Find kinky men in USA

I am an older man with all parts working. As a submissive, with no bdsm experience, will be open to learning bdsm from a experienced male. Interests include, but not limited to flogging, cbt, nipple work, anal work (fisting) branding.
Male (72) Goshen, Indiana
I'm looking for a hook up with a top dominant bondage partner or partners. I love to be bound and gagged and the excitement by new guys that I've just met. I'm also a bottom with guys who aren't into bondage but I like it rough.
Male (60) Casper, Wyoming
just got the app so can’t message first but can return messages.Country boy raised on a Georgia farm. And I like to play rough,shop, blow stuff up, and play with heavy equipment. Come on to farm, get faded. try anything at least 3 times if you’re game.
Male (46) Dublin, Georgia
I am a feminine gay male with a nice set of man tits. Love getting them sucked on for long periods of time. Also am really good at sucking cock. Hit me up and if you want some company and fun.
Male (24) Houston, Texas
Any tramplers/stompers? Kinky country boy looking for a play partner possible relationship. Can you crack a couple of eggs. hmu, dont be shy, ask.
Male (46) Hawkinsville, Georgia
I train, own, and reshape whitebois, cucks, and snowbunnies into their proper place beneath superior Black cock. Seeking: Obedient white subs ready for real domination. Expect chastity locking, *** rituals, cuck training, sph, ***d bi tasks, breeding fantasies, and total surrender to BBC rule. Sessions: Online control, real-time meets or virtual ownership. All play strictly SSC limits discussed upfront, safewords mandatory, consent is non-negotiable. Approach protocol: Message with respect. Read my full profile. Verify yourself first if serious. No time-wasters or disrespect blocked instantly. Ready to kneel before the new order? Prove you're worthy. πŸ–€β™ οΈ
I am a gay man which means I only like MEN sexually! I have NEVER been with a woman sexually and that WILL NOT CHANGE!! I don't know why most of my spanks come from women. Maybe they can't read English! Also I can't see spanks so if you send me one I can't see who you are. Also I have a HUGE leather fetish! Okay let me make this as clear as I can. I am GAY. I have never had sex with a woman and have no intention to do so. I guess most people on here don't speak English as I mentioned above I am gay yet I constantly get spankings on here from women. Never gonna hook up with a woman! Can't say that any clearer,
Male (59) Freeport, New York
Message me for feet I’m a slave and I want you to tickle, lick,suck, beat, whip, fuck, anything you want to my feet while I’m tied up and gagged
I am here looking for my slave, a loyal, respectful, and romantic slave/bottom is what I am looking for. one who we can explore the world together, and get the best out of life, if you are not serious, or not here for something real or love, don't bother
Male (57) Ashburn, Virginia
Please send me a message rather than any other way to respond because I do not have a paid membership. I won't see anything else you send me. I will always respond to a message as I will always see this with a basic memversip. Looking for dominant tops to versatile to explore the wonderful world of bondage. Someone who can accept my fetishes, embrace them and incorporate them into play. I love gear that is made from these materials. Latex/rubber, vinyl, pvc, nylon, plastic. Gear includes wetsuits, drysuits, hazmat suita, military chemical suits, rain gesr, sauna suits, nylon track suits. Love bondage when I can I corporate this gear.
I am a vibrant man with a zest for life! I am energetic, always on the go. I am sociable and kind, always ready to offer a warm smile and listen attentively. I am cheerful and well balanced. Despite of my active and energetic nature I value honesty and sincerity in my relations with people.
gay guy and best girl friend here, like to share dicks. she likes younger I don’t discriminate hit us up. idk why it won’t let me fix the age on this but she’s 40 and I’m 36. but youthful pussies I promise Lolol. we’ve been sucking dick together since middle school so I promise we r fun.
