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Bossy, bratty, and easily excitable. Looking to get taught a few new lessons and try some new things :) Very submissive, but only when put in my place ;)

Female (25) Merrick, New York

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HauteCaramel1

A taste of Miss Caramel leads to a livelong sweet tooth that only she can satiate. I’m a 29F Domme. I’ve always been in touch with my dark side, and sometimes I have to summon the demoness within. But my true passion is being a beacon of light to guide lost souls through the lonely void into a realm of pleasure.🕯️My style is mainly Soft Domme and Mommy. I can go harder, but only with certain subs. Generous and stable submissive males only. Dinners, fun dates at the mall, and spending time cuddled together in a relaxing hotel suite are some of my favorite vanilla things to do. Errand boys (service subs and simps) for store runs also welcomed. I’m not for everyone, and I don’t want to be. Only the worthy few may join me here among the clouds. Do not approach trying to Dom me. I don’t switch. Kinks: Domination - edgeplay, power exchange, cucking, ***d orgasm, orgasm denial & control, ***, ***, begging, kneeling, praise, slavery, fucking machine, cock milking, claiming, feminization, sissification General - Vanilla sex, GFE, teasing, affection, pics/vids, masturbation, toys, facesitting, CFNM Ass Play - Pegging, plugs, spanking Misc. Fetishes - Furry, monster fucking, grinding, overstimulation, objectification (male), smoking Other interests: Video games (Switch, PS4, PC), Horror, cosplay (that subs help me make), musicals.

Female (29) New York, New York

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Mari482

LOOKING FOR 20-25 AND CONSISTENCY. DON’T MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE GOING TO JUST DELETE YOUR PROFILE. I am not one to follow directions and I will push back. I like to be playfully defiant. I want someone that I can trust and that is patient with me. I can be obedient but I also need correction and a dom who isn’t going to falter or be afraid to correct me. Looking for a potential relationship and a dom. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic, it can be emotionally draining and exhausting. I text back fast and would hope that’s reciprocated. I am the type of person to text multiple times in a row so please tell me if you are busy. I want someone who is consistent. I want someone understanding and patient. I like being a tease. At heart I am a hopeless romantic. At times I can be bold other times I can be shy. I am very sarcastic. I also don’t mind making friends. (Looking for a muncher that isn’t afraid to eat a coochie with hair) If that’s you hit me up. I’m not a one night stand kind of person. I’m relatively open minded when it comes to kinks. I don’t do hookups. I want an actual relationship. And I would rather have sex once I’m in a relationship and feel comfortable and ready. Preferably taller than me like 5’8-5’9 is good. I guess you can call me a size queen, as long as it’s 5.5in and bigger as well as girthy. I need someone that is consistent and can hold a regular conversation that isn’t just sex. Let me color in your tattoos and bite your biceps. All I ask is that you aren’t MAGA or a supporter of that felon. Bonus points if you know about booktok, own a mask or a motorcycle 😉🤭

Female (20) New York, New York

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jaa-5506

Hi...Calm,very friendly,open,smiling,you will want to talk to me and ask me something .I love and really appreciate people who are constantly developing.I love very much to speak on interesting topics,to think over the meaning of life ..

Female (38) New York, New York

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bunnelby

I’m a student/parttimer. a total nerd, I’d like someone I can laugh with + yap too. I love cooking, movies, reading!! I’m new to this

Female (20) New York, New York

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Imyahuckleberr

Seeking normal with some class nasty always hungry oral sub male. who's looking to be owned and have his mouth used for all the right nasty reasons. One who lives to service an ebony woman day or night.

Female (47) New York, New York

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CapriciousRosso

Note: The chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 if there's any confusion. Just your wholesome whore next door. I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one. My skill set includes falling for the wrong man. I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential.

