Find kinky women in New York

I’m a sub/brat not a dom!!!!! 💋🤗if you’re not in the surroundings area plz keep it to a minimum I’m not going to London, Japan or whatever to meet lol . Kizzes:)
Female (23) Buffalo, New York
Sophisticated with a wicked little streak, A playful heart and a curious mind to seek. Flirty, fun, with a penchant for clever. There’s chaos in my grin and lace in my style, A bratty little sparkle hiding behind every smile. I’m no stranger to darkness, ***, or the chase, But sometimes I’d rather be a princess in lace. 🖤🎀
Female (36) New York, New York
I am a simple Dom seeking for a sub to share our fetish and kinky desires together. I want a compliant man who is willing to fully serve. A long term relationship won't be bad to give it a try...
Female (35) Ulster Park, New York
slut me ouuuut??✨ grade A attention whore💞 I like showing off my body to strangers online, what can I say?🙂‍↔️ sooo like my pictures, tell me what you’d do to me, and tell me I’m pretty.. please🥹
Female (25) New York, New York
I’m goddess Ann friendly and dominant in bean lifestyle love to own handsome men ready to be owned and be my sub and also friendly with others in other way round
Female (27) Bronx, New York
LOOKING FOR COMMUNICATION AND CONSISTENCY. DON’T MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE GOING TO DELETE YOUR PROFILE. I am testing the waters and seeing who is best fit for me, remember you aren’t the only one I am talking to but everyone has a fair chance. I prefer honesty and transparency. I am not one to follow directions and I will push back. I like to be playfully defiant. I want someone that I can trust and that is patient with me. I can be obedient but I also need correction and a dom who isn’t going to falter or be afraid to correct me. Looking for a potential relationship and a dom. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic, it can be emotionally draining and exhausting. I text back fast and would hope that’s reciprocated. I am the type of person to text multiple times in a row so please tell me if you are busy. I want someone who is consistent. I want someone understanding and patient. I like being a tease. At heart I am a hopeless romantic. At times I can be bold other times I can be shy. I am very sarcastic. I also don’t mind making friends. (Looking for a muncher that isn’t afraid to eat a coochie with hair) If that’s you hit me up. I’m not a one night stand kind of person. I’m relatively open minded when it comes to kinks. I don’t do hookups. I want an actual relationship. And I would rather have sex once I’m in a relationship and feel comfortable and ready. Preferably taller than me like 5’8-5’9 is good. I guess you can call me a size queen, as long as it’s 5.5in and bigger as well as girthy. I love me a big boy, bulk is better than lean. I need someone that is consistent and can hold a regular conversation that isn’t just sex. Let me color in your tattoos and bite your biceps. All I ask is that you aren’t MAGA or a supporter of that felon. Bonus points if you know about booktok, own a mask or a motorcycle 😉🤭
Female (21) New York, New York
a confident, passionate and experienced woman who knows exactly what she wants and is not afraid to go after it. I am deeply immersed in the BDSM and alternative lifestyle and I am seeking a serious, devoted and genuine man who is ready to explore this world with me on a meaningful and committed level. I am not here for games, fantasies or time wasters. I am here for a real, authentic and deeply fulfilling dynamic built on trust, respect and genuine connection. Who I am: ✅ Confident, commanding and self assured ✅ Passionate about the BDSM lifestyle ✅ Deeply loyal and committed to the right person ✅ Intelligent, driven and unapologetically myself Who I am looking for: ✅ A serious and devoted man ready to commit ✅ Someone genuine, honest and emotionally mature ✅ A man who respects boundaries and values trust ✅ Someone ready to explore this lifestyle fully and authentically What to expect: A dynamic built on mutual respect, deep connection and genuine exploration of the lifestyle we both love. If you feel ready to step into my world and prove your sincerity — reach out and introduce yourself properly. Tell me your name, age, location and what you are genuinely seeking. Half hearted interest need not apply.
Female (40) New York, New York
If you are seeking a good woman who has a good heart, honesty, ambitious is an adventurer, you might have found her in me. I have been very lucky in my life. I have traveled the world and have had several once in a lifetime experiences.
