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UrfavvCalypso
UrfavvCalypso
Changed my mind looking for men and women now … some one I can explore my sexuality with and try new things together as a partner
Female (44) Niskayuna, New York
swankystar
swankystar
420 🍃🔥
Female (26) Flushing, New York
DivinaB
DivinaB
super new to this community. 😇 looking for friends to show me the ropes and others to spoil me (women preferably 😌😉). I take value in the care I put into myself and just want to enjoy my kinky life shamelessly but with rewards 😈 truly open to experimenting with couples
Female (31) New York, New York
L0velyC0C0
L0velyC0C0
I am a FemDom when it comes to my sexual desires. I enjoy submissive who are into pleasuring me. I enjoy getting my pussy eaten and pegging . i own a strap - on , a leash/collar other toys that I use on subs. Im into both hardcore/*** bdsm and soft dominance (candles, music, encouragement) With that being said , I like a person who i can build trust with sexually and is comfortable with me being in charge. You should be 100% submissive and want to be obedient and enjoy it. You understand the dynamics between a FemDom and her submissive. The goal is meeting on a consistent basis,preferably weekly. It can be a long term or temporary (for a few weeks or months) I look forward to meeting you .🥰😘
Female (43) Bronx, New York
Sopjia-3402
Sopjia-3402
I am kind, considerate, attentive, respectful, hardworking, professional, cheerful, intellectually flexible, sensual. Love a small company of good friends. Love to serve good food at my home
Female (27) Buffalo, New York
airhead
airhead
slut me ouuuut??✨ grade A attention whore💞 I like showing off my body to strangers online, what can I say?🙂‍↔️ sooo like my pictures, tell me what you’d do to me, and tell me I’m pretty.. please🥹
Female (25) New York, New York
askmeifigaf
askmeifigaf
didn't even know i had an account. lol. hmu, dont be weird tho... WARNING: 🚫YOU ARE APPROACHING A BBW. IF YOU CANNOT HANDLE THE BULL, DONT TUG THE HORNS.🚫
Female (28) New York, New York
Rosalinda1
Rosalinda1
I’m looking for a serious connection that can lead to marriage in the near future. I’m not interested in wasting time — honesty, clarity, and mutual respect are important to me. I’m open to all gender identities — women, men, non-binary, and trans. As long as there is communication, consent, and compatibility, I’m open-minded about my partner’s personal preferences and fantasies.
Female (24) New York, New York
Mari482
Mari482
LOOKING FOR 20-25 AND CONSISTENCY. I am not one to follow directions and I will push back. I like to be playfully defiant. I want someone that I can trust and that is patient with me. I can be obedient but I also need correction and a dom who isn’t going to falter or be afraid to correct me. Looking for a potential relationship and a dom, but for now I am just exploring and testing the waters. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic, it can be emotionally draining and exhausting. I text back fast and would hope that’s reciprocated. I want someone who is consistent. I want someone understanding and patient. I like being spanked and I like being a tease. At heart I am a hopeless romantic. At times I can be bold other times I can be shy. I am very sarcastic. I also don’t mind making friends. (Looking for a muncher that isn’t afraid to eat a coochie with hair) If that’s you hit me up. I’m not a one night stand kind of person. I don’t do hookups. I want an actual relationship. And I would rather have sex once I’m in a relationship and feel comfortable and ready.
Female (20) New York, New York
MissKitty-5840
MissKitty-5840
A woman who knows exactly what she wants. I move with purpose and expect the same from anyone who steps into my space. My presence is soft when I choose and firm when it is needed. I enjoy loyalty intelligence and a mind that bows because it wants to not because it has to. I guide with a calm hand and a sharp eye and I value a soul that listens just as much as it hungers to please. If you crave direction and thrive under clear confident control you may find yourself right at home with me.
Female (51) New York, New York
Alicia_223
Alicia_223
Hey it’s me Alicia and loyal to a fault. intelligent and independent, please don't waste my time. Realistically not into time wasters, I am looking for someone to establish a DD/lg or plain D/s dynamic. I don't mind chatting and having LD friends though. Again, please don't waste my time. I'm busy and I value my down time where I get to chat and have fun or do things I enjoy. dealing with trifling men isn't one of those things. Where are the horny and desperate daddies at?
Female (27) New York, New York
showgirl2023
showgirl2023
my name is *** I am looking for a foot slave a foot slave that's willing to contribute in more
Female (39) Brooklyn, New York
urmyzeriousmistress
