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VixenKay
VixenKay
I’m very comfortable with my wants and needs. Come have a conversation with me! Ethical non-monogamous. I’m looking for friends and real conversations. Get to know me and maybe we can vibe together. ♥️ Life gets busy so I won’t always be able to respond. fun fact: I bake amazing bread. Very Witchy? A little artsy, a little out doorsy, a little hippie. ☮️
Female (23) Putnam Valley, New York
therubyredxx
therubyredxx
hi I’m ruby. I really enjoy taking pictures of myself and sharing. in a enm relationship. kind of just dipping my toes in the water. IF YOUD LIKE TO SEE MORE: https://linktr.ee/therubyredxx I’m on pornhub and x/twitter with the same username. you can find more videos/pics there.
Female (29) Potsdam, New York
Patesp
Patesp
A cheerful, gentle and self-confident woman. It's never boring with me. I am always open to the possibilities of life. I am for traditional family values.
Female (46) Valley Stream, New York
LadyMeg
LadyMeg
Lady, slut, nature and music lover seeking friends and lovers. This summer, 2024, I'd love the opportunity to meet up with folks and become friends. Whether we're sharing a bite, a song or sharing our beds. Flirting and foreplay. Sweet and soft or hard and messy, my preferences vary. My partner and I are practicing ethical non-monogamy, swinging and maybe solo play, and bonus points if you ladies would be interested in him too. As always communication and enthusiastic consent are sexy
Female (39) Mohawk, New York
Lala_1991
Lala_1991
If I'm being completely honest, you don't need to read any long, drawn out essay about my favorite food, hobbies, my childhood, or what I dislike about this or that. I'm looking to be manhandled, told what to do, I want to be punished for moaning & screaming in pleasure only for that very punishment to make me lose control even more. I want to feel my man's hand around my throat, his eyes locked onto mine, going harder & deeper with each stroke as I beg you not to stop... ...oh, did I mention that's only the beginning? And when all is said & done we casually clean up, get dressed, say goodbye and go on as if nothing happened.
Female (33) Hicksville, New York
Lunastarburst
Lunastarburst
Hello all my name is Luna. I love meeting and getting to know new people. Always friends first and see what happens. ** I will only be around people that are fully vaccinated!** I want to do more exploring and have as many experiences as possible. I would consider myself more of a sensation whore then a pain slut. When I am in little space I identify as a little girl NOT A Baby! I enjoy typical little girl things however a lot of my vanilla interests overlap with my little space. I would absolutely love to be a goth princess. I identify as bi and have been out since I was 18. I have mostly been with straight men. I would like to explore this side of me with other types of people especially women. As for my vanilla interests I'm a bit of a geek, a goth and a metal head. I love going to shows. l also enjoy cosplay and going to cons. I am always open to suggestions for new cosplays.
Female (36) New York, New York
ellebelle04
ellebelle04
i’m elle i’m a sub per say but more of a brat and i’m looking for someone who can handle me
Female (21) New York, New York
hailyc3423
hailyc3423
Hi! I’m open to all genders/orientations, I’m an exhibitionist, so me and my boyfriend are looking for people to watch, and see where things go :) Please don’t message me anything gross, I won’t answer, at least try to get to know me first lol
Female (23) Massapequa, New York
Mulberry212
Mulberry212
I’m just a tiny switch slut who happens to be a Top OnlyFans performer. **Best way to make sure I see your messages ? ?OnlyFans Find out why I’m a top Femdom goddess on OnlyFans. Chat with me there. https://onlyfans.com/mulberry212 Teeny tiny slut ♠️ & Strapon Princess. Love making my cuckold bf watch me get dicked down. Expert at strapon fucking sissy sluts. I’m a switch so I love to take control & sometimes I’m a little cock slut. Oh yeah, I’m a ballet dancer & part time exhibitionist ? I’m looking for drug & disease free, clean & hygienic: -Hung bulls willing to be safe & tested. -Subs looking to feminized & or pegged. -Cute girls looking to film together -Trans to the top of the line
Female (23) Bronx, New York
LTPeg
LTPeg
First timer to this site. Looking to see what’s out there. Ideally would like to find a guy who likes to be pegged, and dominated for a LTR. I’m a kind mistress, but seek for my pleasure, and if you’re good, well we’ll see. I like caged cocks and begging. Your only goal should be my pleasure. MUST be clean, shaved & a non cigarette smoker.
Female (42) North Tonawanda, New York
DeVita
DeVita
My desire is to find a relationship that is a partnership in romance, personal growth and ideally business too. My man will contribute to me and me to him. My ideal mate and I will be better human beings for having known each other. I am looking for someone who will challenge me, teach me, and cherish me as he does himself, someone who is gentle with me but firm in the world.
Female (35) Roslyn Heights, New York
Linda_Mayz
Linda_Mayz
Top lady with advanced BDSM skills. I am looking for a SUBMISSIVE partner to go to the expert level of the Game. I was born being tended to specific psychological games and this inclination transferred to the strong desire to play Femdom scenarios. I consider BDSM activity as a healthy way to get a euphoric state of mind and escape everyday reality. About me: I’m blonde with blue eyes, tall and slim; very well-groomed & clean, and have a feminine style. My main interests in life include entrepreneurship and harmonic self-development.
