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Curious, open-minded, and here to explore chemistry without judgment. I’m drawn to connection, tension, and the art of anticipation. I love playful energy, deep conversations, and the kind of spark that lingers long after the moment ends. Respect, communication, and mutual curiosity are a must the best experiences are built together.

Female (41) New York, New York

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Eve_XOXO22

I’m searching to find someone who wants to spoil me. if you are not a provider please stay away from my DMs. I only respond to real men. I want the flowers and princesses treatment. if you can’t afford me please go find someone you can. XOXO 💋

Female (21) New York, New York

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MistressNoir_

I believe domination is best enjoyed somewhere beautiful. Private destination vacations designed around your desires and my direction,from activities to downtime. Whether it’s a short escape or a full week away, I lead the experience with calm authority and intention. My availability is limited by design, preserving exclusivity and balance in the dynamic. If you’re drawn to controlled indulgence, travel, and serving in a refined setting… we may align.40+ men only.

Female (31) New York, New York

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curvynerd96

real sassy, a bit of a dork, bubbly. kinky. ask me what i like. boundaries are important, ongoing conversation regarding limits is a non negotiable. ✨i love to show off my body, but please don’t play with me. disrespect will not be tolerated ✨

Female (30) Yorkville, New York

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Missy_baby

Bossy, bratty, and easily excitable. Looking to get taught a few new lessons and try some new things :) Very submissive, but only when put in my place ;)

Female (25) Merrick, New York

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Fun_Sized_Brat

I am a brat so my partner has to enjoy that side of me. I am an adrenaline junkie and not easy to keep up with. Definitely into the thrill of trying new spontaneous things. Starting to think I am a rare breed of human and no one can keep up.

Female (43) Mahopac, New York

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Mari482

LOOKING FOR COMMUNICATION AND CONSISTENCY. DON’T MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE GOING TO DELETE YOUR PROFILE. I am testing the waters and seeing who is best fit for me, remember you aren’t the only one I am talking to but everyone has a fair chance. I prefer honesty and transparency. I am not one to follow directions and I will push back. I like to be playfully defiant. I want someone that I can trust and that is patient with me. I can be obedient but I also need correction and a dom who isn’t going to falter or be afraid to correct me. Looking for a potential relationship and a dom. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic, it can be emotionally draining and exhausting. I text back fast and would hope that’s reciprocated. I am the type of person to text multiple times in a row so please tell me if you are busy. I want someone who is consistent. I want someone understanding and patient. I like being a tease. At heart I am a hopeless romantic. At times I can be bold other times I can be shy. I am very sarcastic. I also don’t mind making friends. (Looking for a muncher that isn’t afraid to eat a coochie with hair) If that’s you hit me up. I’m not a one night stand kind of person. I’m relatively open minded when it comes to kinks. I don’t do hookups. I want an actual relationship. And I would rather have sex once I’m in a relationship and feel comfortable and ready. Preferably taller than me like 5’8-5’9 is good. I guess you can call me a size queen, as long as it’s 5.5in and bigger as well as girthy. I need someone that is consistent and can hold a regular conversation that isn’t just sex. Let me color in your tattoos and bite your biceps. All I ask is that you aren’t MAGA or a supporter of that felon. Bonus points if you know about booktok, own a mask or a motorcycle 😉🤭

Female (20) New York, New York

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swankystar

420 🍃🔥 Got a collar&leash 4 my future puppy munch 🐶 👅

Female (26) Flushing, New York

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Skylove03

Curious little kitten with a wolf’s heart 💗 I enjoy gentle pet play, affection, and slow, nurturing connections. I respond best to partners who value patience, trust, and respect. I move carefully and selectively, and I love quiet nights, soft music, and journaling when I’m not exploring dynamics.

Female (23) New York, New York

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LTPeg

I have found someone that I am exploring with, so I’m taking a break here. Wishing us all luck, love and kinks! Looking for my switch. I know this isn’t your conventional dating site, but I’d like to find an LTR. I’d like to find a masculine man, in shape, and open to exploring being dominated now and then for a LTR. My kids are grown, hoping yours are too. **Not interested in couples or one nighters. Anything else, please ask. MUST be clean, groomed & a non cigarette smoker. LOCAL ONLY, SEEKING AROUND MY AGE, WHITE MAN.

