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We are a long-term couple supplementing our sex-life with well-chosen 3-ways(or more). A Cub and His Bear -looking for friends and playmates. Live in Mt. Kisco. Cub (me) 56 5'10 210 football player builds, bottom/versatile. Bear (him) 67 6'0" 240 very hairy, oral bottom. Cub recently finished recovery from spinal surgery - now looking for some "Physical Therapy" **Desires and Fantasies** LOOKING FOR A BULL TO SERVICE WHILE THE HUBS WATCHES- Always looking for new friends with or without benefits - Somewhat on the "shy" side - we like it when you make the advances. Open to exploring new things and expanding our horizons - Looking for friends for friendship without or with benefits - almost anything goes from mild to wild, and more we'll try almost anything once (evil grin) and if we like it, we'll do it again
I’m Willard, but feel free to call me Will or - even simpler - “pig” 🐽 There’s a common misconception that pigs are dirty, and though I may have a somewhat dirty mind, I wouldn’t consider myself filthy! Like a real pig, I’m in tune with my emotions and would much rather be the companion of an affectionate Master, whether he sees me as a pet or livestock. I also like to eat!…Even if it puts me at a greater risk of ending up on the menu😅
Male (30) New York, New York
I am a gay man which means I only like MEN sexually! I have NEVER been with a woman sexually and that WILL NOT CHANGE!! I don't know why most of my spanks come from women. Maybe they can't read English! Also I can't see spanks so if you send me one I can't see who you are. Also I have a HUGE leather fetish! Okay let me make this as clear as I can. I am GAY. I have never had sex with a woman and have no intention to do so. I guess most people on here don't speak English as I mentioned above I am gay yet I constantly get spankings on here from women. Never gonna hook up with a woman! Can't say that any clearer,
Male (59) Freeport, New York
I'm looking for a top guy who likes to slowly and gently fuck me in missionary position with me on my back until he cums inside of me bareback within a few minutes. Is that how you like to have sex? 914-206-6406 or PokBottomGuy@*** or Kik: PokBottomGuy
Male (45) Poughkeepsie, New York
By day, I keep systems running smoothly; by dawn and dusk, you can usually find me outdoors tracking down the perfect sunrise or landscape shot. I'm a professional nature photographer, a proud pet parent (team both cat and dog!), and a fan of a well-organized life. Smoke 420 everyday, have for years, if thats not for you I understand but I use it for anxiety and relaxation and do not plan on stopping. You are: Someone who loves nature, doesn't mind a partner who stops to admire the lighting, and is down for weekend road trips or quiet nights in. Big plus if you're a 420 smoker as well.
Male (30) West Rush, New York
LOOKING FOR MALE SLAVE/ SUB TO WORSHIP MY BEAUTIFUL FEET AND LICK MY ASS. **Desires and Fantasies** have you collared and leashed and worshipping my ass, lock your cock in Chasity, and hand me over the key.
Male (30) East Elmhurst, New York
please hmu on snap im not paying *** to see my likes snap: starrgazer_0 insta: @starrgazer 18,slim,fem etc not a horny person btw so if ur looking for sex from me you got the wrong person I love video games making out cuddling yk normal stuff ngl I just want a bf😔 NOT INTERESTED IN SEX
Male (18) Bronx, New York
Hiii. black femboy virgin here. looking for friends and a spicy time irl. 100% sub and also i cant drive yet, im pretty shy but if ya get 2 know me/meet up i can be pretty cool. hit me up if i seem interesting and ill try and respond! btw u can call me Jaylyn
Male (19) Wallkill, New York
im a guy really into sagging and clothed fetiches. I love getting wet while sagging, any kinks you want to do bit while sagging and fully clothed. I think guys look hot when they are fully clothed and wet. I’m also educated, got my bachelors and in process of getting my masters. I’m a side mostly but I can bottom or top for the right person. I eventually want to find someone who is ambitious and serious as well but likes sagging as well and similar kinks. eventually want a LTR.
