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I’m a gay Bottom coming out late in life. I am curious about this lifestyle and would be interested in exploring it with someone who is experienced in this lifestyle. I am a closet cross dresser. I don’t live alone, so I have to be careful. I live with my daughter who knows I am gay, but that’s all. **Desires and Fantasies** I fantasize about being with two Tops pleasuring them and letting them have me. I fantasize about group sex with all men or men and women. I’m curious about bondage, and pegging.
Male (72) Albany, New York
I am a gay man which means I only like MEN sexually! I have NEVER been with a woman sexually and that WILL NOT CHANGE!! I don't know why most of my spanks come from women. Maybe they can't read English!
Male (57) Freeport, New York
I’m not good at starting conversations, so if you’d like to know something, please ask. Gay & Bi guys only. I am a bit curious about trans men.
Male (45) Albany, New York
LOOKING FOR MALE SLAVE/ SUB TO WORSHIP MY BEAUTIFUL FEET AND LICK MY ASS. **Desires and Fantasies** have you collared and leashed and worshipping my ass, lock your cock in Chasity, and hand me over the key.
Male (28) East Elmhurst, New York
On here hoping to meet other like-minded guys and see what transpires, open to dates and more. I go for masculine men close to my age who have are dominant.
Male (39) New York, New York
spiritual being living a human lifestyle. new to all of this so I’m learning as I go. looking for good vibes and people with good energy for friendship or more. let’s go with the flow and see where it takes us.
Male (36) Bronx, New York
Hey there! I'm Vincent. (18) I'm looking for a master that can push me to my limits! I want someone that is interested in BDSM bondage, pet play, humiliation, but not in public, and I'm really into Latex. I would LOVE to be put in a collar and some ropes, maybe be mummified in bdsm tape that way I can't move when you do anything to me. I'm into shoes taped to my face while I'm tied up, spit, and many more. I'm also interested in funel play, where a master pours a liquid down my throught, but make sure it's not piss. but if you want to piss on me, sure, go ahead. I IDENTIFY AS A FLESHLIGHT if u wanna use me. just hit me up. I'm also interested in fisting, and electro play. Also Slave and Master, but I would be the slave. someone please come and dominate me. I'm all yours. PLEASE USE MY ASS AS A URINAL limits: blood, vomit, feces
Male (18) New York, New York
A bear that enjoys being both Dom and Sub ( As of lately REALLY enjoy being sub). I like a very wide variety of things. I have a few fetishes, ask me it may be the same for both.
Male (45) Ellisburg, New York
Older but fit professional with strong need To submit & be controlled. I had two leather Masters, boot fetish years ago. Now fantasies after got fit 2022: * Bondage & restraint * discipline I deserve it * WS * safe sex only
Male (75) Merrick, New York
I am a totally inexperienced sub looking for a dom to help me learn and to experiment with. Am looking for a fwb situation where we get to know each other first.
Into being someones sub bottom or dom bottom. wanna find someone that’s let’s me take control and becomes a dildo for me to get off on
Male (19) Brooklyn, New York
5’10” slim, mid 30’s, toned body, furry, looking for a daddy to make me his perfect femboy in lingerie and train me in chastity. attracted to bigger older stronger dominant men. into Dom/sub, being a good girl, throat and hole training, and more. verbal guys make me wet. hmu to chat or swap pics. ideally looking for a long-term friend with benefits or mutual arrangement but hook ups can be fun. negative and tested regularly. You’ll be too.
Male (35) Brooklyn, New York
im looking for fwb type. movies, get food, just doing friends things, while also having the tension of a d/s. im bratty so i will tease you and make fun of you, i love when you give me the threatening look that I shouldn’t have done that and i might get punish if i keep it up. the more masculine you are the better, straight guys would be more fun but thats asking the impossible. also if you’re fit and muscular you could probably get me to do anything for you.
Male (22) Amherst, New York
into a lot of stuff. sub. want to be owned. I love toys and I want them used on me?