Male (22) Blacklick, Ohio
Mild to wild guy here, been awhile since I could let my freak flag fly, new to this site. Very open very kinky. Truest turn ion is ***, nothing makes me harder than that, I get rock hard boners at work when ***s drop their tribute to me
Im 6 foot 7 and wear a chastity cage full time, looking for the right guy to hold the keys
Male (22) Columbia City, Indiana
Hello!! Name is Rowan, I’m a gimp puppy (not much of a gear pup still, but it’s a WIP)! I’ve been in the kink space for a while now, and have been looking for friends/handlers/owners/etc. Just tryna find the right person for a pup like me PS if ur interested in talking send me a message, im not gonna see anything outside of messages
Male (21) Franklin, Tennessee
PNP versatile Bottom for Ffriends and Ffun I want to get tied up so my hole can get used, stretched and fisted. work it to take double fist == My BDSM Test made on FET App == 55% Submissive 43% Dominant == My Roles == 55% Rope Bunny 43% Hunter 40% Pet Owner 38% Master/Mistress 38% Slave 38% Caregiver 38% Little 25% Masochist 25% Brat Tamer 25% Brat 23% Rigger 23% Prey 13% Sadist 13% Pet 0% Degrader 0% Degradee https://www.fet-app.com/in_app/quiz_result/en/GJV49ZdK
Male (48) New Orleans, Louisiana
I’m a short, 24 year old male, with a lean body. I’m looking for taller or more muscular men, age isn’t really a huge thing for me, but I do ask that you’re under 50. Looking for more dominant men.
Male (24) Fenton, Michigan
Super hungry power bottom looking for hung tops **Desires and Fantasies** Would love to bottom for groups and party's and take all the hard cocks that want to use my boi pussy
Male (47) Columbus, Indiana
Submissive, service-oriented, and a bit of a blushing pup. I respond to real dominance. Calm, confident, un***d. If you have to say it, it’s probably not it. If you don’t, I’ll feel it, and I tend to fall into place pretty quickly. Playful and a bit mischievous. I like tension, teasing, and being kept on my toes. I’ll absolutely flirt my way through kinky D&D or strip Magic, but I also know when to settle, focus, and be a very good boy. I enjoy being useful. Domestic service, attentiveness, picking up on what’s needed without being told twice. There’s something grounding about knowing where I stand with someone who can actually hold that space. Not here for empty play or people trying on dominance like a costume. I want something that can build. A real dynamic with consistency, trust, and direction. Something that could grow into something deeper and more structured over time. If you know how to take the lead, keep a steady hand, and appreciate a pup who learns fast and stays close, we’ll get along just fine.
Male (43) Telford, Pennsylvania
I'm an easy going gay guy, pretty slim-ish, kinda submissive as well. Sexually, my interests are quite limited but in terms of stuff I'll participate in, that's a bit more wide. I'm a top, but I'll bottom for the right guy. But my primary sexual interest is farting. I LOVE guys farting in my faces, I wish it'd happen more often. Some day I dream a straight guy would do it to me (I'd DEFINITELY pay for it)
Male (27) Rochester, Washington
i’m fat, black, and farts get me horny. especially from other black guys. i want another man to fart on my face, lap, dick, anywhere and vice versa. i’m not looking for sex but someone who’s not afraid of letting a big fart out and we can bust together to the sounds and smells.
Male (27) Hampton, Virginia
looking for mainly str8 guys and gay/bi guys but must be Masculine who are not afraid to be violent and brutal when it comes to doing a VERY REALISTIC *** session!!!!! anddddd there could be a financial reward if you make it violent and realistic. hit me up let’s chat
Male (32) Enka, North Carolina
into Men only Be clean literally and medically speaking. i like all shape and sizes of men especially older men. I am chubby with long hair and boobs who lean a bit more to fem im kinda clueless alot so i dont understand signals, be direct with me I love when someone *** me to touch their junk in public or groping me. make me your slut get me drunk , stoned, even sober and have your way with me or we can do it the other way around (HMU first) into C,.N..,.C play, Dacryphilia, somnophilia, feet, pits, nipples and rimming. love to eat someone out and worship and suck their cock, nipples, smell and lick their feet and pits. Love Hairy body especially bushes. Love Being a slave for smelling and licking sweaty musky body part from hard day at work or after gym. the smell and taste of a man is what i live for. Latinos + Dads + Hairy + heavy loads + Quick cummers + I sadly don't have a car and can't host
older slender bottom like bbc mild wild go fast pty
Male (62) Eagle, Nebraska

New members in USA

I am an older man with all parts working. As a submissive, with no bdsm experience, will be open to learning bdsm from a experienced male. Interests include, but not limited to flogging, cbt, nipple work, anal work (fisting) branding.