Male (31) Cornwall, New York
looking for someone who's into one or more of the following! -BDSM -waterspout & sc*t -erotica hypnosis -rubber/latex -pup play -ABDL and probably more :)
Male (32) Flushing, New York
im looking for fwb type. movies, get food, just doing friends things, while also having that power dynamic. Im a brat, so you should have that in mind if you do decide to msg me. If you are toned/muscular and esoteric with the dark mysterious personality, we will vibe. please be open minded, kind, respectful, the bare minimum of a decent human being. Also on fetlife. Looking for a bf️
Male (24) Amherst, New York
Fun loving free full of life and adventure. Always looking for new friends, or possible relationships. I’d love to have someone to teach me the ropes and own me. I'm a pretty friendly laid back guy I love to chat with and meet new people, all about the vibes. My eyes are pitch black so hopefully it won’t scare you too much
Male (37) Brooklyn, New York
Hello. Nice to meet you. My name is Bob and I live in the Town of Poughkeepsie. New York. 12603. Dutchess County. I am a nice guy who is down to Earth and has a open mind. Looking for Younger Men ( Friends ) who like older men. Looking for Good Vibes. Good People. Good Personality. Not looking for Drama. Crazy people. Not looking for people who take *** to get high. Not looking for people who like to party and smoke pot. I like Athletic jocks. Muscular Body. Muscles 💪💪 Worship Massages Fun. Safe Fun. Let's Play.
Male (51) Poughkeepsie, New York
bottom here I️ like daddies, sexy undies, s***dos and other gear, I️ definitely enjoy an in charge kind of guy. I️ like romance and cuddles and also love being intimate and connecting with a man. it just makes everything so much better and satisfying! I️ want to go on dates and really connect and then come home and have a hot time in bed. or maybe even sometimes while we are out ?. I️ like manners and chivalry so go ahead take a chance and ask me me out ?. **Desires and Fantasies** I️ like an in charge guy. nothing terribly specific but am open to lots I️ love sexy undies, s***dos and gear so it would be hot if the guy I’m with liked all that too. I️ love cum and facials. if you like to be called daddy or sir I’m your boy ?
Male (42) New York, New York
I'm passionate about exploring the deeper aspects of BDSM, especially when it comes to long-term heavy bondage and chastity. I find fulfillment in embracing my role as a bondage gimp and enjoy the unique dynamic it brings. Sneakers are another one of my interests—I love how they can add to the overall experience. I'm looking for someone who shares these interests and is serious about building a strong, trust-based connection. Let's explore the possibilities together! Willing to travel a reasonable distance. Into: Chastity (long term) Bondage (Heavy) Storage (Heavy) Gags Hoods Leather Rubber Restraints Boots Breath play
Male (32) Patterson, New York
I'm a reader looking for a Dom Daddy and a LTR, please don't message if you're not serious. I so have ADHD and PTSD.
Male (28) Syracuse, New York
Young Dom Top on the prowl for a guy who wants to have the experience on being put in *** position by getting tickled. When I’m on here I usually can travel. However I can host but that’s rare. Also looking for guys around my age and older. But in general from the curious to experienced in being tickled have no ***! I’m always around to get a laugh outta you🪶! I also edge men as well. Let’s have some cream ooze out! Very discreet here. Also, don’t waste my f**king time if you’re not interested or going to ask me silly questions. What someone serious. Overall, I like being dominant putting a man in his place making him feel *** and weak. I’m the one that must be obeyed.
Male (25) Jamaica, New York
nice easy going guy. looking for dom tops to service. sub btm here with chastity cage, love *** esp sph and looking to wear panties/lingerie and fem in bed.
Male (55) New York, New York
I’m terrible at filling these outs but the basic info is that I’m a big gaymer and nerd (but a cool nerd) and I’m looking for what’s out there, I’ll always try anything once ?
Male (32) Flushing, New York
On here hoping to meet other like-minded men and see what transpires. I'm a submissive bottom who is looking for the ideal dominant top. Into many different activities within reason. Drop me a message to find out more.
Male (41) Astoria, New York
Adventurous, open-minded, and always up for exploring new experiences, I enjoy a mix of excitement and relaxation, from spontaneous nights out to more intimate, intriguing encounters. I thrive in spaces where passion meets play, whether it’s through deep conversation, playful banter, or a bit of edge. Whether mild or wild, I’m all about mutual exploration, respect, and chemistry.