Female (44) Tonawanda, New York

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Nayaa

can you be my daddyyyy 👀 lol no fr .. Hiii I’m Nayaa (21).. I’m new to being open in this community 🥰 I just wanna get spanked a few times 🤭 (yes I’m bratty af lol 😩)

Female (22) Jamaica, New York

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KrisTeaBell

married 47yrs old F bisexual switch. Im newer to the scene and exploring. I am really up for anything and just want to meet cool women I connect with. This can be a friendship, relationship or strictly sexual. I am also open to the idea of polyamory and you joining my husband and I in the bedroom or elsewhere. I tend to be dominate with women but I am open to subbing or vanilla. We're still exploring and finding our boundaries so we may be open to couples or other arrangements but seeing where things take us. Non-kink wise, I'm a witchy, nerdy gamer, sculpture and photographer who loves HP, Doctor who, Star Wars, Lotr and many more. Would love to make some new nerdy friends even if our sexual preferences don't allign. Fully vaccinated. Tested and clean. No Trumpers, conservatives, racists or biggots. Ad

Female (48) Roslyn, New York

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urmyzeriousmistress

I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. Peak my interest for a bratty reply 😋 I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉

Female (19) New York, New York

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Pup_Strawberry

masochist, sub, rope bunny, little, pup. looking for doms, sadists, daddy's, and handlers. prefer masc people of any gender identity, but it comes down to how we match together. clean and sober

Female (26) Buffalo, New York

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julesmeows

bored single horny but men don’t seem to like the independent strong opinionated type. please be normal. don’t be a weirdo. I just want someone genuine and cool to hang out with.

Female (38) Roslyn, New York

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Yukimii

Im a sub, I quite enjoy being tied up and used, but please be careful with me, joints popping can sometimes kill the mood lol ( ehlers danlos syndrome>.>) interested in exploring different kinks and am very flexable pm me if you want a thicc plus size ston3r subby? wat to know my biggest fantasy, Ok. Well, my biggest fantasy... Is to be tied up suspended, possibly in the woods suspended from a tree, spread wide and completely at my master mercy, clamps on my nipples and clit, and be savagely fucked, fisted, and stretched out and ruined with whatever my master/daddy/sir can *** in to my pussy, not just toys, but tools and whatever could be ***d into me to gape me, and possibly gangbanged, have my pussy stretched out in to a bucket cunt, held wide open with me bound in a way that my pussy is up in the air, as master pours loads of cum and other liquids in to me after master dilates my cervix so it all goes in to my womb, then Master fills my ruined cunt hole with whatever my master wants, not just toys but tools like a hammer or wrenches, and anything Master wants to try and *** in to my pussy mmmmmm I fantasize about being tied up in the woods, being brutally fisted and ruined, about being used by multiple people etc. but don't ask about butt stuff, that's an occasional thing but not often because anal tears happen to me often and condoms are a must!!!! I am very self conscious, Ive struggled with my weight my whole life, and gained quite a bit after being in a car accident, and thus I struggle mentally with sending pics and such. I like to be silly and spontaneous. Living with multiple chronic illnesses I've learned life is too short to let shiz get me down, so hello, I'm the weird, nerdy, neuro-divergent, thicc gamer chick lol I was in school for veterinary medicine before my health issues got bad, and I have 2 feline fur babies and am working on getting a service dog so being ok with ***s is a must! I'm an artist and massive anime weeb I use medical cannabis, so 420 friendly ***ps hmu

Female (33) East Hampton, New York

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Bosslad-8749

I am a Horny SUBMISSIVE/ DOMINANT Pet seeking a loving, caring, passionate Daddy for serious and long-term relationship... I am very obedient, faithful, caring, and honest. I am not a one-night stand kind of girl, nor a model. So, if that's your only interest, then I'm not who you are looking for. I give my all in a D/s relationship, and I'm looking for the same in return. The right man must be open & honest, respectful of others, thoughtful, has a terrific personality, is very romantic, fun to be with, has a good sense of humor, is DOMINANT/SUBMISSIVE & even-tempered, has a good sense of himself, has a strong sense of values, is family oriented & looking for real happiness.