Female (46) Brockport, New York

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swankystar

420 🍃🔥 Got a collar&leash 4 my future puppy munch 🐶 👅

Female (26) Flushing, New York

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Songbird

"I'm looking for somebody I can call boo. Looking for the only one who I can give my all to. Tell me if it's you, you, you. What you wanna do, do, do? Make a move." -Promise by Ciara

Female (36) Buffalo, New York

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KrisTeaBell

married 47yrs old F bisexual switch. Im newer to the scene and exploring. I am really up for anything and just want to meet cool women I connect with. This can be a friendship, relationship or strictly sexual. I am also open to the idea of polyamory and you joining my husband and I in the bedroom or elsewhere. I tend to be dominate with women but I am open to subbing or vanilla. We're still exploring and finding our boundaries so we may be open to couples or other arrangements but seeing where things take us. Non-kink wise, I'm a witchy, nerdy gamer, sculpture and photographer who loves HP, Doctor who, Star Wars, Lotr and many more. Would love to make some new nerdy friends even if our sexual preferences don't allign. Fully vaccinated. Tested and clean. No Trumpers, conservatives, racists or biggots. Ad

Female (47) Highland Falls, New York

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L0velyC0C0

I am a FemDom when it comes to my sexual desires. I enjoy submissive who are into pleasuring me. I enjoy getting my pussy eaten and pegging . i own a strap - on , a leash/collar other toys that I use on subs. Im into both hardcore/*** bdsm and soft dominance (candles, music, encouragement) With that being said , I like a person who i can build trust with sexually and is comfortable with me being in charge. You should be 100% submissive and want to be obedient and enjoy it. You understand the dynamics between a FemDom and her submissive. The goal is meeting on a consistent basis,preferably weekly. It can be a long term or temporary (for a few weeks or months) I look forward to meeting you .🥰😘

Female (43) Bronx, New York

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lydia046

Experienced, confident, and deeply passionate about BDSM. I value obedience, loyalty, and mutual respect. Skilled in roleplay, bondage, and worship, I thrive on power exchange, pushing boundaries, and creating intense, unforgettable experiences.

Female (40) Wantagh, New York

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airhead

slut me ouuuut??✨ grade A attention whore💞 I like showing off my body to strangers online, what can I say?🙂‍↔️ sooo like my pictures, tell me what you’d do to me, and tell me I’m pretty.. please🥹

Female (25) New York, New York

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Demonickit10

All attempts at the description will inevitably fall short. I'll just give you the cliff notes. I'm short with more to grab onto. I'm definitely a filthy little heathen once I'm in my comfort zone. My mind is both my best and worst enemy. I'm far too stubborn to be completely submissive, yet I'm far too gentle to be dom. I am somewhere in between. I do not have it in me to do casual at this time. learning more about myself as I go. I need more reassurance than I'd expected. On both levels but specifically in play. So, of course, I have a praise kink. I want a Daddy style dom. One who can both direct and compliment. I'm not into the age play of D/L. But the authority and confidence with care. I get into the possessive side of it as well. Random and inappropriate times with the risk of but not actually being caught. A man who always has a hand somewhere on my mind, throat, or body. I like the dirty nasty texts in the middle of your day about what you can't wait to do to me. Look me in the eyes while I smile and tell me what a good girl I am. Tell me who owns it. Preferably someone who doesn't mind party favors on occasion. It's not necessary but ideal.

Female (40) Troy, New York

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Fun_Sized_Brat

I am a brat so my partner has to enjoy that side of me. I am an adrenaline junkie and not easy to keep up with. Definitely into the thrill of trying new spontaneous things. Starting to think I am a rare breed of human and no one can keep up.

Female (43) Mahopac, New York

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Veronika77

I’m tired of using the starter kits! I’m ready to explore..bondage, rope play, handcuffs, blindfold, being with a woman, FFM , MFM , trio, light flogging, being a submissive, and more ???‍♀️ but we can start there… 6 months later and I’m still here! thanks for the education, conversations and meetings that I did have. so that starter kit has grown into a larger ?. interesting that I found a gentleman from another site that has hopped abound the future desires of our bodies and mind. trust is growing and chemistry ⚛️ ?. now what’s left on the old list MFM , scissor a woman

Female (49) Monticello, New York

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Jinxfetish

NYC DOMINATRIX 5 Years Of Experience. NOT LOOKING to chat LED WITH YOUR WALLET! Sensual dominance that’ll make you feel seen! I love To explore a submissives curiousity. Submissives who love to be spanked, nipple play, smothering, leashing, CBT, pegging, human furniture. Paid Clip Sites: ManyVids.com/jinxfetish Application Website: Jinxfetish.com

Female (32) Bronx, New York

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Pup_Strawberry

masochist, sub, rope bunny, little, pup. looking for doms, sadists, daddy's, and handlers. prefer masc people of any gender identity, but it comes down to how we match together. clean and sober

Female (26) Buffalo, New York

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Link1998-1306

Into bondage, ABDL, and huge into praise kink. **Desires and Fantasies** 1: A kidnap play where I’m grabbed nuded then tied up and gagged 2: ***ed and ***d to wear diapers and act like a baby (Diapers are for bathroom used only by me and non-sexual) Has to be living in the US, living in the buffalo area or close to buffalo (PLEASE BE PATIENT!) If I don't respond that means I'm busy and will get to your message eventually.