Male (41) New York, New York
Single submissive gay man. looking for anything from nsa to ltr. hoping to try out some new kinks
Male (29) Binghamton, New York
I’m into tickling and looking for guys who are curious, open-minded, and up for the experience. Whether that’s something playful or something more intense. I’ve got a range of tools and techniques that’ll keep you laughing (or squirming) for hours. It’s all about chemistry, trust, and seeing how long you can last. No pressure, no expectations. Just connection, consent, and a good time. 🪶🦶🏻
Male (27) Irondequoit, New York
black Bottom here. very submissive to Superior White Men. I want to be used up, treated badly, a sexual slave.
Male (43) Syracuse, New York

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I’m Willard, but feel free to call me Will or - even simpler - “pig” 🐽 There’s a common misconception that pigs are dirty, and though I may have a somewhat dirty mind, I wouldn’t consider myself filthy! Like a real pig, I’m in tune with my emotions and would much rather be the companion of an affectionate Master, whether he sees me as a pet or livestock. I also like to eat!…Even if it puts me at a greater risk of ending up on the menu😅
Male (30) New York, New York
I am a gay man which means I only like MEN sexually! I have NEVER been with a woman sexually and that WILL NOT CHANGE!! I don't know why most of my spanks come from women. Maybe they can't read English! Also I can't see spanks so if you send me one I can't see who you are. Also I have a HUGE leather fetish! Okay let me make this as clear as I can. I am GAY. I have never had sex with a woman and have no intention to do so. I guess most people on here don't speak English as I mentioned above I am gay yet I constantly get spankings on here from women. Never gonna hook up with a woman! Can't say that any clearer,
Male (59) Freeport, New York
We are a long-term couple supplementing our sex-life with well-chosen 3-ways(or more). A Cub and His Bear -looking for friends and playmates. Live in Mt. Kisco. Cub (me) 56 5'10 210 football player builds, bottom/versatile. Bear (him) 67 6'0" 240 very hairy, oral bottom. Cub recently finished recovery from spinal surgery - now looking for some "Physical Therapy" **Desires and Fantasies** LOOKING FOR A BULL TO SERVICE WHILE THE HUBS WATCHES- Always looking for new friends with or without benefits - Somewhat on the "shy" side - we like it when you make the advances. Open to exploring new things and expanding our horizons - Looking for friends for friendship without or with benefits - almost anything goes from mild to wild, and more we'll try almost anything once (evil grin) and if we like it, we'll do it again
By day, I keep systems running smoothly; by dawn and dusk, you can usually find me outdoors tracking down the perfect sunrise or landscape shot. I'm a professional nature photographer, a proud pet parent (team both cat and dog!), and a fan of a well-organized life. Smoke 420 everyday, have for years, if thats not for you I understand but I use it for anxiety and relaxation and do not plan on stopping. You are: Someone who loves nature, doesn't mind a partner who stops to admire the lighting, and is down for weekend road trips or quiet nights in. Big plus if you're a 420 smoker as well.
Male (30) West Rush, New York
looking for someone who's into one or more of the following! -BDSM -waterspout & sc*t -erotica hypnosis -rubber/latex -pup play -ABDL and probably more :)
Male (32) Flushing, New York
I'm looking for a top guy who likes to slowly and gently fuck me in missionary position with me on my back until he cums inside of me bareback within a few minutes. Is that how you like to have sex? 914-206-6406 or PokBottomGuy@*** or Kik: PokBottomGuy
Male (45) Poughkeepsie, New York
please hmu on snap im not paying *** to see my likes snap: starrgazer_0 insta: @starrgazer 18,slim,fem etc not a horny person btw so if ur looking for sex from me you got the wrong person I love video games making out cuddling yk normal stuff ngl I just want a bf😔 NOT INTERESTED IN SEX
Male (18) Bronx, New York
I’m soft, kind, compassionate and empathetic with a relentless submissive wild side. I’m just begging to please a man (bigger and taller than me a plus(burly bikers to the front of the line indeed. I love a good time and relish in a good ride on the back. The front would be hotter though.👅))
Male (28) Gloversville, New York
bottom fist pig. I love a hot man to dominate me. I love being fisted and can get dirty as fuck with a hot dominant man that will fist fuck me good as fu k and use me as a dirty shit eater 30 year old bottom gay pig
pretty laid back, always working and looking for all the big dick I can get to load me up . down for whatever just ask. let’s link and maybe bring your friends to join hahah
Male (29) East Syracuse, New York
heya! new here and ideally looking for a long term relationship. heavy on the submissive side and wanting to explore more. talk to me about cartoons, movies, food, memes, and music. ya like ska? 🎺
Male (29) Rochester, New York
I’m a vers slutty fag in an open relationship. Love making out. Rimming and getting rimmed. Riding and getting my ass slapped and spanked red. Sucking dick in slutty underwear. Dom/sub and role play. Very verbal and loooooove sexting.
