Just trying to find someone who shares my values. Who enjoys kinky sex. Who takes the Dom/Daddy/Sir role seriously. Someone really real. maybe a dynamic, maybe more…
I like cannabis. I have adhd/neurodivergent, I probably talk too much lol… that has to be ok with you. I have adhd. I’m widowed, I’m pretty fucking cool if you take the time to know me.
I love the ethics of BDSM.
I love taking a relationship past the normal constraints with open vulnerabilities.
I am an alpha sub I guess… I love hard. I give my all, I bring passion and fierce pride to the bedroom dynamic. I’m not perfect. I won’t pretend to be. I will give my all and never stop trying.
I value honesty, communication. I have a gift of being an amazing reactionary show for those looking to envoke just that.
it’s not about pain. it’s about trust, honestly, and connection.
just be real. be honest. be yourself. be 100% the kinky lil slut you are….. give me a reason to be your everything. take my mind to a safe space we both can share and have fun in.
I like dominance. I don’t want to be in control. I can clear my mind in sex if I trust you to the point it’s yours. I don’t even want to answer questions during play, I want to put my mind so into us and the moment I’m not capable.
I love so many things…
I live by reciprocated respect.
I’m pretty fucking simple. kinky.. still simple. lol.
I won’t pretend to be or want anything I’m not. I will be open, honest and real.
narcissist…? manipulator? don’t bother.
pretending you want more or less than you state? pretending to be something your not? just looking to take advantage of someone? don’t understand safety, trust, vulnerability, control, consent, choice or respect?
if you don’t recognize what is truly needed to elevate a dynamic or experience… don’t waste your time.
It’s about creating joy…. not deception.
if this doesn’t make sense to you ya might need to check your self…
Want to be whatever you choose, openly, honestly… no problem ?. communicate your needs, desires, fantasies…ego isn’t a bad thing. power, and control are very different.
I love sexy photography, being owned in a way that is respectful, exploring, being a slut (safely), non stop orgasms. I am your prey, cock sucking, rough sex, rope n role play, having fun, laughing, did I say multiple orgasms?!? lol… squirting, toys, and so much more… I am a true caregiver. I expect to be taken care of in the same (no I don’t mean sugar daddy allowances/material offerings. Money doesn’t matter to me. If I give my care to you and I will, I can forget to care for myself in full sometimes.) I am a brat, I will give it back to you. I will push your buttons so you push mine. but I’m cute... not quite a little, bratty teen maybe…? but there’s nothing wrong w a stuffy, and some cuddles with mindless cartoons, with sexy cute style lol. I deeply value aftercare(and pre-care, boundaries, and comfort levels..and respect). be my escape from the world. put me where you want me, throw me against the wall… make me forget my fucking name.
I read people, I read bodies.. I want more than vanilla sex. My mind I’m told is a gift, no this isn’t ego…? I’ve had enough experience to know I need to be in the right hands. I can be brutally honest, yet objective, non judgmental, and accepting.
I will learn you, every part I can. iIwill use and exploit this for your pleasure and mine. I love love love exploration mode. I love how two fetish personalities flow together to create its own unique build.
I love being intense. I can separate my emotions. don’t fucking abuse that shit please.
just wanna chat? cool :) I love sharing and talking openly about sex, life, experiences..etc. I’ve had some pretty amazing conversations with people around the world here.
Wanna be a cool person, need a raunchy mouthed friend to smut talk, share experiences and just chill… smoke a joint and find some shooting stars, awesome. wanna rail me on a tractor in a hay field. fucking fantastic ?…yea I’m a lil country!
ENM.
what am I looking for? I’m open to many possibilities. depends on the connection.
I don’t do drama or jealousy. it’s not competition. I’m comfortable with who I am.
I’m experienced in both monogamy, and polyamory/ENM (and I love those ethics too! many crossover BDSM values there to be successful!!! :) ). I will not be your dirty little secret. Be honest. Nobody has time for games. the truth won’t ever get you in trouble. Consent means more than fucking. I wanna know what I’m getting into. free will is not something I will let anybody take from me, nor would I ever disrespect anyone that way.
This isn’t my first profile. I know my way around lol… everything is an evolution. ✨
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