Female (41) Garden City Park, New York

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Sweetmomma

I'm someone who knows what I want and goes for it , I love good vibes and good conversations and moments that turns into unforgettable memories , I can be playful mysterious and very personate when the connection is right

Female (25) Flushing, New York

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Jess-8216

I have zero skill in role play and I'm not just looking to talk... I'm looking to get to know someone enough to actually make something happen... and if we both enjoy what happened when it does, repeating... I am a hyper-ticklish lee with a rediculous tolerance for being tickled and a masochistic streak for it a mile wide... I am looking for a tickler who *really* wants to let go of their inner tickling sadist...

Female (44) Malone, New York

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Deame

dianaaleynikov on ig enjoyer of being quiet and still here for -friends, spicy friends, romantic/deep connections, fwb -potential life partner/s or friends -parallel play -whatever it's called when you mi¢r0d0$e and roll around and finger ***t and sit on each other's laps while you experience the shapes and colors

Female (22) Staten Island, New York

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Imyahuckleberr

Seeking normal with some class nasty always hungry oral sub male. who's looking to be owned and have his mouth used for all the right nasty reasons. One who lives to service an ebony woman day or night.

Female (47) New York, New York

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KIMBERSOOK

Looking for a local male who can play out some of my fantasies and keep me satisfied with no strings attached. I love my single life but I miss having a sexual connection with someone that I can be comfortable with and trust. I want someone who takes control but can be kind at times.

Female (43) Lycoming, New York

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Kitten-1032

I have a lot of questions ? possessive I want what I want and I will go after it 🥰 I love gifts and etc I am a Dom so if you have a issue with that please just don't hit me up 😁

Female (30) Irondequoit, New York

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Link1998-1306

Into bondage, ABDL, and huge into praise kink. **Desires and Fantasies** 1: A kidnap play where I’m grabbed nuded then tied up and gagged 2: ***ed and ***d to wear diapers and act like a baby (Diapers are for bathroom used only by me and non-sexual) Has to be living in the US, living in the buffalo area or close to buffalo (PLEASE BE PATIENT!) If I don't respond that means I'm busy and will get to your message eventually.

Female (27) Buffalo, New York

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Eve_XOXO22

Female (21) New York, New York

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Hennessy

A fun loving type,free spirited calm and adventurous. Straightforward and I know what I want, traveler and a foodie. I'm a naughty fun type,I like to explore and trying out new things. You only live once make it count

Female (36) New York, New York

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curvynerd96

Female (30) Yorkville, New York

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Queenstress

I’m obsessed with pegging! I am the Dom! I am not a Sub! I am only interested in submissive males who enjoy a woman who knows her way around a strap! Don’t be shy 😉

Female (41) Rotterdam, New York

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EmmaT8216

I'm into Belly inflation!! Water or air. Not looking for sex (I know that will probably turn a lot of people away but idrc.) but yeah. Just that. I'm pretty basic and I really only come on here cuz I'm curious to how it feels to be inflated by someone other then myself. And this isn't really something ya bring up to someone when you first meet so, what better place to do this then a site that's all about it?? Well. Fetishes in general but still. Also, I probably won't show my face, but I've had several people tell me I'm pretty even though I don't believe that 😭 I'm also decently chubby, I kinda look like I'm pregnant? Thats such a weird body type to have but I don't mind it much lmao.

Female (19) Deer Park, New York

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Missy_baby

Bossy, bratty, and easily excitable. Looking to get taught a few new lessons and try some new things :) Very submissive, but only when put in my place ;)

Female (25) Merrick, New York

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Brendafry

I want to fall in love for all the right reasons, and I thought this might be a good way to start finding my life partner. I have been alone and single most of my life. It's hard to have a normal dating relationship under these conditions. I would like to get started by meeting someone I can fall in love with for all the right reasons

Female (56) New York, New York

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Bri-3456

Just a submissive looking to be in a relationship lol I Choking, Spanking, being tied up, biting, being degraded to an extent but mostly praised. edging. Add me on Discord User: Bri22660234

Female (18) Camillus, New York

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Golibird_

Tatiana 5’3 140 lbs Aquarius Take me out for food/drinks (otherwise a homebody) Insta is my user but with _

