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Quick Update: Because of the volume of messages that I receive, I'm going to have to _only_ respond to those who have read my profile. It's not to be rude, just pragmatic for both of us to find what we desire. :) 1. I am only interested in cultivating relationships with those who are within 50km of Denver. 2. I am not interested in sexting or receiving unsolicited images. If you open with lewd words or a simple 'hi,' I must simply pass as it will be clear that we are seeking entirely different paths. 3. I'm very careful with whom I meet here on FET, so if you're in a hurry... I am certainly not for you. (I am owned, but occasionally loaned, so I need to ask permission for all that I do. I am in a loving relationship of thirty years, so I'm certainly not here to find Mr. Right.) 4. If you can work the word 'gravity' into your first note to me, I'll certainly respond and it will show me that you've taken time to invest in me. Show me the truth of Dominance, and I will be far more likely to reinvest. :) 5. The fantasy that draws me again and again is to have a silent man, woman, or couple enter my hotel room - use me as they desire while we are filmed by my production assistant (a trusted employee of over a decade) - and then subsequently to return here online and watch the film together. For those very few of you who took the time to read everything, thank you... I sincerely appreciate you more than you might know - you are the glue that keeps communities like this one together. :)
Female (50) Denver, Colorado
Colorado mountain native. My days are spent getting my hands dirty-I run an indoor plant design business, and I am a foraging guide. I am very thoughtful, passionate and playful. Genuine connection with good banter is important to me. I prefer meaningful, consistent relationships.
Female (36) Denver, Colorado
Question(s) of the month: What's the best salad dressing? How many French fries is it ok for a friend to take before you tell them to order their own? I'm a major workaholic with a wonderful partner! I have been given permission to enjoy physical connections as he is not versed in this lifestyle and I had missed it. (he will not be involved in any way) I'm hoping to find fun with my sub side while casually connecting. Plan something fun with my clothes on first!! 😆 Looking for very casual FWB/Playmates! I need more kinky friends too! FUN FACTS: I am a night shift Med Tech/CNA with a "small" caffeine addiction and exotic pets. The beardie is Cosmo. Be nice to him 😋 I'm a huge nerd and conversationalist! I live for hypotheticals and nonsense debates. Unhinged meme lord 👌 small time gamer and BIG time foodie!!
Female (31) Lafayette, Colorado
You think you’re in control? How cute. I’m a good girl with a lot of bad ideas. I identify as a brat and my BDSM involves a significant amount of emotional and physical power exchange with my partner through various kinks: bondage, discipline, sensation play, orgasm control, impact play and willing to explore more into the BDSM world. I am in a ENM relationship. I am seeking alike minded friends. I truly want a friendship with all my partners, but I do not have the capacity to take on another relationship. If you’re seeking friendship and some fun, I’m your girl. If you think we’re a good fit, come bearing the word cherries in your message… no cherries, no reply, no regrets.
Female (34) Arvada, Colorado
Dominant Woman Seeking a Genuine Submissive. Let's Keep It Real. I'm not here for fantasy roleplay, performative submission, or empty words. I don’t need theatrics—I need truth, presence, and purpose. I seek a loyal submissive man who knows there is strength in surrender, and value in structure. You crave rules not for punishment’s sake, but because they bring clarity, meaning, and connection. You understand that true submission is not weakness—it's a conscious gift, offered with devotion and trust. With Me, your submission will be private, respectful, and profoundly personal. I am not interested in degrading you for show. What I offer is far more rare: a space where your obedience is honored, your service is shaped, and your growth is nurtured under firm, consistent guidance. I’m attentive, intuitive, and unshakably in control. I give direction because I care. I expect obedience because I know your potential. And I will invest in you if you show Me you're worthy of being Mine.
