'm also the depraved horny girl who reads fucked up erotica with her hand down her pants until 3 am in the morning.
it turns me on when people think i'm cute and sexy. hearing that one look at my body turns a guy rock hard and makes his mind think unspeakable things makes me unbelievably horny. periodically posting pics for that cheap validations 😅.
dm's are open, and horny messages welcome. i'm much more interested in talking about sex, kink, and psychology than i am in sexting. in general, i dont have much experience with sexting so if you send me a 2 page monologue about what you want to do with me, i'm going to read it, get a tiny spike of seratonin, and then not know how to reply.
i have 0 intention of meeting anyone in person on here, please keep that in mind.
About Me:
Fun, magnetic, and strictly zero-drama. An established, independent woman who takes immaculate care of her mind, body, and lifestyle—looking for an elevated connection built on sharp banter, mutual indulgence, and undeniable spark. Mostly vanilla day-to-day, but kink-curious and eager to explore deeper behind closed doors with the right partner. Total autonomy outside the bedroom, serious surrender inside it, with an open mind to letting things evolve naturally if the chemistry takes us there.
An established woman who loves to be spoiled. Primarily looking for an equal, masculine dominant—though I certainly won't stop an eager sub from funding my shopping habit if they know their place.
Drawn To:
Tall, athletic builds, impeccable style, and unmistakable ambition. Looking for a polished equal who is accustomed to quality, appreciates the finer things, and carries natural, calm masculine confidence. Someone who knows how to treat and spoil a woman who already has her own.
What Turns Me On:
A man who commands the room and knows how to handle a little bratty tension. I love the thrill of light power dynamics:
A firm grip on my throat (safe, sensual, and communicative)
Sharp, dirty teasing without crossing into true ***
Being tied up, teased, and completely taken care of
Limits / Dealbreakers:
No 24/7 lifestyle, no one-night stands, ***, bodily fluids, heavy ***, or fragile egos.
I do as I please
My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people.
I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries.
Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.
Hello there ~
I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.
Connections I'm interested in:
- Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
- Queer community folks and other femmes!
- Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
- Local community only.
- Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
- Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
- Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
- 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
- Fire play and wax play lovers.
- Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).
- Interesting people who can teach me new things.
Connections I am NOT interested in:
- No long distance. No online. No tourists.
- No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
- No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
- No sissy fetishists.
- No illegal/abusive activities.
- No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
- No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
- No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
**Sorry no single guys at this time **
Hello big Sensual World Members! I am definitely easygoing and love to explore. I’m in a semi open relationship. My guidelines are I can only play with couples and single ladies thus the no single men line at the top. This is my account and I am only looking for me at this time.
Always open to something new but tried and true is sweet too. Laughing is one of my turn-ons. I don’t always take very well because I like putting others first but when it’s my turn I’ll take whatever given. Have not found my no yet in the bedroom and respect any no’s you may have. Love to connect with likeminded people. Wanting to make connections with couples and bi-ladies at this time.
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play.
I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋
I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity.
And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Mostly dominant woman.
I have been involved in the BDSM community on and off since I was 18 years old.
Still most of my experience was bounded by pick-up play or small scenes with mostly vanilla romantic partners.
I’m looking to explore a more ongoing intimate psychological D/s dynamic with the right partner(s) that feels comforting and secure.
Open to messages submissives and switches interested me or from anyone seeking a like minded friend. While I am occasionally submissive/switchy with the right partner/combination of kinks, please dominants refrain from messaging me with the intention of courting me as a submissive partner.
A refined D/s dynamic should feel deliberate. Trust is cultivated, boundaries are respected, and submission is something consciously offered—not something assumed. I enjoy exploring the psychology beneath desire: what motivates you, what challenges you, and what becomes possible when control is placed in capable hands.
If you’re seeking ***nt access or superficial theatrics, we’re unlikely to interest one another. If you appreciate discretion, intellectual chemistry, discipline, and a Dominant who values substance as much as authority, introduce yourself properly.
