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How do people actually find real Doms? Soft Doms? Borderline Daddy Doms? The kind that are authentic to their core… not just playing a role, not hiding behind a title. The ones who lead naturally, protect instinctively, and create safety without needing to announce it??
Because from where I’m standing, it feels rare…unattainable, non existent…
I’m not looking for control without connection. I’m not looking for dominance without depth.
I’m looking for a man who naturally leads; who is steady, grounded, emotionally aware, and intentional.
Someone who creates a space where I can soften..where I can lean into my femininity, my playfulness…my inner brat - without feeling taken advantage of or unsafe.
I want to be guided, not managed.
Held, not handled.
Seen, not just desired.
I want a relationship - not just a dynamic…Something to build on where consistency matters, and both people show up fully to one another.
If you understand the difference between authority and ego…between leadership and control…we’ll probably speak the same language. Are you out there? Are you real?
Submissive pillow princess looking for soft doms and daddies. *** me, spank me, pull my hair and then cuddle me and tell me what a good girl I am 💋
I am a lover of love and adoration. I find it very easy to dominate, but I would love to find someone worthy of dominating me.
22 yr old lesbo, currently Green hair with blonde roots
Here to meet some women who aren't afraid to top other women.
trans and nonbinary ppl are cool too but if ur a man just don't talk to me.
also don't be surprised if my hairs a diff color.. it changes a lot, currently green!
I'd say I'm a switch.. leaning sub, buuut I'm just here for a good time, so whatever floats ur boat 🤙
Don't be shy.. my DMs are open
Sensual, intelligent, honest, east coast attitude & integrity, warmth, sensitive, real, related, goal is evolving, at the moment it’s discovery.. I’d enjoy finding the like minded, or potential sparks with the compatible.
Things what I like:
sincerity, tension, mastery, art, photography, writing, reading, design, ever evolving passion for music, travel, a passion for the good things in life
I want to preface this profile by saying I know this is very wordy. Communication and openness is very important to me, and I know the exact kind of relationship I’m looking for. So take a look and see if this sounds like what you’re looking for too!
I’m looking for someone caring, intelligent, trustworthy, kind, and dominant. I’m looking for a long term relationship, hopefully my forever person. As I am strictly submissive, I’d prefer you to be strictly dominant. While I am relatively new to the D/S lifestyle, I am educated in how to tell the difference between a caring Dom and an abusive asshole, so it’s not worth the effort messaging me if you’re going to demand obedience out of the gate and start your message telling me about how horny you are.
I’m not into master/slave or total power exchange. I’m looking for a caring DDlg dynamic, with a sprinkle of Owner/Pet. I’m not into the age play part of DDlg, I take the titles of “Daddy” and “Little” a bit more figuratively. I want a guiding, caring hand in the bedroom. Personally, it’s about the nature of the roles, not playing it out verbatim. To me, it’s important to take the foundational parts of what is known of a Daddy/little girl; and evolving it to fit an adult, real-world life. The roles become more about the essence of the titles — Pulling from the sternness/sweetness, authoritative/obedient, affectionate/respectful aspects... Like, do you know the art of degrading while also being gentle? drools Did I push your buttons and now I need a spanking? drools again ; )
I’m not looking for a quick hookup or sexting buddy. Finding the type of dynamic I’m looking for is awkward to air out on conventional dating apps, so here I am. I’m ultimately seeking a long-term relationship with someone who is masculine (I’m open to masculine women and enbies too) that is knowledgeable about the complexities of the relationship.
As a “little”, I like to follow the lead and obey my Dominant because I trust their guidance, want to please them, and show respect. I’m under their power but can still be an individual: having my intellect, interests, goals, and perspectives acknowledged. I don’t want to lose my identity in a power dynamic, I want it to be nurtured. I know making it a lifestyle isn’t for everyone, and that’s ok. But for me, it’s a dynamic I crave and don’t just want to just role play it at random times.
I’m hiding a secret message in the middle of the profile to know if you’ve read the whole thing or not. When you message me, tell me about your favorite restaurant and what you normally order when you eat there.
What makes me melt:
-sweet talk -guidance -praise -protectiveness -aftercare
What excites me:
-possessiveness -authority -masculinity
spanking with hand > spanking with object
being held down > being tied up
praise > ***
being lead > 100% control
bare skin > leather/latex/cosplay
A little about the vanilla side of me: I’m a super extroverted theater geek who loves performing of any kind, anything pink and sparkly, all things Disney Parks, D&D, and showing my favorite media to the people I care about. I am autistic and an ambulatory wheelchair user, so be ready for direct questions and lack of eye contact.
It’s a long shot but I’m hoping I find my person on here : )
Goddess looking for a sexy Pleasure Dom whose face can be my throne. An experience not everyone gets to taste 😘 I'm very selective in a world where its slim pickens, masculine build and dominant presence is essential for this brat to stay interested. Best of luck, may the favor be in your odds. 💋✨️🤙🏼
I’m a laid back the girl next door, 420 friendly. I’m looking for a strong true dominant confident daddy! I want to show you what kinda a good girl freak I can be. im a strong independent confident woman! i love to be the sexy submissive in bed.
