Find kinky women in New York

I’m a dominant woman who commands respect, obedience, and devotion — and yes, that includes tribute. I don’t chase. I attract those who understand that submission begins with structure, worship, and offering. If you’re not aligned with that, keep scrolling. But if you’re ready to serve a real goddess — I’m listening.
Female (25) New York, New York
Experienced, confident, and deeply passionate about BDSM. I value obedience, loyalty, and mutual respect. Skilled in roleplay, bondage, and worship, I thrive on power exchange, pushing boundaries, and creating intense, unforgettable experiences.
Female (40) Wantagh, New York
laid back female enjoying her life. conversation turns me on.I HATE TEXTING!!! I can’t get to know you that way. If you’re not down to FT don’t waste my time.
Female (39) New York, New York
I am a lesbian and I am very non dominant. Please be respectful as I will be to you unless you come at me wrong. I am very open to things and love learning new things sexually and non sexually. I am a very sexual person and my mind stays in the gutter so if that bothers you than don’t message me as we won’t jive. Looking to make friends and maybe more definitely not against a no strings attached but that dynamic will be made clear. I’m 40 and I’m not skinny but not quite a bbw so curvy maybe lol I love just being me I swear no man on here can flipping read y’all are just pathetic!
Female (42) Sidney, New York
Just starting out, I’m open to a lot of things. I’m heavily interested in orgasm control, praise, ties, and other things in that area. Submissive. Looking to talk, cyber fun, Not wanting to meet up just yet. Ask me if you’re going to send me pics, i’ll stop responding if you don’t ☺️☺️
Female (28) Brooklyn, New York
Just your average bratty asshole I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. I don’t accept back talk, disrespect, or disobedience you will be severely punished. I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉
Female (19) New York, New York
I am intersex if that bother's you don't bother me ! I'm fully and genetically female but I was also born with a few genetic conditions that I have to deal with the rest of my life ! It's not something I like to talk much about as it's in the past but I feel its only fair to disclose. **Desires and Fantasies** A brand new totally transformed unrecognizable life in the most realistic hardcore setting that I can find compatibility in. Complete Identity lose from name, to appereance personality surgeries tattoos and piercings, the sky is the limit, I love pushing the extreme and taboo.
Female (33) Lockport, New York
18 and a horrible masochist... My biggest need in life is a sadistic man in latex, makeup and insanely high heels
Female (18) Albany, New York
Looking for my switch. I know this isn’t your conventional dating site, but I’d like to find an LTR. I’d like to find a masculine man, in shape, and open to exploring being dominated now and then for a LTR. My kids are grown, hoping yours are too. **Not interested in couples or one nighters. Anything else, please ask. MUST be clean, groomed & a non cigarette smoker. LOCAL ONLY, SEEKING AROUND MY AGE, WHITE MAN.
Female (44) North Tonawanda, New York
haiii im nola lookng to meet ppl in ny/nyc please hmu im open to many. Imma meanie🙄 I put men on leashes over here!💯 THINK YOU DESERVE A LEASH?🦮 You will worship my body and shower me in jewelry, flowers, gifts, ect. I own you💋 for doms~come eat this pussy for hours, I love love when it’s centered on me. pin me, tie me own and use me 🤤😩🥰
Female (19) New York, New York
== Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Degradee 100% Rope bunny 100% Exhibitionist 98% Masochist 98% Voyeur 96% Submissive 93% Experimentalist 90% Pet 82% Primal (Prey) 75% Slave 44% Non-monogamist 40% Master/Mistress 37% Rigger 31% Switch 27% Dominant 23% Sadist 22% Owner 22% Degrader 17% Primal (Hunter) 10% Vanilla 6% Daddy/Mommy 5% Brat tamer 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (30) White Plains, New York
Into bondage, ABDL, and huge into praise kink. **Desires and Fantasies** 1: A kidnap play where I’m grabbed nuded then tied up and gagged 2: ***ed and ***d to wear diapers and act like a baby (Diapers are for bathroom used only by me and non-sexual) Has to be living in the US, living in the buffalo area or close to buffalo (PLEASE BE PATIENT!) If I don't respond that means I'm busy and will get to your message eventually.