You've always wondered what it would be like to have a naturally dominant woman take control of you in the bedroom, haven't you? A dominant woman to show you your place: beneath her. You've dreamed of being used as my personal toy, catering to my every whim. Bringing me pleasure.
I'm Mistress Blunt. Featured in Psychology Today, Hustler, Vice, Glamour, and beyond, with fif***-plus years training in the old-guard traditions of D/s and leather, practiced with a scholar's precision and a sadist's instinct. I'm an internationally sought-after, award-winning professional dominatrix and lifestyle femdom I'm known for my holistic approach to BDSM, my razor-sharp intellect, a photographer's eye for fetish, and the unparalleled levels of devotion I command from my inner circle of submissives.
Intuitive by nature, I read desires, particularly the hidden ones you guard most closely, planting seeds that unfurl into devastating beauty. While I adore leather, boots, whips, high-protocol training, tease and denial, orgasm control, heavy objectification, Mommy play, and feet (mine), my primary interest is in the realm of the psychological. I think of your desires as data for me to wield like a weapon to facilitate your submission.
Every session with me is co-created art: the lighting, the scent of my leather, the cadence of my voice, curated for immersion. When the door clicks shut, you cross into my realm, bound by my rules, forever marked.
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Baby Dom, doin this kinky shit professionally! 👑
I enjoy power exchange dynamics that really connect you to your authentic desires. My goal is to be a trusted partner through the exploration of kink and play.
One of my favorite dynamics is MommyDom, with a lifestyle feel to it; taking special care that my subs feel nurtured as well as stimulated. 💋
PING ME or I’ll never know you were here. I’m a Sapio/demisexual.
I’m strange in the fact that I am looking for a secure man (or someone actively working on becoming secure) who understands and wants to prioritize a new relationship with healthy practices and consensual kink and BDSM. I’m not here for hook up’s or situation ships.
Discipline and integrity are high on my list of desirable traits. I do great with a dominant man that has his life in order and will indulge in my praise kink. Bonus points if you know attachment styles and enjoy deep conversations and you know the value of building trust.
**What I bring:**
I’m smart, empathetic, beautiful inside and out and I have emotional availability and time. im looking for a Warrior that wants to protect and knows that some things we do despite being scared.
Can you demonstrate leadership and gratitude for where you are in your life. Are you interested in a primary partner. I’m not for you if you don’t like deep revealing and sometimes uncomfortable discussions . They are very frequent. Let’s go one a date and discuss this.
No Drama, no MAGA, no smokers and FUCK ICE. NO KINGS- unless I can find mine;)
Brat, little, rope bunny, Pet, slave. I'm an experimentalist, ENM, that's not going to change. pretty much any type except degradee (although recent experiences have me questioning that😏). Good Brat Tamers are a rare breed. Sapiosexual. Use your brain to get my attention. "you have pretty hair." and "I like your eyes" get stale when you've heard it a thousand times. Enjoy a challenge? I'll give you one. 😈
Mostly here to connect and explore other parts of myself with fun loving people. Bonus points if you have good taste in anime. I travel a lot and not looking for anything serious.
Recently out of a LTR. Not looking for anything serious. Give me a detailed description of how you’d love to eat a woman out. (I’m a sub)
would love to be part of an MFM threesome as well and I do have some experience with that 🙃
I don’t mind having a person to rave with!! I’m a bass and riddim kinda gal 💅🏾
I’m 5’ 4” and love to be eaten out. 420 friendly.
The move you give, the more I give. I have my limits, just ask :)
attention wh0re with a praise k!nk
looking for entertainment, boring will be ignored.
the likelihood of a reply increases with quality of your first message ;)
I'm new to this, not brand new but I don't have much experience. I'm a bookworm and I love sex. Im explorative and seek deep connections with others as an act of exploration.
sub at heart looking for trouble who wants to have fun and connect on a deep level. sapiosexual. exploring women and fun group dynamics.
some of my kinks:
being soft and rough
going down on you
spanking
teasing
control/denial
punishments/rewards
bondage
training
I consider myself an ambivert, somewhere in between introversion and extroversion however I'm socially confident and outgoing. I like to socialize and connect with people. I love trying new things, exploring new places, and learning about other cultures. I enjoy camping, picnics, rooftop dinners, road trips, musical concerts, and festivals. In my free time, you'll usually find me reading novels, playing video games, blogging, editing videos, listening to podcasts and audiobooks.
