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UrfavvCalypso
UrfavvCalypso
Changed my mind looking for men and women now … some one I can explore my sexuality with and try new things together as a partner
Female (45) Niskayuna, New York
Tracey-4237
Tracey-4237
Looking for a kind, respectful gentleman who is comfortable in his own skin, values family, and is ready to build a meaningful, genuine connection.
Female (50) New York, New York
MistressMabel985
MistressMabel985
I am a poised and self-assured Mistress who values respect, loyalty, and honesty as the foundation of any meaningful dynamic. I believe true authority is earned through trust, consistency, and clear communication rather than mere words. My intention is to build a lasting connection with a devoted Sub who seeks commitment over casual encounters and understands the importance of mutual understanding. I admire discipline, courtesy, and a genuine desire for personal growth under my guidance while maintaining balance in everyday life. My time is precious, so I have no interest in games or insincerity. Instead, I seek someone who recognises that dedication and effort are essential in earning my attention and trust. Together, I hope to create a long-term relationship built on structure, admiration, and shared purpose, where both of us can thrive. If you are sincere, patient, and ready to embrace a rewarding journey led by a confident and authoritative Mistress, I welcome the opportunity to get acquainted.
Female (41) New York, New York
Missy_baby
Missy_baby
Bossy, bratty, and easily excitable. Looking to get taught a few new lessons and try some new things :) Very submissive, but only when put in my place ;)
Female (26) Merrick, New York
Madam_Belle
Madam_Belle
I am a simple Dom seeking for a sub to share our fetish and kinky desires together. I want a compliant man who is willing to fully serve. A long term relationship won't be bad to give it a try...
Female (34) New York, New York
Lauren977
Lauren977
I’m a woman who knows how to find common language with different people, adventurous, energetic, ready to do anything to make the world a better place and life more interesting. I can’t sit still, l like to add colours to life! I like fishing, hiking, swimming, cooking, reading, sports, movies…. tele @lulu2670p
Female (38) New York, New York
Tdotty9O
Tdotty9O
You will refer to me as Mistress T! Do Not text me unless you are asking me, “How you can pay for some Mistress T time.” Only interested in financial slaves, pets and subs. Put a smile on my face by giving me your wallets 💜🥳 and honor me by obsessing over my pretty feet 🙂. Contribute first to get my attention dummy!
Female (28) Staten Island, New York
Nayaa
Nayaa
can you be my daddyyyy 👀 lol no fr .. Hiii I’m Nayaa (21).. I’m new to being open in this community 🥰 & no I’m not just looking to f*ck If I wanted to do that trust me I wouldn’t need an app I just wanna get spanked a few times 🤭 (yes I’m bratty af lol 😩)
Female (22) Jamaica, New York
swankystar
swankystar
420 🍃🔥 Got a collar&leash 4 my future puppy munch 🐶 👅
Female (26) Flushing, New York
Vamppirre
Vamppirre
Alright, what am I doing here? This is just an attempt at dating, wherein we skip the small talk and you fuck me so I can go home with your cum dripping out of me (as long as you are clean too). I am DDF. I don't drink or smoke. I don't send pics, but I do post them (weird, I know). I am plus size. Think marshmallow fluffy. Outside of that, my hard limits are: ***, ***, urine, anal, scars, knives, breath play, age play, branding, whipping (spanking and flogging is ok), and piercing. soft limits: CNC, bondage, blindfolds, recording, predator/prey, creampies, and public play. If I don't respond, don't take it personally, I keep forgetting to write on here. My reddit is u/FeelingMyselfRN
Female (35) Bronx, New York
Milf4breaking
Milf4breaking
Here looking for a weeknd where I fully submit to a stranger. Not looking to be collared or long term. I want to be degraded humiliated ruined and broken. When it is over I want to feel complete disgust in myself
Female (33) Staten Island, New York
Mari482
Mari482
LOOKING FOR COMMUNICATION AND CONSISTENCY. DON’T MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE GOING TO DELETE YOUR PROFILE. I am testing the waters and seeing who is best fit for me, remember you aren’t the only one I am talking to but everyone has a fair chance. I prefer honesty and transparency. I am not one to follow directions and I will push back. I like to be playfully defiant. I want someone that I can trust and that is patient with me. I can be obedient but I also need correction and a dom who isn’t going to falter or be afraid to correct me. Looking for a potential relationship and a dom. I don’t want a 24/7 dynamic, it can be emotionally draining and exhausting. I text back fast and would hope that’s reciprocated. I am the type of person to text multiple times in a row so please tell me if you are busy. I want someone who is consistent. I want someone understanding and patient. I like being a tease. At heart I am a hopeless romantic. At times I can be bold other times I can be shy. I am very sarcastic. I also don’t mind making friends. (Looking for a muncher that isn’t afraid to eat a coochie with hair) If that’s you hit me up. I’m not a one night stand kind of person. I’m relatively open minded when it comes to kinks. I don’t do hookups. I want an actual relationship. And I would rather have sex once I’m in a relationship and feel comfortable and ready. Preferably taller than me like 5’8-5’9 is good. I guess you can call me a size queen, as long as it’s 5.5in and bigger as well as girthy. I love me a big boy, bulk is better than lean. I need someone that is consistent and can hold a regular conversation that isn’t just sex. Let me color in your tattoos and bite your biceps. All I ask is that you aren’t MAGA or a supporter of that felon. Bonus points if you know about booktok, own a mask or a motorcycle 😉🤭