Female (37) East Syracuse, New York
Open-minded, curious, and always interested in meeting people who are genuine about exploring kink and connection. I value honesty, communication, chemistry, and mutual respect. I’m here to learn, explore, and meet like-minded people who understand that trust and consent are the foundation of any good experience. If you’re confident, curious, and know how to communicate, we’ll probably get along.
Female (62) Albany, New York
Searching for Femdom enthusiasts or male subs I am not answering HOW questions. Everyone asks the same shit HOW ARE YOU DOING or HOW WAS YOUR DAY. I am immediately turned off by HOWS. You fade to the black you blend in with everyone. I want someone who STANDS OUT! So don't get left on read cause of a silly question I am not interested in sex at the moment. Not looking for any penis whatsoever. Only men who are looking to eat
Female (45) Brooklyn, New York
I’m a confident playful woman who loves good chemistry meaningful conversation and discovering what makes two people truly connect I’m open minded and curious about the kink world and I believe the best experiences come from trust communication consent and mutual respect
Female (42) New York, New York
I'm petite and sweet. Something good to eat or much on. A little tenderloin that's soft and delicate. I'm a cute dolly who wants to play
Female (20) Brooklyn, New York
Just looking for a genuine connection. Someone to share life with and maybe travel a bit, take a walk out when the weather's mild, go to the pool or mostly the beach when it's sunny. Nothing too complicated.
Female (51) Wynantskill, New York
Spontaneous adventurous Supreme Queen. I’m a bit of a sapiophile seeking out other adventurous wayfarers to sojourn these kink fun fetish plains and spaces. I dare say that I’m Not one for the faint hearted. Approach with caution in willing supplication. **Desires and Fantasies** I have always fantasised about owning folks; I’m that dominatrix with her own island and resort equipped with lifestyle themes, tools, toys, equipment and dungeon; amongst other activities and what not. I’m a Countess, always thinking about creating a kink, Fet and Bdsm community exclusive of vanilla or society’s ignorance. Baddest Black Amazon Goddess. Ha! 🏿😈
Female (36) New York, New York
Hello, my name is lovelith. I’m a caring, honest, and loving woman who believes that a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, communication, and understanding. I enjoy simple moments in life, meaningful conversations, cooking, staying positive, and creating beautiful memories with the right person. I’m here looking for a serious relationship with someone who is genuine, kind-hearted, and ready to build a future together. I believe love is about supporting each other through the good and challenging times, growing together, and creating a partnership filled with happiness and respect. If you are looking for something real and meaningful, I would love to get to know you and see where our connection can lead.
Female (39) New York, New York
I’m looking for someone who truly shares my values someone I can build a stable, long term relationship with and explore new things in life together. I believe in monogamy, and I’m currently single. I have a stable job and I’m fully independent. And just to be clear, I’m not here to ask anyone for ***. I’m perfectly capable of taking care of myself
Female (38) New York, New York
Hello , welcome to my network. I am a Dom and will not switch. I have over 12 years in the lifestyle and experienced many of its activities and embraced many of them. I want a sub who never question my instructions.
Female (37) New York, New York
I am bisexual, and I’ve lived as a submissive for over fif*** years—fif*** years of surrender, discipline, and being molded into something worth possessing. I have moved to a new city, and I’m ready to be claimed again. I don’t want a man who simply “likes control.” I want a man who will take it and keep it, who will own my every breath, who will cage me, bind me, use me, and know exactly when to tighten the leash. You’ll find my desires where *** kisses pleasure: 24/7 TPE. Total slavery. Captivity. Long-term bondage that leaves me trembling and dripping. Corsets pulled so tight , latex or rubber outfits. Latex sealing me like a second skin until I can smell nothing but my own heat. Gags, posture training, pony play, cages, body modification. Anal, gyno play, dirty play, Extreme heels that reshape my body into something you’ll keep on display. Being pushed past the point where I think I’ll break—then finding I can go further for you. I take care of myself—my body, my beauty, my discipline—and I expect the same from you. If you’re unshaven, sloppy, lazy, or think sending me a dick pic is foreplay, stop reading. If you’re under 40, or not white, keep scrolling—I’ve learned my lessons, and I’m not here to repeat mistakes. I have a gorgeous girlfriend, and the right man—or couple—will know how to claim us both. I am not trash. I am not meat to be discarded. I am a woman, a submissive woman, who will kneel for you, obey you, and take everything you give me—but only if you’re worthy of holding the leash. So tell me… how tight will you pull it?