Female (27) Buffalo, New York

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kitt_kett_bar

I forgot I made this account. If this is an active site, I'll be around. Woman in NYC, looking for friendship and/or relationship as I explore BDSM, kink, and Daddy Dom/little/babygirl dynamics. Always want to learn. **I'm not here for sex play.** I'm here for bdsm/kink play and community, which will sometimes include sex with people I build relationships with, and other times will include no sex at all. I love to talk. Not here for sexting or anything like that. Approach me as you would a person in public--not as though you are a faceless sex troll on the internet. If you want to meet me offline, come chat me up at a munch 😘

Female (36) Brooklyn, New York

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Golibird_

Tatiana 5’3 140 lbs Aquarius Take me out for food/drinks (otherwise a homebody) Insta is my user but with _

Female (21) New York, New York

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MistressNoir_

I believe domination is best enjoyed somewhere beautiful. Private destination vacations designed around your desires and my direction,from activities to downtime. Whether it’s a short escape or a full week away, I lead the experience with calm authority and intention. My availability is limited by design, preserving exclusivity and balance in the dynamic. If you’re drawn to controlled indulgence, travel, and serving in a refined setting… we may align.40+ men only.

Female (31) New York, New York

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Deame

dianaaleynikov on ig enjoyer of being quiet and still here for -friends, spicy friends, romantic/deep connections, fwb -potential life partner/s or friends -parallel play -whatever it's called when you mi¢r0d0$e and roll around and finger ***t and sit on each other's laps while you experience the shapes and colors

Female (22) Staten Island, New York

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minx03

Hiiii! 💕 I need an experienced, traditional, dominate, handsome, quick-witted, hypermasculine man, who is emotionally available and competent, loves to lead, teach, take care of, guide and protect. Especially with a firm hand but knows when and how to be gentle. I am a very fun naughty, bratty sub at heart that loves playful banter and desires to be put in her place tastefully. but I become a service sub if my needs are fulfilled. Not looking for a relationship, but am looking for effort, communication and consistency. Those are a need/expected so this works. I don’t want feel like a piece of meat. Not into degrading…

Female (22) New York, New York

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EmmaT8216

I'm into Belly inflation!! Water or air. Not looking for sex (I know that will probably turn a lot of people away but idrc.) but yeah. Just that. I'm pretty basic and I really only come on here cuz I'm curious to how it feels to be inflated by someone other then myself. And this isn't really something ya bring up to someone when you first meet so, what better place to do this then a site that's all about it?? Well. Fetishes in general but still.

Female (19) Deer Park, New York

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Female (29) New York, New York

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Female (32) Bronx, New York

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Missy_baby

Bossy, bratty, and easily excitable. Looking to get taught a few new lessons and try some new things :) Very submissive, but only when put in my place ;)

Female (25) Merrick, New York

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Bri-3456

Just a submissive looking to be in a relationship lol I Choking, Spanking, being tied up, biting, being degraded to an extent but mostly praised. edging. Add me on Discord User: Bri22660234

Female (18) Camillus, New York

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Golibird_

Tatiana 5’3 140 lbs Aquarius Take me out for food/drinks (otherwise a homebody) Insta is my user but with _

Female (21) New York, New York

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Bushysub

Looking for a man that likes a more masculine presenting but still very submissive woman. Looking for online fun only, trust me.. it’ll be fun ;)

Female (31) Buffalo, New York

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Female (31) New York, New York

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schizo-doll

18 and a horrible masochist... My biggest need in life is a sadistic man in latex, makeup and insanely high heels

Female (18) Albany, New York

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Female (30) White Plains, New York

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Female (36) Brooklyn, New York

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HorrorPrincess01

Hey loves! This isn’t my first time here but I am being extra cautious this time around BEFORE you jump in my DM pleaseeeeeeeee read below: I am married I do have kids I am wanting an outlet and an escape from the real world . I want a solid Dom/sub dynamic with someone training/ropes/collars and all. Only message me if u can handle my crazy life Also I am not sending photos right away so don’t ask! xoxoxo 💋

