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I enjoy exploring chemistry with people who know how to communicate and keep things respectful. I’m open-minded to new ideas of having fun. I like a bit of naughtiness, but with respect and chemistry.
Female (50) Lenexa, Kansas
I’m a confident, easy-going single lady who loves to enjoy life whether that’s exploring new places, sharing a good laugh, or having deep, meaningful conversations. I’m playful, warm, and open-minded, and I appreciate people who bring positive energy and authenticity.
Female (32) Wichita, Kansas
Playful, curious, and open-minded, I’m here to explore new connections and indulge in the things that excite us. I love engaging in deep conversations and am always up for exploring kink in ways that feel authentic, BDSM, roleplay, or other interests I'm open, or just want to chat and get to know each other, I’m all about building genuine connections. If you’re someone who’s respectful, knows how to keep things exciting, and isn’t afraid to explore the more taboo side of life, I’m looking forward to hearing from you. Let’s see where our chemistry takes us.
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
I’m a versatile switch who truly appreciates the beauty of both sides of the dynamic. For me, it’s not just about control or surrender it’s about the energy, trust, and understanding shared between two people. I believe in creating a connection grounded in mutual respect, honest communication, and the willingness to explore without judgment. I’m drawn to someone open-minded, experienced, and passionate about discovering new layers of pleasure, power, and vulnerability. Together, we can build something real exciting, fulfilling, and deeply connected.
Female (49) Kansas City, Kansas
I'm looking for other girls or couples that are looking to have fun and explore our sexual desires together and age isn't really a problem tbh. (legal obviously)
Female (23) Meriden, Kansas
First off, I'm a BBW, so if you dont like big girls, please keep scrolling. Second, I am married, my hubby is incarcerated & still gas several years left, so im just looking for a FWB.
Female (44) Hutchinson, Kansas
I am fun and very energetic woman, I am very passionate about life and my future partner which I hope to find here. I am easy-going and love to wake up early to have time to cook a delicious breakfast for my beloved people. My friends say that I love very much and always find beauty in everything that surrounds me. I have a great life, but I do not have a man with whom I could share this life. Hope that on this site I can do that. Also for me important that my man has to keep his words and responsible for his acts.
Female (27) Mission Hills, Kansas
I have found my Master, and he is amazing to me. We are still looking for a potential third partner, a female who would be Dom to me but sub to Him. life is crazy, looking for some calm in the storm. I'm a quirky people pleaser, any questions feel free to ask ☺️
Female (36) Overland Park, Kansas
I'm a curious soul with a penchant for exploring the uncharted territories of intimacy. Whether it's the thrill of power dynamics, the allure of *** play, or the excitement of role reversal, I find joy in discovering new facets of connection. Respect, trust, and open communication are my guiding principles. Let's embark on this journey together and see where our curiosities lead us
Female (41) Lenexa, Kansas
Hello! :) Kinker than most and love to experiment! Fully submissive at heart. Really would like to find a good fwb. Ask me anything!
Female (24) Overland Park, Kansas
I'm an open minded lady with sense of humor. I'm a loving person who's deeply family-oriented. Family is incredibly important to me, and I'm looking for someone who shares that value. I enjoy spending time with ***s. I'm also surprisingly handy with technology and enjoy fixing things.
Female (37) Kansas City, Kansas
I am not interested in random hookups. I also require public vetting before agreeing to anything outside of messaging. I like to think of myself as a very sensually sassy specimen with a scrumptious appetite for sexual delight. A voluptuous goddess with curves that desire to be explored. A blank canvas in which to create master pieces. I lust for knowledge and intellectual temptations. I am forever changing and evolving as I continue my kink journey, Learning and pushing my boundaries brings me an inconceivable amount of pleasure. Currently looking for a possible D/s relationship with the right fit. Always open for new scene partners as well. I am vetted at the various local dungeons and enjoy being a part of the community and going to events.
Female (37) Wichita, Kansas
My name is Bellina I'm new to this I'm a single woman looking for a serious relationship.
Female (61) Harlan, Kansas
He'll know when He finds me.
Female (50) Merriam, Kansas
Very open person, down for more easy going and real , i mean my words and i am like a open book, i am looking forward for something nice and new
Female (43) Wichita, Kansas
I am a happily owned little/sub just keeping an eye out for possible get together occasionally if Daddy wants that to happen.