Female (27) Buffalo, New York
LOOKING FOR 20-25 AND CONSISTENCY. I am not one to follow directions and I will push back. I like to be playfully defiant. I want someone that I can trust and that is patient with me. I can be obedient but I also need correction and a dom who isn’t going to falter or be afraid to correct me. Looking for a potential relationship and a dom, but for now I am just exploring and testing the waters. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic, it can be emotionally draining and exhausting. I text back fast and would hope that’s reciprocated. I want someone who is consistent. I want someone understanding and patient. I like being spanked and I like being a tease. At heart I am a hopeless romantic. At times I can be bold other times I can be shy. I am very sarcastic. I also don’t mind making friends. (Looking for a muncher that isn’t afraid to eat a coochie with hair) If that’s you hit me up. I’m not a one night stand kind of person. I don’t do hookups. I want an actual relationship. And I would rather have sex once I’m in a relationship and feel comfortable and ready. I guess you can call me a size queen, as long as it’s 5.5in and bigger as well as girthy. I need someone that is consistent and can hold a regular conversation that isn’t just sex. All I ask is that you aren’t MAGA or a supporter of that felon. Bonus points if you know about booktok 😉
Female (20) New York, New York
Note: The chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 if there's any confusion. Just your wholesome whore next door. I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one. My skill set includes falling for the wrong man. I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential.
Female (46) Brockport, New York
I am a brat so my partner has to enjoy that side of me. I am an adrenaline junkie and not easy to keep up with. Definitely into the thrill of trying new spontaneous things. Starting to think I am a rare breed of human and no one can keep up.
Female (43) Mahopac, New York
dianaaleynikov on ig enjoyer of being quiet and still here for -friends, spicy friends, romantic/deep connections, fwb -potential life partner/s or friends -parallel play -whatever it's called when you mi¢r0d0$e and roll around and finger ***t and sit on each other's laps while you experience the shapes and colors
Female (22) Staten Island, New York
420 🍃🔥 Got a collar&leash 4 my future puppy munch 🐶 👅
Female (26) Flushing, New York
I am a FemDom when it comes to my sexual desires. I enjoy submissive who are into pleasuring me. I enjoy getting my pussy eaten and pegging . i own a strap - on , a leash/collar other toys that I use on subs. Im into both hardcore/*** bdsm and soft dominance (candles, music, encouragement) With that being said , I like a person who i can build trust with sexually and is comfortable with me being in charge. You should be 100% submissive and want to be obedient and enjoy it. You understand the dynamics between a FemDom and her submissive. The goal is meeting on a consistent basis,preferably weekly. It can be a long term or temporary (for a few weeks or months) I look forward to meeting you .🥰😘
Female (43) Bronx, New York
I don't speak German, so I won't reply if you don't write in English. Single black woman, smart, and have a great career, and I have a lot to offer the right guy. I am the whole package, so I need the whole package. I'm sarcastic and snarky, so if you are thinned skinned we may not get along. I am a vixen and need a STAG who is also single, smart, confident, funny, clever, local, and sarcastic (or have dark sense of humor). Stag Vixen relationships: metro.co.uk/2018/06/04/stag-vixen-sex-super-popular-different-cuckolding-7603612/ I like to travel, cook, I love gadgets, computers, video games (although I suck at them), music and dancing. Avid reader. I also like going out for dinner and drinks with friends (both upscale and small hole-in-the-wall). Museums, Broadway, plays, concerts, or just relaxing at home watching a movie or listening to some tunes... **Desires and Fantasies** I need rough, I need public play, role play, and dirty talk. I need MMFs and group fun. I need to tease and edge. I need taboo and kink and fantasy. I am not a domme, and I am not a sub. Not interested in d/s relationships or services. I don't want to serve or service anyone, or have anyone serve me Seeking a stag. Preferably Bi. MMFs. Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious *** of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
Female (45) New York, New York
I’m a straightforward Dom in search of a sub who’s open to exploring our shared kinks and desires in a safe, respectful space. I value obedience, trust, and a deep connection—someone ready to fully serve and surrender. Open to something long-term if the chemistry is right. Let’s discover how far we can go together
Female (40) New York, New York
Hiiii! 💕 I need an experienced, traditional, dominate, handsome, quick-witted, hypermasculine man, who is emotionally available and competent, loves to lead, teach, take care of, guide and protect. Especially with a firm hand but knows when and how to be gentle. I am a very fun naughty, bratty sub at heart that loves playful banter and desires to be put in her place tastefully. but I become a service sub if my needs are fulfilled. Not looking for a relationship, but am looking for effort, communication and consistency. Those are a need/expected so this works. I don’t want feel like a piece of meat. Not into degrading…
Female (22) New York, New York
Hey I'm Veronica or Vee for short. I'm not sure what I’m looking for yet but let’s go for drinks and see how we click. I’m really into cnc, anal, choking, bondage, intox play and I want to try fisting.