Female (20) New York, New York
Imyahuckleberr
Imyahuckleberr
Seeking normal with some class nasty always hungry oral sub male. who's looking to be owned and have his mouth used for all the right nasty reasons. One who lives to service an ebony woman day or night.
Female (47) New York, New York
NewyorkElena2937
NewyorkElena2937
I am seeking a submissive man under 45 I am genuinely seeking my best friend and future husband. I can show you true love and I am very loyal and dedicated to my man. I will provide you a upscale lifestyle without you having to work outside the house. I will provide all transportation to meet me and take care of all moving expenses. I have done extremely well in life, I own a very three nice houses. The man I'm seeking must be willing to maintain his appearance, maintain a household, be loyal, and enhance my life as I enhance his.
Female (54) Blue Point, New York
julesmeows
julesmeows
bored single horny but men don’t seem to like the independent strong opinionated type. please be normal. don’t be a weirdo. I just want someone genuine and cool to hang out with.
Female (38) Roslyn, New York
Brendafry
Brendafry
I want to fall in love for all the right reasons, and I thought this might be a good way to start finding my life partner. I have been alone and single most of my life. It's hard to have a normal dating relationship under these conditions. I would like to get started by meeting someone I can fall in love with for all the right reasons
Female (56) New York, New York
TWILIGHTLOV274
TWILIGHTLOV274
haiii im nola 18f lookng to meet ppl in ny/nyc love abs please hmu im open to many. Imma meanie🙄 I put men on leashes over here!💯 THINK YOU DESERVE A LEASH?🦮 You will worship my body and shower me in jewelry, flowers, gifts, ect. I own you💋(i copy and pasted this bio so THHANK YOU QUEENNN WE HAVE MUCH IN COMMON) it says im online alot...i just dont close my tabs lmfaoo im sapiosexual!!! but i love himbos :3 im shy....
Female (20) New York, New York
Mmary-1269
Mmary-1269
I am an open-minded, friendly, and ambitious woman who enjoys meeting new people and learning about different cultures. In my free time, I enjoy reading, traveling, and spending time with family and friends. Honesty, respect, and positive energy are very important to me. I love gaining new experiences and growing as a person. I look forward to interesting conversations and new connections
Female (49) New York, New York
puppipainslut
puppipainslut
not looking for anything long term i love to dress up ^_^ ill try mostly anything once :3 i want to be a pet i go by any pronouns 🖤
Female (19) New York, New York
Carolina-2864
Carolina-2864
A confident and discerning Mistress seeking a devoted, long-term connection built on trust, respect, and mutual growth. I value loyalty, emotional intelligence, and the courage to surrender control within clear, consensual boundaries. My presence is calm yet commanding; I lead with intention, not impulse. For me, BDSM is more than a moment, it is a dynamic exchange of power, communication, and deep understanding between two people who choose each other fully. I appreciate a submissive who is honest, attentive, and eager to evolve, someone who understands that discipline and care can coexist. Together, we create a space where vulnerability becomes strength and structure brings freedom. I am not interested in fleeting thrills, I seek depth, consistency, and a connection that develops over time. If you crave guidance, purpose, and a meaningful power dynamic grounded in respect, devotion, and shared desire, you may be exactly who I am waiting for.
Female (45) New York, New York
JennniJenifer
JennniJenifer
I am Femdom a Professional Mistress and Goddess. I practice the art of full mind control, manipulation and worship where you will be made to fully obey and respect me at every moment that you are in my presence. *** is my ultimate skill, I Will demean you in all aspects where you will be made to feel worthless and useless, just the sight of you cowering before me gives me the ultimate gratification.
Female (28) New York, New York
Jules-5542
Jules-5542
I live an active lifestyle love music bake cookies open minded easy going kinda introvert and always ready for new discoveries
Female (34) Bellerose Manor, New York
RisuPuffs
RisuPuffs
Full-time nerd, part-time exhibitionist. Submissive pet with a brat streak. I like to earn my punishments, but I live to serve. That being said, my service must be earned. I won't bow to a dom/me that doesn't deserve it. Mostly monogamous, but down for occasional play with couples. Looking for a dedicated dynamic in the bedroom, but want to keep the relationship part casual.
Female (35) Buffalo, New York
CapriciousRosso
CapriciousRosso
Note: The large chest tattoo I had done at end of July 2025 and the smaller addition was done April 2026, if there's any confusion. Just your wholesome whore next door. I'll be your latest obsession. I give it 2, maybe 3 weeks, tops, before you move on to your new one. My skill set includes falling for the wrong man. I'm a complete audiophile slut. Being vocal and dirty talk is essential. Please note my hard limits. I cannot and will not budge. At this time (6/21/2026) I am looking for friends and discussion and networking only. You can find me by the same name on Fetlife.
Female (46) Brockport, New York