Female (42) Denver, Colorado
Looking for a girlfriend for myself... My hubby is a-sexual & Demi (ask for clarification*).. I'd like to have accompaniment from a pretty lady and we could go to the bar and do karaoke, go do "femanine things", go driving around, maybe hiking. I love breweries, music, driving, trampolines, card and board games and anything else fun, creative, and/or intellectual. I love trying new things. Hubby would like to meet you and may join us now and again on dates. He is the 🐝 beez kneez so it isn't a put out. 🎇❤️‍🔥 Here's to hoping. P. S. I'm chunky and I love me. take me to do active fun things and I'll lose weight 🤣 if not, I won't... must be fed and watered. 😆
Female (36) Grand Junction, Colorado
420, LGBTQ+ friendly abdl little looking for flirty friends and connections. Let's chat about movies, music, snacks, and the things we enjoy. Not paying for this app. If you like/crush/etc, drop a line and say hi! _**I do not respond to questions/messages about messing. I am not your kink dispenser. Stop asking. It's rude and unwelcomed.**_
Female (32) Denver, Colorado
I’m a sweet 33 year old woman looking for the dominant to fulfill the need to relinquish control. I had a hysterectomy so if you want kids a natural way I cannot help ??‍♀️. I would be open to other routes
Female (35) Denver, Colorado
I’ve been in the lifestyle for more than ten years. Before I began exploring, I was almost always the dominant partner in my relationships. Now, I am thoroughly enjoying my submissive side. I was surprised to discover that there is nothing quite like the pleasure felt when you realize that you have pleased your top. I am a Switch but tend to enjoy the sub side a bit more. I am not a masochist. I definitely have a little girl side and enjoy the daddy Dom style. I actually wasn't aware of my little side until about 5 years ago. I thought everyone was like this - sparkles, faeries, unicorns, rainbows, etc. My little/middle is between 12 and 16. This does not include age play. I consider age play to be role playing.
Female (45) Cherry Hills, Colorado
I train horses and coach so always in charge. I love when someone's energy makes me want to be told what to do or put in a position. I hqve been enjoying the shameless freedom of the LS for the last 3 year. Had a partner for awhile that brought me in, started with couple swaps. I love going to the Denver parties and just seeing what my wants and turn ons are. When at home my favorite partners are the ones where just great fucking is always had. I'm open to a lot and very playful and energetic. Very into all outdoor activities and devouring the day as often as possible.
Female (41) Fort Collins, Colorado
Just looking to meet new people. My account is new, so mind me. It’s undergoing editing. I’d love to meet awesome people, maybe grab dinner and see how best we can be compatible after holding a conversation
Female (47) Bow Mar, Colorado
I am interested in a LTR. I want to meet local only please. I don't enjoy straight vanilla (boring). I don't enjoying sexting, that bores me as well. So, if you are in the Denver area, would like to learn about you. Sex is easy, building friendship so much harder. I know that age is "just a number", and I agree partially with that. If there is too much age gap, that makes me uncomfortable.
Female (54) Englewood, Colorado
Hey there 😘 I’m your favorite mix of sweet and trouble — young, playful, and just the right amount of bratty. I love teasing, testing limits, and keeping things exciting. I’m here to meet like-minded people who can keep up with my energy and maybe even tame me (good luck with that 😉). I’m all about genuine chemistry, fun conversations, and exploring power dynamics in a safe, respectful way. If you can match my sass and handle my attitude with a smirk, we’ll get along just fine. Your move, Daddy 😈
Female (29) Aurora, Colorado
*AHEM* SIT. Stay. LISTEN. Good ✓ ××x-----------I AM HERE TO NETWORK AS A PROFESSIONAL DOMME ------------------ -------------------NOT TO DATE--------------xxx Do not "hey what's up" me. If you have genuine, specific questions about BDSM/kink you may approach. -----I WILL NOT respond to shallow messages/come-ons!!!------- I am full with my sub slots, and I do not fuck my subs. I hold them accountable for bettering their lives, I do not require body worship from subs. You may request to be on the waiting list. I have far too many options for lovers to even have a wait list. I am here to network my services as a Professional Domme, learn about the needs of the communities, and be a mentor to those with genuine questions. I am a licensed massage therapist as well, and most of my clients come to me for Bondassage and/or Nuru. Please note that I am not "full service". Do not ask. If you're just getting into this, I'm your Lady. Communication is everything with me, and I've successfully introduced well over 30 people to the the***utic aspects of BDSM. I won't push or scare you unless requested, and even then I'm very careful