urmyzeriousmistress
Just your average bratty asshole I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. I don’t accept back talk, disrespect, or disobedience you will be severely punished. I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉
Female (19) New York, New York
Demonickit10
Demonickit10
All attempts at the description will inevitably fall short. I'll just give you the cliff notes. I'm short with more to grab onto. I'm definitely a filthy little heathen once I'm in my comfort zone. My mind is both my best and worst enemy. I'm far too stubborn to be completely submissive, yet I'm far too gentle to be dom. I am somewhere in between. I do not have it in me to do casual at this time. learning more about myself as I go. I need more reassurance than I'd expected. On both levels but specifically in play. So, of course, I have a praise kink. I want a Daddy style dom. One who can both direct and compliment. I'm not into the age play of D/L. But the authority and confidence with care. I get into the possessive side of it as well. Random and inappropriate times with the risk of but not actually being caught. A man who always has a hand somewhere on my mind, throat, or body. I like the dirty nasty texts in the middle of your day about what you can't wait to do to me. Look me in the eyes while I smile and tell me what a good girl I am. Tell me who owns it. Preferably someone who doesn't mind party favors on occasion. It's not necessary but ideal.
Female (40) Troy, New York
alicee-1322
alicee-1322
HII! Before msging me just a quick heads up! Say what’s on your mind straight ahead, what you are looking for, and any kinks you want to share. I MIGHTTT not respond if you seem boring, so yeah
Female (18) Glenville, New York
Aurora-
Aurora-
You wanna know more about me? Well come find out darling maybe it’ll be worth your wild ♡ I am not interested in one night stands or fwb so please don’t ask, or it will simply be ignored.
Female (24) Middletown, New York
Veronika77
Veronika77
I’m tired of using the starter kits! I’m ready to explore..bondage, rope play, handcuffs, blindfold, being with a woman, FFM , MFM , trio, light flogging, being a submissive, and more ???‍♀️ but we can start there… 6 months later and I’m still here! thanks for the education, conversations and meetings that I did have. so that starter kit has grown into a larger ?. interesting that I found a gentleman from another site that has hopped abound the future desires of our bodies and mind. trust is growing and chemistry ⚛️ ?. now what’s left on the old list MFM , scissor a woman
Female (48) Harris, New York
Rosewatertears
Rosewatertears
36f English and ASL, art, music, literature, lifelong learner. Not working by Drs orders. Health challenges. Classic Irish redhead, more complicated than many. ✨
Female (37) West Henrietta, New York
jaa-5506
jaa-5506
Hi...Calm,very friendly,open,smiling,you will want to talk to me and ask me something .I love and really appreciate people who are constantly developing.I love very much to speak on interesting topics,to think over the meaning of life ..
Female (38) New York, New York
audreyyy89
audreyyy89
Im a Newyork based experience dom who has been in this lifestyle for over 5 years. Im single and looking to meet an obedient and submissive slut who I can have a serious relationship with. **Desires and Fantasies** I'm pretty experienced and into virtually everything especially dominating my slaves with toys. I love toys so much when using them but mostly on sub sluts. Strap on dildos, whips all in bondages, cuckolding, foot fetish, sensational play and gagging are some of the most fetishes I enjoy. Cant wait to meet an obedient slut to dom whenever I want.
Female (31) Flushing, New York
Marriedmilf42
Marriedmilf42
im mostly here to just see what or who is here. long story short im in a vanilla marriage that's unsatisfying. i found kink during the pandemic and ended up in some pretty dark spaces. i have an executive level job and family so not sure what to do
Female (42) New York, New York
thickthighscuteeyes
thickthighscuteeyes
I love ***s of all kinds love reading cooking and shopping I know some people get mad on here cause I don't read there message and they block me I'm always signed in just not always on here IM EXTREMELY SENSITIVE AND NEEDS SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS THAT I NEED TO MOVE MY OWN PACE AND FEEL SAFE AND SECURE
Female (44) Bay Shore, New York
Skylove03
Skylove03
Submissive who craves direction, routine, and mental dominance. If you’re consistent, confident, and know how to lead, you’ll get the best version of me
Female (22) New York, New York
Nayaa
Nayaa
can you be my daddyyyy 👀 lol no fr .. Hiii I’m Nayaa (20) .. I’m new to being open in this community 🥰 I wanna experience the Dom/Sub as well as a brat lifestyle !! (yes I’m bratty af lol 😩)
Female (21) Brooklyn, New York

