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Hi! I have been in the kink world for quite some time and have lived both sides of the D/s coin. I say I definitely fall more on the submissive side but do have a sadist streak in me. I am an experience junkie and I'm genuinely curious about other people's kinks and fetishes and possibly open to exploring some of them. I do love a play partner who is passionate about their kink and takes time to educate themselves, that will definitely make my panties wet. I have a nesting partner who I am in an open relationship with and love very much and a long term Dom who I am grateful to serve once a month so I am really looking for casual play partners who can bring something to my kink world. Other than that I am on the neuro spicy side of life and a crafty gamer geek who is obsessed with her cats. I do like to get outside to explore and enjoy the culture.
Female (44) Santa Cruz, California
The classic fairytale of a Domme looking for a sub ✨ Experienced with a decade of practice and available for a full and consistent D/s dynamic. Role reversal, orgasm control, tease and denial, objectification, behavior training, and light bondage are my favorites and would love to explore further with someone. Can work with long-distance in the bay but regularly meeting up is essential to keeping the dynamic alive! Queer ?️‍? Trans ?️‍⚧️ Free ??
Female (36) Santa Cruz, California

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Hi! I have been in the kink world for quite some time and have lived both sides of the D/s coin. I say I definitely fall more on the submissive side but do have a sadist streak in me. I am an experience junkie and I'm genuinely curious about other people's kinks and fetishes and possibly open to exploring some of them. I do love a play partner who is passionate about their kink and takes time to educate themselves, that will definitely make my panties wet. I have a nesting partner who I am in an open relationship with and love very much and a long term Dom who I am grateful to serve once a month so I am really looking for casual play partners who can bring something to my kink world. Other than that I am on the neuro spicy side of life and a crafty gamer geek who is obsessed with her cats. I do like to get outside to explore and enjoy the culture.
Female (44) Santa Cruz, California
The classic fairytale of a Domme looking for a sub ✨ Experienced with a decade of practice and available for a full and consistent D/s dynamic. Role reversal, orgasm control, tease and denial, objectification, behavior training, and light bondage are my favorites and would love to explore further with someone. Can work with long-distance in the bay but regularly meeting up is essential to keeping the dynamic alive! Queer ?️‍? Trans ?️‍⚧️ Free ??
Female (36) Santa Cruz, California

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The two biggest things you can do to impress me is to be steady in your communication and believe it or not, here is the sticking point for almost everyone, just be respectful! I'm professional, own my own home, and I don't have any kiddos. I have an MBA; I am serious and intellectual when I need to be and if the situation requires. A relationship (physical and emotional) takes time for me to build. I will NOT have sex until I understand that we are both looking for a relationship and giving us a chance. I have not had a lot of partners.

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