Female (31) Brooklyn, New York
Michellenly61
Michellenly61
I am a confident woman who came here to find her happiness. I have a great desire for a real meeting and only for this purpose I am looking for a man on this dating site. As for me, this is the best of all dating sites and I think that it will definitely help me find my happiness. I am not afraid that I will have a real meeting, this is my great goal here.
Female (55) Rotterdam, New York
SexxyMoeFoe
SexxyMoeFoe
I don't speak German, so I won't reply if you don't write in English. Single black woman, smart, and have a great career, and I have a lot to offer the right guy. I am the whole package, so I need the whole package. I'm sarcastic and snarky, so if you are thinned skinned we may not get along. I am a vixen and need a STAG who is also single, smart, confident, funny, clever, local, and sarcastic (or have dark sense of humor). Stag Vixen relationships: metro.co.uk/2018/06/04/stag-vixen-sex-super-popular-different-cuckolding-7603612/ I like to travel, cook, I love gadgets, computers, video games (although I suck at them), music and dancing. Avid reader. I also like going out for dinner and drinks with friends (both upscale and small hole-in-the-wall). Museums, Broadway, plays, concerts, or just relaxing at home watching a movie or listening to some tunes... **Desires and Fantasies** I need rough, I need public play, role play, and dirty talk. I need MMFs and group fun. I need to tease and edge. I need taboo and kink and fantasy. I am not a domme, and I am not a sub. Not interested in d/s relationships or services. I don't want to serve or service anyone, or have anyone serve me Seeking a stag. Preferably Bi. MMFs. Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
Female (43) New York, New York
PrincessaJas
PrincessaJas
Im a Femdom Goddess wanting to take care of the kinky desires of my slave that worships me Mostly looking for toilet slaves and random fetishes now Afro-Latina
Female (25) Brooklyn, New York
Pennylove
Pennylove
47 yrs. old, married and a mother of two..when I was younger I had a craving for kink and being dominated and I fed that craving no matter what. Being a mom and a wife for 24 yrs. I put their needs before mine. Now my sex drive is out of control, that hunger has come back stronger than ever and my spouse is not into it no matter how hard I try. So not knowing any other way to fill my needs, I think connecting with others will help me.
Female (47) Harrisville, New York
MistressFrenchxxx
MistressFrenchxxx
SUBMISSIVE SWITCH..Freaky slim thick Massages, Water Sports ?,Fisting, Deep/DarkBDSM , 69 , Pegging & Much more ..Now Seeking Serious Inquiries Let's Have sum Fun?
Female (30) New York, New York
hellobunny
hellobunny
Recovering from a heartbreaking M/s dynamic, slowly getting back out there. Not great at casual playing. i am interested in finding my real Master. — “Being Your slave, what should i do but tend upon the hours and times of Your desire? i have no precious time at all to spend, Nor services to do, till You require.” W.S.
Female (43) Brooklyn, New York
QueenCourtney
QueenCourtney
I am a woman who values honesty,. I'm very active outside of work and I'm quite kinky and dominant.. I like playing with control and that may manifest by giving orders. If you have a thing for young goddesses you'll be caught up , Total freethinker , calm and extremely bold I pride myself to be very independent and would love to be respected at all times
Female (29) Brooklyn, New York
Megu
Megu
I would say I love to tease and take the lead just to test boundaries. I'm still a sub but pretty bratty and want to get punished for not following orders. I want a possessive Dom who loves putting thier sub in their place. I'm a good sub tho and will do anything for my Dom. Please call me a good girl ❤️. To explain it better,I'm pretty much a Dom who loves to get dominated by a stronger possessive Dom. Put me in my place if your up for the challenge ❤️❤️.
Female (22) Buffalo, New York
goodgirl4life
goodgirl4life
i don't know how to describe myself other than being submissive turns me on. I really love the power exchange, rules, structure and discipline. I'd ideally like to have a monogamous relationship that I can submit to my spouse, something long term. if you try to dom me RIGHT AWAY You're going to be DISMISSED right away.
Female (35) Carmel, New York
LolaBunni
LolaBunni
About me: I'm looking for a long-distance dom/cg online for the moment. I love reading, writing, listening to music, cooking, and dancing. I also love video games. Some of my favs are COD, anything scary, and Minecraft (hey, it's very therapeutic). Im also into poly and bdsm. I’m introverted and kinda shy, and usually take a while to open up to someone. I'm a very fun person once you get to know me. I'm also plus size and kinda sensitive, so be nice, plzz. ???
Female (34) Buffalo, New York
MistressBee31
MistressBee31
Let’s explore your fantasies together, whatever they are. Wouldn’t you much rather find out in reality, than live another second wondering all that might be?
Female (31) New York, New York
MistressLolita
MistressLolita
I am a 22yrs old Female Dom looking for a sub to punish and torture ! Come join my dungeon If you love to get tickle , feet ,sniff panties & my fat ass . I promise you won't regret it :*
Female (25) New York, New York