New members in New York

UrfavvCalypso
UrfavvCalypso
Changed my mind looking for men and women now … some one I can explore my sexuality with and try new things together as a partner
Female (45) Niskayuna, New York
Kimberly-9299
Kimberly-9299
I am a strong and autonomous woman, who faces every challenge with determination. I always fight for what I deserve and what I want, including this time changing my course in love.My job allows me to move to another city in case I manage to find my ideal partner to make a life together as a couple. I'm looking for a man who makes me feel like the most special woman in the world, not only because of his treatment, but also because of the values that we both share.
Female (49) New York, New York
Milf4breaking
Milf4breaking
Here looking for a weeknd where I fully submit to a stranger. Not looking to be collared or long term. I want to be degraded humiliated ruined and broken. When it is over I want to feel complete disgust in myself
Female (33) Staten Island, New York
DiAnjare
DiAnjare
Tell me your fantasies!
Female (31) East Syracuse, New York
Mmary-1269
Mmary-1269
I am an open-minded, friendly, and ambitious woman who enjoys meeting new people and learning about different cultures. In my free time, I enjoy reading, traveling, and spending time with family and friends. Honesty, respect, and positive energy are very important to me. I love gaining new experiences and growing as a person. I look forward to interesting conversations and new connections
Female (49) New York, New York
Tdotty9O
Tdotty9O
You will refer to me as Mistress T! Do Not text me unless you are asking me, “How you can pay for some Mistress T time.” Only interested in financial slaves, pets and subs. Put a smile on my face by giving me your wallets 💜🥳 and honor me by obsessing over my pretty feet 🙂. Contribute first to get my attention dummy!
Female (28) Staten Island, New York
strapon01
strapon01
I'm a dominant woman who takes pride in training loyal subs not just in obedience, but in understanding what it truly means to serve, to please, and to live the alternative BDSM lifestyle with intention and respect. I enjoy pegging, pussy worshipping, foot worshipping, and so much more. Other kinks I love exploring with my subs include orgasm control, chastity play, sensual teasing and denial, body worship beyond just feet, service submission domestic and personal, leather and latex worship, light impact play, blindfolded sensory play, collar and leash training, verbal *** in a caring framework, and devotion rituals that remind you who's in charge. These are just a few of the many ways I enjoy shaping a loyal sub. And with you, l'd want to explore gently at first, then deeper as trust grows. If that sounds like something your soul is yearning for, please chat back. Once we connect, I'll share my photos with you.
Female (40) New York, New York
Mistresslax
Mistresslax
1) You belong to me and me alone 2) You will not have any mistress,unless I agree to it 3) You will let me know when you get up every morning when you get up and night before going to bed, I want a pics of you in your outfit everyday 4) You must always do all the task you are required to do completely and if in the time allowed and provide a screenshot showing you did it correctly 5) If you want this to be permanent you must ask for it now and once you agree to this it can't be undone unless I choose to release you my beloved salve.
Female (33) New York, New York
Lauren977
Lauren977
I’m a woman who knows how to find common language with different people, adventurous, energetic, ready to do anything to make the world a better place and life more interesting. I can’t sit still, l like to add colours to life! I like fishing, hiking, swimming, cooking, reading, sports, movies…. tele @lulu2670p
Female (38) New York, New York
Tracey-4237
Tracey-4237
Looking for a kind, respectful gentleman who is comfortable in his own skin, values family, and is ready to build a meaningful, genuine connection.
Female (50) New York, New York
NewyorkElena2937
NewyorkElena2937
I am seeking a submissive man under 45 I am genuinely seeking my best friend and future husband. I can show you true love and I am very loyal and dedicated to my man. I will provide you a upscale lifestyle without you having to work outside the house. I will provide all transportation to meet me and take care of all moving expenses. I have done extremely well in life, I own a very three nice houses. The man I'm seeking must be willing to maintain his appearance, maintain a household, be loyal, and enhance my life as I enhance his.
Female (54) Blue Point, New York
MistressMabel985
MistressMabel985