I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.
hey ✨ just here to make friends.
before you get any ideas, my big boobs have already been claimed by my pretty submissive baby. i’m not looking for anything romantic or sexual, so please be normal, be respectful, so we could be friends!
heya im Billie
I’m a Berkeley local and super creative, love to be outdoors. I’d love to meet open minded kinky people and also
looking for cool creative people to do art with and spend time with.
interests: art, nature, shows/venues, stretching and yoga, diy, movies, plants, ***s, camping
spending time with loved ones
if u talk to me u should be open minded, accepting of everyone and respectfull of boundaries.
Pro domme looking for subs to explore with
Open to 24/7 flr
I live in SF but I don’t host
Beauty and brilliance require discipline. Let's Go!
If you're highly intelligent, and handsome, and take good care of yourself, let's establish chemistry, mental connection and build mutual trust 0aving a path to fun!
I’m an experienced Switch - subby boys and experienced Doms welcomed. I want to feel your energy and passion for life and what you might have in store for me.
My eyes are blue and compliment my blond hair 5'6" -fit!
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play and suck. a nice feeding 😌 a data engineer who would love to be able to turn my brain off and suck to soothe. I’m pretty needy of my daddy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to older white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love.
To be very clear, I’m not interested in dating anyone on this app.
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Mostly dominant woman.
I have been involved in the BDSM community on and off since I was 18 years old.
Still most of my experience was bounded by pick-up play or small scenes with mostly vanilla romantic partners.
I’m looking to explore a more ongoing intimate psychological D/s dynamic with the right partner(s) that feels comforting and secure.
Open to messages submissives and switches interested me or from anyone seeking a like minded friend. While I am occasionally submissive/switchy with the right partner/combination of kinks, please dominants refrain from messaging me with the intention of courting me as a submissive partner.
About Me:
Fun, magnetic, and strictly zero-drama. An established, independent woman who takes immaculate care of her mind, body, and lifestyle—looking for an elevated connection built on sharp banter, mutual indulgence, and undeniable spark. Mostly vanilla day-to-day, but kink-curious and eager to explore deeper behind closed doors with the right partner. Total autonomy outside the bedroom, serious surrender inside it, with an open mind to letting things evolve naturally if the chemistry takes us there.
An established woman who loves to be spoiled. Primarily looking for an equal, masculine dominant—though I certainly won't stop an eager sub from funding my shopping habit if they know their place.
Drawn To:
Tall, athletic builds, impeccable style, and unmistakable ambition. Looking for a polished equal who is accustomed to quality, appreciates the finer things, and carries natural, calm masculine confidence. Someone who knows how to treat and spoil a woman who already has her own.
What Turns Me On:
A man who commands the room and knows how to handle a little bratty tension. I love the thrill of light power dynamics:
A firm grip on my throat (safe, sensual, and communicative)
Sharp, dirty teasing without crossing into true ***
Being tied up, teased, and completely taken care of
Limits / Dealbreakers:
No 24/7 lifestyle, no one-night stands, ***, bodily fluids, heavy ***, or fragile egos.
You've always wondered what it would be like to have a naturally dominant woman take control of you in the bedroom, haven't you? A dominant woman to show you your place: beneath her. You've dreamed of being used as my personal toy, catering to my every whim. Bringing me pleasure.