New members in New York

UrfavvCalypso
UrfavvCalypso
Changed my mind looking for men and women now … some one I can explore my sexuality with and try new things together as a partner
Female (44) Niskayuna, New York
DominaKandys69
DominaKandys69
I'm a confident, self assured woman who knows exactly what she wants and isn’t afraid to take the lead. I believe in strength, direction, and purpose, both in life and in relationships. I’m drawn to the dynamic of a Flr Relationship, where mutual respect and trust form the foundation, and my natural dominance provides guidance, structure, and security. That said, I’m not all fire and steel I’m also deeply loving, nurturing, and intuitive. I care deeply about the people in my life and take pride in creating an environment where those around me feel safe, seen, and supported. I have a sharp sense of humor and a playful side that loves to tease, laugh, and keep things interesting.
Female (36) Scarsdale, New York
HorrorPrincess01
HorrorPrincess01
Hey loves! This isn’t my first time here but I am being extra cautious this time around BEFORE you jump in my DM pleaseeeeeeeee read below: I am married I do have kids I am wanting an outlet and an escape from the real world . I want a solid Dom/sub dynamic with someone training/ropes/collars and all. Only message me if u can handle my crazy life Also I am not sending photos right away so don’t ask! xoxoxo 💋
Female (37) Amsterdam, New York
Rosalinda1
Rosalinda1
I’m looking for a serious connection that can lead to marriage in the near future. I’m not interested in wasting time — honesty, clarity, and mutual respect are important to me. I’m open to all gender identities — women, men, non-binary, and trans. As long as there is communication, consent, and compatibility, I’m open-minded about my partner’s personal preferences and fantasies.
Female (24) New York, New York
DivinaB
DivinaB
super new to this community. 😇 looking for friends to show me the ropes and others to spoil me (women preferably 😌😉). I take value in the care I put into myself and just want to enjoy my kinky life shamelessly but with rewards 😈 truly open to experimenting with couples
Female (31) New York, New York
Sopjia-3402
Sopjia-3402
I am kind, considerate, attentive, respectful, hardworking, professional, cheerful, intellectually flexible, sensual. Love a small company of good friends. Love to serve good food at my home
Female (27) Buffalo, New York
Brit-rena9694
Brit-rena9694
Looking for a Daddy Dom to take care of me and to help me with discipline and someone I can sass too anytime I want 😂
Female (31) Fultonham, New York
Wonderstitigee
Wonderstitigee
I'm Tina by name and I apologize for violating your privacy, but it's good to find your page and I enjoy your appearance. Would it be possible for us to become friends and get to know one another and see where it will lead us too , im not a paid member to this site or if possible wonderstiti at gen would be good to link
Female (49) Westbury, New York
Skylove03
Skylove03
Submissive who craves direction, routine, and mental dominance. If you’re consistent, confident, and know how to lead, you’ll get the best version of me
Female (22) New York, New York
MissKitty-5840
MissKitty-5840
A woman who knows exactly what she wants. I move with purpose and expect the same from anyone who steps into my space. My presence is soft when I choose and firm when it is needed. I enjoy loyalty intelligence and a mind that bows because it wants to not because it has to. I guide with a calm hand and a sharp eye and I value a soul that listens just as much as it hungers to please. If you crave direction and thrive under clear confident control you may find yourself right at home with me.
Female (51) New York, New York
Debbrangell
Debbrangell
I consider myself a cheerful and vibrant woman, always ready to make the most of every experience that life offers me. My essence lies in my authenticity; I take pride in being transparent and sincere in every interaction. However, I want to take this opportunity to introduce myself in a way that sparks your curiosity and invites you to get to know me better.
Female (46) New York, New York
Conniesluvu
Conniesluvu
I possess a serene demeanor and maintain a harmonious sense of equilibrium in my life. My ability to remain composed, even in challenging situations, reflects my balanced nature and ensures that I approach every circumstance with clarity and poise. I often find myself envisioning a blissful family life, where laughter fills the air, and warmth radiates from every corner of our home. I long for a sense of stability that allows us to navigate life's challenges with confidence and ease. In this dream, our relationships are nurtured with love and understanding, creating a serene atmosphere where peace prevails, and every moment is cherished.
Female (45) New York, New York
Softboobs
Softboobs
Looking for a person who is mature and opend minded and knows exactly what he wants. Someone who has a high sex drive and knows how to make his partner scream in and out of bedroom
Female (37) Pawling, New York