I am a poised and self-assured Mistress who values respect, loyalty, and honesty as the foundation of any meaningful dynamic. I believe true authority is earned through trust, consistency, and clear communication rather than mere words. My intention is to build a lasting connection with a devoted Sub who seeks commitment over casual encounters and understands the importance of mutual understanding. I admire discipline, courtesy, and a genuine desire for personal growth under my guidance while maintaining balance in everyday life. My time is precious, so I have no interest in games or insincerity. Instead, I seek someone who recognises that dedication and effort are essential in earning my attention and trust. Together, I hope to create a long-term relationship built on structure, admiration, and shared purpose, where both of us can thrive. If you are sincere, patient, and ready to embrace a rewarding journey led by a confident and authoritative Mistress, I welcome the opportunity to get acquainted.
Female (41) New York, New York
Bersouthenhrt
Bersouthenhrt
I love ***s. I hope that soon a man will become my main love. As it turned out, my friend got married thanks to a dating site. Now I am here to meet the man of my dreams and not waste time.
Female (60) New York, New York
JennniJenifer
JennniJenifer
I am Femdom a Professional Mistress and Goddess. I practice the art of full mind control, manipulation and worship where you will be made to fully obey and respect me at every moment that you are in my presence. *** is my ultimate skill, I Will demean you in all aspects where you will be made to feel worthless and useless, just the sight of you cowering before me gives me the ultimate gratification.
Female (28) New York, New York
Joseline11
Joseline11
"Sexy, confident, and here to indulge curiosity. I enjoy being admired and connecting with men who appreciate femininity, beauty, and a playful dynamic. Looking for excitement, chemistry, and someone who isn't shy about what they like." No/ Free
Female (27) New York, New York
Madam_Belle
Madam_Belle
I am a simple Dom seeking for a sub to share our fetish and kinky desires together. I want a compliant man who is willing to fully serve. A long term relationship won't be bad to give it a try...
Female (34) New York, New York
Jules-5542
Jules-5542
I live an active lifestyle love music bake cookies open minded easy going kinda introvert and always ready for new discoveries
Female (34) Bellerose Manor, New York
liuling999
liuling999
刘玲 — My mouth, cunt and asshole are all ready to be used,Looking for strict Masters who will own me completely and treat me like worthless fuck meat 👅
Female (20) New York, New York
Hennessy
Hennessy
A fun loving type,free spirited calm and adventurous. Straightforward and I know what I want, traveler and a foodie. I'm a naughty fun type,I like to explore and trying out new things. You only live once make it count
Female (36) New York, New York
mistress43
mistress43
Mistress Roxanne. Elegant sadist. Sensual ***or. I thrive on control, obedience, and the sweet sound of surrender. Selective. Discreet. Uncompromising. Approach with respect or remain silent. Kneel wisely.
Female (41) New York, New York
Carolina-2864
Carolina-2864
A confident and discerning Mistress seeking a devoted, long-term connection built on trust, respect, and mutual growth. I value loyalty, emotional intelligence, and the courage to surrender control within clear, consensual boundaries. My presence is calm yet commanding; I lead with intention, not impulse. For me, BDSM is more than a moment, it is a dynamic exchange of power, communication, and deep understanding between two people who choose each other fully. I appreciate a submissive who is honest, attentive, and eager to evolve, someone who understands that discipline and care can coexist. Together, we create a space where vulnerability becomes strength and structure brings freedom. I am not interested in fleeting thrills, I seek depth, consistency, and a connection that develops over time. If you crave guidance, purpose, and a meaningful power dynamic grounded in respect, devotion, and shared desire, you may be exactly who I am waiting for.
Female (45) New York, New York
Queenstress
Queenstress
I’m obsessed with pegging! I am the Dom! I am not a Sub! I am only interested in submissive males who enjoy a woman who knows her way around a strap! Don’t be shy 😉
Female (41) Rotterdam, New York
EmmaT8216
EmmaT8216
I'm into Belly inflation!! Water or air. Not looking for sex (I know that will probably turn a lot of people away but idrc.) but yeah. Just that. I'm pretty basic and I really only come on here cuz I'm curious to how it feels to be inflated by someone other then myself. And this isn't really something ya bring up to someone when you first meet so, what better place to do this then a site that's all about it?? Well. Fetishes in general but still. Also, I probably won't show my face, but I've had several people tell me I'm pretty even though I don't believe that 😭 I'm also decently chubby, I kinda look like I'm pregnant? Thats such a weird body type to have but I don't mind it much lmao.
Female (19) Deer Park, New York
Missy_baby
Missy_baby
Bossy, bratty, and easily excitable. Looking to get taught a few new lessons and try some new things :) Very submissive, but only when put in my place ;)
Female (26) Merrick, New York