with the trust people instil in me. I also do very extreme sessions. Don't be shy. I offer a full range of sensory, impact, and psychological experiences. Everything but the big four (kids/***s/raceplay/***) is on the table. I have been in the business for 15 years (I also live it) and am available for in-person sessions at my dungeon studio in Denver, or out-call at approved locations. I also am available to set up at events for tastings as well as travel with considerations. I have a wide variety of virtual services available as well such as personalized JOIs and tease/edging videos. Send me a DM and I'll direct you to my booking website. Happy Slaps everyone--tell your folks! more pictures on my FetLife http://FetLife.com/Lady_Ravish *****************
Female (38) Denver, Colorado
What can I say? I fucking love fucking! :) I'm basically a dude "trapped" in a female body. (I say "trapped" because who doesn't love playing with fun bags?!?) My sex drive is off the charts - always just one inuendo or touch to get me insta-wet. I've experimented - a lot. & I will continue to do so because, isn't that really the whole point? Go ahead & ask! - I don't bite. Unless you want me to ;)
Female (35) Colorado Springs, Colorado
Its been years since ive been apart of the community so im getting back out there and rediscovring myself. I know i love ropes and bondage. Im kind of a brat. But i do love to please. I like to change things up and am always open and willing to try new things. Im a single mom sorry if i dont respond right away. Also extremely shy untill i get to know you so take it easy on me please. 😊
Female (28) Clifton, Colorado
TRANSPARENCY a must on both ends. 💯 check my daddy's page TouchUlikeaGangster for more info. hey its Ripley, this year is all about new experiences, pushing limits, learning and exploring my sexuality. with that said, my daddy is helping me and challenging me to get out of my comfort zone, by doing so he gave me the task of finding other couples or ladies to play with, I have never been with a girl but always curious just never brave enough to try, with daddy I have the confidence and security to take the leap and try, so if you wanna help a girl please her daddy and fulfill a fantasy, send me a dm. I live to serve and please my daddy, anything he wants he gets. I am owned, I am happy and my daddy is the only daddy/master I need or want so please don't waste my time asking if I need a Dom or whatever else.
Female (31) Loveland, Colorado
I reached down into the depths of me and found an emptiness longing to be filled. To find freedom in control, pleasure in ***, understanding in a world that doesn't want to understand. I am a Goddess begging to be worshiped on her knees, weary of carrying the weight of not being truly seen. So here I am, baring myself for the first time as I embrace what it is that's been clawing desperately at me to be set free... my true self. In the 'real' world, you'd probably assume to know everything about me, but you'd more than likely be wrong. A tatted and pierced hopeless romantic, who will tear up a mosh pit and then put on some Enya. Author of romantasy and dark romance novels who moonlights as an administrative assistant for an up and coming tech company, who considers aftercare curling up to watch Lord of the Rings with the marks still fresh and makeup smeared. I've given too much to people who never cared in return, loved and lost and loved some more. And now I'm here, searching, knowing this part of me exists, but has yet to be truly acknowledged. I don't know what it is I'm looking for yet, but I do know I long to explore, to learn, and perhaps find the pieces of me that were locked away for so long. A full time single parent with a busy life, my spare time is limited. If you're looking for someone who can give you more than what I can offer, when I can offer it, I can't offer you anything at all. But if you understand the demands of life outside of this world, then perhaps your demands are the piece I've been missing.
Female (37) Salida, Colorado
Divorced Mama (since 2024). Georgia Peach in CO since 1995. Hairstylist. looking for someone who emulates the golden retriever vibe (think Spencer Reid in Criminal Minds)
Female (34) Boulder, Colorado
I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, kindness, and laughter. I believe in building a relationship based on trust, respect, and support for each other’s dreams. I’m seeking a partner who’s not afraid of real conversations, enjoys both simple moments and adventures, and is ready for something meaningful and lasting. At this stage of life, I’m not looking for games but for someone who’s sincere, caring, and ready to grow together
Female (42) Aurora, Colorado
looking for a daddy someone understand about trama I recently lost my boyfriend he passed I hope find someone as understanding and patient and kind as him or better but doubt it my trama hard deal with I'm into bdsm with safe word I'm a brat I test patience lol sorry...