Female (29) Paola, Kansas
Hi! My name is Katy! I'm 25 years old and I'm a mom. I'm currently an employee of a new Car Wash company. I'm proud of it and love my job and I'm very good at my job. I'm a hard-working mom building up a life for me and my daughter. I am slowly but surely exploring my feminine side of bisexuality. I prefer not to speak to anyone beyond a friendship that is younger than me or older than about 50 or 55. That is my own personal preference. My receiving love language is physical touch and intimacy. And this doesn't just mean sex. I will not lie I am a cuddle slut. My favorite thing to do is probably to cuddle and watch TV together. Spending time with someone in person also gives me a good idea of their vibes and their wavelengths and how well our vibes will mesh together. It tells me whether or not we are going to be able to get along. That is another reason why someone local if not close to local is important to me. Usually nothing more than about 2 hours away I would say. It's hard to get that kind of feeling online. I've had multiple occasions where I have initially met someone and knew that we would not get along because I did not like their vibes or how their wavelength meshed with mine. And I was right. That has also happened on the opposite side of the spectrum as well. There are people I have clicked with right off the bat. It just depends on the person. My giving love language however is giving gifts. It's the way I show that I care whether it means I buy you dinner that night or I get you your favorite dessert when you come over to hang out or your favorite snack or a really thoughtful gift for the holidays or your birthday. Just know the gift is always thought out and is always going to mean something to you. I like someone who's funny and kind and can respect boundaries. Somebody who will be willing to take the time to get to know me. I am not the easiest to like or even love I have many mental health issues as well as trauma that I am very recently learning to deal with. I am autistic and have ADHD. I suffer from bipolar disorder as well as BPD also known as borderline personality disorder, anxiety and depression, and OCD. I have major abandonment issues as well as attachment issues and of course daddy issues. (why else am I here? 🤣 Jk) And I have issues with body positivity and confidence. I'm currently in the state of my mental health journey where I'm trying to learn to not let my BPD run my life, my choices or my thought process. I've only been able to begin this journey very recently within the last few years since my diagnosis. The most important thing is the person that gets to know me must have patience with me. There can be times where I do and say things that I very much regret shortly thereafter when I realized the issues with the choices I've made. A lot of people in my past have chosen that I was too much to deal with and decided to leave instead of providing me with patience. Only adding to my abandonment issues. I've tried and I have worked very hard to get where I am now. And I have done my damndest to make sure that my trauma and my mental health issues and diagnoses do not make me who I am today. Sometimes I can act like a blonde and I'm not always the brightest. Then there are other times where my brain actually does function properly and I am usually pretty smart about things. I love to bake and I'm learning to cook from my mom. Some of my hobbies include listening to music playing video games, doing puzzles or watching any variation of TV or movie. My music tastes usually kind of vary. I am an eclectic when it comes to music tastes. As for games I prefer puzzle platform games or single player RPGs. Some of my favorite movies are anything from Syfy to fantasy. I also like horror and romance. I tend to kind of stay away from any really gory action movies. For example I cannot stand Rambo, makes me want to vomit. But if I turn around and watch Saw I have no problem Go figure. Have any other questions about what things I like? Like holidays or mythical creatures or books or foods? Because honestly I could go on forever about favorite stuff lol. Feel free to DM me. Most importantly is my role when it comes to this site. 9 times out of 10 I'm usually a little or a brat or both. If I have a strong emotional connection with someone and something flourishes from a connection with someone, my go-to usually is a tie between a brat and a service little. I like to playfully brat but not so much to push buttons too far. Usually, I only brat when the two of us aren't doing anything and I'm bored. Most other times I like to service my man or my dominant. Doing things for him makes me happy but that does go both ways. I'm also a massive pillow princess. Recently, I have found out that I am a hard bottom. And my favorite honorific or nickname is probably kitten, princess, little one, or probably the most basic but still adorable baby girl. It is also important to me that you know where you stand in your own role. As I am learning myself, it is not a good idea to try and move anything further than a friendship with someone who does not have a bit of experience themselves. My kinks are constantly evolving. Recently I just added to the list and updated my list of kinks here on my profile feel free to check those out a little farther down in my profile. Have any other questions I didn't answer? Send me a message request! Make sure though that it doesn't fall under one of the specifications at the beginning of this bio! I do have standards after all. Not very high but they're not extremely low either. And if you've read this far well thank you for taking the time to read and have a great rest of your day! 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Female (25) Topeka, Kansas
I am a woman with a strong sense of responsibility, committed to every aspect of my personal and professional life. I am firmly guided by my principles and values, kindly *** me on psweetie233 on google acct
Female (41) Pretty Praire, Kansas
Here for community and to find friends. My ideal age range is people in their 30s-40s. Also on fet-life and kik (but less so) if you're on there you can look me up (summerdreaming32). Enjoy the idea of finding friends who can be vanilla and kink relatable. Double dates or stay home movie nights would be fun. :) Update August 2025: took a break but I'm back now. looking for snuggles and snacks 😋 As you can reasonably suspect from a woman in her late 30s I have a life full of demands, a career, and I am married with a supportive and knowledgeable partner. Right now I am specifically looking for ONE consistent friend for all the stress relief and play I can get out of our together times. I'm picky about who I choose but when I find the people I like I tend to really fall hard and I want all the attention. If you aren't up for it knowing all of that, kindly keep swiping. If you're 18, 19.... come into my DMs calling me Mommy... I'm probably just going to block you. It's just not my jam.