urmyzeriousmistress
urmyzeriousmistress
Just your average bratty asshole I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. I don’t accept back talk, disrespect, or disobedience you will be severely punished. I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉
Female (19) New York, New York
alicee-1322
alicee-1322
HII! Before msging me just a quick heads up! Say what’s on your mind straight ahead, what you are looking for, and any kinks you want to share. I MIGHTTT not respond if you seem boring, so yeah
Female (18) Glenville, New York
sophie432
sophie432
I’m someone who believes that love should feel peaceful but exciting at the same time. I’m caring, loyal, and I appreciate the little things — deep talks, shared laughter, and quiet moments that mean the most. I love the beach, nature, cooking for people I care about, and spending time with family. Life has taught me to value kindness, honesty, and connection over perfection. I’m looking for someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature, and ready to build something real — someone who sees love as a partnership, not a game. If that sounds like you, then maybe we’ve just found a good beginning.
Female (38) Lake Ronkonkoma, New York
Yourssmistress
Yourssmistress
I am a woman who embodies confidence, control, and calm authority. I don’t chase attention; I draw it in with intention. My energy is magnetic a balance of warmth and power, discipline and temptation. Those who come close quickly learn that I value truth, loyalty, and respect above all. I don’t entertain chaos. I admire composure, consistency, and a mind that understands direction. My world is built on structure where obedience is not weakness, but a form of strength. To stand before me is to face both comfort and challenge. I can be soft-spoken yet firm, inviting yet untouchable. I guide, teach, and command with purpose, not pride. If you earn my time, know it’s because you’ve proven your sincerity. I don’t need to demand attention I inspire devotion through presence alone.
Female (37) Hagaman, New York
stauz0420
stauz0420
I want you to know that i am a sincere, honest, caring, kind, friendly very easy to get along with. I am social, romantic, passionate, smart, intelligent, cool headed,adaptive,have a big heart. And i do believe in the truth and honesty as God is first in my life. And i believe that honesty is the only key to human success, and with honest, i believe in myself and my life is really based on truth,and its all about who i really am.
Female (34) Glenville, New York
Emma-2826
Emma-2826
I’m a successful business owner who’s built a life I love and now I’m ready to share it. Whether it’s hiking through nature, relaxing on a beach, cooking up something delicious in my kitchen, or chasing sunsets in new cities, I’m all about exploring what life has to offer. Music, movies, and movement keep me balanced, and I believe in living with heart and intention, Here to connect, not just scroll, I appreciate depth, chemistry, and people who know what they want. Let’s keep it real, playful, and grounded in mutual respect
Female (34) New York, New York
MiangelMiss
MiangelMiss
Welcome to my world of kink where your *** is my pleasure. Mistress will welcome novices who wants to start a journey into bdsm and gradually turn you into my play thing. Once you have entered over the kinky threshold you will be hooked and I shall be an imprint in your mind. Mistresses play space is fully equipped with a whole range of toys and implements, also a wardrobe full of sissy dress up to make you pretty.
Female (30) New York, New York
frecheulla
frecheulla
First of all, if there's no response during the conversation, it's usually the system's fault here. I'm looking for an honest, intense connection with depth, closeness, and a certain spark. It's important to me that we treat each other with openness, respect, and mutual appreciation. I'm looking for a partnership in which we share new experiences together—sensual, vibrant, and with genuine curiosity about each other. If you're interested in getting to know someone who enjoys life and is ready for a real encounter on equal terms, I look forward to hearing from you.
Female (70) Brooklyn, New York
evahmmond
evahmmond
I am passionate and sincere woman. Glance at my user and reach me art the qmaiile. It would be amazing for me to meet someone with a kind soul, I love to share my positive emotions with those I love, and make them smile and feel good. Looking forward to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with .. !!
Female (40) Hamburg, New York
woolston
woolston
I am a woman of home values, educated, responsible and friendly looking for true love, I am good listening and giving advice, very tender and loving, love to laugh and spend good moments with the people that I appreciate
Female (45) New York, New York
Lisa_Miller213
Lisa_Miller213
I am an independent girl, love fun, humorous, sincere my hobby is to travel around the world and discover new things and delicious foods, I am a financially independent girl
Female (35) New York, New York