Female (66) Syracuse, New York
Im not shy, so I'll get right to it. im huge into CNC, i've thought about this so much, I've started taking walks, alone, super late. Down the bike path, under the train bridge. It won't be hard to spot me, I'll be the only small woman walking alone on a trail at night in a dress with no panties. The first night you catch me, *** your cock into me, i won't scream, no I'll beg you for your cum. *** me to take every drop inside my unprotected, extremely fertile pussy. After you finish with me, you tell me I better come back this way tomorrow night too and you'll be waiting for me with others. I like the idea of not knowing how many men will be cumming in my pussy every night. Pass me around, use me, just the idea of getting pregnant by a stranger makes me wet. Im Adrianna, Im 26 and I want to get pregnant again as soon as possible. Im very petite, short, small everywhere, so id be easy to hold down, control and i never fight....i always allow my body to be used. i would love to find my perfect master, a master that would keep me bred, full of mill, full of cum, always a baby in my belly for at least the next 10 years. If you are my master, you own every single inch of my body and you can do what you please with me. If you want to let your friends fuck me, ill be a good girl and take their cocks and cum under your command. My tits are still very full of milk, and I love when men or women suck my nipples. My master can nurse from me all night, I either have to pump or be nursed from a few times a day to keep them full. and I'll never wear panties unless im told too. so my pussy is always open and easy to take. I would also love if master liked sending me surprises because I am big into CNC, surprises like sending a man i don't know to come find me and ***fully ram his cock in my pussy. then forcing me to take all of his cum deep, deep inside me. or sending a few men into our bedroom while im sleeping, and watch them have their way with me, while im begging for my masters cock. Im still very inexperienced, so I still need some training but I listen really well, always do what im told and learn very quickly. I've never been with a black guy before and im honestly dying to get a BBC inside me. My pussy will be so tight around a thick black cock.
Female (22) Clintonville, New York
UPDATE: So after many years of being a domme, I find myself missing a dominant man. This isn’t something I’ll be rushing into, and I’m still seeking a long term thing. It will require trust and communication for me to fully embrace being submissive again, and that has to be built with time, so no hook ups, sorry. I’ll always enjoy anal on men, but entertaining the thought of releasing the reigns (as it were) to the right man. Looking for my switch. I know this isn’t your conventional dating site, but I’d like to find an LTR. I’d like to find a masculine man, in shape, and open to exploring being dominated now and then for a LTR. My kids are grown, hoping yours are too. **Not interested in couples or one nighters. Anything else, please ask. MUST be clean, groomed & a non cigarette smoker. LOCAL ONLY, SEEKING AROUND MY AGE, WHITE MAN.
Female (45) Tonawanda, New York
little and brat looking for daddy/caregiver 0-4 little age hit me up on ***r42026 looking for a caring, confident Daddy/Caretaker who’s affectionate, patient, protective, and loves making his girl feel safe and adored. 🥰 I’m a little softie at heart, so I love someone who enjoys lots of cuddles, reassurance, playful teasing, and taking care of each other. 💕
Female (42) Troy, New York
I’m solo poly and looking for a new consistent partner. I like to read, go on adventurous dates, I like to work out and do physical activities. Very open to pansexual, bisexual,etc partners. I love fun of all types, but please don’t hit me up if that’s all you’re here for 😊🏽
Female (26) New York, New York
I'm back on here with an open mind and a lot of curiosity. I know I’m submissive, and I know I thrive under gentle, warm, dominant energy. The rest? I’m still figuring it out! I’m a total open book about being a beginner, never actually orgasmed before, so I’m really looking for someone patient, respectful, and willing to explore boundaries slowly. If you're a gentle Dom who values trust and a good conversation, I'd love to connect.
