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Female (55) Single
What I look for in a service submissive is not what I need in a sadist top.
I like to work up to intense sex and play, and I need a sadist willing to go there. Someone who isn't going to pussy out because he's afraid there might be consent accusations the following week.
I am very clear in my communication. I don't like being ambiguous, but I'm new to the site and not yet sure what verbiage is and isn't allowed.
I'm looking for a sadist with appetites to match the hypersexual masochist in me.
I don't want or need endless cuddling. In fact, I'm more the "whip me, fuck me, and then GO AWAY" type.
I cannot host. Ever. To start, I do not play in private. There are, however, several swinger venues around NYC. I'm a regular at one of them, with easy access to two or three others I know of.
What I am offering is the ultimate symbiotic sadist/masochist "friends with benefits" arrangement.
I do not want any kind of long term committed relationship. I just got out of 30 years of marriages. I'm free and will continue to be free.