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AnalFunBaddie
Looking For Well Used, Experienced Assholes

Female looking for men/women/trans that is very anal experienced and can handle a good fisting or whatever else I can shove in their hole. I love assholes that are wrecked and loose that can stretch and gape wide. I also love assholes that get sloppy wet. If your asshole fits this discription message me.
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Slut4Anal
BBC TRAIN

I’m the biggest nasties cumslut and *** whore. I want all of you to run a train on my ass
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FeelinFroggieBbyGirl
*** desperation???

Like the title says... tease me and challenge me.
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AnalFunBaddie
Let's Stretch Our Holes Together

Anal loving female searching for men/women/trans that will let rim, finger, toy, and fist their assholes wide open and do the same to me. I love rimming, gaping, fisting, pegging, and some prolapse.
Kinky Date ● 22 to 43 years ● 85km around USA Hannibal
Realmanneede
I am seeking a real man only

are there real men here?? i do not want any younger men please>> just my age mates and people older than me
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mango855
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dodgertown76091
cyber fun 👥

online fun 👥 I am pretty vanilla and recently joined FET after doing some solo exploration on Reddit and learning exhibitionism, mutual masturbation, and sexting are things I really enjoy 💦 I understand a lot of people here want a physical relationship and that’s totally okay buuut if you’re into cyber fun, perhaps we can have some fun together?
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Slut4Anal
I love ***

Dreaming off 6+ big dicks ***ing all over me

Dripping from my hair

Down my throat

Make my puke on it then lick it up
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dannyswife
Hey I'm 33 my man is 53 looking for a woman who wa

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BDSM Play Partner ● 39 to 50 years ● 20km around USA Canton
PrincessKimmy
New Princess in town

New princess in town looking for a new slave 😋🤭
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 34 to 80 years ● 500km around USA New York
blondebimbo48285
Free house Indian trail, NC.