Female (26) New York, New York
I am a FemDom when it comes to my sexual desires. I enjoy submissive who are into pleasuring me. I enjoy getting my pussy eating for hours. Im into both hardcore/*** bdsm , rough dominance and soft dominance (candles, music, cuddles, encouragement). With that being said , I like a person who is 100% submissive and wants to be obedient and enjoy it. You understand the dynamics between a FemDom and her submissive. The goal is meeting on a consistent basis,preferably weekly. It can be a long term or temporary (for a days, few weeks or months) I look forward to meeting you .🥰
Female (44) Bronx, New York

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I’m a sub/brat not a dom!!!!! 💋🤗if you’re not in the surroundings area plz keep it to a minimum I’m not going to London, Japan or whatever to meet lol . Kizzes:)
Female (23) Buffalo, New York
I’m looking to experiment fantasies I have and for someone I’m attracted to not just anyone. Talk to me enough and I’ll show you who I am. I’m sure you won’t be disappointed 😘
Female (19) Jamestown, New York
48 year old Domme, with extensive knowledge & experience looking for upscale gentlemen 45+ for sessions. Not looking for romance.
Female (47) Watervliet, New York
I’m looking for someone who truly shares my values someone I can build a stable, long term relationship with and explore new things in life together. I believe in monogamy, and I’m currently single. I have a stable job and I’m fully independent. And just to be clear, I’m not here to ask anyone for ***. I’m perfectly capable of taking care of myself
Female (38) New York, New York
Hello, my name is lovelith. I’m a caring, honest, and loving woman who believes that a strong relationship is built on trust, respect, communication, and understanding. I enjoy simple moments in life, meaningful conversations, cooking, staying positive, and creating beautiful memories with the right person. I’m here looking for a serious relationship with someone who is genuine, kind-hearted, and ready to build a future together. I believe love is about supporting each other through the good and challenging times, growing together, and creating a partnership filled with happiness and respect. If you are looking for something real and meaningful, I would love to get to know you and see where our connection can lead.
Female (39) New York, New York
Hello , welcome to my network. I am a Dom and will not switch. I have over 12 years in the lifestyle and experienced many of its activities and embraced many of them. I want a sub who never question my instructions.
Female (37) New York, New York
Open-minded, curious, and always interested in meeting people who are genuine about exploring kink and connection. I value honesty, communication, chemistry, and mutual respect. I’m here to learn, explore, and meet like-minded people who understand that trust and consent are the foundation of any good experience. If you’re confident, curious, and know how to communicate, we’ll probably get along.
Female (62) Albany, New York
I am a simple Dom seeking for a sub to share our fetish and kinky desires together. I want a compliant man who is willing to fully serve. A long term relationship won't be bad to give it a try...
Female (35) Ulster Park, New York
I’m a confident playful woman who loves good chemistry meaningful conversation and discovering what makes two people truly connect I’m open minded and curious about the kink world and I believe the best experiences come from trust communication consent and mutual respect
Female (42) New York, New York
If you are seeking a good woman who has a good heart, honesty, ambitious is an adventurer, you might have found her in me. I have been very lucky in my life. I have traveled the world and have had several once in a lifetime experiences.
Female (37) East Syracuse, New York
Bisexual sub looking to chat, share experiences and play with likeminded people on this site only. Separated and not looking for ownership.
Female (39) New York, New York
I’m a professional Dominant who finds power in psychology, presence, and the quiet tension of earned submission. I’m drawn to intelligent, confident, self-aware people who understand that submission is something consciously given and trust is something carefully earned. I don’t chase attention. I command it. Bring me your honesty, your curiosity, and your willingness to be challenged. Leave entitlement, arrogance, and empty promises at the door. Discretion is absolute. Respect is expected. Communication is essential. Consistency will always impress me. If you’re intrigued by a woman who knows her worth and knows exactly how to hold your attention, introduce yourself properly.
Female (36) New York, New York
My approach to domination is sophisticated, psychological, and deliberately personal. I’m interested in the space between confidence and surrender the point where a capable, accomplished person can willingly put aside control and discover what it feels like to be challenged by someone who knows exactly how to hold it. I value intelligence, composure, manners, self-awareness, and genuine curiosity. I’m not interested in performative bravado or people trying to impress me with what they think a Dominant wants to hear. I prefer thoughtful conversation, clear communication, and the quiet confidence of someone who understands that submission is something offered, not demanded. For me, authority begins long before any dynamic does. It is in the way you communicate, the way you conduct yourself, how you respect boundaries, and whether your actions match your words. I’m selective with my time and deliberate about who I meet. If you’re looking for something casual, we may not be a natural fit. If you’re drawn to intelligent authority, psychological tension, discipline, discretion, and a genuinely refined D/s experience, introduce yourself properly.