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babysitter?

i’m feelin small and woud like a babysitter to chat withh 🥺
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babysitter?

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Tearfall0428
My type

Would love to meet a pleasure Dom.
Long hair
Tattoos
Piercings
5'8-6'5 ideally
Earth or water zodiac signs to the front
BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 40 years ● 25km around USA Moline
XMoon-BeamX
Who i want to meet

What I’m looking for is simple:
Someone who is emotionally mature, communicative, patient, protective, and actually wants to build something meaningful.

Consistency, Reassurance, Good communication, someone who encourages me to take care of myself (meds, water, eating properly, exercise, rest, etc.), Playful teasing and mutual banter, and
People who can actually hold a conversation

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In the USA (EST is a plus), Around 28–48, Respectful of poly/non-mon dynamics!
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jacksonville48202
Hello

Im taking applications for a Young hott stud that wants to be in a sub/dom relationship. Message me if you are Interested 🤩
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peterson278536
Horny

Get naked
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MacMari213
Lookingfor a lady 😉

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Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Tulsa
GeminithaDom
Just a masculine lesbian Dom looking for fun

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Head Mistress In Charge

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want to suck some 😋🍆

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phoenixray
Kinky parties

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Lilmissmexy
Bow Down to Your Favorite Fiction 👑

Part-time villainess, full-time dominatrix. Bringing your nerdiest fantasies to life with strict boundaries, leather, and absolute control. Tell me who you want to serve 🖤
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Who’s in Charlotte nc or sc area

Someone who’s into spanking being the spanker
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Horny and 5 months Pregnant

A SD that’ll fill me up and suck my titties until I cum over and over with you
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Two is better than one 🍆

Right?
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LyllithVaunheim
Chatting

Looking for friends and a healthy support system ish , friendly and not quickly disposed of. Wasn’t sure what category to use.
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PNWbrat
Where’s my daddy?

I've been looking for him, has anyone seen him?

He's experienced in D/S dynamics
Kind
Kinky
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If you know where he is, hit me up 💕
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breezybae23
Hookup

I wanna hook up
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PrimeHunterX
Seek devoted companion for 24/7 dynamics

Step forward, shadows who dare to kneel. I am the silence that binds, the storm that commands, the Mistress who hungers not for fleeting obedience but for eternal devotion. My gaze pierces through hesitation, my voice coils around your will. I do not ask — I claim. I do not beg — I summon. Those who surrender shall find purpose in my reign, those who falter shall be forgotten in the abyss. I seek subjects who crave the weight of my presence, who long to be shaped, bound, and kept.
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