Female (34) Denver, Colorado
I have no bad habits. I like to work a lot and spend time with my daughter.I'm a good cook, pastry chef, I like to dance and sing, cecharr65 at aol text me let`s talk
Female (39) Centennial, Colorado
I am a woman with a good character and heart. I have tenderness and strength, I know how to care and inspire, love sincerely and deeply. I do not play with feelings, I live by them. It is important for me to be there not just for show, but for real life: with support, warmth, comfort and reciprocity. I value honesty, loyalty and respect.
Female (40) Denver, Colorado
Sweet but a little wild Simple woman looking for a loyal, caring 91’3 who can keep up with my energy
Female (61) Denver, Colorado

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Hi there! 👋 I think I probably have a tendency toward the submissive side but beyond that I'm mostly just exploring for now. Happy to chat but probably not looking for anything too serious at this stage.
Female (22) Denver, Colorado
Colorado mountain native. My days are spent getting my hands dirty-I run an indoor plant design business, and I am a foraging guide. I am very thoughtful, passionate and playful. Genuine connection with good banter is important to me. I prefer meaningful, consistent relationships.
Female (36) Denver, Colorado
I reached down into the depths of me and found an emptiness longing to be filled. To find freedom in control, pleasure in ***, understanding in a world that doesn't want to understand. I am a Goddess begging to be worshiped on her knees, weary of carrying the weight of not being truly seen. So here I am, baring myself for the first time as I embrace what it is that's been clawing desperately at me to be set free... my true self. In the 'real' world, you'd probably assume to know everything about me, but you'd more than likely be wrong. A tatted and pierced hopeless romantic, who will tear up a mosh pit and then put on some Enya. Author of romantasy and dark romance novels who moonlights as an administrative assistant for an up and coming tech company, who considers aftercare curling up to watch Lord of the Rings with the marks still fresh and makeup smeared. I've given too much to people who never cared in return, loved and lost and loved some more. And now I'm here, searching, knowing this part of me exists, but has yet to be truly acknowledged. I don't know what it is I'm looking for yet, but I do know I long to explore, to learn, and perhaps find the pieces of me that were locked away for so long. A full time single parent with a busy life, my spare time is limited. If you're looking for someone who can give you more than what I can offer, when I can offer it, I can't offer you anything at all. But if you understand the demands of life outside of this world, then perhaps your demands are the piece I've been missing.
Female (37) Salida, Colorado
Dominant Woman Seeking a Genuine Submissive. Let's Keep It Real. I'm not here for fantasy roleplay, performative submission, or empty words. I don’t need theatrics—I need truth, presence, and purpose. I seek a loyal submissive man who knows there is strength in surrender, and value in structure. You crave rules not for punishment’s sake, but because they bring clarity, meaning, and connection. You understand that true submission is not weakness—it's a conscious gift, offered with devotion and trust. With Me, your submission will be private, respectful, and profoundly personal. I am not interested in degrading you for show. What I offer is far more rare: a space where your obedience is honored, your service is shaped, and your growth is nurtured under firm, consistent guidance. I’m attentive, intuitive, and unshakably in control. I give direction because I care. I expect obedience because I know your potential. And I will invest in you if you show Me you're worthy of being Mine.