Female (40) Emporia, Kansas
I believe that positive thinking will lead me to my goal. My goal is true love and a happy family. I am a good, loving, kind and sometimes weak little woman who is looking for care and endless love. I am calm, romantic, kind and sweet, loving and generous with all my heart
Female (48) Kansas City, Kansas
I'm a kind-hearted and cheerful woman who always tries to see the bright side of life. My friends often describe me as someone warm, fun, and sincere and I believe they're right. I have a soft spot for spending time outdoors. Whether it's a picnic, a forest walk, or just breathing in fresh air, nature helps me recharge and feel grounded. My everyday life might seem simple mostly work and home but I fill it with smiles, energy, and meaning. I value emotional warmth and try to bring light into the lives of people around me.
Female (72) Wichita, Kansas
Hello, Im intrested in a DDLG relationship (undetermined age yet) iv been told some were around 6 to 10. I'm new to the BDSM lifestyle and i would like to learn and have someone teach me and if i make mistakesto talk to me so i understand. I am looking for somthing serious i want those connections. I'm big on being straight forward. I'm blunt. I have been with couples before but am way new to all of that, and would need understanding and attentive. I'm still new a learning. I am looking for someone or someones who will talk to me before, be rough during, and take care of me after. i love to please and push my limits. I want my daddy to be understand but stren. submission to me is earned just like I will treasure my partner i need my partner to take my summision as a gift. Before I submit, I will need to meet in person first then on are second meeting we can play if we both agree. I will not agree to submit until then. Condoms are a must! i want someone who is closer by so we can have weekends together, not just an online thing.please, if u have an addiction or do any other *** besides 420, do not message me. I don't smoke weed myself, but I don't care if u do. any other *** is a no for me
Female (32) Topeka, Kansas
Always looking for a new experience. I'm a brat and a pleasure sub with a mild little side. Willing to try most things at least once. I like to push boundaries given as well as my own boundaries. Not completely new but still learning.
Female (31) Lawrence, Kansas
My name is Fedelia, I am a caring woman, fun, energetic, friendly, understanding and loyal. I would like to start a family of my own.
Female (49) Kansas City, Kansas

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I’m a confident, easy-going single lady who loves to enjoy life whether that’s exploring new places, sharing a good laugh, or having deep, meaningful conversations. I’m playful, warm, and open-minded, and I appreciate people who bring positive energy and authenticity.
Female (32) Wichita, Kansas
I enjoy exploring chemistry with people who know how to communicate and keep things respectful. I’m open-minded to new ideas of having fun. I like a bit of naughtiness, but with respect and chemistry.
Female (50) Lenexa, Kansas
Very open person, down for more easy going and real , i mean my words and i am like a open book, i am looking forward for something nice and new
Female (43) Wichita, Kansas
Playful, curious, and open-minded, I’m here to explore new connections and indulge in the things that excite us. I love engaging in deep conversations and am always up for exploring kink in ways that feel authentic, BDSM, roleplay, or other interests I'm open, or just want to chat and get to know each other, I’m all about building genuine connections. If you’re someone who’s respectful, knows how to keep things exciting, and isn’t afraid to explore the more taboo side of life, I’m looking forward to hearing from you. Let’s see where our chemistry takes us.
Female (38) Wichita, Kansas
Kink for me isn’t just sensation—it’s storytelling. Each scene should say something: about who we are, what we need, and how we connect. If you can give me depth with your dominance, I’ll give you submission that leaves marks on your soul.
Female (20) Wichita, Kansas
First off, I'm a BBW, so if you dont like big girls, please keep scrolling. Second, I am married, my hubby is incarcerated & still gas several years left, so im just looking for a FWB.
Female (44) Hutchinson, Kansas
I am a woman with a strong sense of responsibility, committed to every aspect of my personal and professional life. I am firmly guided by my principles and values, kindly *** me on psweetie233 on google acct
Female (41) Pretty Praire, Kansas
I'm a kind-hearted and cheerful woman who always tries to see the bright side of life. My friends often describe me as someone warm, fun, and sincere and I believe they're right. I have a soft spot for spending time outdoors. Whether it's a picnic, a forest walk, or just breathing in fresh air, nature helps me recharge and feel grounded. My everyday life might seem simple mostly work and home but I fill it with smiles, energy, and meaning. I value emotional warmth and try to bring light into the lives of people around me.