I'm Mistress Blunt. Featured in Psychology Today, Hustler, Vice, Glamour, and beyond, with fif***-plus years training in the old-guard traditions of D/s and leather, practiced with a scholar's precision and a sadist's instinct. I'm an internationally sought-after, award-winning professional dominatrix and lifestyle femdom I'm known for my holistic approach to BDSM, my razor-sharp intellect, a photographer's eye for fetish, and the unparalleled levels of devotion I command from my inner circle of submissives.
Intuitive by nature, I read desires, particularly the hidden ones you guard most closely, planting seeds that unfurl into devastating beauty. While I adore leather, boots, whips, high-protocol training, tease and denial, orgasm control, heavy objectification, Mommy play, and feet (mine), my primary interest is in the realm of the psychological. I think of your desires as data for me to wield like a weapon to facilitate your submission.
Every session with me is co-created art: the lighting, the scent of my leather, the cadence of my voice, curated for immersion. When the door clicks shut, you cross into my realm, bound by my rules, forever marked.
A refined D/s dynamic should feel deliberate. Trust is cultivated, boundaries are respected, and submission is something consciously offered—not something assumed. I enjoy exploring the psychology beneath desire: what motivates you, what challenges you, and what becomes possible when control is placed in capable hands.
If you’re seeking ***nt access or superficial theatrics, we’re unlikely to interest one another. If you appreciate discretion, intellectual chemistry, discipline, and a Dominant who values substance as much as authority, introduce yourself properly.
also on fetlife, same name. may post some nsfw stuff there since i can't here.
if you know me irl, don't be weird please🙏. in real life people probably know me as the reserved nerdy girl who sits in the front row and gets straight a's. in reality i'm also the depraved horny girl who reads fucked up erotica with her hand down her pants until 3 am in the morning.
it turns me on when people think i'm cute and sexy. hearing that one look at my body turns a guy rock hard and makes his mind think unspeakable things makes me unbelievably horny. periodically posting pics for that cheap validations 😅.
dm's are open, and horny messages welcome. i'm much more interested in talking about sex, kink, and psychology than i am in sexting. in general, i dont have much experience with sexting so if you send me a 2 page monologue about what you want to do with me, i'm going to read it, get a tiny spike of seratonin, and then not know how to reply.
i have 0 intention of meeting anyone in person on here, please keep that in mind.
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play.
I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋
I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity.
And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
**Sorry no single guys at this time **
Hello big Sensual World Members! I am definitely easygoing and love to explore. I’m in a semi open relationship. My guidelines are I can only play with couples and single ladies thus the no single men line at the top. This is my account and I am only looking for me at this time.
Always open to something new but tried and true is sweet too. Laughing is one of my turn-ons. I don’t always take very well because I like putting others first but when it’s my turn I’ll take whatever given. Have not found my no yet in the bedroom and respect any no’s you may have. Love to connect with likeminded people. Wanting to make connections with couples and bi-ladies at this time.
I do as I please
My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people.
I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries.
Disclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning.
Hello there ~
I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with.
Connections I'm interested in:
- Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics.
- Queer community folks and other femmes!
- Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner.
- Local community only.
- Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends.
- Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners!
- Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with.
- 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play).
- Fire play and wax play lovers.
- Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course).
- Interesting people who can teach me new things.
Connections I am NOT interested in:
- No long distance. No online. No tourists.
- No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole.
- No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians.
- No sissy fetishists.
- No illegal/abusive activities.
- No hookups for vanilla sex acts.
- No swingers/unicorn hunting couples.
- No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Baby Dom, doin this kinky shit professionally! 👑
I enjoy power exchange dynamics that really connect you to your authentic desires. My goal is to be a trusted partner through the exploration of kink and play.
One of my favorite dynamics is MommyDom, with a lifestyle feel to it; taking special care that my subs feel nurtured as well as stimulated. 💋
I'm new to this, not brand new but I don't have much experience. I'm a bookworm and I love sex. Im explorative and seek deep connections with others as an act of exploration.
I’m here for the novelty of it all.
I prefer to get to know my play partners.
Connection, Chemistry , and Respect are mandatory .
Looking to be worshipped.
Into many kinks .