Female (22) Flushing, New York
Hello! I am Carrie, I'm a sub, Hoping for people nearby, I dont enjoy video chatting. Please check out what im into and hit me up if you want. I am 420 friendly, smoke cigarettes, and drink.
Female (30) Rochester, New York
Don't bother if all you want is to send me dick pics and hear how big you are. Yawn. Honestly? Looking for someone who can sext while watching Masterpiece; stimulate my mind and my body. Partnered and poly, I date solo. Sapiosexual so wit and banter are a must and then we'll see where it goes. Prefer to be worshipped than worship but perhaps a rare and unusual few could change my mind.
Female (40) New York, New York

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Female (31) New York, New York
18 and a horrible masochist... My biggest need in life is a sadistic man in latex, makeup and insanely high heels
Female (18) Albany, New York
I’m a dominant woman who commands respect, obedience, and devotion — and yes, that includes tribute. I don’t chase. I attract those who understand that submission begins with structure, worship, and offering. If you’re not aligned with that, keep scrolling. But if you’re ready to serve a real goddess — I’m listening.
Female (25) New York, New York
laid back female enjoying her life. conversation turns me on.I HATE TEXTING!!! I can’t get to know you that way. If you’re not down to FT don’t waste my time.
Female (39) New York, New York
== Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Brat 100% Degradee 100% Rope bunny 100% Exhibitionist 98% Masochist 98% Voyeur 96% Submissive 93% Experimentalist 90% Pet 82% Primal (Prey) 75% Slave 44% Non-monogamist 40% Master/Mistress 37% Rigger 31% Switch 27% Dominant 23% Sadist 22% Owner 22% Degrader 17% Primal (Hunter) 10% Vanilla 6% Daddy/Mommy 5% Brat tamer 0% Ageplayer 0% Little
Female (30) White Plains, New York
Hey loves! This isn’t my first time here but I am being extra cautious this time around BEFORE you jump in my DM pleaseeeeeeeee read below: I am married I do have kids I am wanting an outlet and an escape from the real world . I want a solid Dom/sub dynamic with someone training/ropes/collars and all. Only message me if u can handle my crazy life Also I am not sending photos right away so don’t ask! xoxoxo 💋
Female (37) Amsterdam, New York
haiii im nola lookng to meet ppl in ny/nyc please hmu im open to many. Imma meanie🙄 I put men on leashes over here!💯 THINK YOU DESERVE A LEASH?🦮 You will worship my body and shower me in jewelry, flowers, gifts, ect. I own you💋 for doms~come eat this pussy for hours, I love love when it’s centered on me. pin me, tie me own and use me 🤤😩🥰
Female (19) New York, New York
new to this community. 😇 looking for friends to show me the ropes and others to spoil me (women preferably 😌😉). I take value in the care I put into myself and just want to enjoy my kinky life shamelessly but with rewards 😈 truly open to experimenting with couples men 8inch+ 👀
Female (31) New York, New York
Looking for a Daddy Dom to take care of me and to help me with discipline and someone I can sass too anytime I want 😂
Female (31) Fultonham, New York
I'm Tina by name and I apologize for violating your privacy, but it's good to find your page and I enjoy your appearance. Would it be possible for us to become friends and get to know one another and see where it will lead us too , im not a paid member to this site or if possible wonderstiti at gen would be good to link
Female (49) Westbury, New York
Curious little kitten with a wolf’s heart 💗 I enjoy gentle pet play, affection, and slow, nurturing connections. I respond best to partners who value patience, trust, and respect. I move carefully and selectively, and I love quiet nights, soft music, and journaling when I’m not exploring dynamics.
Female (23) New York, New York
A woman who knows exactly what she wants. I move with purpose and expect the same from anyone who steps into my space. My presence is soft when I choose and firm when it is needed. I enjoy loyalty intelligence and a mind that bows because it wants to not because it has to. I guide with a calm hand and a sharp eye and I value a soul that listens just as much as it hungers to please. If you crave direction and thrive under clear confident control you may find yourself right at home with me.