New members in New York

Patesp
Patesp
A cheerful, gentle and self-confident woman. It's never boring with me. I am always open to the possibilities of life. I am for traditional family values.
Female (46) Valley Stream, New York
Loveland420
Loveland420
I am in search of someone that is looking to meet me in person and have a great time getting to know each other inside and out. I am a mommy dom and I will put you in a diaper and then treat you like the little baby that you are. If you misbehave I will punish you. I am also looking for someone that is interested in pegging.
Female (40) Deer Park, New York
Liliana-1985
Liliana-1985
imaginative, creative artist with colorful, wild and passionate fantasies! educated professional, and sapiosexual! I am ambitious, driven and successful in my job and know exactly what I want and desire! and looking for the same! someone who is successful, powerful, who knows what he wants and takes/ goes after what he wants! it is only then that connection, touch, and desires have room to bloom and be limitless! seeking deeper genuine connection with an intelligent gentleman, with a strong mind, who has wild/ dark desires but also a kind caring heart! hmm, i guess more comes later ☺️?
Female (39) New York, New York
Mulberry212
Mulberry212
I’m just a tiny switch slut who happens to be a Top OnlyFans performer. **Best way to make sure I see your messages ? ?OnlyFans Find out why I’m a top Femdom goddess on OnlyFans. Chat with me there. https://onlyfans.com/mulberry212 Teeny tiny slut ♠️ & Strapon Princess. Love making my cuckold bf watch me get dicked down. Expert at strapon fucking sissy sluts. I’m a switch so I love to take control & sometimes I’m a little cock slut. Oh yeah, I’m a ballet dancer & part time exhibitionist ? I’m looking for drug & disease free, clean & hygienic: -Hung bulls willing to be safe & tested. -Subs looking to feminized & or pegged. -Cute girls looking to film together -Trans to the top of the line
Female (23) Bronx, New York
MistressBee31
MistressBee31
Let’s explore your fantasies together, whatever they are. Wouldn’t you much rather find out in reality, than live another second wondering all that might be?
Female (31) New York, New York
PrincessaJas
PrincessaJas
Im a Femdom Goddess wanting to take care of the kinky desires of my slave that worships me Mostly looking for toilet slaves and random fetishes now Afro-Latina
Female (25) Brooklyn, New York
Bytch
Bytch
Imagine that bitch that you could never make happy. That is me. I like what I want, when I want it and not interested in anything physical. That means I have no desire to touch your well-used toys or give relief to any submissives that are trying to "top from the bottom." I am the creative type who enjoys reading and perusing pictures so please don't get excited if you see I have viewed yours.
Female (54) Binghamton, New York
liz_skylarsexy77
liz_skylarsexy77
I`m sensitive, feminine, friendly. I consider myself as an optimist, a woman that likes sport, active way of living. I`m well-mannered and easily find common language with people. I really wish to find the right man here.
Female (43) Brooklyn, New York
hopeandpray60
hopeandpray60
I am a woman who values family and strives to create a home. For me, the most important thing is taking care of my loved ones and creating a warm atmosphere in our home. I believe that family is the foundation of our happiness, and I am ready to make every effort to create a happy and harmonious family life.
Female (39) Centereach, New York
Cheleste
Cheleste
Longterm enjoy hands being tied above head and choke maybe some other things don't know new and don't know much
Female (31) Syracuse, New York
MistressFrenchxxx
MistressFrenchxxx
SUBMISSIVE SWITCH..Freaky slim thick Massages, Water Sports ?,Fisting, Deep/DarkBDSM , 69 , Pegging & Much more ..Now Seeking Serious Inquiries Let's Have sum Fun?
Female (30) New York, New York
Songlady77
Songlady77
I am flexible, kind, generous, responsive, humorous, ambitious, sociable, emotional, sensitive. I want to create a family with a like-minded person with whom we have common goals and interests, have children, invest in their upbringing and development. Support and inspire my husband to do good deeds in the family and in general.