Male (32) Brooklyn, New York
looking for a trainer, daddy, caregiver, or experienced Daddy
Male (29) East Syracuse, New York
High-functioning autistic, be blunt and honest with me.
Male (38) Elmira, New York
I'm versatile--as a Dom, I like control and ***, as a sub I'm highly masochistic. Looking for chat, friends, or a long-term relationship depending on the connection. My passions are science and philosophy (specifically, cosmology and particle physics), I enjoy watching movies and TV, would like to get outdoors more.
Male (34) Binghamton, New York
A black Sub Bottom Looking to worship a guy that like guys. I am into masculine bros that like video games and movies. I want to a relationship where we can chill go to a park and goon after drinks. I love dudes in general so as long as you identify as a guy I am into you!
Male (32) New York, New York
52 y/o sub looking for fetish friends and kinky playmates. bdsm hierarchy headspace. enjoys using the word Sir.
Male (52) New York, New York
Slim twink(a bit fem) looking for another twink or twunk for fwb or sub/dom😈 Dick collector love to cage and own keys🔒 Let’s have a kinky fun😏 Latino or Asian Twink/Twunk +++ I’m switch and love doms too 🚫NOT into old, chubby, or bear🚫
Male (22) New York, New York
hiii i'm angel :)) i'm a trans guy looking for a partner (preferably another trans guy) or queer friends!! i'm new-ish to the kink community and i'd love to learn more!!️ ️please no one over 20 yrs old and i won't do hookups :) ️️ 2 yrs on t and pre-op!! im very fem and love to play around with my gender expression ️if you message me and youre over 20 expect insults pr silence i dont want you.️
Male (19) Rochester, New York
hello sir, fully submissive 25m good boy here desperate for a master to bound me up and play with me like a toy. love sadistic tickle ***, nonstop edging and denial, any and all bondage, sensory deprivation (gags, blindfolds, earplugs, hoods, etc.), nipple play, hypnosis, chastity, ***, ***, post cum ***, wedgies (yes i will wear tightey whiteys for you). open to lots, dominant verbal sirs and pleasure doms to the front. really love a man with gear to tie me up.
Male (25) New York, New York
Hiii. black femboy virgin here. looking for friends and a spicy time irl. 100% sub and also i cant drive yet, im pretty shy but if ya get 2 know me/meet up i can be pretty cool. hit me up if i seem interesting and ill try and respond! btw u can call me Jaylyn
Male (19) Wallkill, New York
I’m open to ideas but I’m typically sub (whether top or bottom) always love to be rimmed, really enjoy people with tattoos (I have 13), for ws I’d prefer to be the receiver
Male (41) New York, New York
twinky Latino, always striving to be the best boy and trusty sidekick. Very oral here, love to kiss, suck & swallow, and I love a juicy 🍑 happily taken so looking for uncomplicated fun with grown ass men. Open to all, no hang ups other than to rudeness. hmu guys, bros, dads, married, DL - you know you need a lil bro you can stuff 😈🤤
Male (36) New York, New York
General submissive into rope bondage and captivity as well as wrestling, gear, and various other activities. Hopes are not high but I’ll give it a try.
Male (33) Troy, New York

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