Female (72) Wichita, Kansas
Love and affection means a lots to me . As a down to earth lady , I am always excited to express my feelings in a very lovely manner . Down to earth , submissive and caring .
Female (37) Chanute, Kansas
I believe that positive thinking will lead me to my goal. My goal is true love and a happy family. I am a good, loving, kind and sometimes weak little woman who is looking for care and endless love. I am calm, romantic, kind and sweet, loving and generous with all my heart
Female (48) Kansas City, Kansas
A long term relationship with a Dom and I am brand new to this I have mental health issues and want something constant
Female (21) Olathe, Kansas
looking for the love of my in order to be loved again, life is too short just want to have more time with my love.
Female (50) Olathe, Kansas
5’1” little lady looking for some fun in a new town
Female (33) Wichita, Kansas
Oh, of course, it's true! What gentleman wouldn't be drawn to a warm, elegant woman with a heart full of love and a sparkle of mischief in her eyes? They say easy-going and kind ladies with nice looks have a certain magic an irresistible charm that whispers, "Come closer, and you'll find a world of joy." So here I am, a mature woman who knows the art of creating comfort and happiness wherever I go. My life is a symphony of love for my ***, passion for my students, and the occasional solo dance of dreams when I'm alone. And in those moments, oh, how I dream! Of strong hands that hold me, laughter over shared secrets, and someone who sees not just the woman I am but the girl I still carry inside.
Female (40) Kansas City, Kansas
I'm a vibrant, captivating woman who thrives on embracing life's endless possibilities. My beauty radiates from within, complementing my sharp intellect. Exploring the world is my passion, from hidden gems in my own city to far-flung destinations, I crave adventure. I have an insatiable curiosity, always seeking knowledge and growth. Whether it's discussing philosophy, delving into art, or immersing myself in a good book, my mind is a treasure trove of ideas waiting to be explored.
Female (28) Kansas City, Kansas
My name is Bellina I'm new to this I'm a single woman looking for a serious relationship.
Female (61) Harlan, Kansas
My Clarrisa, I am 34-year-old with an aura of seductive mystery. My presence is electrifying, like a spark waiting to ignite desire. With curves that command attention and eyes that dare you to look away, I am a vision of tantalizing beauty.
Female (34) Kechi, Kansas
My name is Fedelia, I am a caring woman, fun, energetic, friendly, understanding and loyal. I would like to start a family of my own.
Female (49) Kansas City, Kansas
Hi there! I’m a passionate woman who believes in meaningful connections and genuine conversations. I value honesty, kindness, and a touch of wit—qualities that make every moment special. If you think we might share some of these sparks, I’d love to hear from you—just follow the rhythm of my favorite number: six, one, eight, seven, three, seven, four, seven, eight, six. (Hint: it’s right where you need to look) Let’s see where this journey takes us!
Female (50) Topeka, Kansas
I'm an open minded lady with sense of humor. I'm a loving person who's deeply family-oriented. Family is incredibly important to me, and I'm looking for someone who shares that value. I enjoy spending time with ***s. I'm also surprisingly handy with technology and enjoy fixing things.
Female (37) Kansas City, Kansas
I am a fun, out-going, intelligent, open-minded woman who enjoys dancing and having a good time. Some of my hobbies are: photography, dancing, movies, occasional shopping and spending time with my friends and family but lost them and i am left all alone. No drama here and not looking for it. I want someone who can just be themselves and that is enough.
Female (56) Overland Park, Kansas
I am fun and very energetic woman, I am very passionate about life and my future partner which I hope to find here. I am easy-going and love to wake up early to have time to cook a delicious breakfast for my beloved people. My friends say that I love very much and always find beauty in everything that surrounds me. I have a great life, but I do not have a man with whom I could share this life. Hope that on this site I can do that. Also for me important that my man has to keep his words and responsible for his acts.
Female (27) Mission Hills, Kansas
I am determined and charming person who enjoys laughter and deep talks. I like sincerity and I value loyalty very much. I enjoy creating a welcoming environment for those around me. I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I believe in connections that are built on mutual respect and understanding. empathetic, loving, kind and respectful, being gentle and very polite. I dream of meeting the man next to whom the sunsets on the ocean will fade , and my heart will be ready to sing the most beautiful ballads about love with him.
Female (47) Overland Park, Kansas
I can describe myself as a hardworking honest and loyal girl. With an open mind and heart. I like to be honest and mutual. I prefer to be open with everyone. But I am good at reading people and if I see that a person is bullshitting me, I just turn around and leave. I'm very careful and attentive
Female (46) Overland Park, Kansas

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