Male (18) Syracuse, New York

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I am a gay man which means I only like MEN sexually! I have NEVER been with a woman sexually and that WILL NOT CHANGE!! I don't know why most of my spanks come from women. Maybe they can't read English!
Male (57) Freeport, New York
I’m a gay Bottom coming out late in life. I am curious about this lifestyle and would be interested in exploring it with someone who is experienced in this lifestyle. I am a closet cross dresser. I don’t live alone, so I have to be careful. I live with my daughter who knows I am gay, but that’s all. **Desires and Fantasies** I fantasize about being with two Tops pleasuring them and letting them have me. I fantasize about group sex with all men or men and women. I’m curious about bondage, and pegging.
Male (72) Albany, New York
On here hoping to meet other like-minded guys and see what transpires, open to dates and more. I go for masculine men close to my age who have are dominant.
Male (39) New York, New York
Hey there! I'm Vincent. (18) I'm looking for a master that can push me to my limits! I want someone that is interested in BDSM bondage, pet play, humiliation, but not in public, and I'm really into Latex. I would LOVE to be put in a collar and some ropes, maybe be mummified in bdsm tape that way I can't move when you do anything to me. I'm into shoes taped to my face while I'm tied up, spit, and many more. I'm also interested in funel play, where a master pours a liquid down my throught, but make sure it's not piss. but if you want to piss on me, sure, go ahead. I IDENTIFY AS A FLESHLIGHT if u wanna use me. just hit me up. I'm also interested in fisting, and electro play. Also Slave and Master, but I would be the slave. someone please come and dominate me. I'm all yours. PLEASE USE MY ASS AS A URINAL limits: blood, vomit, feces
Male (18) New York, New York
A bear that enjoys being both Dom and Sub ( As of lately REALLY enjoy being sub). I like a very wide variety of things. I have a few fetishes, ask me it may be the same for both.
Male (45) Ellisburg, New York
into a lot of stuff. sub. want to be owned. I love toys and I want them used on me?
Male (18) Syracuse, New York
im looking for fwb type. movies, get food, just doing friends things, while also having the tension of a d/s. im bratty so i will tease you and make fun of you, i love when you give me the threatening look that I shouldn’t have done that and i might get punish if i keep it up. the more masculine you are the better, straight guys would be more fun but thats asking the impossible. also if you’re fit and muscular you could probably get me to do anything for you.
Male (22) Amherst, New York
spiritual being living a human lifestyle. new to all of this so I’m learning as I go. looking for good vibes and people with good energy for friendship or more. let’s go with the flow and see where it takes us.
Male (36) Bronx, New York
5’10” slim, mid 30’s, toned body, furry, looking for a daddy to make me his perfect femboy in lingerie and train me in chastity. attracted to bigger older stronger dominant men. into Dom/sub, being a good girl, throat and hole training, and more. verbal guys make me wet. hmu to chat or swap pics. ideally looking for a long-term friend with benefits or mutual arrangement but hook ups can be fun. negative and tested regularly. You’ll be too.
Male (35) Brooklyn, New York
Into being someones sub bottom or dom bottom. wanna find someone that’s let’s me take control and becomes a dildo for me to get off on
Male (19) Brooklyn, New York
Older but fit professional with strong need To submit & be controlled. I had two leather Masters, boot fetish years ago. Now fantasies after got fit 2022: * Bondage & restraint * discipline I deserve it * WS * safe sex only
Male (75) Merrick, New York
I am a totally inexperienced sub looking for a dom to help me learn and to experiment with. Am looking for a fwb situation where we get to know each other first.
LOOKING FOR MALE SLAVE/ SUB TO WORSHIP MY BEAUTIFUL FEET AND LICK MY ASS. **Desires and Fantasies** have you collared and leashed and worshipping my ass, lock your cock in Chasity, and hand me over the key.
Male (28) East Elmhurst, New York
I’m not good at starting conversations, so if you’d like to know something, please ask. Gay & Bi guys only. I am a bit curious about trans men.
Male (45) Albany, New York

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