Female (52) Flushing, New York
kate4263
kate4263
My hobbies are bodybuilding, food, singing, shopping, jewelry, I am a very independent, confident, beautiful, generous, like adventure and other interesting activities
Female (31) New York, New York
neptunefire11
neptunefire11
Female (18) New York, New York
Mercy-7305
Mercy-7305
I am a tender and caring woman. I am kind, but strict, beautiful, but faithful. I make friends easily. Making people beautiful and happy is what I do with great pleasure. I believe that life is a gift. We should I have strong values in life and want to create a strong family! I am sure that people should value every single moment! I want to have a good family. I want to be happy as a woman, and I want my man to be happy every day
Female (43) Miller Place, New York
khgbtuyurd
khgbtuyurd
I'm looking for someone who shares my hobbies who can collaborate with me, whether it's long term or short term, but I'm joining for the first time I'd prefer it to be long term, understanding and tolerant of my
Female (35) Nyack, New York
u-65ad724f0118b
u-65ad724f0118b
I'm a very submissive, I love to always obey and please my Master so well and at all times and love to watch him smile and be happy as that's my happiness to
Female (18) Flushing, New York
LTPeg
LTPeg
First timer to this site. Looking to see what’s out there. Ideally would like to find a guy who likes to be pegged, and dominated for a LTR. I’m a kind mistress, but seek for my pleasure, and if you’re good, well we’ll see. I like caged cocks and begging. Your only goal should be my pleasure. MUST be clean, shaved & a non cigarette smoker.
Female (42) North Tonawanda, New York
Slut-5347
Slut-5347
This slut needs to be dominated dm and ill send u a pick of all the toys u can make me torcher my self with. Limits No piss No shit No blood And im not aloud to cum
Female (23) New York, New York
Pennylove
Pennylove
47 yrs. old, married and a mother of two..when I was younger I had a craving for kink and being dominated and I fed that craving no matter what. Being a mom and a wife for 24 yrs. I put their needs before mine. Now my sex drive is out of control, that hunger has come back stronger than ever and my spouse is not into it no matter how hard I try. So not knowing any other way to fill my needs, I think connecting with others will help me.
Female (47) Harrisville, New York
Bbwlady4u6969
Bbwlady4u6969
Looking for someone to take control of me and treat me the way I'm suppose to be treated .would prefer a black man but open to other races also.
Female (42) Utica, New York
Kelly-5149
Kelly-5149
I want to know what true love is. Is what we pursue throughout our lives what we want? If not, let’s start with a wonderful adventure and find out together. I want to find a partner who is trustworthy, caring and enjoys life. We can get to know each other better and see if we have common values and interests
Female (35) New York, New York
DeVita
DeVita
My desire is to find a relationship that is a partnership in romance, personal growth and ideally business too. My man will contribute to me and me to him. My ideal mate and I will be better human beings for having known each other. I am looking for someone who will challenge me, teach me, and cherish me as he does himself, someone who is gentle with me but firm in the world.
Female (35) Roslyn Heights, New York
BlackChubbyBunny
BlackChubbyBunny
I’m new to the scene of BDSM, though I’ve always known of it and it has interested me for years. I’m an uncontrolled bratty sub looking to be tamed by her Daddy. Looking for someone older and who has been in the scene awhile who can teach me in ways that research can’t do. I don’t need anyone who doesn’t know what they’re doing or anyone looking to waste my time — you’ll find out why I’m a brat real quick if that’s the case. I want to be degraded, humiliated, bound, spanked, cream-pied, and used. I also want to be praised, cuddled, and cared for. I’m a grown woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to communicate it. If you can’t handle me, don’t even bother messaging.
Female (25) Brooklyn, New York