Female (21) New York, New York

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Bushysub

Looking for a man that likes a more masculine presenting but still very submissive woman. Looking for online fun only, trust me.. it’ll be fun ;)

Female (31) Buffalo, New York

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MistressNoir_

Female (31) New York, New York

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Female (41) New York, New York

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schizo-doll

18 and a horrible masochist... My biggest need in life is a sadistic man in latex, makeup and insanely high heels

Female (18) Albany, New York

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kitt_kett_bar

I forgot I made this account. If this is an active site, I'll be around. Woman in NYC, looking for friendship and/or relationship as I explore BDSM, kink, and ***/little/babygirl dynamics. Always want to learn. **I'm not here for sex play.** I'm here for bdsm/kink play and community, which will sometimes include sex with people I build relationships with, and other times will include no sex at all. I love to talk. Not here for sexting or anything like that. Approach me as you would a person in public--not as though you are a faceless sex troll on the internet. If you want to meet me offline, come chat me up at a munch 😘

Female (36) Brooklyn, New York

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RisuPuffs

Full-time nerd, part-time exhibitionist. Submissive pet with a brat streak. I like to earn my punishments, but I live to serve. That being said, my service must be earned. I won't bow to a dom/me that doesn't deserve it. Mostly monogamous, but down for occasional play with couples. Looking for a dedicated dynamic in the bedroom, but want to keep the relationship part casual.

Female (35) Buffalo, New York

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Rachelems

would love to have fun tonight!!!! I am new to all this but I am really enjoying what I have experienced. I am more submissive. I really enjoy being dominated. someone that takes charge. I may push back at times just to see how you will put me in my place. there are some other things I would like to try but you will have to ask me

Female (37) Plattsburgh, New York

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HorrorPrincess01

Hey loves! This isn’t my first time here but I am being extra cautious this time around BEFORE you jump in my DM pleaseeeeeeeee read below: I am married I do have kids I am wanting an outlet and an escape from the real world . I want a solid Dom/sub dynamic with someone training/ropes/collars and all. Only message me if u can handle my crazy life Also I am not sending photos right away so don’t ask! xoxoxo 💋

Female (37) Amsterdam, New York

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DivinaB

new to this community. 😇 looking for friends to show me the ropes and others to spoil me (women preferably 😌😉). I take value in the care I put into myself and just want to enjoy my kinky life shamelessly but with rewards 😈 truly open to experimenting with couples men 8inch+ 👀

Female (31) New York, New York

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Brit-rena9694

Looking for a *** to take care of me and to help me with discipline and someone I can sass too anytime I want 😂

Female (31) Fultonham, New York

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Wonderstitigee

I'm Tina by name and I apologize for violating your privacy, but it's good to find your page and I enjoy your appearance. Would it be possible for us to become friends and get to know one another and see where it will lead us too , im not a paid member to this site or if possible wonderstiti at gen would be good to link

Female (49) Westbury, New York

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Skylove03

Female (23) New York, New York

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MissKitty-5840

A woman who knows exactly what she wants. I move with purpose and expect the same from anyone who steps into my space. My presence is soft when I choose and firm when it is needed. I enjoy loyalty intelligence and a mind that bows because it wants to not because it has to. I guide with a calm hand and a sharp eye and I value a soul that listens just as much as it hungers to please. If you crave direction and thrive under clear confident control you may find yourself right at home with me.

Female (51) New York, New York

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Conniesluvu

I possess a serene demeanor and maintain a harmonious sense of equilibrium in my life. My ability to remain composed, even in challenging situations, reflects my balanced nature and ensures that I approach every circumstance with clarity and poise. I often find myself envisioning a blissful family life, where laughter fills the air, and warmth radiates from every corner of our home. I long for a sense of stability that allows us to navigate life's challenges with confidence and ease. In this dream, our relationships are nurtured with love and understanding, creating a serene atmosphere where peace prevails, and every moment is cherished.

Female (45) New York, New York

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urmyzeriousmistress

I enjoy dominating little bitch boys. Peak my interest for a bratty reply 😋 I only dominate subs, not looking for Dommes and will not be responding to any. Unless you want to be dominated 😉

Female (19) New York, New York

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