Female (37) New York, New York
I am a feminine and kind lady. I am ready to share my feelings with that one man, I am loyal and emotional. It is important for me to feel a deep emotional connection between me and my partner. I am looking for a man who wants to create a relationship and doesn't play games.
Female (46) New York, New York
Just looking for a genuine connection. Someone to share life with and maybe travel a bit, take a walk out when the weather's mild, go to the pool or mostly the beach when it's sunny. Nothing too complicated.
Female (51) Wynantskill, New York
I keep to myself but I truly love people on the whole. I struggle with balancing that. I love observing and listening in on conversations more than I enjoy always participating in them. I'm looking for someone who will work to balance the six lives with me - his life alone, my life alone, his life with others, my life with others, our life alone, and our life with others.
Female (37) New York, New York
I’m 39, divorced, and I have my own career and an independent life that I really enjoy. But to be honest, it’s been a long time since I’ve experienced a relationship with real passion and intimacy. I’ve noticed that I don’t seem to feel the same attraction toward men my age anymore. I’m naturally more drawn to older, mature men—their confidence, stability, and life experience are incredibly attractive to me. I’d love to meet someone who genuinely sparks something in me and brings back that kind of unforgettable passion and intimacy.
Female (39) New York, New York
I am bisexual, and I’ve lived as a submissive for over fif*** years—fif*** years of surrender, discipline, and being molded into something worth possessing. I have moved to a new city, and I’m ready to be claimed again. I don’t want a man who simply “likes control.” I want a man who will take it and keep it, who will own my every breath, who will cage me, bind me, use me, and know exactly when to tighten the leash. You’ll find my desires where *** kisses pleasure: 24/7 TPE. Total slavery. Captivity. Long-term bondage that leaves me trembling and dripping. Corsets pulled so tight , latex or rubber outfits. Latex sealing me like a second skin until I can smell nothing but my own heat. Gags, posture training, pony play, cages, body modification. Anal, gyno play, dirty play, Extreme heels that reshape my body into something you’ll keep on display. Being pushed past the point where I think I’ll break—then finding I can go further for you. I take care of myself—my body, my beauty, my discipline—and I expect the same from you. If you’re unshaven, sloppy, lazy, or think sending me a dick pic is foreplay, stop reading. If you’re under 40, or not white, keep scrolling—I’ve learned my lessons, and I’m not here to repeat mistakes. I have a gorgeous girlfriend, and the right man—or couple—will know how to claim us both. I am not trash. I am not meat to be discarded. I am a woman, a submissive woman, who will kneel for you, obey you, and take everything you give me—but only if you’re worthy of holding the leash. So tell me… how tight will you pull it?
Female (66) Syracuse, New York
I consider myself a woman with an energetic personality; I'm generally very cheerful. I enjoy listening to and talking about all kinds of topics, and I'm open to discussing anything so you can talk openly with me about everything. I always try to look at life in a positive way, continue to grow professionally, and work hard until I achieve my goals
Female (48) Yonkers, New York
I’m goddess Ann friendly and dominant in bean lifestyle love to own handsome men ready to be owned and be my sub and also friendly with others in other way round
Female (27) Bronx, New York
I’m not here to fulfill your fantasy while receiving nothing in return. I’m here to be served. I’m seeking serious, disciplined submissives who understand that genuine submission is not self-serving. It is demonstrated through consistency, obedience, attentiveness, and a sincere desire to make my life easier, more pleasurable, and more luxurious—physically and financially. Do not approach me with empty compliments, explicit demands, or a list of what you want me to do for you. Your first message should introduce you properly: your experience with submission, what service you can offer, your boundaries, and why you believe you deserve my attention. A respectful introductory tribute is expected with your approach. It does not purchase access, control, or guaranteed attention—it demonstrates sincerity. Tribute only from disposable income: never borrow, neglect responsibilities, or exceed a mutually agreed limit. Approach correctly. Tribute respectfully. Serve consistently.
Female (46) New York, New York
I'm looking to build a sweet bond with a loyal and submissive partner, someone willing and ready to explore his level of devotion and commitment and also making it last not just for the moment but a long term companionship
Female (30) East Syracuse, New York
I am 19 i’m looking for someone to degrade me and take control of my pleasure with some light *** im looking for g for someone who can pleasure and manhandle me and degrade me
Female (19) New York, New York

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