I have limited availability and cannot host.
LOCAL *** P4P LTSUBS
I do offer Feet Donation Meets
Private location
Cuckholding and Pegging are my favorite Punishment and Reward
Allow me to be crystal clear no tribute no conversation you will be blocked and ignored
I love turning people on. The more turned on by me someone gets, the more turned on I get.
I'm a soft mommy domme and I love good boys and girls who take care of their mommy as much as I take care of them. Only interested in those that actively make my life easier/more fun, time is precious. I also have a huge ass that needs worshipping 🙏🏻
You know what to do if you really want my attention!
https://***/tinacalifornia415
Brat, little, rope bunny, Pet, slave. I'm an experimentalist, ENM, that's not going to change. pretty much any type except degradee (although recent experiences have me questioning that😏). Good Brat Tamers are a rare breed. Sapiosexual. Use your brain to get my attention. "you have pretty hair." and "I like your eyes" get stale when you've heard it a thousand times. Enjoy a challenge? I'll give you one. 😈
Mostly here to connect and explore other parts of myself with fun loving people. Bonus points if you have good taste in anime. I travel a lot and not looking for anything serious.
INFJ, birth sign = Leo
San Franciscan looking for local connections .
Currently single with one occasional play partner. I practice Ethical non monogamy.
Love to travel even day trips. I’m a fan of museums and science. I enjoy walks on the beach or anywhere with nice scenery. I can be a homebody or go out for events whenever the opportunity presents itself.
Highly educated with a Masters and Doctoral degree.
Post operative woman, completed GRS in 2018.
Fully Covid vaccinated and boosted. On pRep and clear sexual health history. I test quarterly and would prefer someone regularly tested as well.
I do not smoke and prefer if you don't as well.
I’m cool if you want use edibles -420 friendly.
I'm a tall and curvy girl. I like to explore, travel, learn, and have fun.
Trans accepting women who are kinky get a pass to the front of the line.
Kinky Switch that is very open minded.
Some of my kinks include strap on play, toys, restraints,
corsets, chastity, gags, and much more.
Hard limits include ***, ***, sharps, smoking to name a few.
I’m left leaning and I’m not interested in MAGA supporting people.
Just looking for online fun!! I'm receiving loads of messages so sorry if I take a bit to answer 😔 got such a cute ass because I'm into edging and anal only
I consider myself an ambivert, somewhere in between introversion and extroversion however I'm socially confident and outgoing. I like to socialize and connect with people. I love trying new things, exploring new places, and learning about other cultures. I enjoy camping, picnics, rooftop dinners, road trips, musical concerts, and festivals. In my free time, you'll usually find me reading novels, playing video games, blogging, editing videos, listening to podcasts and audiobooks.
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8 yrs into my journey as a Domme.
Not a switch, not a brat. I don't submit to men. ever.
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I live with my cis/het male partner, our ***ager, and 3 cats. I’m an RN on a Med/Surg unit in a local hospital. I’m highly educated, perimenopausal, and Gen X, so take that as you will.
I’m polyamorous and looking to date separate from my partner. I’m looking for a couple different dynamics, but hopefully one that will fulfill both: 1) a person on the masculine side to bind and dominate my brattiness; 2) a daddy to care for me as a Middle (pre***, not little). I definitely am looking for sexual dynamics.
I have been kinky for about 25 years, with varying degrees of dedication. I’ve also been a Domme, but that was a long time ago and I have no wish to be in that role again.
Hi. I'm just a (trans) lady looking for kinky fun. Mostly into women and non-binary folks, but who knows?
I like bondage, being a bit of a brat, and occasionally being a kitty.
Outside of kink I like playing music and video games.
33 f wanting to *** some worthless slaves
I love heavy bondage and ***
dm me if that interests you and maybe I will message back who is pathetic enough
not interested in older than me, under 30 preferred
Here for fun, chemistry, and good vibes. Looking for kinky dates and like-minded people. No strings attached, but communication and respect are a must. ✨
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