Male (72) Goshen, Indiana
I'm looking for a hook up with a top dominant bondage partner or partners. I love to be bound and gagged and the excitement by new guys that I've just met. I'm also a bottom with guys who aren't into bondage but I like it rough.
Male (60) Casper, Wyoming
Message me for feet I’m a slave and I want you to tickle, lick,suck, beat, whip, fuck, anything you want to my feet while I’m tied up and gagged
new to all this willing to try everything as long we don't leave marks where someone can see them lol haven't had much experience but willing to try.
Male (30) Garden Ridge, Texas
I am here looking for my slave, a loyal, respectful, and romantic slave/bottom is what I am looking for. one who we can explore the world together, and get the best out of life, if you are not serious, or not here for something real or love, don't bother
Male (57) Ashburn, Virginia
I am a vibrant man with a zest for life! I am energetic, always on the go. I am sociable and kind, always ready to offer a warm smile and listen attentively. I am cheerful and well balanced. Despite of my active and energetic nature I value honesty and sincerity in my relations with people.
fantasy of seeing whats next. enjoy fucking around and finding out
Male (56) Deltona, Florida
I am a feminine gay male with a nice set of man tits. Love getting them sucked on for long periods of time. Also am really good at sucking cock. Hit me up and if you want some company and fun.
Male (24) Houston, Texas
I’m the kind of man who walks into a room and immediately clocks the exits, the energy, and who’s pretending not to stare. I don’t announce myself; I just settle in like I’ve been there the whole time. People tell me I have a β€œquiet presence,” which is usually code for β€œI can’t tell if you’re shy or reading my soul.” The answer is yes. I’m a grounded, observant, bottomleaning. In a service oriented dynamic with i_cum_fast (https://fetlife.com/i_cum_fast), and I submit the way some people pray, deliberately, with attention, and only when it feels right. Outwardly, I follow well. Inwardly, I’m running a full diagnostic on the situation, deciding if this is a place where I can let my shoulders drop or if I should keep my shoes on. My humor is subtle, the kind that sneaks up on you. I’ll say something that sounds perfectly normal, and five seconds later you’ll realize it was a joke and wonder how you missed it. Sarcasm and I have an onagain, offagain relationship; I take things literally and then pretend I didn’t. I’m a sensory creature. I notice the temperature of a room, the way someone’s voice shifts when they’re trying to sound confident, the faint smell of their cologne, the moment their posture softens because they finally feel safe. I don’t comment on it. I just file it away like a librarian with a secret. I warm up slowly, not because I’m distant, but because I’m paying attention. Calibration isn’t hesitation; it’s discernment. Once I’m in, I’m steady, present, and quietly sharper than I look. I’ve lived enough life to know what matters. Bodies change, priorities sharpen, and I’m not interested in anyone who treats connection like a performance review. I want honesty, presence, and someone who can meet me where I am instead of where they wish I’d be. If you’re thoughtful, playful, open, and honest , and you appreciate someone who can be soft one moment and quietly formidable the next, we might click. Worst case, we trade a few laughs. Best case, well, that’s the part I’m not narrating. Since there aren't specific enough roles in the Fet dropdown to describe what I might be, here are some ad libs: The Listener in Motion, I'm someone who takes your direction the way people take in music: through the body first. The Responsive Current, I move with the intention you set, not behind it. The Soft Interpreter, I'm someone who reads your tone, your pacing, your subtle cues, and turns them into action. The Embodied Echo, I'm not obedient; Rather, resonant. I reflect your direction through your own texture. The One Who Carries the Rhythm, you set the pulse; I make it real. The Warm Counterpart, I'm receptive, intuitive, grounded, able to take your structure and soften it into expression. The Interpreter of Your Intention, I'm someone who understands the why behind your direction and moves from that place. Gaming Deep into survival games, currently obsessed with Icarus and ARK. If you add me, say hi like a human: Steam: 46830278 MTG Arena: JaceJaneway#28185 FetLife: /Farsideofuranus Facebook: /jilnicki (message first) Health Status (5/26/26) All recent screenings negative and non reactive. Where My Head’s At (4/08/26) I recently did a behavioral health assessment because I’m trying to understand my relational patterns with more clarity, not in a β€œfix me” way, but in a β€œI want to show up better and receive better” way. Here’s the distilled version: I grew up with limited emotional openness, so I reveal myself in layers. I value authenticity, reciprocity, and emotional congruence. I ground myself through sensory awareness, temperature, smell, layout, before connecting. Vulnerability can feel like tension or relief depending on the moment. When I’m steady, I communicate clearly; when I’m uncertain, I may hesitate or self edit. I tend to take on emotional labor and sometimes get misread as distant when I’m calibrating. I’m learning to express needs earlier and allow more reciprocity. My humor is gentle and connective; sarcasm sometimes flies right past me.