Female (51) New York, New York
I consider myself a cheerful and vibrant woman, always ready to make the most of every experience that life offers me. My essence lies in my authenticity; I take pride in being transparent and sincere in every interaction. However, I want to take this opportunity to introduce myself in a way that sparks your curiosity and invites you to get to know me better.
Female (46) New York, New York
I possess a serene demeanor and maintain a harmonious sense of equilibrium in my life. My ability to remain composed, even in challenging situations, reflects my balanced nature and ensures that I approach every circumstance with clarity and poise. I often find myself envisioning a blissful family life, where laughter fills the air, and warmth radiates from every corner of our home. I long for a sense of stability that allows us to navigate life's challenges with confidence and ease. In this dream, our relationships are nurtured with love and understanding, creating a serene atmosphere where peace prevails, and every moment is cherished.
Female (45) New York, New York
Looking for a person who is mature and opend minded and knows exactly what he wants. Someone who has a high sex drive and knows how to make his partner scream in and out of bedroom
Female (37) Pawling, New York
Just your average bratty asshole I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. I don’t accept back talk, disrespect, or disobedience you will be severely punished. I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉
Female (19) New York, New York
I’m someone who believes that love should feel peaceful but exciting at the same time. I’m caring, loyal, and I appreciate the little things — deep talks, shared laughter, and quiet moments that mean the most. I love the beach, nature, cooking for people I care about, and spending time with family. Life has taught me to value kindness, honesty, and connection over perfection. I’m looking for someone who’s genuine, emotionally mature, and ready to build something real — someone who sees love as a partnership, not a game. If that sounds like you, then maybe we’ve just found a good beginning.
Female (38) Lake Ronkonkoma, New York
I am a woman who embodies confidence, control, and calm authority. I don’t chase attention; I draw it in with intention. My energy is magnetic a balance of warmth and power, discipline and temptation. Those who come close quickly learn that I value truth, loyalty, and respect above all. I don’t entertain chaos. I admire composure, consistency, and a mind that understands direction. My world is built on structure where obedience is not weakness, but a form of strength. To stand before me is to face both comfort and challenge. I can be soft-spoken yet firm, inviting yet untouchable. I guide, teach, and command with purpose, not pride. If you earn my time, know it’s because you’ve proven your sincerity. I don’t need to demand attention I inspire devotion through presence alone.
Female (38) Hagaman, New York
I want you to know that i am a sincere, honest, caring, kind, friendly very easy to get along with. I am social, romantic, passionate, smart, intelligent, cool headed,adaptive,have a big heart. And i do believe in the truth and honesty as God is first in my life. And i believe that honesty is the only key to human success, and with honest, i believe in myself and my life is really based on truth,and its all about who i really am.
Female (34) Glenville, New York
I’m a successful business owner who’s built a life I love and now I’m ready to share it. Whether it’s hiking through nature, relaxing on a beach, cooking up something delicious in my kitchen, or chasing sunsets in new cities, I’m all about exploring what life has to offer. Music, movies, and movement keep me balanced, and I believe in living with heart and intention, Here to connect, not just scroll, I appreciate depth, chemistry, and people who know what they want. Let’s keep it real, playful, and grounded in mutual respect
Female (34) New York, New York
Welcome to my world of kink where your *** is my pleasure. Mistress will welcome novices who wants to start a journey into bdsm and gradually turn you into my play thing. Once you have entered over the kinky threshold you will be hooked and I shall be an imprint in your mind. Mistresses play space is fully equipped with a whole range of toys and implements, also a wardrobe full of sissy dress up to make you pretty.
Female (30) New York, New York
First of all, if there's no response during the conversation, it's usually the system's fault here. I'm looking for an honest, intense connection with depth, closeness, and a certain spark. It's important to me that we treat each other with openness, respect, and mutual appreciation. I'm looking for a partnership in which we share new experiences together—sensual, vibrant, and with genuine curiosity about each other. If you're interested in getting to know someone who enjoys life and is ready for a real encounter on equal terms, I look forward to hearing from you.
Female (71) Brooklyn, New York
I am passionate and sincere woman. Glance at my user and reach me art the qmaiile. It would be amazing for me to meet someone with a kind soul, I love to share my positive emotions with those I love, and make them smile and feel good. Looking forward to meet someone to spend the rest of my life with .. !!
Female (40) Hamburg, New York
I am a woman of home values, educated, responsible and friendly looking for true love, I am good listening and giving advice, very tender and loving, love to laugh and spend good moments with the people that I appreciate
Female (45) New York, New York

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