Female (42) Denver, Colorado
I have no bad habits. I like to work a lot and spend time with my daughter.I'm a good cook, pastry chef, I like to dance and sing, cecharr65 at aol text me let`s talk
Female (39) Centennial, Colorado
What can I say? I fucking love fucking! :) I'm basically a dude "trapped" in a female body. (I say "trapped" because who doesn't love playing with fun bags?!?) My sex drive is off the charts - always just one inuendo or touch to get me insta-wet. I've experimented - a lot. & I will continue to do so because, isn't that really the whole point? Go ahead & ask! - I don't bite. Unless you want me to ;)
Female (35) Colorado Springs, Colorado
Its been years since ive been apart of the community so im getting back out there and rediscovring myself. I know i love ropes and bondage. Im kind of a brat. But i do love to please. I like to change things up and am always open and willing to try new things. Im a single mom sorry if i dont respond right away. Also extremely shy untill i get to know you so take it easy on me please. 😊
Female (28) Clifton, Colorado
I’m looking for a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, kindness, and laughter. I believe in building a relationship based on trust, respect, and support for each other’s dreams. I’m seeking a partner who’s not afraid of real conversations, enjoys both simple moments and adventures, and is ready for something meaningful and lasting. At this stage of life, I’m not looking for games but for someone who’s sincere, caring, and ready to grow together
Female (42) Aurora, Colorado
Sweet but a little wild Simple woman looking for a loyal, caring 91’3 who can keep up with my energy
Female (61) Denver, Colorado
Hey there 😘 I’m your favorite mix of sweet and trouble — young, playful, and just the right amount of bratty. I love teasing, testing limits, and keeping things exciting. I’m here to meet like-minded people who can keep up with my energy and maybe even tame me (good luck with that 😉). I’m all about genuine chemistry, fun conversations, and exploring power dynamics in a safe, respectful way. If you can match my sass and handle my attitude with a smirk, we’ll get along just fine. Your move, Daddy 😈
Female (29) Aurora, Colorado
I love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into *** (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God.
Female (40) Denver, Colorado
*AHEM* SIT. Stay. LISTEN. Good ✓ ××x-----------I AM HERE TO NETWORK AS A PROFESSIONAL DOMME ------------------ -------------------NOT TO DATE--------------xxx Do not "hey what's up" me. If you have genuine, specific questions about BDSM/kink you may approach. -----I WILL NOT respond to shallow messages/come-ons!!!------- I am full with my sub slots, and I do not fuck my subs. I hold them accountable for bettering their lives, I do not require body worship from subs. You may request to be on the waiting list. I have far too many options for lovers to even have a wait list. I am here to network my services as a Professional Domme, learn about the needs of the communities, and be a mentor to those with genuine questions. I am a licensed massage therapist as well, and most of my clients come to me for Bondassage and/or Nuru. Please note that I am not "full service". Do not ask. If you're just getting into this, I'm your Lady. Communication is everything with me, and I've successfully introduced well over 30 people to the the***utic aspects of BDSM. I won't push or scare you unless requested, and even then I'm very careful with the trust people instil in me. I also do very extreme sessions. Don't be shy. I offer a full range of sensory, impact, and psychological experiences. Everything but the big four (kids/***s/raceplay/***) is on the table. I have been in the business for 15 years (I also live it) and am available for in-person sessions at my dungeon studio in Denver, or out-call at approved locations. I also am available to set up at events for tastings as well as travel with considerations. I have a wide variety of virtual services available as well such as personalized JOIs and tease/edging videos. Send me a DM and I'll direct you to my booking website. Happy Slaps everyone--tell your folks! more pictures on my FetLife http://FetLife.com/Lady_Ravish *****************
Female (38) Denver, Colorado
Seeking a nurturing Daddy, Mommy, or both to fulfill my needs and desires. I'm a little and typically embrace the 0-2 age range, preferring to stay on the younger side of the spectrum. While I keep my face private to protect my identity, rest assured, you won't be disappointed, though. I'm looking for someone who enjoys complete caregiving and is ready to embrace all aspects of my little side. If you're passionate about providing unwavering support, love, and structure, I'd love to connect and explore our potential dynamic. Let's embark on a journey of shared tenderness, playfulness, and devotion. I am new to kinky dating online, so please be nice and let me know if you have any tips!
Female (20) Colorado Springs, Colorado
You think you’re in control? How cute. I’m a good girl with a lot of bad ideas. I identify as a brat and my BDSM involves a significant amount of emotional and physical power exchange with my partner through various kinks: bondage, discipline, sensation play, orgasm control, impact play and willing to explore more into the BDSM world. I am in a ENM relationship. I am seeking alike minded friends. I truly want a friendship with all my partners, but I do not have the capacity to take on another relationship. If you’re seeking friendship and some fun, I’m your girl. If you think we’re a good fit, come bearing the word cherries in your message… no cherries, no reply, no regrets.