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Sensual, intelligent, honest, east coast attitude & integrity, warmth, sensitive, real, related, goal is evolving, at the moment it’s discovery.. I’d enjoy finding the like minded, or potential sparks with the compatible.
Things what I like:
sincerity, tension, mastery, art, photography, writing, reading, design, ever evolving passion for music, travel, a passion for the good things in life
(PAUSED)
……………..
How do people actually find real Doms? Soft Doms? Borderline Daddy Doms? The kind that are authentic to their core… not just playing a role, not hiding behind a title. The ones who lead naturally, protect instinctively, and create safety without needing to announce it??
Because from where I’m standing, it feels rare…unattainable, non existent…
I’m not looking for control without connection. I’m not looking for dominance without depth.
I’m looking for a man who naturally leads; who is steady, grounded, emotionally aware, and intentional.
Someone who creates a space where I can soften..where I can lean into my femininity, my playfulness…my inner brat - without feeling taken advantage of or unsafe.
I want to be guided, not managed.
Held, not handled.
Seen, not just desired.
I want a relationship - not just a dynamic…Something to build on where consistency matters, and both people show up fully to one another.
If you understand the difference between authority and ego…between leadership and control…we’ll probably speak the same language. Are you out there? Are you real?
I am a lover of love and adoration. I find it very easy to dominate, but I would love to find someone worthy of dominating me.
I want to preface this profile by saying I know this is very wordy. Communication and openness is very important to me, and I know the exact kind of relationship I’m looking for. So take a look and see if this sounds like what you’re looking for too!
I’m looking for someone caring, intelligent, trustworthy, kind, and dominant. I’m looking for a long term relationship, hopefully my forever person. As I am strictly submissive, I’d prefer you to be strictly dominant. While I am relatively new to the D/S lifestyle, I am educated in how to tell the difference between a caring Dom and an abusive asshole, so it’s not worth the effort messaging me if you’re going to demand obedience out of the gate and start your message telling me about how horny you are.
I’m not into master/slave or total power exchange. I’m looking for a caring DDlg dynamic, with a sprinkle of Owner/Pet. I’m not into the age play part of DDlg, I take the titles of “Daddy” and “Little” a bit more figuratively. I want a guiding, caring hand in the bedroom. Personally, it’s about the nature of the roles, not playing it out verbatim. To me, it’s important to take the foundational parts of what is known of a Daddy/little girl; and evolving it to fit an adult, real-world life. The roles become more about the essence of the titles — Pulling from the sternness/sweetness, authoritative/obedient, affectionate/respectful aspects... Like, do you know the art of degrading while also being gentle? drools Did I push your buttons and now I need a spanking? drools again ; )
I’m not looking for a quick hookup or sexting buddy. Finding the type of dynamic I’m looking for is awkward to air out on conventional dating apps, so here I am. I’m ultimately seeking a long-term relationship with someone who is masculine (I’m open to masculine women and enbies too) that is knowledgeable about the complexities of the relationship.
As a “little”, I like to follow the lead and obey my Dominant because I trust their guidance, want to please them, and show respect. I’m under their power but can still be an individual: having my intellect, interests, goals, and perspectives acknowledged. I don’t want to lose my identity in a power dynamic, I want it to be nurtured. I know making it a lifestyle isn’t for everyone, and that’s ok. But for me, it’s a dynamic I crave and don’t just want to just role play it at random times.
I’m hiding a secret message in the middle of the profile to know if you’ve read the whole thing or not. When you message me, tell me about your favorite restaurant and what you normally order when you eat there.
What makes me melt:
-sweet talk -guidance -praise -protectiveness -aftercare
What excites me:
-possessiveness -authority -masculinity
spanking with hand > spanking with object
being held down > being tied up
praise > ***
being lead > 100% control
bare skin > leather/latex/cosplay
A little about the vanilla side of me: I’m a super extroverted theater geek who loves performing of any kind, anything pink and sparkly, all things Disney Parks, D&D, and showing my favorite media to the people I care about. I am autistic and an ambulatory wheelchair user, so be ready for direct questions and lack of eye contact.
It’s a long shot but I’m hoping I find my person on here : )
Submissive pillow princess looking for soft doms and daddies. *** me, spank me, pull my hair and then cuddle me and tell me what a good girl I am 💋
I’m a laid back the girl next door, 420 friendly. I’m looking for a strong true dominant confident daddy! I want to show you what kinda a good girl freak I can be. im a strong independent confident woman! i love to be the sexy submissive in bed.
22 yr old lesbo, currently Green hair with blonde roots
Here to meet some women who aren't afraid to top other women.
trans and nonbinary ppl are cool too but if ur a man just don't talk to me.
also don't be surprised if my hairs a diff color.. it changes a lot, currently green!
I'd say I'm a switch.. leaning sub, buuut I'm just here for a good time, so whatever floats ur boat 🤙
Don't be shy.. my DMs are open
Goddess looking for a sexy Pleasure Dom whose face can be my throne. An experience not everyone gets to taste 😘 I'm very selective in a world where its slim pickens, masculine build and dominant presence is essential for this brat to stay interested. Best of luck, may the favor be in your odds. 💋✨️🤙🏼
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