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anlmbrt
Cat

I need someone to chat with 😉💦
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Antonino ● 17 minutes ago
Jessxx_246
I Want a Daddy

Looking for a ddlg Dom daddy to make me his princess 🥺
BDSM Play Partner ● 24 to 46 years ● 500km around USA, Akron ● 26.04.2024 - 28.04.2024
Paradeyes
Wassup

Looking for fun
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Hawkinsville ● 37 minutes ago
pretty-praire54024
Looking for a play partner

Shy submissive seeking a dominant play partner for an electrifying experience tomorrow. Let's explore our deepest desires together in a safe and consensual environment. Are you ready to take control and guide me through a journey of pleasure? Serious inquiries only. Message me for more information I’d like this to be around 12pm and we can discuss a place
BDSM Play Partner ● 23 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Fairview ● one hour ago
purplecows
I wanna chat

I JUST WANT SOMEONE TO TREAT ME LIKE A BABY!

sorry that was aggressive
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Boston ● 26.04.2024 - 23.05.2024
StonedXxl
Looking for someone to worship me

I want someone to worship and praise me. Spoil me in my love langue’s with a mutual return of pleasure and domination and nurturing.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 66 years ● 25km around USA, Brooklyn ● 2 hours ago
babygurl1991
Looking for 24 hrs daddy dom

Hey everyone, so I'm looking for a 24 hrs daddy dom/sub-sugar baby relationship. He or she has to be experienced doing this and be open to training me as 24 hrs I've only done once. I absolutely loved it but I moved here lol. I put sugar baby-sub as I feel the two kinda play hand in hand. Ex. I listen to a rule created by my dom I get rewarded/punished. Plz let me know if you have questions as I really want that dynamic but I do need someone willing to train :)
Kinky Date ● 23 to 80 years ● 330km around USA, Lake Havasu City ● 26.04.2024 - 29.04.2024
KrasivayaaKatyaa
Listen I’m not about to sit here and do nothing to

Check if you’re in the area, let’s meet up, just get to know each other.
Club Buddy ● 18 to 45 years ● 70km around USA, Racine ● 26.04.2024 - 27.04.2024
Yourfavlatina6
Latino guys😉