Female (34) Arvada, Colorado
looking for a daddy someone understand about trama I recently lost my boyfriend he passed I hope find someone as understanding and patient and kind as him or better but doubt it my trama hard deal with I'm into bdsm with safe word I'm a brat I test patience lol sorry...
Female (34) Denver, Colorado
TRANSPARENCY a must on both ends. 💯 check my daddy's page TouchUlikeaGangster for more info. hey its Ripley, this year is all about new experiences, pushing limits, learning and exploring my sexuality. with that said, my daddy is helping me and challenging me to get out of my comfort zone, by doing so he gave me the task of finding other couples or ladies to play with, I have never been with a girl but always curious just never brave enough to try, with daddy I have the confidence and security to take the leap and try, so if you wanna help a girl please her daddy and fulfill a fantasy, send me a dm. I live to serve and please my daddy, anything he wants he gets. I am owned, I am happy and my daddy is the only daddy/master I need or want so please don't waste my time asking if I need a Dom or whatever else.
Female (31) Loveland, Colorado
I am a woman with a good character and heart. I have tenderness and strength, I know how to care and inspire, love sincerely and deeply. I do not play with feelings, I live by them. It is important for me to be there not just for show, but for real life: with support, warmth, comfort and reciprocity. I value honesty, loyalty and respect.
Female (40) Denver, Colorado
420, LGBTQ+ friendly abdl little looking for flirty friends and connections. Let's chat about movies, music, snacks, and the things we enjoy. Not paying for this app. If you like/crush/etc, drop a line and say hi! _**I do not respond to questions/messages about messing. I am not your kink dispenser. Stop asking. It's rude and unwelcomed.**_
Female (32) Denver, Colorado
Quick Update: Because of the volume of messages that I receive, I'm going to have to _only_ respond to those who have read my profile. It's not to be rude, just pragmatic for both of us to find what we desire. :) 1. I am only interested in cultivating relationships with those who are within 50km of Denver. 2. I am not interested in sexting or receiving unsolicited images. If you open with lewd words or a simple 'hi,' I must simply pass as it will be clear that we are seeking entirely different paths. 3. I'm very careful with whom I meet here on FET, so if you're in a hurry... I am certainly not for you. (I am owned, but occasionally loaned, so I need to ask permission for all that I do. I am in a loving relationship of thirty years, so I'm certainly not here to find Mr. Right.) 4. If you can work the word 'gravity' into your first note to me, I'll certainly respond and it will show me that you've taken time to invest in me. Show me the truth of Dominance, and I will be far more likely to reinvest. :) 5. The fantasy that draws me again and again is to have a silent man, woman, or couple enter my hotel room - use me as they desire while we are filmed by my production assistant (a trusted employee of over a decade) - and then subsequently to return here online and watch the film together. For those very few of you who took the time to read everything, thank you... I sincerely appreciate you more than you might know - you are the glue that keeps communities like this one together. :)
Female (50) Denver, Colorado
New to all this. I'm curious, more on the submissive side and prefer and like and age gap. Looking for FWB or a mentor situation, idk, open to suggestions 🤗
Female (30) Colorado Springs, Colorado
Just looking to meet new people. My account is new, so mind me. It’s undergoing editing. I’d love to meet awesome people, maybe grab dinner and see how best we can be compatible after holding a conversation
Female (47) Bow Mar, Colorado
Divorced Mama (since 2024). Georgia Peach in CO since 1995. Hairstylist. looking for someone who emulates the golden retriever vibe (think Spencer Reid in Criminal Minds)
Female (34) Boulder, Colorado
I need someone to take me in hand and make me do my homework I wanna break somebody's rules but also make me feel safe I'm not into being afraid hahaha
Female (21) Fort Collins, Colorado
I am interested in a LTR. I want to meet local only please. I don't enjoy straight vanilla (boring). I don't enjoying sexting, that bores me as well. So, if you are in the Denver area, would like to learn about you. Sex is easy, building friendship so much harder. I know that age is "just a number", and I agree partially with that. If there is too much age gap, that makes me uncomfortable.
Female (54) Englewood, Colorado

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