Looking for males (open to females perhaps) I’m 19F attractive so please keep that in mind before responding!! Im a brat sub with a free house looking for some fun and sbstnces if applicable.
A little more abt what I want:
Taller than 5’6 (I’m 5’6)
Dom
Under 38yo
Fit and hygienic
(I have a spanking kink)

hmu!!
NSA ● 18 to 38 years ● 65km around USA Indian Trail
Mediocre8
Looking for ***ping Tom's

Men & women- couples
Who likes to sit in the corner and watch my ex bang me
BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 50 years ● 15km around USA Columbus
Chl123
halo

looking for master，everything can accept
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Indonesia Bantan
PhoenixRae7
Pussy playing

I’m just looking for some black, wet, pretty pus$y women to send videos to me of you playing with yourself. I’m like them short, clean, and sexy in the face!
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 29 to 42 years ● 65km around USA Milwaukee
abdlstonerprincess
Daddy…

Little girly girl looking for her special daddy
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Seekonk
hirsute919brat
seeking kinky covid conscious cuties in my life ~

anybody in the florida (miami) area or nc triangle area still masking & wanna talk/explore kink?¿ inquire within for a yapping sesh! looking to comfortably explore new connections in the new year (:
Kinky Date ● 25 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Raleigh
CreoleeSupaaWet
Heyyy !!!! It’s the weekend let’s chill

White men where are you come here gotta be in Dallas area though let’s go somewhere tonight


Dallas only Dallas Dallas Dallas area


Dfw !!!! Area only let’s have some fun 🤩
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Munch Buddy ● 32 to 70 years ● 5km around USA Dallas
HiLovie
19F 💖| College student 👩🏽‍🎓| 👀 caring, experienced

Seeking a mature Dom to guide and support me. Prefer a respectful Parental Daddy Dom arrangement (28+, discreet due to obvious reasons).

Message with your age, city
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 80 years ● 95km around USA Woodbury
Phoenix13lilly
Looking for a Sadist Dom for play only

My terms of agreement

If you don't check everything off of my list. It's not a negotiable

  1. Have to have your own dungeon
  2. Have to be extremely experienced in impact play
  3. Have to have experience with a whip.
  4. No falling in love
  5. Responsible and reliable
  6. Can't be no more than an hour away from me
  7. Have to be std's free and proof of paper.
  8. No married or complication relationships.. need the top to be single
    9.. has to be comfortable with going to events and have experience with impact sessions in front of an audience...
  9. Someone who can keep their feelings at the door and still put me in my place. Only when I am in front of him
  10. Someone who consents to using me as a sex slave and enjoys giving *** with pleasure.
  11. Don't get to control me outside of the bedroom
  12. If you are married.. or have a partner. I have to talk to them just so I know they are consenting to the situation.
  13. Someone who is very strict about rules.When entering the dungeon and can role play

  14. someone who can challenge me.

    Why am I looking for this? Because reality, it's too complicated to find a relationship, so why not just for play .. not just your typical play.. a solid play partner. With no feelings . If you can't message me here, you can message me on fetlife.com. i use the same name as I do here
BDSM Play Partner ● 40 to 50 years ● 165km around USA Pinetops
Slut4Anal
ANAL WHORE

I want to be degraded. Nothing off the table. use my wholes. message me.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA New York
saltNpepper_lover
50+only

Looking for a older seasoned man to play with me
Kinky Date ● 50 to 80 years ● 85km around USA San Antonio
london82904
Trans

Looking for a bi trans for play sessions with myself and male partner
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ray_skull
Read up

Submissive men to the front only
Send a message to actually get a response
Online fun only
Prefer around my age but if your cute Try your luck
I am STRICTLY dom stop trying me and stay in your lane.
Thx u 😘
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 30 years ● 500km around USA Antioch
LilithMedea
Looking for sub who...

...is into (all) of the following: oral service, long-term chastity and denial, watersports and ***.
CBT and SPH also welcome.
And is looking for a FLR.
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