Where are my submissive Latinos 😉😋
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA, Las Vegas ● 3 hours ago
LitttleLuna
Seeking

Lookinh for a new dom mine decided we’re not meant for eachother. Looking for a Dom. All doms are welcomed. Soft, Hard, Sadists, Daddy Doms , Etc.
Looking for a Ddlg Dynamic. Prefer someone older. Communication & Honesty is a must. After Care & Safe Words are very important to me!
I’m into a lot of different kinks let’s see what we have in common!
Ask me for my list c:
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Texas City ● 4 hours ago
LitttleLuna
Seeking

Looking for a new dom… mine decided he wasn’t meant for me i guess?

open to all doms.

we can talk about kinks and limits in chat.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA, Texas City ● 4 hours ago
WireVampBabe
Vampires

Vampire
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 460km around UK, Coleford ● 5 hours ago
RoseGold
Subs only in WA area PM me

25F seeking well trained or trainable (NOT MENTORSHIP) Sub who is Male or Male presenting 22yrs or older, that is open to lifestyle service mainly. NO SWITCHES. Must be in or around Seattle area (WA) as I’m seeking IRL ONLY thank you. 🌹
BDSM Play Partner ● 22 to 80 years ● 170km around USA, Seattle ● 6 hours ago
ajdarkprince69
Adult Theatre Fun

Love being used like a slut in the adult theatre. I like Deja Vu Love Boutique on Sammy Davis Dr.
NSA ● 18 to 59 years ● 25km around USA, Las Vegas ● 8 hours ago
Lunababy84
Any takers

This could be fun 21+ only
Club Buddy ● 21 to 40 years ● 25km around USA, Eagan ● 9 hours ago
dunya18
:)

Looking for a dom/daddy if your up for it
No insane dickheads
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK, London ● 9 hours ago
savgirll234
im looking for a daddy 😋😛

IM LOOKING FOR AN ACTUAL DADDY 😂 i know what i want and like. stop texting me if your not going to give me what i want 🤣😘 this princess loves being spoiled 🤷‍♀️
Kinky Date ● 21 to 80 years ● 470km around USA, Columbus ● 9 hours ago
Mayby
Looking for a Kink Match ☺️

If you’re in the Naples/Fort Myers area or around, shoot me a message. I’m looking for someone who matches my kinks and is willing to take it slow and get to know eachother, and go on dates and such!
Please look at my profile for more info!
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 95km around USA, Estero ● 24.04.2024 - 20.05.2024
EJB2908
Looking to explore my dom side

Just looking to explore my dominant side. No strings attached as in a relationship
NSA ● 18 to 30 years ● 25km around UK, Tonbridge and Malling ● 15 hours ago
chippedrednailpolish
One size fits all? Sometimes SAT/ATX

I'm looking for a plethora of playmates & relationships
I spend time with someone who is a bit of a cuck. Interested in being watched? Mainly looking for men. But I also have pleasurable taste for women, and they are most welcome.
I'm also down for one on one with the right chemistry, so long as ENM is not an issue. For you. Bc I'm going to do me. I have such a varied taste in sex and intimacy that it's quite difficult to put it into this box. So conversation & communication is key.
BDSM Play Partner ● 34 to 57 years ● 500km around USA, San Antonio ● 25.04.2024 - 21.05.2024
His-Domme
Any kinky slave around!?

I'm not new here, I had my break on FET but l've always been in the lifestyle. I'm an interesting and experienced domme with a lot of experience and no limit. Exploring is my strength, so I'm here again with hope to meet willing slaves, obedient and committed kinds. If you feel you can fill those purposes, text me directly on TeIegram my username is fetishdomme
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 90 years UK, London ● 25.04.2024 - 23.05.2024
SassySweetheart31
Skin to skin fun.

I'm here to find NSA/FWB fun and see where it goes.
NSA ● 21 to 99 years Australia, Perth ● 18 hours ago
Vanirae
BBC

Delicious BBC Kings to the front.
👑♠️
Kinky Date ● 55 to 80 years ● 35km around USA, Vista ● 20 hours ago

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