Female (37) Amsterdam, New York

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DivinaB

new to this community. 😇 looking for friends to show me the ropes and others to spoil me (women preferably 😌😉). I take value in the care I put into myself and just want to enjoy my kinky life shamelessly but with rewards 😈 truly open to experimenting with couples men 8inch+ 👀

Female (31) New York, New York

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Brit-rena9694

Looking for a Daddy Dom to take care of me and to help me with discipline and someone I can sass too anytime I want 😂

Female (31) Fultonham, New York

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Wonderstitigee

I'm Tina by name and I apologize for violating your privacy, but it's good to find your page and I enjoy your appearance. Would it be possible for us to become friends and get to know one another and see where it will lead us too , im not a paid member to this site or if possible wonderstiti at gen would be good to link

Female (49) Westbury, New York

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Skylove03

Curious little kitten with a wolf’s heart 💗 I enjoy gentle pet play, affection, and slow, nurturing connections. I respond best to partners who value patience, trust, and respect. I move carefully and selectively, and I love quiet nights, soft music, and journaling when I’m not exploring dynamics.

Female (23) New York, New York

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MissKitty-5840

A woman who knows exactly what she wants. I move with purpose and expect the same from anyone who steps into my space. My presence is soft when I choose and firm when it is needed. I enjoy loyalty intelligence and a mind that bows because it wants to not because it has to. I guide with a calm hand and a sharp eye and I value a soul that listens just as much as it hungers to please. If you crave direction and thrive under clear confident control you may find yourself right at home with me.

Female (51) New York, New York

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Conniesluvu

I possess a serene demeanor and maintain a harmonious sense of equilibrium in my life. My ability to remain composed, even in challenging situations, reflects my balanced nature and ensures that I approach every circumstance with clarity and poise. I often find myself envisioning a blissful family life, where laughter fills the air, and warmth radiates from every corner of our home. I long for a sense of stability that allows us to navigate life's challenges with confidence and ease. In this dream, our relationships are nurtured with love and understanding, creating a serene atmosphere where peace prevails, and every moment is cherished.

Female (45) New York, New York

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Softboobs

Looking for a person who is mature and opend minded and knows exactly what he wants. Someone who has a high sex drive and knows how to make his partner scream in and out of bedroom

Female (37) Pawling, New York

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urmyzeriousmistress

Just your average bratty asshole I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. I don’t accept back talk, disrespect, or disobedience you will be severely punished. I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉

Female (19) New York, New York

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bunnelby

I’m a student/parttimer. a total nerd, I’d like someone I can laugh with + yap too. I love cooking, movies, reading!! I’m new to this

Female (20) New York, New York

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sophie432

I’m someone who believes that love should feel peaceful but exciting at the same time. I’m caring, loyal, and I appreciate the little things — deep talks, shared laughter, and quiet moments that mean the most. I love the beach, nature, cooking for people I care about, and spending time with family. Life has taught me to value kindness, honesty, and connection over perfection. I’m looking for someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature, and ready to build something real — someone who sees love as a partnership, not a game. If that sounds like you, then maybe we’ve just found a good beginning.

Female (38) Lake Ronkonkoma, New York

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Yourssmistress

I am a woman who embodies confidence, control, and calm authority. I don’t chase attention; I draw it in with intention. My energy is magnetic a balance of warmth and power, discipline and temptation. Those who come close quickly learn that I value truth, loyalty, and respect above all. I don’t entertain chaos. I admire composure, consistency, and a mind that understands direction. My world is built on structure where obedience is not weakness, but a form of strength. To stand before me is to face both comfort and challenge. I can be soft-spoken yet firm, inviting yet untouchable. I guide, teach, and command with purpose, not pride. If you earn my time, know it’s because you’ve proven your sincerity. I don’t need to demand attention I inspire devotion through presence alone.

Female (38) Hagaman, New York

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stauz0420

I want you to know that i am a sincere, honest, caring, kind, friendly very easy to get along with. I am social, romantic, passionate, smart, intelligent, cool headed,adaptive,have a big heart. And i do believe in the truth and honesty as God is first in my life. And i believe that honesty is the only key to human success, and with honest, i believe in myself and my life is really based on truth,and its all about who i really am.

Female (34) Glenville, New York

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