Very new to this world. Looking for a pleasure dom, or at least a gentle dom to ease me in. Looking for role play, to be controlled. I am alpha in life, but I want to give over completely and obey.
Male (57) Raleigh, North Carolina
just got the app so can’t message first but can return messages.Country boy raised on a Georgia farm. And I like to play rough,shop, blow stuff up, and play with heavy equipment. Come on to farm, get faded. try anything at least 3 times if you’re game.
Male (46) Dublin, Georgia
I am here looking for my slave, a submitive one, I am not here to play games and I do not want someone who would want to waste my time. only serious minded person is welcome to contact me.
Thanks for checking out my profile! I'm a cleancut, professional type who is learing to explore his more submissive side. My current interests are to be dominated in a variety of ways by another guy. Human urinal? Yes! A place for you to sit? Heck yeah! Need your balls cleaned or your feet worshipped or a place to spit? I'm your guy. I cannot host but can travel a bit and be flexible with times during the week. Let's chat!
I like to think of myself as a blend of a kind soul and an analytical mind, always finding a balance between my professional dedication to helping people and my warm heart. I am a natural people person who values open communication and brings a positive, interesting energy to every conversation.
Male (45) Oakland, California
I'm a top that is into trying anything at least once. if I don't like it then I'd stop. if I do like it then continue down those roads
Male (31) San Mateo, California
im a little man looking for that spice for my life always wanted to have dominant daddy to take control over me and show me his dominant side. but listen, i like diapers and thats my fetish BUT. i dont need to have them 24/7 its just my fetish and its what i like, keep scrolling if ya dont want something like that. im here to have a dominant daddy/man who wants to enjoy having me around, im not your ejaculate and evacuate type sub. I want a forever daddy for hanging out here and there to keep me on my toes to show me the ropes.... literally 😈 im a brat so if ya want me come and get me im into diapers cause the feeling of only wetting one or being told to makes me beg for more. agian its just a kink i like. if your wanting to be controlling im down to clown with your kinky desires. I dont expect any payment im not like that. im here to let you enjoy aswell as me enjoy too, Many people dont like my kink that's fine.. but give me a shot who knows you might change your mind 😁 if you want more information please feel free to DM i dont judge. limits ***,***,bodily juices, p.s I dont show my face but if ya want pics DM me I dont bite.. well mabye πŸ˜™ don't be sacred to text me I won't turn anyone down unless your gross or creepy p.s.s im clean and I dont have any viruses and i dont mind getting tested to prove that trust goes a long way.
Male (26) Bristol, Tennessee
Confident, masculine, and naturally more submissive with the right man. I’m attracted to honest men who know how to lead, communicate clearly, and enjoy a genuine connection alongside chemistry. I appreciate ambition, good taste, loyalty, and a man who carries himself with confidence both in public and in private. I enjoy being attentive, affectionate, and giving my energy to someone who values mutual attraction, discretion, and a little indulgence. Looking for a dominant, loyal man who enjoys taking charge and sharing a lifestyle that’s exciting, comfortable, and fun for both of us.
Male (38) Dallas, Texas
Mild to wild guy here, been awhile since I could let my freak flag fly, new to this site. Very open very kinky. Truest turn ion is ***, nothing makes me harder than that, I get rock hard boners at work when ***s drop their tribute to me
I train, own, and reshape whitebois, cucks, and snowbunnies into their proper place beneath superior Black cock. Seeking: Obedient white subs ready for real domination. Expect chastity locking, *** rituals, cuck training, sph, ***d bi tasks, breeding fantasies, and total surrender to BBC rule. Sessions: Online control, real-time meets or virtual ownership. All play strictly SSC limits discussed upfront, safewords mandatory, consent is non-negotiable. Approach protocol: Message with respect. Read my full profile. Verify yourself first if serious. No time-wasters or disrespect blocked instantly. Ready to kneel before the new order? Prove you're worthy. πŸ–€β™ οΈ
GWM offers refreshing foot massage to young prof men/grad students GWM is seeking young, professional Caucasian males who want their bare feet massaged and cared for. I am 58 yrs old, intelligent, well traveled, interesting conversationalist. Enjoy foot/face contact with the feet I am massaging. This is the most satisfying foot massage/foot worship you could ever hope to find. My massage is perfect for all young professionals and grad students. It is also great for guys who like attention, who have a dominant side and like to be catered to. It is nurturing and healthy. I prefer a guy who likes having his feet massaged, worshiped, smelled, and worked by an older guy. Maybe you work from home, and would like to work on your computer with a man taking care of your bare feet while you work and talk on the phone? Or, you can easily come to my place and get your massage while you work from here. Just bring your laptop and phone. Maybe you are a grad student who would like to relax, have your shoes and socks removed, and have your bare feet taken care of by me.
Male (58) Chicago, Illinois
ExPat Brit locked sub living in Orlando area for Assertive Men Into: Domination, rough sex, CNC, bondage, chastity (am locked), public, outdoor, groups/gangbangs, discipline, direction, control, ***, being filmed/photos… Limits: ***s (including ’pup’ play), Women, Kids, IV or addictive d**gs, ***, Permanent damage, ER visits, Fisting
Male (49) Winter Park, Florida
I'm an easy going gay guy, pretty slim-ish, kinda submissive as well. Sexually, my interests are quite limited but in terms of stuff I'll participate in, that's a bit more wide. I'm a top, but I'll bottom for the right guy. But my primary sexual interest is farting. I LOVE guys farting in my faces, I wish it'd happen more often. Some day I dream a straight guy would do it to me (I'd DEFINITELY pay for it)
Male (27) Rochester, Washington
not a paid members so I can’t initiate conversations. message me if your interested. looking for a masc, straight, or bi guy that wants head on the DL. I’m interested in trying cnc. put me on my knees πŸ˜‚
Male (41) Yantic, Connecticut
Submissive, service-oriented, and a bit of a blushing pup. I respond to real dominance. Calm, confident, un***d. If you have to say it, it’s probably not it. If you don’t, I’ll feel it, and I tend to fall into place pretty quickly. Playful and a bit mischievous. I like tension, teasing, and being kept on my toes. I’ll absolutely flirt my way through kinky D&D or strip Magic, but I also know when to settle, focus, and be a very good boy. I enjoy being useful. Domestic service, attentiveness, picking up on what’s needed without being told twice. There’s something grounding about knowing where I stand with someone who can actually hold that space. Not here for empty play or people trying on dominance like a costume. I want something that can build. A real dynamic with consistency, trust, and direction. Something that could grow into something deeper and more structured over time. If you know how to take the lead, keep a steady hand, and appreciate a pup who learns fast and stays close, we’ll get along just fine.
Male (43) Telford, Pennsylvania

New personal ads in USA

Kinky Date ● 27 to 50 years ● 165km around USA Yuba City

More Kinky men

Find kinky men in USA

Find kinky men into fetish and BDSM in USA
Kink is a way of life! Sign up for free and discover BDSM dates as well as BDSM clubs and events in USA. Explore your fetishes, be part of Fetish.com, THE kink-positive community.